Hello there I am happy for the care you are giving the mother, just remember she is the mother and should be bounding more, please, please please let her involved more with that wonderful child God bless her with I appreciate all of what you are doing,but she is from a different culture and may be you all should let her show you how we as black people do it and learn from each other, where is her mom isn't she still there, any how I am asking you and thanking for you for her yes she is blessed with all of the love given to her ,but again let her use her traditional ways, I noticed that she doesn't smile as much let her be part of the bringing up ,of baby.. please please please 🙏.Thank God for all of you.Work together don't take over
You are watching a snippet of her life. Also Africans do have confinement. Everyone else held the baby but me. I had to recover. I had a c section like Lawu, plus it is natural for the family to fawn over the new born. Please know different black people have different rituals that they follow. You think she is not smiling because she is being shown so much support? It didn't occur to you she could be in physical pain? This concept of 'taking over' is a western one. Also, again, this is a snippet.
Beautiful family, Lawu should be consciously accorded more Mother/child bonding time.Too much hands on the baby for his age.❤🎉The excitement is just infectious but caution is utmost at this stage of the baby.!!!
The baby has become like a long-awaited dream toy, and poor Lawu, she's just like a womb provider. All the attention will start to wane once the confinement is over. This baby will be the center of attention for this family. Lawu, you dare not take Kai Kai away from them; they'll resent you.
The Baby Father Looks Like He Lost Weight Worrying About Mommy & Baby In The Hospital. I Saw That. He Knew He Could Have Lost Them Both. He And The Family Have Been So Precious To Lau & Her Family Visiting. He Looks Like A Teddy Bear Holding His Cub. Adorable.🥰💜
The baby and the mom receiving too love,lauwu can highly touch her baby because of too love surrounding her blessing baby girl for finding the rightful partner ❤❤
The baby melts my heart ❤️ ❤❤ However, please do not forget to give little cousin Zheng some attention too. He looks kinda lost as everyone is fussing over that cuteeeee face Kai Kai ❤️
Hi everone ❤ Lawu made this baby for the family, she does not look happy like before 😢 she looks frustrated, get up be a strong woman like your sister and my belle 🌹 🙏
My thoughts also, they are around the baby more than the mom is like its theirs. I am happy they all are excited but show us the mom holding her child. This being in bed so long after having a baby is old fashioned
Yo pienso igual que tú no toman videos con lawu cargando a su bebé yo como madre puedo expresarme porque nos dan entrada en su familia por este medio no veo a lawu dándole la leche materna
@@LawofGodnot spoiled they to much her husband need to find him a job and leave her to take care of the baby. It's very important that see bond with her baby.
That is EXACTLY what I was thinking. Just because she is a new mother does not mean she cannot and should not participate. I would not say anymore I will just wait but yes, I agree with your comment.
Grandma will always be there for Baby. She's gonna be a little spoil one. Never underestimate the power of a grandma. Grandma will never stop giving or loving her children. Kudos to Grandma.🧑🏼🦳🙏🏼
C'est merveilleux de les voir soulever leur bébé. Ça témoignage l'amour qu'ils ont pour leur nouveau membre de famille, c'est une famille heureuse ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
O bebê está muito lindo ❤❤❤❤❤ Avho que mãe fica muito pouco com ele no colo ainda não vi o bebê mamano beijos família linda é parabéns pô essa criança linda nesse lar cheio de amor ❤
When i gave birth to my baby i didn't have any one to help me with my baby i have to make food for myself ,wash the baby ,with my operation s still paining . I think lawu is blessed to have people to help him around but I think they should give her time to bond with her baby. It's a little bit too much
I know the mother in law does all traditional confinement for the good of Lawu but some are outdated already.Lawu is from Tanzania country you should let her do what their country does and she will be a happy and will look forward to have another baby in future.Don’t over react and stress her out and she will be depressed and unhappy.Don’t impose too many rules.
Feli already told all busy bodies that they also do confinement . It is not just a Chinese culture. African cultures do it too. In my culture people do not even see the baby until after two weeks - one month.
@@sappsour6302her sister didn't have a c- section but lawu had a c- section She cannot climb the stairs up n down in case her stitches open up that is why they bring up her food upstairs
@@user-nm9gn6rx2kseems more like Lawu's having a hard time so everyone's chipping in - either way fingers crossed she's able to bounce back into brighter spirits before too long
They have to film 24/7 to show you. When I'm in confinement I also in bed,my in law take care my baby day n night so I could recover quickly.@@user-nm9gn6rx2k
@user-zk6no3no3g Please watch all the videos. Have you seen Lawu holding her baby once!! I have never seen Lawu interaction with the baby. I'm not trying to be negative, I would like to see her hold her newborn baby
Hi mama and daughter n law & family baby is toooo cute guys omg he will surely be intelligent and much handsome be blessed 😇 family I love u all 😇🙏🇺🇸🌎🇨🇳👍🏾♥️♥️♥️
Elle est très belle votre sœur et votre complicité est sublime vous êtes une magnifiques famille et bébé vient couronner ce bonheur ❤🎉 Lawu a une belle famille en or tout comme vous avez la chance de l'avoir trouvé pour apporter de l'amour supplémentaires a votre famille ❤😊
Bonjour la famille, je suis très heureuse de vous voir, vous êtes très gentille avec notre sœur Lawu merci 🙏🏾 je sais que vous êtes très heureux de voir bébé mais il faut penser à son repos et le laisser dormir tranquillement pour qu’il puisse bien se reposer s’il vous plaît 🙏🏾
I never see Luwu with the baby. She needs time to bond with the baby. I know it’s only few minutes we are privileged with but, let’s see her and the baby as well.
According to the Chinese culture, she has to sleep, eat, and breastfeed the baby during her healing period. Lawu being so shy and private will not allow the cameraman to film her breastfeeding her son. After her healing period, you will see a different Lawu. I think she has put on some weight.❤️
MamaCreation@Faux,Rose elle au contraire elle est toujours avec sa fille qui vient de naître.Pourtant ses amies viennent à la maison pour lui donner un coup de main avec le bébé.Rose est une femme vive , indépendante, malgré son récent accouchement,elle a repris les affaires, travaille avec acharnement avec son mari.Je suis désolée de dire cela,les fans de Lauwi vont pas être contents,mais je trouve cette jeune femme manque de vigeur ,assez lente lorsque elle doit effectuer des travaux.Je me rappel d'une scène où Lauwi aidait son mari en cuisine ,face à sa lenteur ,le mari s'était occupé de faire le boulot.Phili est une femme vigoureuse dans son travail à la maison et dans son bisness.Elle va voir les gens de son village pour leur apporter leur aide : nourriture, vêtements,petites réparations,...Le mari de Phili a un bon poste dans les affaires,il assure sa famille.Bientôt,Phili et sa famille auront leur maison.Beaucoup de fans de Lauwi trouvent ça magnifique ce côté conte de fée,la famille toujours là pour l'aider et faire en sorte que Lauwi fasse le moins d'effort possible .Je trouve la grand-mère un peu trop envahissante et autoritaire qui veut toujours dire à Lauwi quoi faire.
@@moniquemomo4143 you cannot compare them! Lawu has been in China for less than a year. In these few months she's gotten married, moved in with in-laws, had to learn a new language and had a baby and home sickness!!! My goodness that is a lot of changes for anyone to process! Rose and Feli have been in China for years! They surely had to adjust in those years and have now settled into the culture and way of life. Let's be gracious to others instead of just judging them.
❤lwau please try to be à little more active ,and dress well like you did before, try taking care of your baby a little more,i know the family is helpfull, but you need to stand your boundiers, be strong ❤ i am not trying to be négatif i love 😍 🙏🙏💕you all
@karen-vv6tw The family is not letting Lawu bond with her baby! She looks so sad! In african culture, the woman takes care of her baby! They are forcing Lawu to do the Chinese culture and not her own culture! The family is overwhelming her. Lawu is not happy!
Did all of you notice that the camera man barged in on Lawu while she was in her bedroom, and speaking on the phone? Poor girl! What’s going on with this family. Something is OFF!
Can you all, allow Lawu to mother her son? Why is this family, not allowing Lawu to bond with her child? She’s his mother. Allow her to care for HER CHILD!
@@rda-gama2567 I understand that she had a c-section… However, they always have HER son. Lawu is the child’s MOTHER and she should be allowed to care for her SON.
Each people have their own way of taking care their baby,only that please don't talk so loud, after all you all are so near to each other,my ear drum going to burst 😅@@WanWan-pg9gq
LA MADRE DEBE ESTAR MAS TIEMPO CON EL BEBE , LO TIENEN DE ARRIBA PARA ABAJO , LOS ADULTOS HABLAN MUY ALTO SOBRE EL BEBE, NO LO DEJAN DESCANSAR PASANDOLO DE MANO EN MANO . 😢
MAGNIFIQUE ILS SONT TOUS ÉMERVEILLÉS AUTOUR DU PETIT 🤴😊...CE NOUVEAU MEMBRE DE LA FAMILLE EST UN RAYON DE ☀️... FÉLICITATIONS AU COUPLE LAWU/XIA LIU ❤🌹🙏🇫🇷
Let the mother spend some time with her baby come on ladies let's be respectful let the mother have some time with her child😮 let the mother have some control over her and her baby😮 everyone has control over the baby except the mother😮😮
Le bébé dors avec sa mère, avant de nous le montrer, le père l'a enlevé du lit ainsi tout le monde de la maison sont venus et le prendre dans leur bras et le peser. Bon!!! le bebé ne s'est pas plaint sinon il aurait crié(pleuré), Que tout le monde profite un peu de lui !!!!!😊
Love seeing beautiful baby boy💕💕💕 Good seeing Lawu up and eating with the family. Kai Kai’ has a loving family, they do a good job in helping to take care of him. Wishing you all a blessed week❤
Kai kai is cool😂😂XIA LIU and Lawu thats nice confinement..your sister is nice always with you to help you and our best mother-in-law in the world❤❤❤shi shie
Why can't Lawu wear short sleeves?What does that have to do with her healing process ? Please dont give the baby too much water he is too young. Y'all are too loud around the baby while he's sleeping and passing him around . Nobody is sanitizing their hands, especially when you're changing his diaper.
@valeriabell6991 (as a Chinese Medicine practitioner) I think the long sleeves are for keeping her body warm, because giving birth cost a lot of her Qi, she also needs that Qi to produce milk for the baby, so when keeping her arms and whole body warm (connected meridians), she doesn't have to use extra energy/Qi to warm her body, but te use it for her own healing and for the baby. That is the most practical thing I can think of. In Chinese medicine cold and wind can cause damage. And I agree with you, they are so loud around the baby, it's like invading that gentle ethereal energy that surrounds a baby.
@valeriabell6991, I think the Chinese and Africans don't need American lecture..... The global south are sick and tired of the endless, patronising, demeaning and arrogant finger pointing.. The Chinese know how to bring up their babies and have been doing so for thousands of years, they don't need you or your advice..... Chinese civilisation is far superior and older than any from the west.
The adults are fussing far too much. Passing the baby from one to another...babies also need their own space. Can understand why lawu looks upset. The adults talk non stop n very loud..too. they treat the baby like a toy.😊 understand understand
I understand that they are loving and caring but they need to let lawu bond with her baby or else they are going to let lawu feels left out they also needs to stop picking him up every 5 minutes
Lawu gets MUCH time to be with her son and bond. They just don't show us that. Remember, she is still healing. Chinese people have the same culture as where I come from, people help a lot and stick together, that's LOVE that's FAMILY ❤
Lawu, please be active with the baby, changing diapers and all. It is good for bonding with your baby. Please sister inlaw, mind your comments with your brother.
I think u shouldn't talk so loudly around d baby yet, it could hurt d baby's ear drums, must speak softly around him. Anyways he's so cute n u all adore him so much. God bless u n ur tiny little Angel.
Amor demais tb sufoca, a espectativa de um novo ser em casa foi muito grande, eis o resultado, o bebe nao descansa, sempre de mão em mão no meio de tanto barrulho, Law não está mais feliz como estava quando grávida, o bebê ja nasceu para o familia do marido e não para ela, mas creio que eles nao façam por mal, de certeza nem notaram ainda, o confinamento deve estar a fazer mal a Law, em Africa dura apenas uma semana, cuidado com a depressão pós parto.
Waouh c'est magnifique de voir cette famille combler d'amour ils sont tous ensemble à manifesté l'arrivée de se bébé 🚼 qu'est ce que c'est beau 🎉🎉🎉👏👏👍👍🥳🥳🥳🥳
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤я радуюсь за вас,смотрю Лао вместе с о моей пленнице родила , хотя ваш язык не знаю ,ваша любовь и доброта ,как я рада за лао я из России смотрю❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Lawu se ve triste no la veo cargando al bb ni dandole leche materna es muy importante no porque vive en china hay que cumplir los dias de confinamiento que ustedes practican ella es de otro pais y opino porque ellos nos dan la entrada a su familia por este medio dejala ser mamá y se ve que la aman bendiciones ❤