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To This Day Project - Shane Koyczan 

Shane Koyczan
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Shane Koyczan "To This Day". Help this message have a far reaching and long lasting effect in confronting bullying. Please share generously.
Find Shane on Facebook - on. Vwdi65
or on Twitter - / koyczan
I send out one new poem each month via email. You might like to join us. www.shanekoyczan.com
"My experiences with violence in schools still echo throughout my life but standing to face the problem has helped me in immeasurable ways.
Schools and families are in desperate need of proper tools to confront this problem. This piece is a starting point." - Shane
Find anti-bullying resources at www.bullying.org
Dozens of collaborators from around the world helped to bring this piece to life.
Buy "To This Day" video at: shanekoyczan.com/videos
Audio available from the album "Remembrance Year": shanekoyczan.com/albums
Audio also available at BandCamp bit.ly/VKGjgU
or iTunes bit.ly/W47QK2
Credits:
Ryan Kothe
Mike Healey
Will Fortanbary
Brian San
Diego De la Rocha
Gizelle Manalo
Adam Plouff
Mike Wolfram
Hyun Min Bae
Oliver Sin
Seth Eckert
Viraj Ajmeri
Vishnu Ganti
Yun Wang
Boris Wilmot
Cameron Spencer
DeAndria Mackey
Matt Choi
Reimo Õun
Samantha Bjalek
Eli Treviño
Ariel Costa
Caleb Coppock
James Mabery
Samir Hamiche
Waref Abu Quba
Deo Mareza and Clara
Josh Parker
Scott Cannon
Thomas McKeen
Kaine Asika
Marcel Krumbiegel
Teresa del Pozo
Eric Paoli Infanzón
Maxwell Hathaway
Rebecca Berdel
Zach Ogilvie
Anand Mistry
Chase Ogden
Dominik Grejc
Gideon Prins
Lucy Chen
Mercedes Testa
Rickard Bengtsson
Stina Seppel
Daniel Göttling
Julio C. Kurokodile
Marilyn Cherenko
Tim Darragh
Jaime Ugarte
Joe Donaldson
Josh Beaton
Margaret Schiefer
Rodrigo Ribeiro
Ryan Kaplan
Yeimi Salazar
Daniel Bartels
Joe Donaldson
Daniel Molina
Sitji Chou
Tong Zhang
Luc Journot
Vincent Bilodeau
Amy Schmitt
Bert Beltran
Daniel Moreno Cordero
Marie Owona
Mateusz Kukla
Sean Procter
Steven Fraser
Aparajita R
Ben Chwirka
Cale Oglesby
Igor Komolov
Markus Magnusson
Remington McElhaney
Tim Howe
Agil Pandri
Jessie Tully
Sander Joon
Kumphol Ponpisute
James Waters
Chris Koelsch
Ronald Rabideau
Alessandro & Manfredi
Andrea López
Howey Mitsakos
Giant Ant Studios
Leah Nelson
Jorge R. Canedo Estrada
Alicia Katz
for having the bravery to helm such a monumental project.
Brett Wilson
Joni Avram
for their generosity of spirit and tireless support.
Olivia Mennell
Maiya Robbie
Stefan Bienz
Corwin Fox
Aaron Joyce
Christina Zaenker
Melissa Bandura
for creating such a beautiful piece of music and having the patience to explore this art form with me.
Christi Thompson
Jess Sloss
for keeping me organized and making me appear to look like I know what I'm doing.
Loretta Mozart AKA my Grandmother
Sandy Garossino
Nea Reid
bullying.org
for never saying "You can't do that." For always saying "OK... how can I help?"

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Комментарии : 69 тыс.   
@faranr
@faranr 3 года назад
The last time I heard this, I was in high school not knowing if I wanted to continue living. Today, I’m applying to medical school to become a pediatrician
@ericstahmer720
@ericstahmer720 3 года назад
I'm proud of you. that's amazing
@samc255
@samc255 3 года назад
i'm so proud of you, love! i'm glad you're still here
@cjsnedden9115
@cjsnedden9115 3 года назад
I was severely bullied in highschool to the point that i was doubting there was a future for me as well. Tomorrow, i start my first day as being a Registered Nurse in one of the best hospitals in my city. Go us xx
@okokcool8603
@okokcool8603 3 года назад
Congrats🙏🙏 🎉 t
@DanielleMoops
@DanielleMoops 3 года назад
I'm so proud of you.
@zippidydoodles
@zippidydoodles 4 года назад
schools be showing this in class, but then do absolutely nothing when kids say they r being bullied
@d3mil0rd
@d3mil0rd 4 года назад
facts sadly
@nk-th4lm
@nk-th4lm 4 года назад
i remember clearly when my school showed this, a kid in my homeroom afterwards said "what a waste of time" while i had to leave the class because i was breaking down because it hit too hard. those were the years when i wore nothing but baggy clothes to cover all my self harm. and to hear someone say that, made me feel like a waste of time
@GamerDVRcom
@GamerDVRcom 4 года назад
@Icarus Sam Hey there, Icarus Sam. How are things going?
@AnthonyMartinez-hd7ll
@AnthonyMartinez-hd7ll 3 года назад
This is EXACTLY what came to mind when he says “We both got moved to the back of class so we would stop being bombarded by spitballs” cause it’s so true! When they do something to stop the issue it’s to the bullied, not the bullies.
@Erin-oe7ie
@Erin-oe7ie 3 года назад
I watched this in my English class and most kids' reactions to it was laughing at the pork chop thing
@xavierjimenez5659
@xavierjimenez5659 Год назад
I’m glad we all came back to this in adulthood hope everyone’s doing good
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 Год назад
heard this in upgrading school during a special selective student program . and as they showed it to us in the meeting room i was messaging my then long distance bf and our then mutual 2 guy besties / my crushes . i was so emotionally close to shattering and depresively relapsing so much . this poem has helped me accept myself more and more and to not care about what people think , say or do about me cause i am not here to entertain anyone and everyone . i am healing myself from the wounds on my heart and soul cause of others
@comradecrust3068
@comradecrust3068 Год назад
my entire class is watching this for litrature so i guess this video got like a lot more views
@spudothy
@spudothy Год назад
I'm not thanks though!
@spudothy
@spudothy Год назад
but for real i can't tell if it's better or worse that the bullies on the outside disappeared because I'm more cruel to myself than they ever were
@theemogypsy8198
@theemogypsy8198 Год назад
This was showed at our school and every kid that saw it still shows kids nowadays it’s a powerful video
@kaykay87767
@kaykay87767 2 года назад
I hope Shane realizes just how many lives he saved with this masterpiece, including my own. I would’ve missed so much. Thank you for convincing me to stay.
@FuryofTiamat-Flip
@FuryofTiamat-Flip Год назад
We are so happy you stayed. Love you.
@alicequ5807
@alicequ5807 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for staying, you've been so strong and came a long way
@broganlueke6197
@broganlueke6197 9 месяцев назад
😭😭😭 don't ever leave unless you are pushed out the door by others.
@iamthechosenraisin8578
@iamthechosenraisin8578 8 месяцев назад
Wow, this comment and Shane’s work is powerful. It’s beautiful how some people have the incredible gift to spin their vocabulary into something that can move others with words alone. I’m glad you decided to stay. And I’m half Shane Koyczan made this beautiful piece of work. It got me through some really tough times too :) I hope you’re doing well.
@michaelfairbairn4283
@michaelfairbairn4283 6 месяцев назад
I've been where you were, and I'm so glad I stayed. 60 years old and I've had a wonderful life. Hugs.
@eggrollyummy
@eggrollyummy 8 лет назад
Everytime he says the words "They have to be wrong." ... I lose it.
@madam-mint
@madam-mint 8 лет назад
Stay strong, please.
@mjtilly-9403
@mjtilly-9403 8 лет назад
+eggrollyummy Yep same here
@waffleninja2057
@waffleninja2057 8 лет назад
+Ming Chen you are f*cked up if any part of this video is funny to you in any way.
@eleanorfair5816
@eleanorfair5816 8 лет назад
Every Time he says "they have to be wrong" I get chills down my spine
@kimmoolenaar6148
@kimmoolenaar6148 8 лет назад
Me too
@professional_gay
@professional_gay 5 лет назад
I cry every time at "Whose definition of beauty begins with the word mom"
@ladyindigo1046
@ladyindigo1046 5 лет назад
that part gets me every fucking time
@loser2489
@loser2489 5 лет назад
Every. Single. Time.
@jupiter_nyx
@jupiter_nyx 5 лет назад
That part ALWAYS makes me cry
@SillyApe
@SillyApe 5 лет назад
not really
@lukefranco68
@lukefranco68 5 лет назад
Crushes me
@channellpace6416
@channellpace6416 Год назад
“YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE THEY WERE WRONG!” “They have to be wrong.” That part is so powerful to me 😢❤
@tayaguede8813
@tayaguede8813 11 месяцев назад
Same that is my favorite. And "If you can't see anything beautiful about yourself, get a better mirror, look a little closer, stare a little longer." This video has helped me a lot
@geraldogden9618
@geraldogden9618 Месяц назад
They were.
@MarianeHoran2
@MarianeHoran2 2 года назад
I can recite this poem front to back. I heard this in high school on the brink of losing my balancing act. Now, I'm studying to be a detective and found a loving boyfriend... I've never been more happy
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 Год назад
can't say i care for love or romance or any of that boringness ,this poem makes me feel like it's ok to be myself and follow my own path . i am not a damsel in distress or the girl who needs a prince or lover i am the girl who loves herself enough to be happy alone and at ease
@nitrade87
@nitrade87 Год назад
I’m on the brink.. I almost fell off the tightrope.. my girlfriend pulled me up and helped me keep my balance.. I feel like everything is just getting worse, everyone makes fun of me.. I’m that weird Christian kid that doesn’t curse and doesn’t like sports, I’m the ugly skinny kid that no one likes, Glad that others are getting on well, and able to get a better mirror and leave that circus, I wish I could too.. I’m serious, I’m glad you guys found a way out, hopefully I can find mine..
@MarianeHoran2
@MarianeHoran2 Год назад
@@nitrade87 you're not weird. That's just who you are. Even though it seems impossible, you will be able to get out of the circus. You are who you are and you'll be able to find a better mirror
@nitrade87
@nitrade87 Год назад
@@MarianeHoran2 Everything is getting better.. I have a girlfriend who loves me and am getting ready to turn in the application to get into my local fire department’s cadet program. I have three amazing friends and I feel loved.. a warmth that can only be felt when someone truly cares about you..
@MarianeHoran2
@MarianeHoran2 Год назад
@@nitrade87 congrats! I couldn't be more happy for you! I know how it feels to feel so low and so unhappy but when it becomes better, you realize how much better the world is. Again, I'm very happy for you, congrats!
@thoren907
@thoren907 4 года назад
All of this hits home but the line “she’s raising two kids whose definition of beauty begins with the word mom” always gets me because it hits home and reminds me how wonderful my mom is and how much i love her
@hananalsmadi3371
@hananalsmadi3371 4 года назад
Cringiest Memelord same i always tear up at that
@Soul-mm5ny
@Soul-mm5ny 4 года назад
It’s hits home because my mom is a single mother and is raising 7 kids and has 2 dogs to take care of
@deadly1569
@deadly1569 4 года назад
Lucky
@Sergeant_Spyro
@Sergeant_Spyro 4 года назад
Bro same here.
@lilipusion
@lilipusion 4 года назад
That’s the line that always gets me too 😂
@Scissorbag
@Scissorbag 5 лет назад
As a teenager I always broke down at "Some of us fell", as an adult I break at "We made it". I'm there.
@ergoanteros
@ergoanteros 5 лет назад
You made it. And others will meet you there. Congratulations man.
@uNkrEaTIvArTs
@uNkrEaTIvArTs 5 лет назад
Scissorbag Im still walking the tightrope but I will make it because I see what lies in front of me and it will be worth it
@Kya10
@Kya10 5 лет назад
Scissorbag Congrats...
@wingletondingleton5744
@wingletondingleton5744 5 лет назад
Scissorbag just know you aren’t the only one
@coralschemel955
@coralschemel955 5 лет назад
i used to watch this video when i was 14 and felt like i couldn’t go on any longer.. i’m 20 now and just found this video for the first time in years and haven’t cried this much in ages - we made it.
@mrw364
@mrw364 2 года назад
"sometimes being drug free has less to do with addiction and more to do with sanity." So simply said, yet has such profound meaning.
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 Год назад
that line hit me hard , i used to take different kinds of anti anxiety and anti depressant meds cause i have really bad anxiety and depression , they'd only work to keep me sane and not cold and emotionless . this poem is my healing blanket
@emilylacey9778
@emilylacey9778 Год назад
Crazy reading the comments, I was also 13-14 when I first saw this.. 10 years later still here and it still hits the same, we’re all doing perfectly
@skibbl_dev
@skibbl_dev 8 месяцев назад
I was probably 6-8 when i first watched this. I am now 13 and its only hitting harder.
@CoolBreeze1232
@CoolBreeze1232 4 года назад
"How can you hold your ground when everyone around wants to bury you beneath it." Killed me
@madisonsinger1440
@madisonsinger1440 4 года назад
Miles Easton dude same, it’s so true it just makes me cry. I’m going through a rough time with bullying so that lyric just hit different:(
@Idek-J
@Idek-J 4 года назад
my friend that moved away because of bullying had that problem but she had me but I was no match for the entire school who hated her.
@rachelbrown7097
@rachelbrown7097 4 года назад
I've spent so long wanting to die that I forgot I'm allowed to live
@parslee
@parslee 4 года назад
Rachel Brown Just wanted to say that I’m glad you’re here.
@zoehawks
@zoehawks 4 года назад
you’ve got this
@bellaparlee5195
@bellaparlee5195 4 года назад
Your comment hit really close to home cause I got through a dark time and I felt the same way you do and you will get though it and it will get better you just have to hold on a little longer
@sonofapirate
@sonofapirate 4 года назад
words alone should NEVER make you want to die, cry, shout, yell screem, but stay alive please.
@Idek-J
@Idek-J 4 года назад
Yes you always have to remember to live
@chaos5297
@chaos5297 Год назад
My teacher played this and I looked around and nobody thought anything of it. They were laughing. I was holding back tears and gritting my teeth. I'm still wondering how this resonates with so many people and yet they do not care
@domingo4420
@domingo4420 Год назад
If people laugh at something like this, then it proves their ignorance. They have never truly been on the receiving end of the stick, because if they had, they would not be laughing at something that could resonate deeply with them. It's so sad, how others so blatantly choose to not understand problems. They cannot comprehend that this is a reality for millions of people- that words do hurt, and sometimes it's just enough to push you off the end.
@chaos5297
@chaos5297 Год назад
Actually though. It's sad
@tylerallen146
@tylerallen146 Год назад
I’m here with you. Same situation. This hit me more then the pain of life and abuse.
@queen0karaoke
@queen0karaoke Год назад
They laughed because they were hiding their own bruises and scars.
@broganlueke6197
@broganlueke6197 9 месяцев назад
@@domingo4420 wtf they are actually assholes if they laughed at this. This is one of the greatest poems of all time due to it's strong meaning. How dare they.
@ysabellecarr603
@ysabellecarr603 6 месяцев назад
This got me through 8th grade. I played it every single night. Im turning 24 soon. Glad im still here
@Chris-mm6mn
@Chris-mm6mn 4 года назад
"Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
@barryallen5719
@barryallen5719 4 года назад
So true
@Troy1910
@Troy1910 4 года назад
💯
@JC-gg5ek
@JC-gg5ek 4 года назад
👍
@justmayaxo
@justmayaxo 4 года назад
True. 😕
@Idek-J
@Idek-J 4 года назад
Until it talks to another fish and learns that fish are not very good at climbing trees
@nasto1gic197
@nasto1gic197 3 года назад
schools are showing this yet they do nothing about bullying
@AegixDrakan
@AegixDrakan 3 года назад
That's the biggest crime. So many schools talk a big game about "zero tolerance", but they don't do anything about the army of assholes inflicting death by a thousand cuts, they don't punish the real ringleaders because they're the best player on the rugby team and they wanna keep winning, they make excuses about "that's locker room traditions, it's harmless", and in the case of my nemesis it was full blown nepotism (he was the nephew of the VP). And they do nothing, or call you in to the office for the bully to make a false apology and "make up and be friends! :D " because it's so much easier to smooth things over or punish the victim than it is to take action against a culture, their star player, their biggest donor's kid, or deal with half the goddamn school. And even when they DO do something like yell and scream at en entire class for bullying someone, it scares them straight for all of a week (with the bullies going "I thought it was gonna be some boring BS until he yelled BULLSHIT, then I realized we might be in trouble!") before the bullying begins again, small scale cuts until they feel they can get away with more all over again. And then they have the AUDACITY to ask "Why did this happen?!" when tragedy strikes as a result of their inaction or protection of the problem. I likely would not be here if it wasn't for videogames and a few grade school friends, which made me feel like if I was dead, I'd miss out on fun stuff.
@gumy6860
@gumy6860 3 года назад
Ali A? I missed your fortnight content :(
@gachagirsomegirl147
@gachagirsomegirl147 3 года назад
Yeah my school showed us this
@brandonbeck6730
@brandonbeck6730 3 года назад
I 100% agree. My school had a “bully box” in the cafeteria where kids could put in little slips of paper to ask for help. And eventually, they took the box down. Why you might ask? Because what bullied kid is gonna walk up, in the middle of lunch, and put something in the box for all to see, so they never got anything in the box. The thing that really sucks is when teachers or parents are like “you can always talk to me” when you just can’t. Half the time I talked to my parents or teachers they were like “oh they’re just joking, toughen up” which just made me feel great about myself :D. I too wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for a few grad school friends, and when my teacher made me watch this poem a few months ago (I’m a junior now btw) I cried in the middle of class (thanks Covid for only having less than half the kids in my class see that bc of hybrids learning T3T)
@lvclixx2566
@lvclixx2566 3 года назад
EXACTLY
@Chromaggia
@Chromaggia 6 месяцев назад
God, I haven’t thought about this video in years. I watched it over and over when it first came out. It was something I desperately needed to hear at the time. I don’t know why it just randomly popped into my head all these years later, but it hits harder than ever. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Shane.
@Mar-5016
@Mar-5016 6 месяцев назад
Also just popped in my head, watched it like 10 years ago in 4th grade, 19 now and although I never directly related to this video I love the message and the passion put into it.
@Chromaggia
@Chromaggia 6 месяцев назад
@@Mar-5016 I’m gonna sound real pretentious here, but it’s oddly beautiful knowing that this video brought two complete strangers back here at the same time ten years later. I guess it’s a testament to how powerful this piece is, and art in general in a way. I wonder if Shane had any idea just how long this would stick with people when he first wrote this.
@guyco642
@guyco642 5 месяцев назад
Literally me today
@Alisha_4360
@Alisha_4360 2 месяца назад
@@Chromaggiait brought more than two. 🥹 I’m watching it again as a 24 year old. The last time I watched this video was when I was 12 years old, struggled with self harm and suicidal thoughts. Tried to kill myself when I was 14 and didn’t think I’d ever make it past 18 years old, but I did, and had a beautiful daughter when I turned 20 and life is now worth living…
@llArkanell
@llArkanell Год назад
“We are graduating members of the class of we made it” we did indeed make it guys. And let us honor the fallen ones who didn’t in hopes this poem still matters to them in whatever after life they went to…
@kaganshepherd81
@kaganshepherd81 4 года назад
This was made six years ago....it’s almost 2020.....seems like the world just keeps getting darker
@evenbaby4398
@evenbaby4398 4 года назад
Kagan Shepherd but it’s going to be okay!! I love youu 💛💛 your doing great in life :D
@gracie6768
@gracie6768 4 года назад
Kagan Shepherd it is sadly.
@anonymousperson3023
@anonymousperson3023 4 года назад
@@gracie6768 no, it isnt. It's just that information gets spread a lot more quickly and another reason is when it was 6 years ago, you were probably young and didnt give a shit about the news so you never knew about bad stuff that happened then. Just look at the 2000's. A lot of shit stuff was happening. Tensions with Iran and then, swine flu, and sars, the great recession, etc.
@gracie6768
@gracie6768 4 года назад
Kendrick Mott I guess that’s true
@xw591
@xw591 4 года назад
Kagan 2019, it gets worse
@angieee112
@angieee112 2 года назад
My freshman year the English teacher put this on the projector and it had 99% of the class crying. Very beautiful poem. Hands down my favorite
@acob6159
@acob6159 Год назад
My English teacher put it up too. It was in 6th grade, though. Most people didn’t understand, they didn’t care. I wonder if they would now. I almost cried when it was showed to me in the classroom. I wonder if anyone else did. I looked around the room with my eyes watery, nobody seemed affected. We just went on after that. It hit me like a truck, though. I wonder if they would cry, too, if they watched it today. I’m a freshman and I really needed to see this. Good thing I came across it again.
@fivefingersinmyass5979
@fivefingersinmyass5979 Год назад
Me too, 9th grade today. English class
@beans666
@beans666 Год назад
Mine was 8th grade
@brysoncoy9043
@brysoncoy9043 11 месяцев назад
Cap
@Minoze
@Minoze Год назад
I always come back to this video. It was 2013, my teacher shared this video to us and I cried like a baby knowing the pain all to well. Now, its 2023, I've been a graduate of "we made it" for 7 years! And I still cry like a baby "to this day". Thank you Shane, and thank you to all those who have stayed and gave me a reason to stay.
@maddieotterson5581
@maddieotterson5581 5 лет назад
have a tattoo on my body that says “they were wrong” because this video saved me as a child. “you built a cast around your broken heart and you signed it yourself, you signed it THEY WERE WRONG!” it’s in my own handwriting and everything, i owe so much to this video and to shane for making my realize that i can make it, and i made it.
@magnus3497
@magnus3497 4 года назад
I've been planning on getting the same kind of tattoo for years. It will be my next. Congratulations friend. 💖
@imarat4626
@imarat4626 4 года назад
Maddie Otterson I’m want to get the same tatto
@bloodycorneas3240
@bloodycorneas3240 4 года назад
I’ve been thinking of referencing this video in one of my future tattoos because I come back every year to just watch it .
@typcialgamer1167
@typcialgamer1167 4 года назад
This is the most beautiful video I do really owe to it as well
@brit7619
@brit7619 4 года назад
Maddie Otterson this made me sob. I love you❤️
@reesesims196
@reesesims196 4 года назад
When this came out I was teen, battling hard core depression 2019 I'm a mom to two with a loving husband who refuses to let me see the down side of life I wouldn't be here if it wernt for this Thank you
@imcrazyforwar
@imcrazyforwar 4 года назад
When i first saw this I was fresh out college and depressed... Now I'm an adult whos more lonely, full of anxiety and more depressed instead... Some times people's life's get better, sometimes they don't...
@demetriajones81
@demetriajones81 4 года назад
@@imcrazyforwar Things will get better for you too Elias and try to find one thing good in each day.
@ProjectRemedy16
@ProjectRemedy16 4 года назад
Hey Potato Chips and anyone else from 2013, when you watch the video, does it seem as though the animations changed? I honestly don't remember it looking like :12 and :36...it seemed like they changed it, but I can't find the old versions?
@marissaok7160
@marissaok7160 4 года назад
I’m still waiting for my future I hope I make it
@kaliyay7590
@kaliyay7590 4 года назад
Damn it these comments make me so happy. I discovered this when I was a teenager, and I'm watching it as an adult and crying because I've come so far. Life is so different and it truly does get better.
@spiderwes01
@spiderwes01 Год назад
I’ve cried every time I’ve heard this poem, I listened to it twice every year in highschool, I’m 21 now and even still it makes me break down, I just can’t believe I’ve made it
@Thatfangirloverthere
@Thatfangirloverthere Месяц назад
This poem saved my life over and over again in middle school. I’m now in school for a masters in middle grade education. Thank you.
@marinameilenstein
@marinameilenstein 5 лет назад
Anyone else who thinks this is beautiful but can't watch it too often because it just hits too close to home?
@koimouse7170
@koimouse7170 5 лет назад
Marina Merstenstein me bish
@brandonramirez924
@brandonramirez924 5 лет назад
u stoopid bitch
@naranciaghirga8662
@naranciaghirga8662 5 лет назад
Marina Merstenstein yeah I just watch this when I need to vent I'm crying while I'm typing this
@kinga6565
@kinga6565 5 лет назад
Me. It feels like a mental not slap but a realization in mind. That you will actually get trough this
@elisehein4271
@elisehein4271 4 года назад
Yes
@oompaloompa3324
@oompaloompa3324 8 лет назад
I lost it when they said the definition of beauty begins with mom
@poland440
@poland440 8 лет назад
same
@idekroblox
@idekroblox 8 лет назад
Me to my because my mother passed away at my birth and my aunt IS my mom now. I not once saw my mother but have dreams and pictures
@kylacallaway7923
@kylacallaway7923 8 лет назад
same
@Arisleydis333
@Arisleydis333 8 лет назад
same same
@melodyem77
@melodyem77 8 лет назад
Me too, I almost started crying
@deadrudees
@deadrudees Год назад
this is the first poem that ever brought me to tears and it still does a decade later
@Maikeru368
@Maikeru368 5 месяцев назад
10 years later, and I'm still needing to listen to this every once in a while
@justgarfield9721
@justgarfield9721 5 лет назад
0% meme comments 0% offended comments 100% heart warming comments
@ve7467
@ve7467 5 лет назад
Garf lasaga there are meme posts about this
@haileynovotny9355
@haileynovotny9355 4 года назад
Very true
@goldengoose8393
@goldengoose8393 4 года назад
I honestly dont know how anybody could get offended by this ._.
@cyxnidei
@cyxnidei 4 года назад
99% heartwarming comments 1% These kinda of comments
@shady8045
@shady8045 4 года назад
Epic
@guidancetoself2442
@guidancetoself2442 4 года назад
“You have to believe that they were wrong.” Chills.
@stephanieweinstock5075
@stephanieweinstock5075 3 года назад
yeah for real tho
@jaylinallen5409
@jaylinallen5409 3 года назад
@@stephanieweinstock5075 I started to feel myself tear up a little on the first couple of parts 😂
@jennaturner6784
@jennaturner6784 3 года назад
But they are right lol I don’t give up because the afterlife could be boring
@littleroach1195
@littleroach1195 3 года назад
“They have to be otherwise why are we still here?”
@wolvezzgaming_yt
@wolvezzgaming_yt 2 года назад
“they have to be wrong why else would we still be here” 😕
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 года назад
when he said "kids can be cruel " i felt angry ... when i was little kids in kindergarten would pick on me for having seizures, a minor learning disability and having a unibrow , everyday i'd come home crying and not being able to want to go to school . as i grew up i became this girl who had enough and fought back and didn't say sorry for it because the teachers didn't do anything to help . now i am happy to just be by myself and have my cat cause she's the most amazing and loyal best friend ever . words hurt ! think before you speak and act
@goddesstaylor007
@goddesstaylor007 2 года назад
This video came out when I was 14. I’m 23 now and I still always come back to it. I think this is the thing that kept me going. Thank you Shane, they were wrong❤️
@khfangirl1
@khfangirl1 4 года назад
I remember being a 13 year old when I first found this video and I remember just sobbing watching this and since then I forgot about this video. I’m 19 and I just started college and it’s 2AM and I’m sobbing again. It’s been so hard getting to this point. This video is a good reminder of how far I’ve come.
@haileemoyer4353
@haileemoyer4353 4 года назад
PotatoMika im 13 right now. I watch this video 2 times a week to stop thinking of bad thoughts. Ive overcome a lot of them. Sorry if this wasnt needed i can relate tho.
@ly.xrosey8415
@ly.xrosey8415 4 года назад
PotatoMika I’m crying now
@ezekielsmith547
@ezekielsmith547 4 года назад
❤❤ same I was 12 I'm 18
@angelinachow6974
@angelinachow6974 4 года назад
@@haileemoyer4353 you'll get through it love. if you ever need anyone to talk to, my instagram is "gigichoww". never hesitate to send me a DM. i was where u are now and some days are still a struggle. but i love to help people so never be afraid to reach out (: id love to give u some tips or healthy n helpful ways to cope.
@haileemoyer4353
@haileemoyer4353 4 года назад
Angelina Chow thank you. I will talk to you if i need any help
@shaquilleoatmealOG
@shaquilleoatmealOG 4 года назад
7 years later and this is still a masterpiece
@jamesroina9807
@jamesroina9807 3 года назад
shaquille oatmeal
@afriendsfriend
@afriendsfriend 3 года назад
To This Day...
@jaylinallen5409
@jaylinallen5409 3 года назад
Facts💯
@randomgamer2065
@randomgamer2065 3 года назад
7 years later and 9 months later still a masterpeice
@zachbound972
@zachbound972 3 года назад
yes
@rookm1270
@rookm1270 2 года назад
last time i watched this video, i was so severely depressed that i thought i would never even make it to hs. now, here i am, having passed that threshold years ago. spent a long while in therapy and am going again in a few hours. i’m so, so much happier now. the appreciation and love i have for this video is beyond words. thank you ❤️
@animaltwins6992
@animaltwins6992 2 месяца назад
Doing this as a project in 6th grade really inspired me and at least once a year I would listen to this over and over again
@ahahalicia
@ahahalicia 7 лет назад
"If a kid breaks in a school and no one around chooses to hear, do they make a sound?"
@alohadubs7683
@alohadubs7683 7 лет назад
No. They don't tell anyone. Except friends who don't care. Teachers that you don't tell. Because you know they're doing their hellish job. Teachers, grades, very few friends. And the SILENCE! trust me I'd rather be bullied, than have everyone ignore me. And I want my cursed, tainted mind wiped.
@spitjake1364
@spitjake1364 7 лет назад
If you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, do you ever really crash or even make a sound?
@brokenwingsofthenephilim8927
@brokenwingsofthenephilim8927 7 лет назад
trans yams dear evan hansen waving through a window
@fffrenchvanilla
@fffrenchvanilla 7 лет назад
Alicia " if you're falling in a forest and there's nobody around, did you ever really crash or even make a sound" SORRY I'M SO IMMATURE I HAD TO!
@psychedreams7684
@psychedreams7684 6 лет назад
Did I ever make a sound? It's like I've never made a sound.
@jeffersonle4304
@jeffersonle4304 5 лет назад
*"How do you hold your ground when everyone wants to bury you beneath it?"*
@jojosworld1721
@jojosworld1721 5 лет назад
Jefferson Le that’s me. Everyone dreams me dead
@peterwidia5740
@peterwidia5740 5 лет назад
Cause he wants to be on top ;)
@xiopaovid1215
@xiopaovid1215 5 лет назад
Jefferson Le You had to believe that they were wrong... they have to be wrong...
@bahatinyah3881
@bahatinyah3881 5 лет назад
Keep saying I am worth everything and great things are happening to me everyday. Write it down
@tacos394
@tacos394 5 лет назад
really stood out to me too :)
@lisajena42
@lisajena42 Год назад
I listened to this 7 years ago in a dark point in my life. These words did alot to help me through that time. I'm really thankful for this poem. 🙏
@President_Weeb
@President_Weeb Год назад
I’m glad you’re still here and doing better. Best wishes my friend
@marimorillo8590
@marimorillo8590 Год назад
This video kept me strong and safe nine years ago. Then I was a 20yo girl who didnt knew what to do with her life... 9 years later I got two degrees, one as a Psychologist and I'm using this video to sensitize people about bullying, discrimination and the human right to dignity and good treat. Back then I did appretiate this video, now I do it even more. Thank you.
@ItachiEspada
@ItachiEspada 10 месяцев назад
Good for you :) I've watched this around 100 times in 10 years, but I have a Question to pose for you as a Psychologist: You see, I've been broken myself since I can remember, I studied Social Work and despite being depressed myself I still worked with suicidal Patients and People with Schizophrenia for quite a while. Successfully, too - I always seem to be able to connect and have somewhat fitting Words of Encouragement for other People. However, my Problem aligns with the final Statement of this Video: We're successful because we're still here, "we made it". I'm 30 now and yeah, I made it up until now. But I'm still broken, still more or less a stick of TNT lit from both ends. I think about it a lot and it feels like the Medal you get in Elementary School for Participation. The Kids feel integrated, but the Parents see the worthlessness of the Medal. Why would I still take part, why would I be proud about making it this far when the entire Journey was Painful ? For the worthless Medal everybody gets xD ? And don't tell me my "unique" Perspective helped several Patients in the past. I mean it did, but I ain't special, there's plenty of People working in the same Field who could've achieved the same thing. I'm not insane enough to kill myself YET, I just wonder what you'd say to someone who got inspired by this Video and came to the Conclusion that the final Message doesn't actually give Solace or Encouragement :D Sorry for potential mistakes in this "Question", English isn't my first Language.
@AggressiveMenace
@AggressiveMenace 3 месяца назад
It's sad knowing that treating others with dignity and manners is a pretty basic principle who many people ignore. Aside schools and specially when you're a growth adult, there are so many toxicity and mistreatment around us in the street, workplace, etc. For me the most important lesson of this is that how you behave aside these mean individuals, if you think on it, it's so hypocritical being rude when you don't allow people like this anymore.
@wizardnekonaomi2498
@wizardnekonaomi2498 8 лет назад
even after three years this is still impactful to me.
@jackthewartortle9523
@jackthewartortle9523 8 лет назад
Sooooo... It impacts you To this day?
@mckenzielake6943
@mckenzielake6943 8 лет назад
HAHAHA
@kjuice420
@kjuice420 8 лет назад
+Jackthewartortle You just made my day :)
@jackthewartortle9523
@jackthewartortle9523 8 лет назад
Don't worry I'll be here all my life;) That's a joke about comedy and the fact that I can't stop watching this🙂
@ekkeekkeekkeekkeptangzoobo5760
shut up
@lassejohansen8940
@lassejohansen8940 5 лет назад
To this day, 5 years later it’s as beautiful as ever
@Zerwin264
@Zerwin264 5 лет назад
Will always be beautiful
@TXCryptic
@TXCryptic 4 года назад
I used to put this on repeat when I was writing, but I found it today, and it hits harder than ever, I understand this completely now, and I want to cry and get angry but I can only do one
@psychedamike
@psychedamike 4 года назад
This video is timeless
@accurateplayz399
@accurateplayz399 4 года назад
And 100 years later it's still going to be just as beautiful.
@CanteLizzie
@CanteLizzie Год назад
Like so many other people, I heard this in school and, as a depressed pre-teen, listened to it on repeat. School wouldn't life a finger to stop bullying but at least they showed me this. Almost ten years later I'm doing so much better but I'll never forget what this means to me.
@nikschaffer5676
@nikschaffer5676 4 месяца назад
"And if you cant see anything beautiful about yourself. Get a better mirror. Look a little closer. Stare a little longer. Because theres something inside you that made you keep going despite everyone who told you to quit" has got to be one of the most powerful lines. Makes me cry everytime.
@aristo_kitty
@aristo_kitty 5 лет назад
Me: I'm not gonna cry again *"Who's definition of beauty begins with the word Mom"* Me, crying: Darn
@jalisacottman552
@jalisacottman552 5 лет назад
I cried too 😢 its ok to cry.
@caitlynscott943
@caitlynscott943 5 лет назад
Bella Smith ALWAYS
@elijah_tooley
@elijah_tooley 5 лет назад
Same tho
@naboo-fn2ln
@naboo-fn2ln 5 лет назад
Same
@nubbypaws
@nubbypaws 5 лет назад
Same 😭 that part always gets me
@babiblue144
@babiblue144 5 лет назад
Each time he raised his voice the more emotional I get
@ainsleyg123
@ainsleyg123 3 месяца назад
I found this poem in 6th grade. I am now 23. And to this day- I can still recite every word. This poem was the first thing the showed me other people were feeling pain the way I was. This poem helped me feel ok.
@ericajournaljg1334
@ericajournaljg1334 2 месяца назад
I found this video in 8th grade. I’m 22 now and this still hits my heart. I still watch it on hard days
@jordanisdepressed8897
@jordanisdepressed8897 4 года назад
“While the others slept, we walked a tightrope and some of us fell”. That really hit me.
@gumy6860
@gumy6860 3 года назад
Yeah fall off you unbalanced fucking idiot
@t57thetank
@t57thetank 3 года назад
@@gumy6860 my guy are you 12
@kai-px3vg
@kai-px3vg 3 года назад
@@gumy6860 stop being toxic dude did u even watch the video? if u dont understand or sympathize with it then just go away. a lot of people watching this are going through tough times. who knows you could be too but just watch the video and calm down.
@relveil.
@relveil. 3 года назад
@@gumy6860 bro?..
@t57thetank
@t57thetank 3 года назад
@@gumy6860 Actually think before you say shit
@anjelikad1690
@anjelikad1690 4 года назад
"You built a cast around your broken heart" Hits me, hits right there.
@xx_hackerpro_xx3743
@xx_hackerpro_xx3743 4 года назад
"You have to believe they are wrong", of course... They have the truth in anymoment... You're lying.
@isabella.jenk1ns
@isabella.jenk1ns 4 года назад
Me too. Have to pretend it doesn’t hurt and protect myself from hurt
@vXIMVASSY
@vXIMVASSY 4 года назад
Everything about this is to true
@sumothagod4673
@sumothagod4673 Год назад
It’s so crazy how I discovered this video back in 2014 and I play it every year and as a young adult I’m 22 now and I still feel the constant pain of my past that I can’t just shake off I still feel that same pain I felt in High School
@reeceball
@reeceball Год назад
When I first heard this poem in high school, I broke down still believing they were right. Now I’m 26, and I’m breaking down because I *know* they were wrong and I *know* I’m beautiful.
@katedolan17
@katedolan17 2 года назад
Came back to this 8 years later and it still gets me. Even as a 24 year old with a loving fiancé, successful job, and a house I still feel like that depressed kid who watched this video on repeat in high school. Things are so different now. I’m glad I stuck around to see it.
@angieee112
@angieee112 2 года назад
Proud of you
@Mercur1onus
@Mercur1onus 2 года назад
Same here. My teacher showed this to me back in 8th grade, and I've carried this with me ever since. Bullying is stupid, and I always try my hardest to not condone it among my friends.
@PHOENIX2001
@PHOENIX2001 2 года назад
What is scary is that kids today have the power of anonymous to be behind of. I was in the generation of if I was picked on, they either said to to my face or did it secretly behind my back
@betty8371
@betty8371 2 года назад
Crazy because I’m also 24 coming back to this 7-8 years later. And I hear what you mean, we come back to this for a reason. Gotta be willing to keep working yk, hard for sure. We deserve to graduate from the class of “we made it”
@kay01blank
@kay01blank Год назад
Felt ❤️
@emmyweee
@emmyweee 9 лет назад
I dont understand why people would dislike this?
@heartone219
@heartone219 9 лет назад
because they are heartless monsters who can't apreciate beauty
@seltzpopz377
@seltzpopz377 9 лет назад
Maybe they dislike it because its not their type of thing? Poetry isn't for everyone. Maybe they dislike it because they dont like how things are portrayed, how their opinions clash with Shane's claims, and even how the video in general is to them. It's a video on RU-vid, remember that.
@stevenkollin4409
@stevenkollin4409 9 лет назад
Maybe some people didn't like the poem or the animation
@seltzpopz377
@seltzpopz377 9 лет назад
Steven Kollin aaayyyy posted same time
@coralsalvador7898
@coralsalvador7898 8 лет назад
Maybe couse they are the bully
@abidonaghy
@abidonaghy 3 месяца назад
11 years later, and it hit me far harder than a bullet. i listened to and i felt these words at 18, but i never heeded the message. ive somehow fought though to 29, and in a moment I needed it most this came to my mind. i need to prove them wrong.
@ettimire2418
@ettimire2418 3 месяца назад
I found this when I was in 8th grade and I'm now a junior in college. Time passes so quickly but this video really gave me the encouragement to try harder in life and prove everyone wrong.
@farechildd
@farechildd 8 лет назад
I'm looking in the comments and seeing everyone talking about the message of this video... But what I was thinking the whole time was a bit different... THEM VIDEO SKILLS THOUGH! This is probably the coolest animation I've seen in a while, so creative, so clean, and so unique.
@tinalin7278
@tinalin7278 8 лет назад
is fairchild your actual real last name
@farechildd
@farechildd 8 лет назад
+Tina Lynn it is
@tinalin7278
@tinalin7278 8 лет назад
you're lucky
@farechildd
@farechildd 8 лет назад
+Tina Lynn why lol
@tinalin7278
@tinalin7278 8 лет назад
read the shadowhunter series
@izzie1379
@izzie1379 4 года назад
“Get a better mirror look a little closer stare a little longer” that hurt me a lot I still get with self image so much
@midnightskyfly8297
@midnightskyfly8297 4 года назад
I know I’m late but I care yea we don’t know each other but I want you to stay safe. Everyone deserves to be happy you might be confused but please stay safe I’m here if you want to talk❤️
@littlejohnandbaloo9701
@littlejohnandbaloo9701 3 года назад
And just like Mulan said: _"Sometimes your song can't start, until you go someplace, to reflect."_ Your image is _not_ broken. Your self-portrait is _not_ damaged. Show that your reflection cares about you, and never let your image say "No". You can't hide who you are. Someone who doesn't know you, or someone who tried to know you, is all just fabrications. It's very important to show who you are inside of you.
@littlejohnandbaloo9701
@littlejohnandbaloo9701 3 года назад
@{{KipoTheFox}} *_Everyone_* deserves one last chance while they still have it. While it is _just_ the beginning, it is _not_ the end of your life. It has already just begun, and no bully or nerd will never traumatize, or antagonize you. You need to believe in yourself, and give proof that all bad days might change, but if it happens, it's on _you._ Don't be a _wrong_ answer, and try to make sure that your life depends on the right answer alone. You _can_ do this. Your heart depends on your life, and it is important that every day seems to get better. You are an _adventurer._ Travel across the world while you still can. *_Hike_*_ the Kilimanjaro, _*_learn_*_ the Art of Renaissance in Venice, _*_dog-sled_*_ throughout all of Siberia, _*_raft_*_ the Amazon, _*_follow_*_ the path to the jungle, _*_master_*_ the ninja way in Japan, _*_explore_*_ the Taj Mahal, _*_board_*_ your boat, _*_sail_*_ across the ocean, _*_restore_*_ Te Fiti's heart,_ be *_your_* wayfinder, *_become_*_ an English person in the United Kingdom in an English manner, _*_live_*_ the country life in Texas, _*_read, write and learn_*_ Kanji the Japanese or Chinese way, simplified or traditional, be what your heart _*_tells_*_ you to be..._ Get a piece of paper, and some colorful colored pencils, and bring out the inner artist or illustrator in you... Color your whole life with a piece of paper, _any_ color: _Red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, violet, et cetera...._ Be a colorful rainbow, just as Roy G. Biv intended, and never let anyone interrupt your free time while illustrating... Have a creative mind in yourself. Be resourceful, intimidating and invigorating, and no matter how long you illustrate while coloring, don't let it stop you. You can draw anything _even_ if you put your _brain_ and _mind_ to it! No one can ever stop you from destroying you and everyone's *_creativity!_* And _no one_ can ever put an end to your life, in which the end is just pure _fictional,_ and *_cannot_* happen in real life. If it did, then... Earth will be _disappeared_ forever. *_Be_*_ a player, a virtual _*_RU-vidr,_*_ a gamer, an illustrator, a graphic designer, an IT technician, whatever job you may want to be._ This is your last and final race, so put the pedal on your left feet, and beat your opponents while you still have the chance. Soon, your ranking will be risen into first place, and the winner who will be chosen is _you!_ Don't press "Quit" or "Exit Game"... Return to your game, hit "Continue", restart the race again, and if the opponent wins while you're still in the middle, don't get mad... This is only your first race, and the game just isn't the same without you winning. Just like the kids at school, when the nerds bully them, you have to stay strong and tell those school bullies to never let anyone try to antagonize their students as long as you tell the teacher or principal. We all know 2020 is going to become the worst year in existence, but if we put a stop into bullying, and get rid of the villains and antagonists, 2020 will actually be _not_ a good year, but a better year that will happen in our lives. We must not resort to other bullying, or our school year will _definitely_ be the most devastating year that has ever happened in other recent years. Let us take a moment to cherish our lives while the pandemic continues to spread even more.
@pheonity
@pheonity 3 года назад
@@littlejohnandbaloo9701 PREACHHH
@exoandbtsneedacollabtodisi3956
@exoandbtsneedacollabtodisi3956 3 года назад
This might not help but this is something that helped me... it depends on how your perspective I though. Whenever you look in the mirror don't think of who is in there as yourself, think of it as a completely different person, or as your friend. The reason this worked for me is because I have never thought that anyone was ugly but I constantly said that I was... But when I started imagining how I could be hurting the person in the mirror with my thoughts and words then I started to think of the mirror as a human and not just a reflection. Once you learn to accept the person in the mirror then little by little try to think of that beautiful person as yourself again :)🥰😊 my body and mental image still isn't as nice as I would like it to be but I've come a long way.
@Grace-bx4sq
@Grace-bx4sq 2 года назад
watched this at school a few weeks ago - almost burst into tears right then and there
@leahrobinson4977
@leahrobinson4977 2 месяца назад
I found this when I was 14. I’m now 24. This has and always will be my favourite
@thequeenofcringe6920
@thequeenofcringe6920 5 лет назад
*“Despite a loving husband, she doesn’t think she’s beautiful because of a birthmark that takes up a little lesser than half her face. Kids used to say that she looks like a wrong answer that someone tried to erase but couldn’t quite get the job done but they don’t understand that she’s raising 2 kids whose definition of beauty begins with the word mum, because they see her heart before they see her skin because she’s only ever been amazing”* wow so much respect for you
@adamshepherd6721
@adamshepherd6721 5 лет назад
The school gonna put up “no bully zone” posters and call it a day
@efrenr81
@efrenr81 4 года назад
Right, I see it in most of my classes
@Coraijin
@Coraijin 4 года назад
Fuck this. I am a teacher and actively fight bullying when I see it. Just remember that we care and sometimes not all of your teachers do, but many of us do. I for one do. It is difficult, but we care, I care, just hang in there.
@hariman7727
@hariman7727 4 года назад
Worse... not only do they put up "no bully zone" signs, the colleges tell anyone who dissents from the Staff Approved Views that they must speak in a "Free Speech Zone", and shame anyone who disagrees... *Making the people who often advocate the loudest against bullies the biggest offenders.*
@jordynrose2783
@jordynrose2783 4 года назад
They act like a bully is gonna see the signs and be like "Oh look that sign tells me to stop bullying so i will." No. They see it and just look past it. Schools don't understand they if they don't put a stop to it, it will continue happening.
@cheyannerobinson5302
@cheyannerobinson5302 4 года назад
Preach
@melindaefta8745
@melindaefta8745 5 месяцев назад
Haven’t thought of this video in almost 10 years. It’s funny the parts that stick out to me now are so different than the ones that stuck out to me as a depressed teenager. What a beautiful and powerful message that stood the test of time.
@jamay613
@jamay613 2 года назад
100% THIS poem is the reason I love poetry so much, and spoken word 10x more. Poetry speaks to my soul makes me feel all the things. I fell in love with this piece in grade 8, they used it for the “anti-bullying” campaigns every year from then on, on pink day, definitely beautifully done.
@thewonderfulwolfe6232
@thewonderfulwolfe6232 7 лет назад
To this day, I have yet to watch this video without crying..
@nick-qw2nj
@nick-qw2nj 6 лет назад
TheWönderfulWölfie for real you are a beautiful person also😊
@wafflepancakehouse8924
@wafflepancakehouse8924 6 лет назад
TheWönderfulWölfie same I'm just gonna go cry in the corner now.....
@lilymcgroarty8968
@lilymcgroarty8968 6 лет назад
Same with me and it was me when you get builled you can't imagine what it feels like to be called names it has hurted in the past
@missedits6403
@missedits6403 6 лет назад
TheWönderfulWölfie same
@farleygutierrez3619
@farleygutierrez3619 6 лет назад
TheWönderfulWölfie u same
@ajvideos12341
@ajvideos12341 8 лет назад
Anyone else get really speechless because the things he said touched you?
@Jon-ll6tt
@Jon-ll6tt 8 лет назад
yes because when I was a kid I was filled with depression and I almost had therapy. all he said happend in my life and fought to be here today.
@ajvideos12341
@ajvideos12341 8 лет назад
Jon 1002 I'm sorry about that, I wish that I could help everyone with their depression before they commit suicide. It really hurts to hear about my friends or family that did it. I really hope the world can become happy again for everyone going through something
@Jon-ll6tt
@Jon-ll6tt 8 лет назад
+Polarcere Aj yeah I know
@wolfspirit12223
@wolfspirit12223 8 лет назад
The strongest words ever spoken to me is "If you can't see anything beautiful about yourself then get a better mirror. Look a little closer. Stare a little longer. Because there is something inside you that kept you trying despite every one telling you should quite." Never have words been more resonate after reaching the light at the end of the tunnel, and looking back to see how much i have grown from it.
@ajvideos12341
@ajvideos12341 8 лет назад
Luulimender I love that quote, it will really help me later in life.
@bunnierap2718
@bunnierap2718 9 месяцев назад
I first watched this back in 2019. I was 16 and spiraling after being sexually abused by an 18 year old classmate. I sobbed silently in the cafeteria watching this video on loop. I used this for my poetry on the speech and debate team junior year. I’m back four years later. I didn’t think I’d make it to 18 and I’m almost 21. I couldn’t imagine myself graduating high school. Now I have my associates degree and I’m applying to get my bachelors. I have plans for the future. I have goals I want to achieve. I can imagine what I’d like my home to look like when I’m 30. I can’t bring back the old me, but I am building up the person I want to be
@mcmxcvi6798
@mcmxcvi6798 2 года назад
I was shown this in high-school. I always come back to it every so often and it hits harder and harder everytime. There is true beauty in spoken word poetry
@trippypups8207
@trippypups8207 4 года назад
“so we grew up believing no one would ever fall in love with us that we’d be lonely forever that we’d never meet someone to make us feel like the sun was something they built for us in their tool shed so broken heart strings bled the blues as we tried to empty ourselves so we would feel nothing. don’t tell me that hurts less than a broken bone” that whole part got me
@tencan6071
@tencan6071 4 года назад
COLBY BROCKSTER especially when someone says you’re aren’t replaceable, but than they replace you the next day. I finally realized that no one is going to fall in love with me.
@po_popnn9011
@po_popnn9011 6 лет назад
My teacher showed the entire class this video around 6 months ago, and I still come back to watch it all the time.
@jenfuentes2803
@jenfuentes2803 6 лет назад
Emily Michael you should check out his other poems they all are really good 👌
@po_popnn9011
@po_popnn9011 6 лет назад
Jenniferジェニファー I definitely will, thanks for the tip.
@jenfuentes2803
@jenfuentes2803 6 лет назад
Emily Michael no problem...his poem My Darling Sara always makes me cry ✌😅
@andrespueblos
@andrespueblos 6 лет назад
Emily Michael my teacher just showed it to us the other day
@planetvnus
@planetvnus 5 лет назад
my teacher did the same thing 4 years ago this video will never, ever stop being amazing
@jordanrosalie3196
@jordanrosalie3196 Год назад
I watched this as a child in high school. I cried and cried then, because only now I realize how much pain I was in. I wish I could hold that little girl and tell her they were wrong, my love.
@Katymask44
@Katymask44 4 месяца назад
Shane, After 10 years this still impacts all our hearts.. Maybe even more now that we are adults. Thank you Shane from the bottom of my heart. This video will be more than you ever will know.
@lourdes211
@lourdes211 4 года назад
Anyone else cries at the “get a better mirror”
@screechingsnail2804
@screechingsnail2804 4 года назад
I do.
@mushto3223
@mushto3223 4 года назад
YES
@moran__twinz
@moran__twinz 4 года назад
YES, the end gets me everytime
@iexiiou
@iexiiou 4 года назад
I’m STILL crying
@shrek3397
@shrek3397 4 года назад
for some reason i didn’t cry at all
@simplysierra9483
@simplysierra9483 4 года назад
"They have to be wrong" the emotion in that line never fails to stir something up deep inside of me.
@manglethefox6276
@manglethefox6276 3 года назад
It makes me cry everytime
@lildreamprincess
@lildreamprincess 7 месяцев назад
if you can't see anything beautiful about yourself, get a better mirror. this part always gets me.. ive been rewatching this video for 10 years now. it's still just as moving every time. im happy to say im in a much better place now than i was when i first watched this. and im happy to see so many of us are still here to this day.
@ireallybad_1883
@ireallybad_1883 Год назад
As a kid this poem hit hard, now, as an adult it hits harder. I’ve still got a long way to go, I still cannot believe that someone else would love me, but I can love myself. Took me years to go from hoping they were wrong to somewhat knowing they were wrong. Here’s to progress, and to all the kids still holding onto hope. You can do it kiddos, they’re wrong. I promise.
@ryanlopez7376
@ryanlopez7376 4 года назад
"We are graduating members of the class 'We Made it'" when this video came out, I was 16, suicidal & self harming, on countless depression & anxiety meds. Today, I'm 22. I've healed so much & I never thought I'd make it this far! I'm still dealing with some trauma & depression & anxiety but I'm healing more & more everyday. The teasing & bullying I got in school is mostly a distant memory now. Things get better, I promise
@onionbroisbestwaifu5067
@onionbroisbestwaifu5067 3 года назад
Ryan Lopez I tried to think of a response but I honestly can’t. I’m past you and I hope I’ll be future you. Also I’m glad you made it
@tenshimoon
@tenshimoon 3 года назад
@@onionbroisbestwaifu5067 you will be in the future, and your own version, too. You *can* make it, because true strength is about how hard you can get hit, how much you can take, and keep moving forward. I did too. I believe in you.
@nightorchid5031
@nightorchid5031 3 года назад
Good job
@smithachandrabose2530
@smithachandrabose2530 3 года назад
@@onionbroisbestwaifu5067 Stay in the right side of your brain. The details are in the left side and the big picture is on the right side. In the big picture, you will be fine because you are still here, kiddo.
@inbarmore3159
@inbarmore3159 3 года назад
Yas girl. Without knowing you, just from reading this, I'm proud of you. ♥️
@ryanfloyd9293
@ryanfloyd9293 6 лет назад
Ok, I listened to this poem for the first time in 7th grade. 6 years later, it is just as meaningful as before. Love it.
@anonymousperson3023
@anonymousperson3023 5 лет назад
This video was only released 5 years ago so how did you watch this video 6 years ago
@myleg505
@myleg505 5 лет назад
@@anonymousperson3023 ikr
@timeisthis4378
@timeisthis4378 5 лет назад
Same except I was in like 5th grade
@adro8812
@adro8812 5 лет назад
what was your teachers name i might know her
@juliettegreen463
@juliettegreen463 5 лет назад
Same. And I’m a senior this year. I love this video. It’s so touching.❤️
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 года назад
i heard this when i was in a program in upgrading school . they played it and most of the kids were crying when they heard it but me ? i didn't shed a single tear or sniffle . because i am broken and it hurt to hear this poem , because emotional wounds are the hardest to heal and fix. yet we get judged for trying to do what's best for us . this poem is my go to when writing poetry and lyrics to say how i feel and why . it is my comfort and peace
@starjams
@starjams 4 месяца назад
This video saved my life back when I was a teen fr. I’m 24 now. I’ll never forget when I first watched this.
@jahsehreincarnatepoopy6397
@jahsehreincarnatepoopy6397 5 лет назад
It’s funny how they show this at my school, the video proceeds to talk about how horrible school is, and yet they still don’t do anything. Like some adults are so blinded by things I dont understand it
@analysebermudes7053
@analysebermudes7053 4 года назад
please get out ikr they showed this at my school yet still don’t do anything it’s so sad really 😕
@Coraijin
@Coraijin 4 года назад
I am a teacher and I show this video to my Grade 8's every year for the last five years. It is not always about what the teachers can do. In many ways we are powerless with the use of social media and the bullying that happens on it. I can only speak for myself, but if I see bullying in plain site I stop it immediately. Maybe have a talk with your teachers, protest their inaction, do something that the weak are unable to do. I hope I helped. (I was bullied at school, I became a teacher, I made it!)
@AdraTheGhost
@AdraTheGhost 4 года назад
When something so big has been moving for so long the only way to stop it is to throw things at it til it breaks. The only way bullying ends is if adults and the kids who don't bully, but dont stop it collectively say "no...thats enough." But the adults have more important things, and the kids are acutely aware that standing up for a bullied kid had a chance of making them a bullied kid.
@abilikes_blu3191
@abilikes_blu3191 4 года назад
Well unless they're the board members of the school, there is really not much they can do.
@first-namelast-name5956
@first-namelast-name5956 4 года назад
please get out when I was younger I build up the courage to tell my teacher that I was being bullied and I swear this is what the teacher said: “it builds character”.
@Katastrophe2007
@Katastrophe2007 3 года назад
I have memorized this... is that bad? Also, everyone starts crying right when the music starts. The piano comes in and everyone just SOBS.
@ironycat5897
@ironycat5897 3 года назад
i used to know it by heart when i was around 13-14. i had forgotten about this video until today, when i saw in my google drive a folder with the transcript for this video. i remember walking from school listening to this and trying to remember the words and to say them just like in the video (i'm french so it's a bit more challenging) i listening to this now it gave me hot flashes and i almost started to cry ( i was showing this to my boyfriend for the first time so i didn't want to cry lol), but the nostalgia and just all the words coming back to me.. it's such an amazing video.
@AwkwardChick-yk1ym
@AwkwardChick-yk1ym 3 года назад
I know it by heart too idk if it’s sad but it says something
@paigeemerson6014
@paigeemerson6014 3 года назад
that's FACTS. I first watched this in 2013 when Shane first shared this video. I still cry every time, and at this point, nearly 8 years later, every word is still burned into my memory.
@NinjaJoanie
@NinjaJoanie 3 года назад
I used to repeat it daily. You’re not alone ❤️
@Mr.pantaloons
@Mr.pantaloons 3 года назад
I know it word for word ure forgiven
@allisons9606
@allisons9606 2 месяца назад
I found this poem a year before my ex-boyfriend committed suicide in front of me. My entire town blamed me for his death, but this poem helped me sign the cast around my heart that they were wrong. 💗 It took a long time for me to get here, but I give this poem quite a bit of credit for pulling me out of the darkest place I’ve ever been. Thank God for Shane Koyczan 💟
@zodiaclibra1000
@zodiaclibra1000 7 месяцев назад
dang 10 years ago this hit me hard and now 10 years later it still hits hard I don't know if I've made it yet but at least I can say I am still here. This video is one of the reasons why, when I first saw it while going through a bad time in my life I was 2 years out of high school and a college dropout at the time and this video helped me find the strength to keep going , even now I am struggling with problems but I am glad that 10 years have gone by and that I can still come back to this video to help me find my strength to keep moving forward, Thank you Shane Koyczan for helping me and a whole bunch of others in times of need with this video.
@doobie710
@doobie710 3 года назад
“And they'll never understand That she's raising two kids Whose definition of beauty Begins with the word mom Because they see her heart Before they see her skin Because she's only ever always been amazing” always gets me😞
@DefeatLust
@DefeatLust 3 года назад
Same. That line hits the most, as a mommas boy 😂
@atirahmad9883
@atirahmad9883 3 года назад
same, hits hard, cause I love my mom, and the definition of mom is strength and determination 2:57
@asterodon
@asterodon 3 года назад
Im happy that everyone has a mom that they can be proud of, unfortunately the rest of us arent so lucky....
@DefeatLust
@DefeatLust 3 года назад
@@asterodon You have a dad? You have grandparents? Older sibling? Step parents? Food? House? A phone to write that comment? Some people have none of thee above. That's not the point though. The point is that nothing is guaranteed, so whatever you have been given be greatfull for 🙂
@coughingchameleon3747
@coughingchameleon3747 3 года назад
@@asterodon I couldn't really either. That's why we get to be the moms and dads we never had.
@MK-vc6ez
@MK-vc6ez 8 лет назад
am i the only one who can listen to this on repeat and knows the words like a song?
@PandasRising
@PandasRising 8 лет назад
No. It is so good and true and pure that it practically is the best song ever
@shelbymay5509
@shelbymay5509 8 лет назад
same.
@jadent4485
@jadent4485 8 лет назад
I come back often. These words are just... Like drugs. I don't know why but I can't stop myself from pressing the replay button. I don't know why I memorize the words till they're engrained into my soul. Why the words flow smoothly through my blood stream... I don't know... Am I crazy? Am I a fool?
@beeb5473
@beeb5473 8 лет назад
I know every single word
@mskimmy474
@mskimmy474 8 лет назад
I'm trying to learn them
@thelostremainunfound
@thelostremainunfound Год назад
I never thought I would live to see high school, then I didn't think I'd live to 16. When I lived to 16, I didn't think I would live to be an adult. When I lived to see 18, I realized that despite everything, I'd made it. To think that this poem is 10 years old blows me away. I saw it when I was 13, now I am 21 and still here. This was the first year of my life I can say I've woken up genuinely grateful to be here still. I'm about to graduate college with my bachelor's degree and for the first time I see my life in the span of decades instead of months or years. They were wrong, I was wrong. I have a beautiful life ahead of me and coming back to this poem reminds me of that. I deserve to celebrate this victory, and I will by living life.
@atomic2920
@atomic2920 Год назад
I’m thirteen now I want to come back like you did see how I’ve changed see how the worlds changed and if I’m still in it.
@LeilaTheWeeb
@LeilaTheWeeb 7 дней назад
My English teacher played this in class today. I almost cried because of how much it made me feel relevant and i played it again at home, headphones on. Close to the end, I got up, looked in the mirror, looked at my scars and said to myself, “We made it.”
@evemitchell887
@evemitchell887 4 года назад
I remember watching this at 14, sobbing throughout it; dealing with anxiety, bullying and suicidal thoughts. Now I’m 18, things are still difficult but I finished school. I made it. I’m still crying, I’m still suicidal and I still have anxiety, but I made it. We made it.
@GG-bi1um
@GG-bi1um 4 года назад
AlaskaTheNerd damn right we did
@CullsYT
@CullsYT 4 года назад
Same dude, we still vibing.
@woeitsmadi1
@woeitsmadi1 4 года назад
We made it 💗
@smileweirdo9699
@smileweirdo9699 4 года назад
Literally same sometime I go back to this video to help me get through things.
@CristianReviews
@CristianReviews 7 лет назад
"Sometimes being drug free has less to do with addiction and more to do with sanity."
@HeyItsFluffi
@HeyItsFluffi 6 лет назад
dead dead My thoughts are with you 💗
@siuscousin6562
@siuscousin6562 6 лет назад
+Salti, Gaye
@pinkylusi
@pinkylusi Год назад
It's been 9 years, and I'm still here. I remember finding this on Facebook one day, then listening to it every time I had a tough day in high school. I am now 22, I've finished college, I'm surrounded by loving and caring people. I still struggle, and I'm still learning to love myself little by little. Thank you.
@bahbs8056
@bahbs8056 10 месяцев назад
I believed they were wrong. I kept going. I watched this video when I was 11/12, being abused at home, bullied, and suicidal. I just turned 20, and I have lived so much. This changed my life. I’ve had my first love, my first heartbreak, lost and gained friends and loved ones. Grappled self worth and won. Ive seen success. I’ve lived. I’ve grown. It’s only been a decade since I’ve seen this, and I’ve already done so much that I would have missed. The friends I lost, it breaks my heart even still to know even part of what they’ve missed. I am so grateful to be alive to this day. To anyone out there giving through this, it gets better. It’s cliché and it’s true. I’m so glad I didn’t give up: that I got a better mirror, looked a little harder.
@maddygman
@maddygman 8 лет назад
I get the chills everytime I watch this, its just so amazing
@thingswithus8499
@thingswithus8499 8 лет назад
Same
@marcosg1929
@marcosg1929 8 лет назад
me two
@CaptainFrenchFri
@CaptainFrenchFri 8 лет назад
SAME
@treyatkins8413
@treyatkins8413 8 лет назад
+Maddy Gman My friend was showing us this today. I watched it with my best friend, my crush, and the person who showed us it. I stood there, it was hot, but I was cold, because of all the chills that this gave me. This poem is, at the least, a well written and recited poem. And, that's at the least. It's much more than that.
@gabbyheartemoji
@gabbyheartemoji 8 лет назад
same, it's so beautiful
@acaliharte
@acaliharte 4 года назад
The internalization of bullying is something much harder to fix. My bullies have moved on, but their words are so ingrained in my head they sound like my own now.
@tithiprajapati2224
@tithiprajapati2224 3 года назад
im really sorry amber :( I hope you are doing better now! I'm here to talk about it if you'd like
@Aline.f
@Aline.f 3 года назад
you're awsome, despite that i dont know you, im sure your wonderful
@anemoia3603
@anemoia3603 3 года назад
Yes, and people think you "just pity yourself" and because "you're emo" 👁️👄👁️ wew
@hugofoley
@hugofoley 3 года назад
That's why you have to believe that they were WRONG! It's hard, I know.
@stabbamonroll
@stabbamonroll 3 года назад
the axe forgets the tree remembers.that doesn't mean the tree deserved to be used for firewood, they were wrong
@ashlynnwinchester905
@ashlynnwinchester905 7 месяцев назад
we watched this in class today, i was mesmerized. j felt so connected to the words and i was holding back tears. nobody else cared, even my closest friends were laughing cuz it was "cheesy"
@jaydensegovia8081
@jaydensegovia8081 5 месяцев назад
2024 gang 🤝
@AggressiveMenace
@AggressiveMenace 10 дней назад
Watching the comment section makes me hopeful with human species again.
@PsychoX51
@PsychoX51 5 дней назад
To This Day 🤝
@MytxMix
@MytxMix 7 лет назад
My teacher showed this video to our class today. I'm happy he did. This impacted many people in the room. And made them rethink their choices. I am happy that I remembered the title. Because this is now by far my favorite video that I have ever seen.
@yikes.mp478
@yikes.mp478 7 лет назад
Tery Kitsune They showed this in my class too
@ItsreallyJen
@ItsreallyJen 7 лет назад
JustAnotherBug FW. mine too
@annahernandez8117
@annahernandez8117 7 лет назад
Tery Kitsune they showed this to my class and one student was making jokes about it
@CybertroninfiniteOfficial
@CybertroninfiniteOfficial 7 лет назад
same, my LA teach did
@dehydrateddogtoenails2974
@dehydrateddogtoenails2974 7 лет назад
Terry ˈpandə my teacher did and I stared to cry I picked on this kid and I told him I'm sorry I didn't know how he felt but now i do
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