In this video, I discuss my outlook on life after my wife passed away from the flu 13 days ago. Death changes your perspective on life. Music is I Just Got Back From Hell by Gary Allan.
You are doing the best you can, that's all you can do. I feel very humbled to get to be part of your process. The worst I think is how the world keeps turning as if it never happened . Keep talking to us, just keep talking....
I have been watching your videos for a while and I must say, you have made me look at life from a different perspective on life. As the Bible says, don't worry about tomorrow, today has enough worries of its own. We all need to enjoy each day as if it's our last, because it very well could be.
You are so amazing! You are speaking from your heart and so encouraging. I think it is so kind of you to share something so very personal to you. Your videos are very inspiring. You speak with sincerity and honesty. I hope you remain strong. And you are absolutely correct when you say today is all we have. I am 60 years old and I realize that more every day! Thank you for your videos they are very encouraging!
I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through, Jim, so I won't pretend. I do appreciate you making these videos for us while continuing to put one foot in front of the other. May God continue to give you the strength to get through this. Take care of yourself. ~Sam (Sam Paul from Facebook)
You're so right, nothing else can hurt you as much as what you're dealing with now. Keep posting, a year from now you can look back and see how far you've come. Praying for you🙏🏻
I wanted to say, I am so very sorry to hear of your stories, about your wife's illnesses, and her passing. I'm sorry you had to experience everything that you went through. You're right, medical technology can prolong life, but often doesn't take away the suffering that's still there. Most people if asked, would prefer quality of life, over length of time. No one wants to suffer. Nor should they, any longer than necessary. I have watched a few of your videos recently, and felt the need to express my condolences, for the loss and grief you have been feeling, and trying to process, over the loss of your wife. I have lost many many people over many years from my family. Others also. Too many people, and too soon. I also have, and live with many different conditions, and illnesses. And have also been a chronic severe pain sufferer, for 23 years, after a serious car accident. I'm disabled, and spend a lot of time online. The tribute that you made to your wife, was beautiful. I can see you feel the need to talk about and share your experiences and grief, of how you feel, and your experiences. We are taught that while grieving, that it is good for us to open up, and share what we're feeling. I believe that is true. As grieving and processing does allow us to not keep our feelings bottled up. It's good that you are able to make these videos. And while helping yourself in the grieving process, you're also helping others. I'm sure many people can relate to you. I'm sure it helps others, not feel so alone in their journey. I hope you can find some comfort, and have a blessed day. Take care..
Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I read a few of the other comments and my wish is that you have found some comfort in these words from others. I think I can speak for more than just me, we love you.
I admired your logic, and strenght, even though you're missing her (dearly) Keep having faith --she's no longer in pain, because its true. Daily, stay strong, because she's lovingly watching over you 🌷
I lost my wife at 31 It was a long and hard process as she passed from cancer She had a NDE before she died It was eye opening Time does heal Keep on talking to us on here We are here for you Take care PS I get everything your saying
Tim, ya know I'm 55 also and I've had a few friends decease before me and I freik out because each grandparent I had did make it to 91 @ one grandma till 99. Well I don't think I'll really live near as long. So I've had to stay focused on today. I have a dog, and I have 3 children I have got to be here. But I'll tell ya it really does make me think and than I get scared and with the health problems I get or of have, now the medicine shit, I start losing hope and I know it's not healthy. I Try to always say my nightly prayer and think positive as much as I possibly can. We are all only human and our brains can just go into overdrive. Again I'm more than sorry about your wife however I beleive it's good you have us to talk about it and what's going on. Ya see your not alone and some of us are going through these same emotions, fears and thoughts, whatever ya wanna call them. Ya hang in there and take care of yourself, your time isn't up and your here for a reason got bless
Hang in there friend, time is a healer. keep going forward. Cooking is good therapy for myself during hard times, not sure if you feel like doing that. You stated you aren't a songwriter, etc, BUT you ARE a GOOD cook, and that in itself in an art, especially the way you cook, certainly not something anybody & everyone can do. those that say otherwise are haters, trolls, ignore them. definitely keep making videos Jim, most especially if they're helping you in a way of therapy like you said. May God bless you & give you comfort during this difficult time
There is a whole a lot more for us to look forward to than just today. Jesus said were not of this world. We have a future to look forward to & that's living in heaven for eternity with our Lord Jesus Christ. Call upon the name of the Lord and ye shall be saved. Romans 10:13. GOD BLESS YOU tin man
Your probably also wondering who this girl who tells me her maybe stupid story, not that ya did, it's just I don't have a channel like you ,I've been listening and subscribed to your channel and I just live way up north in Wi, just so ya knew again God bless
