This is exactly my situation right now. Suddenly I changed like a good muslim and everyone of my family make fun of me. I really want to change them as I changed. I want Jannah with them all. I wish Allah gives me the strength to change their mind, with my best behavior as a muslim. Ameen
As Salam Aleikoum. I am in the same situation as you. However, you must know that it is not you that will change your family's mind, but it is Allah that will do it In Sha Allah. We need to be patient as brother Nouman said and we need to make du'aa. May Allah help you and may Ar Rahman grants you Jannatul Firdaous. Ameen
Allah will be with you to provide a good way out...believe in possibilities by Allahs will from impossibilities. The winner is with Allah and patience.
these issues are common to me.. Unlike my elder sister, me, I wear hijaab, and sometimes, my parents find it annoying. they're sort of embarrassed by it, and I am often seen as the weird one.. it is quite discouraging. but , I need to keep in mind that this hijaab is for the sake of ALLAH, AND NOBODY ELSE. so, all the young muslims striving in the way of ALLAH... keep hope.. He won't let us down :)
My husband introduce me to this site. I am thankful that he is helping me with my inner peace because I struggle with anger. since I watch him I am so peaceful thanks to Nouman Alki Khan . He showed me only God and God alone can bring anyone inner peace.
first i wanted to get scholarship to go abroad for my masters and further studies... now i hope i hope and really wish to get there and register myself to his school, hes really motivational thats what i like about him, he gets to the level where i can understand him so easily that its like talking to a friend, whereas other speakers that i have in the masjid near my house in Lahore Pakistan, i dont get them as much as i understand his lectures... Jazak Allah may Allah guide us all
this is one of the best inspirational videos u have ever seen....had tears in my eyes....mashalah brother...keep it up....please pray for me and my family!
subhanAllah this is exactly what i needed to hear, its amazing the knowledge and wisdom Allah has blessed nouman ali khan with... he opened my eyes to something i've been doing but didn't even realize until very very recently.. jazakaAllah to the uploader of this video as well.. may we all reunite in jannah!
Subhanallah, what a great lecture Masha Allah. I'm so happy I got to hear it, Alhamdulillah. Insha Allah I will try to act upon it, no matter how hard it may be. Shukran to the uploader and Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan for sharing the knowledge.
Mashaa Allah another inspiring talk by brother Nouman. The concept of Dawah is simple yet we need to understand the significance of starting with our family.
He is such an inspiration, I love his talks, his amazing talks wich touches my heart and soul and make me thing of what we are doing and not doing. May allah reward you in all the posible ways, either in this life or the hereafter. I am sure I will listen to your noble speach everyday, or at least once in a week. Barakallah Fee for sharring this beautiful speach, my salams and greetings to all muslims.
I guess we're all in the same boat.. First watching our actions,not rising to anger setting a good example being patient,and never giving up trying and trying for the sake of Allah swt.
Allah say in the quran don't be divided.... don't make sect in your religion... prophet Muhammad say after him they will be 71 sect of Islam. but all of them will be in hell fire except the one that keep and fallow his guidance. prophet Muhammad didn't call himself a shia Muslim or sunny Muslim.. he call himself a Muslim that it
Salam Nouman ali I like all your videos they are very good and knowledable. i leard so many thing thorugh you videoies. i have never seen such a person like u so polite and humble and moderate while giving speechies ...........
SAME! EXACTLY SAME FOR ME at near about 2:00 and onward. was VERY VERY VERY useful for me. Yeah! this is for a person like me .. Jazakallah bro Nouman Ali
i swear this has answered all my questions sence iv converted my parents dont want me to be around them much because im muslim its like there ashamed of me..WHY? this video has answered everthing. subhanallah
ّI love your words brother, I love you For Allah's sake and pray to him that we meet in heaven as brothers.... May Allah reward you and the listeners and those who uploaded this video....ameen :)
This scenario happens over and over again we must hold faith..”oh next week you’ll be back to your ways” I never understood why elders said such things..🙁
wow, I feel like this lecture was designed exactly for me...I'm a former Atheist/Deist who reverted to Islam. Now my family and friends are like..."what!???"
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh Allah says in the Quran that with your parents to have ihsan(excellence, that you enslave yourself to Allah as if you can see Him) Also, The Prophet said, "Allah has forbidden you ( 1 ) to be undutiful to your mothers" So be the best you can to your parents and don't say "mom you doing this wrong" but direct her to a third party link and say "mom check this out". Then pray to Allah for their guidance and rely on Allah for this.
In my case, most old people wants me to wear the lebai (turban-look-alike) & wear a specific cloth to go pray n mosque. I was like so dissapointed with it. It's like it has became tradition instead of the real Islamic way. I know the way Rasulullah SAW used to wear cloth but I know the cloth I wore at that time was clean. May Allah grants us deep understanding in Islam. Amiinn
Be patient with your family. Give your parents time and speak to them with noble speech. Change your behavior to be better as you become more religious.
U r right in every word. It's about us not the religion. The appearance usually is the 1st thing that changes ,then the mind & heart follow. In the beginning we become a bit tough thinking that we are jealous for the religion. What ever we are , we can never be more jelous than God. God ordered us to be gentle, then even the enemy will be a close friend , he told us that this is not easy , it neads patience, And patience needs a support from God. So I ask god to give us patience & Guide us the straight path, Amen
Be kind and loving to your parents, especially to your Mother,your Mother, Your Mother and then to your Father. One day they will appreciate the beauty of Islam. I enjoyed watching MBC the Life of Umar on youtube as it shows how Islam transformed the lives of the Idolaters even though at first they hated to even listen to the Quran and subjected Muslims to the vilest of treatment. People are always afraid of the unknown, so try to educate your parents in a goodly manner about Islam.
I love this video! It brought me closer to my family. He has given me hope. Brother Nouman gave me reasons too believe in islam and family. He really knows how to get a message across.
To anyone scrolling comments , peace upon you brother , the situations the speaker speaks about , I too have faced in my life just as like many others , as you may find in this comment section . So you are not alone . Keep your faith only in Allah , and ask help by patience and prayer . In sha Allah everything will be okay, we have Allah by our side in sha Allah
I also became Muslim in 2008 to marry my wife, I wasn't religious before that, at all, I wasn't an atheist, I was just raised in a secular non-religious family who celebrated Christmas and Easter out of tradition. Today my wife and I are happily married, we have two year old beautiful boy. Today, I am not a muslim. I tried to become one, but I had too many questions. Today, I understand muslims and Islam much better. Today, I am not an atheist, I am a non-theist. Religion is for weak men. Sorry.
Sometimes I literally fall asleep when I listen to this man🥲i'm not saying he's boring but his words is so much full of wisdom that nail in my head and pierce through my heart
It's really good you're trying to encourage your family may Allah swt bless you for that. But yup it can be hard sometimes, especially with parents. It becomes an ego thing. When it comes to your sisters, perhaps you could recomend them to watch a talk by brother Nouman?
I love this man so much. I can never thank u enough for what u have done to me. I cried so much hearing this lecture 😢, seems like he is talking about me. but inshAllah, I will be more careful,soft and tolerant towards my relatives who constantly make fun of me.
What an inspirational video , it has really convinced me to change my ways . He is right about the bit where people say remember how you were like last year and all sorts of things. The truth is it's not too late to change.
Assalamalycom brother N Ali khan tafsir about the noble qouran in your stail is very important for us to be able to make life easy thank you and jazakullah khair jaffar
Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you Nouman sir.. it's like Allah intentionally wanted me to see this. Thanks a lot. ALLAH BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Parents take care of children when they are young and helpless and make Dhua that their children will take care of them when they are old and helpless..
You know I can relate to the intro, for real....you get laughed at by your own parents for wearing hijab or refusing to pluck your eyebrows..but Allah knows..
Also, I think if you are mentally and physically healthy male and you "believe" in God and his messenger(s)/prophet(s), I am almost certain that you yourself do not believe in God, the religion, and the messengers, but you merely interpret the "intimidating power" it can give you over your family, your chance to get a feeling that you are men, and the "control" you think you get over your women (daughter(s) and wife/wives). Once women are empowered the religions will die out.
