The way he talks to his brother is exactly the way their mom speaks to them! This just shows how much children learn from the behaviour of their parents
Absolutely, now look at kids without any sense whatsoever of morality . Generation guidance is nonexistent . Little feral animals running around preying upon anything. God help us
Yea that's why he will continue to misbehave 😂because let's talk to a screaming child very quietly 😂don't discipline them or anything right 😂white people ish
Noooooone! I’m sick of hearing people saying,” that shit don’t work I’ve tried it”. Yeah, you can’t try something when the child has already grown, I swear I’ve heard parents make lame excuses for lazy parenting 🤣🤣
@TasneemSalie_ right!! People showing their children who have never in their life known gentle parenting and then in the video don't react to it. What a suprise. Gentle parenting can do wonders, if it's done correctly, and it's seems this mom is doing an awesome job with her kids!
@@TasneemSalie_I don't know how "grown" you're talking... but you can absolutely change the way you parent at any given time. When they are older, it might take extra effort and/or more time...but anything done with consistency will usually stick.
@@lauramichelle6306 grown in my opinion, 8-9+. You’re right, at any point in time and it will definitely take more effort but why wait until the child is out of control before realising that parenting behaviour needs to take place. I was watching a video the other day on North West giving her opinion on her mother’s dress whilst the designer was in the room and he felt so disrespected, in my opinion, a child who has been raised to know when to speak and HOW to say things to be mindful of people’s feelings, would not have done that. I’ve worked with kids for a few years and it is 100% possible for them to read a room at a certain age. Even my 4 year olds could do it.
Nothing like sibling love. At 37 I had a massive stroke and fell into a coma. Through it all the two things I remember hearing are my mother's daily praying over me and my brother coming daily and getting into my tiny hospital bed in his suit and telling me bedtime stories like when we were little.
He doesn't learn empathy from parents. He learns to suppress his feelings to accommodate parents. You shouldn't be sad because mom is gone and not emotionally available. This is shit parenting.
Do you consider it a ''good job'' too exposing her kids to the world? Doing so without their consent, kids can not even give consent until they are adults, sooo.
Is it also ''well done'' when she is recording her kids and exposes them to the world, that they might not want to be a part of, kids can not give consent remember sooo.
@@starpharpvery well said, exactly this. What a pathetic mindset to have. People really think children are just their little employees or something, someone to take anger out on.
I wish I'd been gentler and softer with my little sister. If I could go back and do it again I would hug her more and tell her I love her more often. Our relationship is fine now but I regret not being kinder to her.
I'm sure there's times where this older brother does pick on his little brother that's just the nature of siblings. And if he didnt yet he will when they get a few years older. But regardless this is adorable I'm the oldest of 3 girls and my younger sister was the mean one to me, she was an instigator then run off to mom and lie that I did something to her. But when our youngest sister was born we weren't "mean" to her but we did get her to do a lot of unsafe things that led to her getting hurt. She couldn't talk yet so therefore couldn't tattle on us. We are all in our 40s now and get along just fine😂
Lo Bueno es que Están Vivas y Puedes ser todo lo Amable que Quieras Ser Con Ella Ahora. ..malo q ya se viera ido del planeta.. Mientras Hay Vida..Hay Oportunidad..!!
My husband and I don’t have any kids together yet but he has a 9 year old daughter that keeps asking us to give her siblings. I’m actually looking forward to seeing her in moments like this one day God willing.
The older brother was so good and my heart just crumbled when he gently spoke to his smaller brother, took his hand and caressed his brother and kissed him. So, so sweet and touching ❤❤
I don't know about that. The older sibling said to the younger one that their mother was gone so 'you'd better be nice'. That's not nice or 'gentle'. I would have gone and given him a big hug. I wouldn't have told the baby he 'better be nice'.
STOOOOP THAT KID IS THE BEST BIG BROTHER EVER! 😭😭😭 he not only stop his little brother from crying TWICE but also gave him kisses and made him laugh so he would feel better! Omg i love these 2 so much!!!❤
That was so incredibly sweet. Wow what a wonderful example you set for him. If only all parents could be like this, but they’re not screaming and hitting.
These kids have a wonderful mom. The way the older brother treats the younger one only shows the way he's been treated. How gentle and sweet he is makes my heart melt. Nice job mama!!!!!❤❤❤
See. The winks, the gentleness, wiping his tears, falling down to make him laugh. Sweet children. Both of you. Good job mama. They are learning by example
You have raised the oldest very well and it shows. He is a awesome BIG BROTHER & you his parent has taught him this well behavior, he didn’t get upset and yell at baby brother, handled it calmly, talked to him in a calming voice (parents have to be the same way, yelling at their kids only makes it worse and they will react the same way) talking to your child at a normal voice makes all the difference, how you act and treat your kids is how they will react, because they watch everything their parents do and they are like a sponge 🧽 they take it all in. Mom you’re doing a great job raising them and teaching them how to handle situations and big brother is an awesome big brother and handles the situation very well.
OMG I love this. It shows how emotionally intelligent he already is for his young age. Those two winks as a positive motivation like: “we got this. I promised you and here she is! I got your back.”❤❤❤ Just love everything about this!!!
Awe his big brother has such a loving nature…they watch & listen and mock their parents actions, these parents are loving..yet firm(which you have to be at times but it HAS to be balanced out with love too and it looks like these parents have it together…go you Mom & Dad!!!!!
Beautiful big brother and I loved that the mother didn't smother him and just let them figure it out on their own.. All this will serve them well in their adult life.. Well done mama.. ❤ Well done big brother and good job baby brother. 😊❤
The way she set that phone up perfectly to capture this moment shows great skill. I wonder how many moments she had to video tape before she got this one
Hudson is quite the character! He really knows how to handle River! It is obvious that he loves his baby brother and will do everything to make sure he’ll be happy.
@@alexismountford1150 Still better than those called Hunter 💀 A lot of American names are just literal words. Like Brook I would say is the female version of River
Awwwww ❤❤❤❤ the love and emotional intelligence you show them each day is being learned and they are showing it to one another! What a sweet big bro, he takes care of River so naturally
Hudson is a wonderful big brother, he's so gentle and caring for his baby brother. I love when he touches his little brother's cheek and kiss him on his head. Rivers has a wonderful big brother. Hallelujah ❤❤❤❤
Did she ignore him, or did she give the boys space to grow their relationship and foster independence? She's getting lunch ready. Did you want him next to a hot stove or to starve?
Another shining example of her parenting. I'm not going to hold you " while he cries. She proceeds to sweep a clean floor for the camera. This is also heavily edited particularly when he cries. I'm sure he cried for much longer in reality while his mother filmed instead of comforting him.
That's my impression as well. The mother isn't connecting to the child in that time. The boy is comforted by the brother and not by the mum. She punishes him with ignorance
❤☺️😇👣R U SERIOUS, this Mother is teaching the oldest to comfort the youngest, OMG, u people r so guick to judge something that is so beautifully taught by this mother, by using soothing techniques, that this sibling watched his mother interduce to him naturally, I can only imagine how u people that r so guick to reply with fake reactions just how u pushed ur children to the side & told them it was u time & really nothing got done in ur house but a lot of screaming, SHAME ON ALL OF U. 😠🤨🥹
Every generation says it but damn kids just get smarter and smarter at a younger age. I contribute it to prenatal care and good nutrition. What I see my grandchildren do at 2 years old compared to me or my children it's amazing.
I love your content. It’s wholesome, and I’ve tried some of your approaches and they WORK. It gives me peace and calms my baby boy also :) just worked through. Meal time tantrum and he is learning to not throw food. Hardly had anything on the floor this evening and many more smiles. Gosh bless you and your family
He didn't forget he was sad. He was TOLD not to cry, and not given attention for it so he gave up showing his emotions and suppressed them. That's more likely.
That's exactly what I was thinking! It's called "black pedagogy" in Germany. (People often think, this is only about hitting a child, but it's about manipulation and repression.) This child is rejected when not being "nice", in this case when being sad. That's the opposite of what's necessary when a person cries! This little boy is learning to supress his feelings. Don't know why so many comments find it sweet to watch this desaster 🙁
That may be (I dont know) but even if it is the case, we all have to learn to supress our emotions sometimes. As adults we suppress our emotions quite a bit because its just not socially acceptable (or apppropriate to cry in certain situations, eg at work or in other public places)
Kids emulate their parents, down to the wink. If you teach them communication, understanding, awareness and confidence, you get this. So sweet. Props to the parents❤
Okay but why does this child associate crying with not "being nice"? I think we should stop teaching our kids that "being nice" means they have to behave the way we want them to, otherwise they're not nice
She had to go take care of something around the house, or perhaps one of her other 4 kids???🤔 We would all love if there were endless hours in a day, that we could hold our children whenever they/we want, but sometimes that isn’t always possible. So self soothing is something we ALL must learn to do, and these kiddos are learning a valuable skill, at an early age. She never left him to cry it out, she left him with a beloved family member to comfort and accompany him. If only we all had endless time, or helpful family members.
@@chaoselemental6759 I meant no offense. I heard her say it in another video too so I was wondering if it was a parenting thing. She's obviously a wonderful mother.
Mom of the century. THIS is a result of gentle parenting. It's not never saying no, it's explaining in a way a child can understand. Don't talk down to them, just talk at their level. The toddler understands because it's all he's ever known. They are going to be amazing adults.
Don't cry? Mom is gone ? Does this mean that mom will be back only when he becomes nice ? What if he doesn't? Mom will not come back, she will not be next to him and calm him ?
You always seem more bothered about your cleaning, why have so many children if the cleaning is so important to you. It’s meant to be a home not a show home, I’m surprised the kids feel like they can do anything in there.
