Lessons learned in 17 years of marriage: 1. I don't have a Simon - Martina has a David. :) 2. Don't depend on the other person to make you happy. Instead, do your best to put each other first and focus on making life a little easier for your partner. 3. Never, ever assume that any action is done maliciously. Anytime you get frustrated or angry at your partner, remember that they are, in fact, your PARTNER. Your teammate. Teammates don't sabotage each other, so in all likelihood your partner wasn't *trying* to make you mad. Take the time to clarify their words, or figure out the reasoning behind their actions. It might still annoy you but at least you'll know it's not intentional. :D 4. Sometimes the problem is you. Being in a healthy relationship takes a lot of self-reflection and more than a little humility, and it's totally possible that you are the one who is wrong in an argument. Be able to admit it.
It's also so cool to make that journey of self development with somebody else and really get to know someone else. My husband and I are 5 years in, and sometimes it blows my mind how deeply we are getting to understand each other.
Wait they broke up??! 😯 (I don’t consistently keep up with most channels and only circle back once in a while, I didn’t even realize how old this video was until I saw this comment >_< )
Ooohhh a new angle nice! Hmm only thing I’d say is that is that it’s strange that it’s not centered and Martina seems farther away but that’s if I’m being picky otherwise i like it!
simonandmartinabonus I think I like you guys looking at each other more (but not by much) I think this is good because it makes it feel like you’re having a conversation with us 😁
This goes to show, for anyone picking this up now, their relationship, no matter how it manifests, is work, and they're working rn. Let them work in private, please. In the meantime, we can put in the work too, on our own mental health and our own relationships, with ourselves and others.
Wow... Quite telling... They have rings on in this video and now they don't. It does make you pause about marrying a friend. Hits a bit close to home at the moment...
I just bought shower caps. But oh no!!! I have no idea what to do with them!!! If only there was someone with great gray and pink hair who could assist me in my problem!
My sister and I would often get into the 'I want a Simon' discussion and came out with the idea of: if i want to be with someone as cool as Simon I have to work my things so I can be as cool as Martina, and as you say it's a process you have to do on your own, and can lado be done alongside someone else.
And I think it's also important to remember that people can change. We all made mistakes in the past, we probably all had some sort of mindset that wasn't right. But we can all learn and move on. I mention this because "cancel" culture is really big right now, and I think it's reached a level where things are becoming unreasonable.
I’m sitting here watching your hands...you may say you’re not soul mates, but the story your hands are telling says something different. The natural subconscious movements of your hands constantly touching in such a loving genuine manner speaks volumes about where your hearts are!
@@EatyourkimchiBonus So thanks for the hair dye tip. And not only do I use a shower cap, I wear my kitty handband under it to keep the flyways tucked in. Otherwise my hair would be completely frizzy. :)
To everyone here saying "these two were goals" or "if they broke up, then I'm scared for my own relationship": Their relationship isn't yours, and there is nothing that says YOUR relationship is doomed because THEIR marriage ended. Sometimes things don't work out, and it's okay.
Yeeeeees! I once heard a relationship coach dispute the idea of soul mates. She said we actually don't necessarily need to have soul mates. As long as we have the relationship skills to keep the relationship going, you could make any [healthy] relationship work.
Thank you for talking about relationships and how "soul mates" are a unrealistic and toxic idea glamorized in the media. I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 years and it almost feels offensive that people think we are soul mates. We have gone through so much together, we understand and love each other but it was a process. We find that people say we're "lucky" because we found each other and don't have to put in work in our relationship like everyone else. I see it in a lot of my friends that break up with people or get mad over the smallest things and aren't willing to sit down and talk about their issues and come to a conclusion. Im not saying stay with someone no matter what and live unhappily. But it just seems people dont come to a common ground and just break up because they think their soul mate would just automatically understand them. Which is just not true.
I would say they still have love or at least a care for each other, they grew together, but they've grown apart, and until there's evidence to the contrary I refuse to think there was ever any kind of animosity behind their separation
@@gro_skunk i kind of hate speculating, but there is a small amount of animosity from what i can tell. not sure about simon to martina, but definitely martina to simon, and i don't think it's unwarranted either - martina has not-so-subtly hinted that she was in a narcissistic relationship and simon seems to have changed drastically, while martina seems to still be the same martina we've loved for years. i have to be honest, i don't really support simon anymore. i want to, so so bad, but i've tried my hardest and no matter how hard i try i can't help but only support martina even though i used to love them both. it breaks my heart tbh
Love this podcast's theme. People think that a happy, healthy relationship should be perfect and agree in everything when it actually involves a lot of work, acceptance, patience and effort. You two are amazing.
@@nicolenova8528 i wonder this too, from this video it sound like Martina might have been the one. Seems like simon really loved her and was willing to be with her because of the type of guy he is, she even said she pushed him away before because of her illness. When the pandemic hit it seems like it got worse. Thats my guess. I could be wrong.
@@nicolenova8528 Martina has posted some stuff in her insta-stories about healing from Narcissistic abuse. I migth be connecting dots that shouldnt be connected, but i would think that this was directed to Simon. And as someone that has dealt with a narcissist, i am very happy that she got out if that is the case!
I think what they say in this video is important, even more so for those coming here after the Instagram post. Humans are not perfect and we can't expect anything to last forever. We should all learn to put ourselves in other people's shoes. Relationships, romantic or not, always need communication to work. Do not see their relationship ending as a failure, they literally spend 15 years together and that is more than most people ever get to experience. Hope that in the long run, these are just fond memories for them and they can look back to see just how much they have grown. I hope you guys find happiness in whatever life bring next.
I've learned a lot about relationships watching you guys over the years. And my current view of relationships is a lot like that teamwork idea you mentioned at the end. Like many my parents aren't together and while their relationship taught me what NOT to do, yours taught me what I SHOULD do. So thanks for showing me the real, HUMAN way to have a successful relationship/marriage ^^
even when discussing something very serious and interesting, Martina is Way Too Cute Re-Pinking her hair ends, my partner and I have been together 19+ years, (20 in December), we've grow together, complete and total trust, we snap at each other, we understand why we snap, that's the most important thing, Understanding means talking. LOTS of Talking
This video is amazing. My significant other and I have been going through a rough patch. We've been working together, communicating, and generally fixing the little insecurities and problems that have been popping up. It's been a rough ride lately but we're trying. I really connect with this video though and I'll be sharing the video with my significant other.
I’ll never forget when you guys said to treat your relationship like your career. Once I heard that, it’s been my marriage mantra for all these years! Thanks for keeping it real always! :3
I don't know what happened, but the Simon we see now is just so different compared to the one we see here. His energy is just so alive in this video and he still has that spark. It's tough watching videos of him after they split because they seem like two completely different people. I'm sure so many things happened off camera, but maybe one day they'll be able to reconcile and be civil again. It must be so tough splitting up with someone who'd been your life partner for so many years-- especially with Martina's health problems, their many cross-continent moves and going through animal parenthood with their pets. I just wish both of them love and health in the future. Watching this video makes me very sad but hopefully, things look up for both of them. 💜
I couldn't disagree more. I've always found something off about their relationship, while Simon can sometimes be a bit big headed and over confident, I've always found Martina to be selfish and domineering. Pay attention to the videos that include both of them, you'll rarely find 30 seconds of footage in which Martina isn't talking over, interrupting, correcting or scalding Simon. It's constant. A decade of this would drive even a saint to distraction. Personally, I think Simon was unhappy, anxious, confused, and stressed back then, constantly making consessions to keep Martina happy, never ever daring to think about himself for fear of upsetting her. Baisically walking on egg shells constantly. Even in this video, they talk about consessesion 'each of them made', which baisically boiled down to Martina would still do what she wanted and force Simon to join in, and Simon just has to suck it up and not be so grumpy and 'selfish' about it. That Martina is allowed to buy dresses but Simon isn't allowed to have a PS5 without an argument. Now days, I think he seems calmer, more relaxed and more realistically confident. He can finally breathe.
@@pegleg2959 That's because Simon doesn't like being on camera, so she leads. And while I'm not saying either is mostly at fault, that particular detail you mention in videos is misguided and misinformed. The dynamic is the way it is on camera because Simon just doesn't enjoy it. He has said this many times, which is why she usually led the videos. As for the scolding and such, a lot of that was playful banter for the camera. Don't forget, both are performing for us.
@@pegleg2959 That's highly projecting of you. Not to say that either of them are faultless people, and that doesn't exist anyway.. Personally my read from the outside is the most inconvenient truth of the situation- and the reason it isn't mentioned and why it is inconvenient truth is because it doesn't do any good to dwell on it.. and yet that doesn't mean it's not the truth: That like she says here, Martina's EDS created a lot of guilt for her to push Simon away, Simon had the goal of doing what he saw as "the right thing" in sticking it out, this over years creates a spiral of negative emotion which eventually devolves both their state of mind to somewhere where there aren't any answers left anymore other than to separate. Sometimes life sucks, but like I said you shouldn't dwell on it- which is why people circle around and ignore it, and why there are all kinds of weird speculation surrounds this stuff- because it's a catch-22 of having a truth that shouldn't be dwelled on, yet when you don't call it what it is the other answers you come up with are all false.
@@pegleg2959Well said. And the funny thing is Martina is the one accusing Simon of being a covert narcissist. Simon was definitely suffering in this relationship because he was the one in love. And now he is very confused & disillusioned.
@@bparker3670 that's something narcissists tend to do, they'll shift and project onto the other person, accusing them of being the narcissist. These other people saying that their relationship was perfect, that Martina was perfect, and basically that Simon is just completely evil and illogical, they're just being ridiculous. Anyone with any social skills at all can pick up on these very obvious ques in their relationship. Honestly, in my opinion, both Martina and Simon seem like they'd be incredibly tiring to be in a relationship with.
So many people asking why RU-vid recommended this now, but actually...I feel like it’s the best time to watch it. Sometimes we forget all of the work that goes into a relationship that we admire, including theirs, and this was a perfect reminder of what work goes in off camera. Thank you both for this very respectful and insightful talk about communication. Whether those conversations bring you together or apart, they’re essential to have. I appreciate you sharing your wisdom.
@@faunivore9485 Either way, that statement will never come true now. I was just saying that statement made me sad, but I didn't say Simon was the one who initiated the divorce...
This is so neat seeing the podcast, Ive been so used to listening and hitting that harmony with Martina when saying "Kichijoji~" while on my way to work.
If your relationship is indeed over or in the process of being over, I just want you both to know that I return to this video to remind me when times are tough. I hope that whatever happens you don’t remove this video or your others. I hope you both are well, either together or apart 💖
I had this done in 2017. The procedure is simple and you will feel loads better afterwards! Also, post op tip- if you don't absolutely need the painkillers, stop taking them as soon as you can and get rid of the remaining pills.
I may know nothing about you or your situation, but I can tell you that if you have to have a legitimate surgery cholecystectomy (gallbladder) removal is very common and much less complicated that many other procedures. Chances are your team will be very experienced and your recovery will go smoothly! Both my husband and myself had our gallbladders removed (poor dietary choices ftw)! I'm an RN. I ended up in the ER at 2 AM in agonizing pain with unknown cause after almost 2 days inability to sleep. The hospital diagnosed it right quick. As soon as they verified the problem and suggested surgery, I was "Yes, immediately please!" The thing about the gallbladder is that if you don't do the surgical option then the underlying infection/blockage issues that cause such immense pain will just keep occurring over and over again. Yes, I do have some surface sensitivity from the scar tissue above one of the laparoscopic sites which makes bras really uncomfortable sometimes, but I'm also never awakened in the middle of the night in horrible pain either. You have to weigh the risks versus the benefits for the rest of your life.
I was scared to have mine removed and I put it off for about a year but stones kept getting stuck and when I finally caved and got the surgery it was such a non-ordeal like, it went so smoothly, anesthesia no problem woke up and didn't have to fear excruciating pain each time I ate. Best wishes to you in your own procedure!
Why is this being recommended now?! To ease my curiosity. Regardless of the situation, I will still support you both and genuinely hope you are both well!
Simon seemed so alive back then...now he just tries to calm whatever it is eating him on the inside...and is eating everything else that he eats on the outside.
@@sharingon47447 He was always soft spoken. But that is nothing even remotely like how he is right now in this video. He is talking like he is on drugs and brainwashed in a cult.
OMG Martina when you were talking about denial with your Dad and lashing out. I feel that so hard! I was in denial about my Mom's cancer and I lashed out and have been mean to My Andrew. I have acted out in anxiety situations that embarrassed him...and he could have left...he could have walked away but he didn't. He is strong and amazing and he makes me better and we make each other better.....oh also I had a dream you all came here and we took you all to an amazing cafe we love called the Nikau Cave and Cafe here in New Zealand...that would be pretty cool. lol
You guys have been my modle for a healthy relationships not only because you both shower each other in affection, but becuase you both willing to work things out with each other, which something that really touched me because I haven't seen people in my personal life who aren't as open about trying to work things out. You two direclty adressing that a relationship is something you constantly build and is about talking out differing thoughts has helped me try to do the same for my family, friends and others. I did short prompt for schools about who your role model is, and i chose you guys becuase you both encourage me to be a more comunicative and better person. Never stop being so amazing and sharing your thoughts
Watching this now makes me wanna cry cause back then I saw them as a forever couple but life goes on and people change. I wish them the best in whatever they decide to do in life.
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Idk why this was recommended to me... But it is quite eerie... I hope you two live wonderful and healthy lives. I hope you guys still make videos even if separate. If not, it was a good run. Thank you both.
This video makes it even harder to accept and makes you really wonder what could have happened that could have made such a grounded and committed couple decide to just walk away after all those years of hard work... Simon got it right, that loving Martina is what made him happy the most ❤️ I hope the time apart would bring them to the realization that what they had together is too precious to let go and find a way to be together again💔
Don't project your fantasies on real people. What happened? Life happened. People grow apart, there's no reason, nothing to realize, people fall out of love as fast as they fall in love. Is not a mystery, it doesn't go back. People are happy, but those memories they take them to their next relationship. They learn from the old mistakes and move on. It is called being an adult.
I need to say it! I watch your videos and always think "how can I be like martina" I have a simon.. My husband is so caring and understanding but unfurtunately I do suffer from anxiety and depression and other issues... Anyway. Martina is an example for me, I have learned a lot from your relationship on how I can meet him half way and how I can communicate in a way that I don't push him away. Thank you Martina
and keep in mind they've both had a pretty rough past couple of years with the death of Martina's dad and a loved dog. Then pop on top of that the seemingly break down of the world and their life in Japan, resulting in moving back to Canada during a pandemic. We only saw the best parts of their relationship and never saw it tested. Then it was tested so hard it broke. Maybe they both just changed too much in separate directions.
I really enjoy this format. I really like to play your videos as I do chores, and being able to listen to the conversation where the topic doesn't revolve around something visual is very helpful.
So glad you guys are talking about this. It's sooo important. I don't mind when people say "couple goals!" about others, or about us, as long as they realise that the goals should be working hard on a relationship, not just finding someone who magically fits you. Marriage is hard work. It's not about finding a soul mate... I don't believe in soul mates, I believe we make a choice every single day in our marriage to love, it's not some predestined fate. The hardest year of mine and Hugh's marriage was last year- first year of having a baby haha... cliche but it's true for us. We've been meaning to talk about it in a video so that people can have a realistic look at marriage, what it's really like. Marriage is so much hard work, but is also so rewarding. We've grown so much as people and as a couple, cultural differences don't just disappear but we have much better skills to deal with them now. Also from the beginning of our marriage we talked about gender inequality, sexism, privilege, prejudice, politics, we had big conversations. We have an ongoing conversation about how, especially when there is now a baby, the world is unfortunately set up to make it easier for men. So what can we do to try and help that gender inequality? How can we both be raising our son equally? Rather than defaulting to everything just falling to me as the wife and mother. I recommend couples to talk about this stuff from the beginning... not leaving it until there is a baby and you are sleep deprived and your husband has never even considered how difficult it for women. Lots of people find themselves in that position unfortunately, but I'm thankful that Hugh and I have a relationship where we talked about big things early, and still we have big conversations about the future and everything. Even last night we stayed up way later than we should have, but it was an important conversation to have about the future. I think Hugh has told you already, but Simon has definitely inspired Hugh to be a better husband too.
This was great guys. I'll admit I cried, but that's because this was good stuff. Got me to think. As someone who has watched for many years, I'm so proud of you guys and who you are and are becoming. Sending all the love 🖤
this convo honestly had such a profound effect on me, just a lil 20 year old who doesn’t know much about romance at all. “we’re not soulmates, but we try and change because we want to be,” was rlly a moment of clarity
I remember the first time I watched this I was eagerly taking notes and trying to figure out things I could do to make my marriage peaceful. Now I'm sitting here going through a divorce. I just want to remind everyone listening that there are no amount of concessions you can make that will make someone stop abusing you. There is no way to make a marriage work if both people aren't committed to making the marriage better. I think this advice is great, but just be honest with yourself about the relationship you are in and get out immediately if you find it is unhealthy. ❤
Some people might view your opinion as negative. but what you described is what a soulmate is I think. I'm looking for someone who not only likes who i am now, but will grow along side me. Great topic for a podcast keep up the awesome work!
I’ve been with my HS sweetheart for 11 years and it’s amazing. But I thought their relationship was so strong and unbreakable that it honestly scares me. No one is impervious to heart break I guess...
That's true. But it doesn't mean it was a waste of time though. So many people go through life being scared to love cause they saw the heart ache that others go through. So don't be sad for them. They had a loving moment.But for the time being, be happy for yourself. Cause being together for 11 years is a big deal.
There's a piece of relationship advice that this episode reminds me of: Picture your ideal mate, very specifically, what attributes do they have, etc. Now become that person yourself!
I hope you both feel the love and support from your viewers. We may not know you personally, but we appreciate you both for all that you've shared and continue to share with us.
I've been learning so much from you. I've been watching you for at least 6 years. Since then I went through a long relationship and started a new one a year ago. You showed me what's important in a relationship. Happiness isn't a normal/standard thing, there's NOBODY in this entire universe who has no flaws. So if you want to be happy, work for it and there is a reason a parter's called a partner. You have to work day by day together. Accept failures, hold your partner's hand when she/he is going through difficult times, laugh a lot together, talk about your feelings and don't expect your partner to do everything for you, you have to do just as much for him/her yourself.
Bumping into this after Simon’s recent video. They used to be my favs back in the day, this breaks my heart that their fighting and being so cruel to one another.
Thank you so much for creating this video. I've been doubting myself and my relationship for ages. There were so many ups and so many downs. I found myself focusing so much on the lows, and obsessing over them that I refused to acknowledge the things my partner has done for me. It's amazing to hear that relationships are never always sunshine and rainbows---that issues are inevitable and must be actively resolved by both partners. Your podcast has helped me remain positive and continues to convince me to be a better version of myself to everyone around me. The timing of your videos are impeccable and so relevant. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. It doesn't go unnoticed. Keep up the great work!
I literally starting tearing up at that part and yelled LIAR in my head after he said he would never leave her. 💔 My heart is broken all over again for them!!! 😭
I needed this wonderful distraction. I just want you both to know how much you help me when the world is too much. The warmth you share with us really means the world to me. So thank you!
I love Simon & Martina a lot, and it's painful to see them go through this. :( That said, I think there's 1 of 3 possibilities. 1. Similar to Jenna Marbles, Simon is taking a semi-hiatus from his internet presence. The situation may be different, but if this is the case, it 100% makes sense why he hasn't appeared in more than two or three videos over the last several months,and in his latest "update" video he made, which to be fair, he mentioned that he experienced a few big traumas, which combined with COVID-19 stuff, would seem to be enough to make him want to take sabbatical from social media. 2. Simon & Martina have decided that they have dominated each other's lives far too much, and while it may sometimes work out in non-individualist cultures, perhaps coming back to Canada and being literally stuck together 24/7 made them realize just how little independence they had from one another, so they're just experimenting by living more separate, independent lives for now. 3. They are doing a trial separation, possibly still living together, but giving space and being non-judgemental. They aren't certain about it yet, but even psychologists and counselors recommend that a struggling couple NEVER just outright divorce after some arguments and fights. If the desire to separate remains after a set period of time, they may go ahead and do it. Whatever the case may be, there's definitely something going on, as they haven't been in the same video for several months now, which is the most telling piece. So it's either 1. Simon's checking out of the internet more or less for mental health (which he sort of claimed recently). 2. Their relationship is struggling and either they are practicing being independent from one another, or 3. This is indeed a trial semi-separation.
TMI: When I first started watching you guys years ago I was in a long term relationship, and I enjoyed seeing another couple interact like how me and my boyfriend did. It gave me a lot of hope. The last year and half since the breakup have been hard. I don't believe in soulmates, but I think some corner of me believed we were, after everything; we survived my suicidal years, his year working on the other side of Canada, parental crises. But when my depression turned numb instead of emotional, everything fell apart. I think that unconscious soulmate belief really messed me up. A couple days ago I found myself smiling wistfully as I watched one of your videos, a little in pain thinking about my dreams of travelling with someone understanding by my side, and that I've put to bed. I still love love, but just don't have a real belief that I'd find someone with that balance of loving me as I am and understanding that we'll become new people together. When people think of you guys as the ideal, I wonder if they see a unit, or two separate people. When you said, "We created each other, for each other," that really sums up so much. What we're seeing is the product of a relationship - but also the product of two people - after over ten years of work; something forged, not just come together. I think what I'm trying to say is, thank you. Thank you for reminding me that relationships are a process of mutual growing together and being on each other's team. I think in the scramble of forming my own identity again, I forgot that.
I found your channel a few years ago and since then I've found myself changing the way I treat people. I love how conscious of other people's feelings and need you are and that's what I'm striving for. Thank you for keeping me on a path of self care, growth, and positive mental attitude.
Obligatory not done with the video yet, but I just had to comment about how much Simon responds (all those smol "yeah"s "mhm"s & "yes"s lol) while Martina is talking. Like, I'm the same exact way, but the way Simon does it I just found so adorable ♥
My boyfriend and i have been going through issues where my insecurities are pushing him away, and ive been becoming relentlessly depressed because of that and other situations in my life that im unhappy with. We just got done having a long talk about our relationship again after 2 years of being together, and i sometimes feel it will never get better..even tho i see he is trying and he loves me. Hes very patient with me and works with me, but im so hard headed and full of self pity...I want to change myself but its difficult, i feel guilty that he is with me, someone who is so depressed, but i know thats not who i really am...this video was so unexpected that i teared up while listening to you guys talk about your problems and how you managed and have grown to be an inspiration of what a relationship can be. I related so much....thank you for being an outlet for me to see it is possible to grow and realize that happiness is right in front of me.
Asako I totally get this! I fall hard and fast and my questions and worries kinda pushed my bf of almost 3 months away, we are taking a break to work on ourselves and hopefully come back together stronger. And it doesn’t help that we are long distance..
I’m in a new relationship and this is actually very helpful. The “soulmates” ideology has really done a number on my subconscious, and I catch myself thinking things are compatible things when they are actually “work at it together “ things. Thanks for modeling healthy couple growth and communication.
This just warmed my heart! I've always been one of those people who wanted to find someone like Simon, to have a relationship like you guys. I almost put you guys up on a pedestal. This and other videos where you come across as normal people with good days and not so good days have helped me so much and I just wanted to tell you guys. You're the best!
I'm so so so happy that you talk about growing together and trying to work as a team! So many people seem to have an issue with immediately getting defensive rather than listening and trying to understand where someone might be coming from and it only hinders, both romantic and platonic, relationships I'm now in the best relationship I've ever been in because they're the first person to work with me rather than against me whenever I would bring up things I felt needed adjusting, and equally they will tell me if I'm lacking somewhere too (also the first to fully accept my disability and help me on my high pain days vs leave me to suffer by myself)! This has meant we actually almost never bicker anymore, we find out what is wrong and try and fix it in a calm way asap, which means we both feel far more emotionally secure (obviously we worked towards this!). You guys are such a huge inspiration, I'm always excited for your videos. Keep it going! 💖
in therapy we untangle all these miscommunications and friction that occurs during our relationship, but that has roots in our childhoods.when uncovered , it tends to inspire more empathy. we are married 36 years, but live in separate houses. Lots of work, hard work.
That’s very unusual, is the living in separate houses solely for the health of your relationship? My aunt and uncle live in different cities but that’s because of work, they don’t want to live that way
I love this. I don't believe in soul mates, I believe that you choose your person. Every day, I choose to love my husband at 100% and he chooses that for me. Sometimes we're good at it, sometimes not, but he's still my person I chose 💖
Yeah! Love the new angle ... feels like a conversation 😁 have lost a few loves ... because they won’t try, now I don’t actively look because I may miss the rough sparkly that could be my love 💜☯️✨ MUST HAVE SHOWER CAP USAGE VIDEO 🤨
Thank you for being fantastic role models and explaining this. Also, the fact that you're going through a tough relationship time rn adds an extra beautiful layer of real-life lessons to this video. Also, shout out to the algorithm. I'm impressed that this is ironically being recommended .... crazy coincidence?
As much as I love & miss your Eat Your Sushi Episodes (love to binge them when I needed something happy to keep me studying 🤓), I’m really warming up to these new thoughtful “monologues”/podcasts videos! (This one was especially awesome; it’s so nice to hear the genuine journey of a #relationshipgoals couple 💞 Thank you for being so open!)
im so sad listening about this now. how loving you two were and supportive of each other. alas things change and life goes on. i hope you two are both happy with your choices
