He did but it is independence that she moved in with her bf. Its just like having a roomate I agree though if they are saying its better to get your own
Brooklyn independency isn’t moving out & moving in with your boyfriend😂 it’s knowing how to properly care for yourself, paying your bills on time, knowing how to file taxes, building credit & more. I promise you being 18 isn’t what you think it is! I was so excited to be 18 I’m almost 20 & I swear I wish I could go back to being 14 this adulting shit is HARD & will make you realize how much you need your mom & how your mom was never being “toxic” & that she was just being a mother💯 I wanted to move out & be on my own so bad when I was 18 & when that time came I came to my senses and was like I can’t do this shit on my own as much as I complain about my mom I NEED her. Like I said I’m almost 20 & my mom still does everything for me! Hell I just started paying my own phone bill this week. I’m still learning independency while living under my moms roof.
@@trill2718 she wants to grow up so fast but doesn’t realize the obstacles that come with it. Everything her dad is saying is going right over her head.
that whole conversation went over your head. Im only 20 and completely agree with everything he's saying I still ask my mom for her input with a lot of things in my life. Being independent is not easy and its definitely not living with your bf.
Exactly and talking about being independent but you can’t even do the things you need to do when you alone like washing the dishes and walking your dog like 😂
She’s still young only 17 thinking it’s easy I understand she has the financially means to do it but she still needs to grow up she wants to run away from her problems
Like seriously fr she needs to focus on herself period . Her and Justin were just friends and stuff moving slow and it was moving too fast to say they just got back together now he got his own place and she rushing
Girl I understand what you mean ! I use to wish the same thing but after my dad denied me it pushed me into the arms of God even more But God is the father that wisdom is sharper than a two edge sword ! Anything you need to know is there ! His love ! He even sends the holyspirit to consume us and comfort us and guide us
Girl listen to your dad he’s not telling you anything wrong. A lot of younger young ladies need this type of guidance. Don’t move to fast in life because it’ll hit you quick once you become grown with lots of responsibilities
Facts but in her head she not but if she really analyze what she say Out her mouth is basically the same thing that her mother did but in her mind in her eyes either she in denial or she don’t think so which is weird how can you hear yourself talk but not really understanding what you’re saying 🤦♀️
She barely let him talk… it’s almost like she has her mind made up and no matter how much advice you give Brooklyn she’s going to do what she wants no matter what. This video shows the maturity level she has
Listen at some point she going to still do what she want because most of y’all folks don’t understand that parents don’t live forever & she going to be exposed to things all the time even if she was single. If she stay under her mom roof she will be depressed & damaged. Her family judge & pretend way to much. If she do wrong she know how to handle it. Let her be happy & her brother even said the same thing. Quit dragging. This is skits with acting. She ain’t like her mom so stop thinking that. What her mom did at a young age isn’t Brooklyn life at all. Most of y’all old heads need to stop thinking negative frfr. She going to date know matter what.
Brooklyn your Dad is 100% right. Your independency will come but continue to purse your life goals. Your Dad is trying to tell you something and most of the followers of the channel probably caught what he is saying.The advise I can give you is to stay home . Dont rush just take everything one thing at a time . Best wishes 🤗❤️
@MansaMusa Parents who love their kids will never stop giving advise and never stop giving support. Im an adult and if you are not a parent it is pointless to make you understand. Have a good night.
@@martyegan1331 right?! Like wtf I think Justin gonna bby her cuz that’s his girlfriend n he feels like that’s the manly thing to do is pay the bills. But in reality she needs to be paying if she’s just moving from her mom to learn how it is being a adult
This whole conversation went over her head... He just told her your mom moved out with mw around the same age .. she belonged to me and basically said look how it didn't work out.. they got married n everything but in the end now they got 2 whole different families live in different states and never saw that coming she need to open her eyes... even at 18 you're still a kid
So she has to live in fear bc of their mistakes? There’s a difference from a warning and telling you the possibilities vs trying to control. If she wants to make that decision it’s hers to make. Tell her about your experience and how thing’s turned out for you and let her make her decision based on that. 18 isn’t a child just like 17 isn’t . Young doesn’t equal dumb and incapable. Learning from others mistakes doesn’t mean your not gunna make your own.
Yea at the end of the conversation, she still talking about moving with Justin and them just living together! She don't plan on getting her own shit! She just worried bout Justin, and making him happy and making sure he doesn't Cheat!
“Mom said she moved out at 17, that’s fine” “Don’t let history repeat itself”. BROOKLYN GIRLLL. Ur dad is really talking to youuu. He’s telling you what your MOM should’ve been told you. That is REALITY. It doesn’t matter how good of a guy justin is. Your dad was a good guy too. that’s probably what ur mom told her parents too. Girl wake up and smell the fresh air
Girl you asked Justin to move in … stop saying he asked you 🤣😂 being independent is handling your dog without your mom telling you too .. you can’t even do that but wanna be grown 😅
the way she talks and treats her mom be making me wants to cry so times she has the sweetest mom ever that anyone could ask for and I really feels where her mom be coming from when she talks about her stressing out then she just had bali a few months ago like god a slow you down so she want move so fast and when she move fast she gone wish she never did
She still has a childish mentality so you can’t tell her nothing in her mind. She thinks she’s grown but walks around with black dirt on the bottom of her feet like she’s six... lol
Idk why she think 18 means u grown 18 to me means you are still a teenager. 21 is when u grown. But see mo let's Brooklyn be the parent . Man aint no way in America a black woman gone let her daughter be that way. Hell naw
YOU CAN BE 40 YOU STILL NOT GROWN, GETTING OLD IS AN OBLIGATION BUT GROWN UP IS A CHOICE, AND YOU ARE CORRECT 18 DOES NOT MAKE U GROWN BUT U CAN BE 16 AND YOU ALREADY GROWN AND MATURE, IT DEPNDS ON A LOT OF THINGS
Damn this one deep. Break the generational curse Brooklyn. Don’t do what your moms did. 😭 You got way more than she did at 17! Wish the best for all of y’all 🤟🏽
Now before Justin got his first place, she didn't think it was toxic and drama at her moms house. Now that Justin has his own place, now out the blue it's toxic and drama. That's just an excuse for her to go move in with a boy at 17
Brooklyn’s dad is really speaking facts and honestly I wish she takes his advice. Hope Justin would be on board with this too, that would encourage her to set up things for herself etc.🙌🏽❤️🔥
Her dad speaking facts and she not listening or understanding it all the way because she’s so focus on her relationship🤦🏽♀️then again she thinks she can do whatever she wants because she has her own money and don’t need her parents money wise but that doesn’t mean not take the advice because u think they don’t understand where u coming from💯
She will be pregnant before 18 if not a lil after, cuz Justin life style is different he lived a different life style. And two ppl living together especially two young ppl. U cannot tell me nothing is gona end up happening aint no way lol
@@lifeasmarijanae usually when folks get a lil money their parents let them do what they want, if Brooklyn didn't have money if none of them had this yt money, Brooklyn would have strict parents
i’m 20 and moved out my mom house to live with my boyfriend. she absolutely didn’t want me to go but i still went.. living with a boyfriend is not easy. we had a amazing relationship before we moved in, now we argue more because you’re seeing the same person every day and have to get use to their lifestyle. i regret it honestly.. that didn’t teach me independence because i’m still relying on him to pay his portion of the bills. it’s not all fun and i think that’s what she’s not understanding. especially trying to live with a bf at 17…
This the one right here. I was in the same situation . When our lease was up we separated got out own separate homes and now things or back where it should have been to begin with.
"Don't let history repeat itself" hit hard. Mo doesn't want you to make the same mistakes she did and yes you aren't her but u can do the same thing she did and that is what your dad is talking about. Focusing on yourself first , on you justin got his own thing, there is nothing wrong with getting your own apartment and visiting justin. It's the best option if anything happens you got ur space and he got his. Listen to your dad he speaking facts
Its because people in this world don’t take you seriously, or actually value what you have to say unless your grown. People love to treat kids like they are dumb and constantly just tell them to be quiet. That is very unfair. Intelligence has nothing to do with age. There are dumb old people, and smart young people. Let people’s actions speak for themselves not their age.
you wanna grow up so bad. you literally just turned 17 not to long ago slow down enjoy 17 cause you’ll never be 17 again. 18 ain’t no big deal at all !!!! you gone regret not enjoying being a kid/teenager
@@rissa__love3644 i’m saying she lucky her mama being nice and ain’t called the police or anything on her yet since she’s still very much a minor lol. and she lucky Justin letting her stay😂😂 with her not being on the lease he could get kicked out for that.she not thinking bout nobody but herself.
Yea I love Brooklyn but she’s not making sense of this and just trying to find a reason for herself to be mad at her mom and an excuse to move out. That’s crazy. I guess I see past what she’s saying because I’m an adult and have a daughter her age. Brooklyn you might have some regrets behind this. My thing is don’t rush it. Keep building your brand, stacking your money and living life as easy as possible. Just because your mom did something around the same age doesn’t mean it’s meant for you to do it. Chose your own path, not someone else path. Let me stop here. May God continue to watch over you and your family and may you be bless beyond measures…
@MansaMusa she might not need my advice, but ain’t this a public video. 🤔 Just like you I’m subscribed to her page so therefore I can comment what I want lil person. I didn’t say she had to take it but I’m definitely giving it. I don’t get you, why would you want her to bump her head instead of someone that has been through it or someone that knows better can actually stop her from bumping her head, smh. Guess you need a lil advice too. Anywho moving on.
I remember having You’re mentality Brooklyn and it’s understandable because you’re 17 about to be 18. At some point in my life I used to think that I had certain things figured out and I knew what I wanted to do but when you are young you don’t really know what you wanna do you just kind of live your life and figure it out as you go. Having a sense of autonomy a sense of self has nothing to do with moving out of your moms house or with a boyfriend in reality it’s about taking care of the things you need to for YOURSELF. When I was Brooklyn’s age I used to think my mom was just complaining about everything and that she never completely understood what I felt but really it was just my mom being a parent and once I got older I started to realize that everything she was telling me was to help me out when I’m going to be on my own. I’m on my own now and when I tell you how difficult it is …GURL please stay young and take the knowledge and help your parents give to you because nothing good comes from rushing into things or dragging your feet either it’s about balance and things happening on gods time .parents don’t do everything right some times their lessons so you know what no to do but they know something’s that you for sure don’t know 🤦🏾♀️but you’ll eventually learn as a young adult .
@@rolandaviltz9573 I’m sorry 😢 stay strong keep your head up stay positive keep his name alive and read some encouraging Bible verses I promise they help 😕
Exactly like if she was planning on moving out then why have your mom, Mike and etc Buy you stuff for your room if you moving out in 7 months literally. I know this is entertainment at this point 😂
i'm pretty sure she understands NOW that she's spoke with her dad. SHES YOUNG and has never claimed to know it all. stop tryna pass judgment. she needed this and she will learn from it y'all gotta chill tf out
Moving away from your parents will most definitely force you into independency. There’s really no choice but to learn how to do it all for yourself. At the end of the day it’s your choice so you’re going to what you want to do. It’s a blessing to have parents willing and able to care for you as you transition into adulthood. It’s important to be whole when you leave the nest, when it’s possible of course. Most of us aren’t. Hell I’m still figuring it out (I’m 30). Take heed to that advice from your pops, he spoke A LOT of facts. Stay grounded. And most of all stay focused! Edit: Even if it’s for entertainment purposes, there’s a lot to learn in this comment section☺️
Her dad was speaking fast but everyone has different maturity levels. Most girls don’t even drive or own an apartment due to finical issues maybe Brooknly is finically stable and that’s why her mind is like that sometimes u guys have to understand she has money saved up, she owns a business and she drives so in my opinion she is making all the right choices in her life
Wtf does being stable has to do with anything, if it was no youtube, Brooklyn main focus would be school because it's alot of regular jobs that won't hire her until she's 18, if it was no youtube these youtubers would be working regular ass jobs
@@KayAintPressed yeah but guess what at least she started a business so she can have multiple source of income not just RU-vid so regardless if RU-vid were to shutdown she still has her business going on for her and at the end of the day she is finically stabled and if she was smart she would probably have investments or stocks too. It might be RU-vid but we don’t see evrything on this site everyone move quite. And who knows she might continue her studies and do what she please but for now if she wants to build herself and focus on herself she can. Cause a lot of young adults take one year off college or university to figure out themselves
First I want to point out that I love how she can so open with her dad ❤️ Second I think I understand Brooklyn’s point of view, to get away from a toxic parent ( parents can be toxic without knowing ) I would jump at the opportunity. However , her dad was absolutely right. Because independence can come in a lot of way (saving, having credit, knowing how to pay bills). It’s not just being on your own which a lot of us at a young age we all thought that. Plus living with someone is hard and it’s not your own. Nothing is like having your own! No matter what!
Growing up and maturing has nothing to do with a man for all my ladies ! You rlly shouldn’t be moving in w somebody if it’s not ur fiancé or husband ..
You said your mom is “toxic “ because you have to pick up after yourself and walk your dog. Is called being responsible Brooklyn. Have in mind your mom have your best interest all the time.
You not telling the full situation aht aht!! You wanna be grown and move out right ? so be a woman about your shit Tell him what’s really up if he don’t know already cause I swear Ts feel scripted .. 18 does not mean grown Chile .. I don’t know WHY you wanna rush so bad lol . You and him can’t even keep y’all relationship good and you wanna move in with em .. like huh ?
@@ashleyblanca2919 like you can’t be out here wanting to be grown but can’t own up to your bs mo ain’t tripping everyone says the same stuff about Brooklyn .. her OWN family does and her fans .. she trying to get in her dads head like NAH I see the bs and she’s definitely not !
Brooklyn getting me tight, her way of thinking is still in a child’s view, if you want to gain independency live by yourself, your first step shouldn’t be wanting to live with a man😐
I hope all this is fake because she stressing me out😭🤦🏽♀️when you try to grow up to fast or think you know everything makes your life experiences so hard because you’re rushing everything and never had a chance to just breathe yk
“gaining independence” is something that you have to accomplish mentally. Forcing yourself to be “independent” doesn’t come with moving into a man’s house. It comes with learning how to be on your OWN. Knowing how to be okay without someone always being there. no hate tho.
Awe your dad is so handsome and what a beautiful smile and you look like him, please listen to him I know you don't wanna hear it but please trust what he's saying he is telling you facts only, if u don't wanna be your moms then don't move in with Justin and follow her path, get your place and fix it how you want it but until then focus on your room in their house, your young don't rush things. Prayers for you all. God Bless
Hi Brooklyn and dad take the time moving out on your own its really hard out here . Make sure you can afford the bills .Yesss everyone needs their own place when they are grown enough.
I always was very big on “Not moving in with your boyfriend and living together under the same roof without commitment in marriage!” But my daughter did the opposite 🤦🏽♂️ after living with him 9 years and 2 kids later he left her and now she moved back with me. I love her unconditionally but hope she learns from her misteaks and not fall for anything next time.
Yassss , your dad is hundred percent right . He not telling no lies . Just be patient Brooklyn. Like ye said getting your own apartment shouldve been the first move not going live with some young childish dude.
The way Brooklyn be saying Monique be talking crazy is really not crazy lol Monique be calm asl shit she should hear my mother then she’ll be like “oh that’s coming crazy” like yeah 😭
Brooklyn Dad is a such a vibe. He is letting her voice her reason, but letting her know this grown life is nothing to rush. Take your time sweetie. Your mom is going through having a new baby, so please be patient with her Brooklyn. She is trying to protect you, and teach you responsibilities.
