Actually, I think that is a sign of respect. If it's just the 3 of them, the mother should be offered the front seat. If the Dad was there instead of the mom, he should be offered the front seat. If both parents are there, then they should sit in the back. I think it would be rude to not offer the front seat to the mother.
@@elizabethcuevas3728 No, he was definitely a massive coward & got worse as the episodes went on. Her narc manipulation was on full display, threatening to delete herself…only way to deal with narcissists is to cut them off. Dragging another person into that dysfunction is just cruel
Girl who is you telling my mouth mixed with me thinking everything is funny would have been a bad mixture. Because a few things she said I would have laughed so hard in her face 😂😂
Why is the mother doing the wedding plan talking about “ they might get married in les v” why is the mother doing everything like go get a man and get married plan your own wedding
That's exactly what I was thinking. But all in all that's the reality of the toxicity in mother vs future wife relationships. You gotta know where to draw the line.
Shekeb’s father is stuck in a really awkward position but you can see how the mother has a sick hold on him, her language says it all!! “She is going to take Shekeb away from me” says it all. Nobody is taking anybody away from her!!! She needs therapy and her husband needs to stop enabling her!!
He goes back in when he should have just set a firm boundary of "if you can't treat my partner with respect and kindness then we will go No Contact". He just gave in.
Emily has handled things very badly at times, but the mother from the beginning attacked Emily’s race - everything about her in a very cruel manner. Both need counseling, but the mother’s love in this is crossing lines
The first mom needs serious help. While her husband is sweet and seemingly wise, he does enable her by gently forcing his son to leave his car and making excuses why she is behaving so poorly (She's sick etc).
the second girl with insane vegas mom is a lot more patient than me. I dont know how you could be attracted to someone whos so submissive to his mother...
I have never seen this tv show. The mothers are crazy and the young ladies who maintain a relationship with these men need to step back and ask why are they staying with these men. Is it because they want to be on a reality show or do they really care about these men. If these men allow their Mothers to treat their girlfriends the way they do then they dont care about the girlfriends. If someone really loves you then you come first and everyone else is secondary .
Him just laughing while his crazy Mama is talking All that crazy talk about his wedding is giving me some hella creepy vibes!!! Got his fiance in the back seat and completely disregarding anything she says she wants for her own wedding is making me throw up in my mouth a little. ..
so you won't buy your girlfriend a expensive gift but will gift your mother something more are you kidding me? Why does Liz have to have a most expensive gift than his gf bday.
The mother was likely throwing a test out there. If Steph acted poorly she could use the "gold digger card" saying that shed be happy with a $300 budget knowing that they were looking at $1k earrings...but if budget was an issue than it is very inappropriate that the son purchased the bracelet for his mother on that day.
'Why should I respect her?' Reminds me of the time I asked my mother to show me a little compassion (I had once again found myself in the doghouse with Mum and my sister due to a difference of opinion regarding one of her perennial dramas.) She replied: 'Show _YOU_ some compassion?' Funny how we don't talk any more...
He should never run back to console his mother!Shes crazy!She can’t distinguish between a mother’s love&zane gf’s love.For her to say she’s stealing him from her is nuts!She needs professional help,
If I were her husband and she cuts me like that, saying I respect you as a husband, I will check her right there.... Cant be talking to your husband in that tone in front of guests and a potential daughter in law.
Because they literally were groomed by their own mothers since birth. They often don’t realize they have been groomed. The mothers are most at fault but the sons are responsible in setting boundaries.
😂😂😂it's the dad not saying $#!+ for me. Sir if you don't get your wife under control. You clearly see she has too much attachment to her son. She is literally embarrassing herself.
The first Mother really concerned me. I don't know what Culture or Religion the young lady was, but if The Mother was Hindu, i have something to remind her of: कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन | मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि || 47 || karmaṇy-evādhikāras te mā phaleṣhu kadāchana mā karma-phala-hetur bhūr mā te saṅgo ’stvakarmaṇi Translation BG 2.47: You have a right to perform your prescribed duties, but you are not entitled to the fruits of your actions. Never consider yourself to be the cause of the results of your activities, nor be attached to inaction. Commentary This is an extremely popular verse of the Bhagavad Gita, so much so that even most school children in India are familiar with it. It offers deep insight into the proper spirit of work and is often quoted whenever the topic of karm yog is discussed. The verse gives four instructions regarding the science of work: 1) Do your duty, but do not concern yourself with the results. 2) The fruits of your actions are not for your enjoyment. 3) Even while working, give up the pride of doership. 4) Do not be attached to inaction. A humorous acronym for this is NATO or Not Attached to Outcome. तुम्हें आशीर्वाद देते हैं Mother
My MIL acts like this. It’s annoying and I often find myself getting annoyed at my s/o for not sticking up for me in real time, it honestly makes me wonder if I want to be with him. It’s so insulting, and I’m worried for the holidays this year. Bc I know it’s gonna be like him & our son go over there while I’m supposed to stay home. It’s getting to the point where if she comes over again and disrespects me I’m gonna be done with all of them
I'm sorry but your SO is pathetic and cowardly. The MIL can act up all she wants, doesn't mean anything if your husband puts his foot down on this helicopter behaviour. Am I saying there shouldn't be any unconditional love between a son and mother? Absolutely not but at his age there should be mutual respect and encouragement for each parties decisions. Your MIL is way over protective and your husband is enabling that trash behaviour.
Try having no contact with the inlaws. My husband disowned his mom and family because I put my foot down. They should not be controlling you on the Holliday's. You could have your own Christmas dinner at your house with your friends and don't invite the inlaws.
Find an apartment (either for him or for you) and ask for a legal separation. In many places, you have a year or so to figure yourselves out before deciding if you want to remain married or get a divorce. That way, they all know you’re serious, but you’re also able to show them you’re still committed to making the marriage work if he does his share. Hire a professional moving company to get all of your stuff during a time when your husband is away. Make sure you’ve already filed for separation, or he can claim you are a flight risk with your son, because you should definitely take your son with you. In the fewest words possible, explain to your son what is happening, that mom is being disrespected by grandma and that it isn’t okay to be disrespectful to someone, so mom needs to take a step back so that grandma has a chance to learn how to treat her. Let him know grandma loves him, but that if she loves him and wants to see him frequently, she cannot treat his mom that way. Then get family therapy, couples therapy, and individual therapy for you and your son.
My fiancee would ride up front, or I would hand over the keys and get in the back with her. Not negotiable. (Not an issue anyway...no mother in my life!)
I think Emily should sometimes not say anything to his mum, knowing it will only worsen the problem, just let the son deal with it..... Or better still, just leave the situation.
Boy moms are crazy! I dated a guy with a mom like this in high school, she would make Facebook posts about how seeing her little boy grow up, hurts her feelings because it hurts seeing him fall in love with another girl.. and those posts were all about me. So if you’re in a relationship like this, RUN
Sorry but no man is worth that headache. My ex bf's mother beat me and physically assaulted me numerous times. She suffered from PTSD though so I always just took it. I realize now she was a horrific person, and beat her sons and abandoned them too. I still pray for Kathy Smith. She was a demonic woman. I pray for her sanity and for her sons to forgive her for what she's done to them and to the women they bring home. I pray for her grandchildren who she physically assaults aswell.
I had/have a friend that has a mom like this. She is UNBEARABLE!!!! I rented out their basement before because I needed a place to stay and I get blamed for EVERYTHING her son does wrong. Makes it worse that she is a radically religious person. I love my friend as if he was my own brother because he was the only person who talked to me with respect when we met as kids, but duuuuuuuuuude, these moms are just…ugh. Gives his wife a hard time and even tries to keep him in control even though he’s married. I just can’t..
With all these situations it’s called boundaries. I have two little boys when they grow up my job is to prepare them for the next phase in life. I want to them to be happy with their partner this is so unhealthy.
No person should put themselves in these types of relationships. It doesn't matter what gender you are. You're suppose to create a new family and expand out. Not confined yourself to the demands of a narcissistic parent.
The reoccurring problem I see with these boys, is they all live off their parents. I don’t see any of them having successful jobs, they all live with their parents, AND they live off of their parents. It’s disgusting, Because these parents cripple their children, and I feel like it’s on purpose, so they are not successful and they always have to rely on them. It’s horrible, because kids are supposed to outlive their parents so what are they going to do, when their parents are gone
In this wedding planning story. It’s really should brides mother and parents that usually pay for the wedding planning and the groom’s parents to pick out the right tuxedo to ware to the wedding. Not for the son’s mother to make all of the decisions for the bride to plan were there wedding is going to be. It should be there choice.
The mother has all the control because that grooms mother is paying for EVERYTHING…including the bachelor/bachelorette parties. I’m saying if you don’t want someone else to have to control, pay for it yourself or don’t complain
@@Chelsea-fo4jy I absolutely agree and I would never let someone have that power over me. I learned a long time ago. My wedding was in his parents backyard with a barbecue, because of bad relations between my family and I . I would rather do that than succumb to my parents strict religious ways....I could have had a lavish wedding like all of my sisters did, some of them in multiple states. Everyone has choices.
They're stuck in the stage of childhood where they should have moved passed it. They have Oedipus Complex and need serious therapy. They're mother too, she's missing something in her soul. Once women and men see the signs, they should immediately RUN before they're dragged into the disfunction. Hopefully they're seeing themselves on TV and getting the help they so desperately need.
I have a daughter and son daughters 16 sons 9 they always tell me I’m their best friends. My daughter spoke to me saying what she’s scared of is when it’s my time to go she’s scared of her brother and how sad he will be! I said to her well I’m not going anywhere yet 😂 and I’m in hope you both meet people you love if you have a family you both have people that love and support you when that happens! 😂 if my kids are happy I’m over the moon
Jason mom is horrible ...did i really hear her say she doh care about the wedding pictures???? Like this woman for real??? Girl leave that man ......seriously he does not care about u at all ...and do not take that woman dress shopping with u ....she will not have your back
