[Top] 7 Reasons NO ONE Understands INFP | INFP Personality

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In today's video, I go over the top 7 reasons no one understands INFP. These INFP personality traits are unique and can be an odd mix which leads to them being such a misunderstood personality type.
We all feel misunderstood at times, especially when it comes to our different personality types. If you're an INFP personality type, however, you've undoubtedly experienced a lot of this. Most of what INFPs think is hidden, at least until they get to know someone well. INFPs are introverts who can find it difficult to express themselves. Because their thinking differs significantly from that of many other types, they are frequently misunderstood. INFPs are sometimes aware of what is going on but have no idea how to change it. They are frequently caught off guard when they discover how others perceive them.
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1:03 INFP Structure
2:28 INFP Emotions
3:49 INFP Arrogance
5:11 INFP Attitude
6:33 INFP Demeanor
7:39 INFP Boundaries
8:45 INFP Interests
10:16 INFP Beliefs
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@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

What are your thoughts on these reasons why an INFP is so misunderstood? Leave a comment and let me know! Thanks for watching! Make sure you subscribe to get more Brain Food. ✔️ Click to Subscribe! bit.ly/S4BYes ▶️ If you have enjoyed our Breakfast Brainfood together, consider Buying Me a Coffee and help support this channel: www.buymeacoffee.com/Success4Brkfst ◾◾ This is the Number 1 tool that I use and what helped me jump-start being able to live my best life and do it on my own terms. ➡️ bit.ly/LvlUpNow I hope you enjoy my channel and the videos, but more importantly, find things that you can take action on and level up your life!

@RestorationOfSanatanDharma 2 года назад

You can't really understand what is infp because you are not one of us

@riomyself2438 2 года назад

Iam an INFP. Iam often misundrstood .

@BMGPark Год назад

Even one INFP will not be able to fully understand another INFP. They cannot communicate.

@AlexisNishay 2 года назад

As an INFP I often feel that, although I have a lot of strong feelings and thoughts buzzing around my head, it’s better to just stay quiet. I don’t feel the need to voice my opinion most of the time. I just quietly observe the ppl around me. People tell me I’m shy, but I don’t see it that way. I just don’t need to be constantly talking.

@xXwhitefangXx1 2 года назад

That and someone possibly already said how they feel about it the same way I’m feeling without me saying it.

@AlexisNishay 2 года назад

@@xXwhitefangXx1 Yess this happens to me all the time

@katwilliams2950 Год назад

This until I'm with someone I absolutely love and then I'ma tell them everything

@Seluecus1 Год назад

Depending on the people/situation, i look at it as having all the cards, because nobody realizes us INFP's are hearing everything, or hearing nothing, depending on our mood.

@ashleytaylor235 Год назад

I feel this. When I open up it just starts an argument of trying to explain myself. And I just get attacked for it. It is better to stay quiet, unless the emotion you express is what they wanted. Just playing a role over here.. and it sucks

@omararturoramirez5262 2 года назад

Once an INFP gets the big epiphany of DETACHMENT, life improves outstandingly! Detachment from people’s opinion, energy, frustration, drama, closed minds and inauthenticity. We have a tendency to care too much for people, but sooner or later we figure out it’s not worth it. And after all, those people don’t give a f**k for us, so , why to bother?

@StormDevilery 2 года назад

Well that's true.. I mean, yeah that's true.. 🤔

@jungifermanunag6351 2 года назад

So true . I had been that way years ago , caring too much on what people think about us and after stopped caring too much I became much calmer and at peace.

@cory99998 Год назад

For me that detachment has taken form in not caring what others think about me when I express myself which allows me to be more expressive overall. It's easy to shy away in the art I create and not reveal myself out of fear of embarrassment, but that holds the artist back *immensely*. Detaching myself from the opinions of others on a core level rather than a logical level is what's helping me grow into the artist I've always wanted to be. Getting bullied for being a weird kid + not having a support structure at home that understands my inner world was a recipe for feeling rejected and embarrassed about myself long term which makes it unbelievably difficult to be expressive and revealing.

@thuyma3042 Год назад

Your words are so inspiring and healing to me bc I am having a serious problem caring what people feel or think abt me.

@vijay2795 Год назад

Thank you! Needed that

@dont_mind_me3348 Год назад

I am an INFP. Few years ago, I used to share my deepest thoughts and the things that makes me so happy. But even if they don't show it, I can feel they're not interested. I wanted to express my feelings but they don't seem to be interested in listening. And realizing that alone makes me feel so sad, it makes me ask "why is it so unfair? When they share something, i'm all ears. But when I share something, I feel like I am detached to them. I feel like I have a loud voice but they can't hear me."

@jeriborer8732 Год назад

Yes! This is exactly true. I hear a lot of advice for infp to open up and share more of your true inner self, but when I do nobody really wants to hear it. I don't think or feel like most people. I don't like the stupid small talk or superficial topics. I would love to open up to people more but it's hard to find people like me! Also what he says in video about being treated as naive and child-like, I have felt that my whole life. I am far from naive!!

@BeckyTheBullet Год назад

@@jeriborer8732 I feel the same way!

@BeckyTheBullet Год назад

Yes, I feel the same! and it's really disheartening. I have now met someone I can talk to and discuss things with and it has helped massively! just to have one person that feels like they understand me. Before that I always felt so alone and misunderstood. I still feel those things but now that I have someone to share my views and feelings with I don't feel so crazy!

@dissolvingreality2479 10 месяцев назад

1000% it has made not like people anymore

@claudeblain8 10 месяцев назад

I identify with the sentiments expressed in the preceding comments. 11:20 , I would suggest that others either don't have the capacity, or the will, to want to make the effort. And, because we are so tuned to this, and have the capacity for creative thought, it becomes incumbent upon us to use these skills to come up with innovative ways to get our ideas across, if we really want to be heard/understood. PS. can you see the INFP coming out. 😊

@arnenel8642 2 года назад

As an INFP I feel misunderstood most of the time

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

That is a very common theme for INFPs, for sure. I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 🙂 👍🏻

@Motive_therapist 2 года назад

It's because most of the people around us are dumb, stupid or does not care or does not put much effort to understand us.

@jinkusu_ Год назад

As an INFP daydreaming in a crowded place, I cannot remember how many times I've been asked if I'm okay because of my silence.

@jaygodfrey6186 2 года назад

I'm an INFP. Some times its hard to be me. It feels like being alone even when surrounded by a multitude. 😊😊

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

@Jay Godfrey that is a very common story right here. They are so many people who feel that exact same thing. Thank you for taking the time to share and for watching 🙌🏻🙂

@rclark1132 8 месяцев назад

THIS‼️💯💜

@yellowswallowtail33 2 года назад

Yay! I'm the first infp here and thumbs up👍 Love my infp tribe🦋

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

Hey there! W00t, first comment! Thank you for watching and for leaving a comment 😁

@April_0613 2 года назад

Sometimes, It makes me so angry that even my family can't understand me. And I can't explain myself because every explanation sounds so petty in my head, so I end up not saying anything at all...for days until I get over it

@vkmuffins 2 года назад

I couldn't relate more!

@yeahz_purple1786 Год назад

Same I can relate that too

@racheldanielson3941 Год назад

I am 31 and I just now found out that I am an INFP and everything (my entire life) makes sense now

@HS-bu6wo 9 месяцев назад

Right? So eye opening!

@rclark1132 8 месяцев назад

I found out last year ….. 🤯 LITERALLY

@ailaespela5212 Год назад

As an INFP I usually received comments that I'm weird, crazy, self-absorbed, and that my mind seems nowhere to be found at the moment oftentimes. Perhaps the reason I am perceive that way is that I don't share enough of myself to other people. I value my privacy, my solitude, I'm critical on my interpersonal behavior that's why my actions are quite reserved (?)

@Dzanarika1 Год назад

Do not let those narrow-minded, superficial human beings get you down. They are not your tribe anyway. Be kind to yourself, love and respect yourself always, always be yourself, and so by doind this you will keep those energy-sucking parasites away as they do not like strong, confident people. The right people will naturally find this attractive and will recognize your worth. Do not loose yourself, whatever you do in your life. Hugs ❤❤❤❤

@peachesandpoets Год назад

I'm an INFP and I feel like I'm always explaining myself to people and it is so fucking exhausting

@kathyh.648 2 года назад

I’m an INFP and I think you got some good points there. There is another reason why I think we are misunderstood often as well: There don’t seam to be too many of us and since people tend to interpret others through their own glasses (or think others think in the same way they do), its hard to get that people could really be as we are. I.e. most people think of themselves before others, and they usually see a lie behind a person who would rather take the smaller peace of cake so another would not feel left out… Hope this is understandable.

@kathyh.648 2 года назад

Don’t know how often I had to tell myself: Well, even if others think I sm pretending or false, no matter how many don’t understand me, at least God can see into my heart and knows exactly how I really mean it.

@E3boss2003 Год назад

the one thing u should never question is if an infp is telling the truth

@catherinejames2734 2 года назад

Sure, I’m an infp, life is constantly challenging I’m happiest when I’m alone and creating art. I’m incredibly selective with people and who I choose to be around as I’m often misunderstood. I procrastinate a lot, but that also can work for me. People have often asked me why I am so intense, which surprises me as it’s natural for me to be that way.

@rajkiranveldur4570 Год назад

I'm INFP and I can relate myself with whatever you said. Are there any other INFPs here who got bullied real bad at school?

@carolinecruz1957 Год назад

I was bullied unmercifully at school! My life, subsequently, has been very difficult but at long last I feel comfortable with myself. I’m 66 and life is just beginning for me. It’s never too late. I have a successful psychology practice where I put all my hard earned experience to good use.

@timothykepp763 6 месяцев назад

I was bullied a lot in school and early jobs in 20s it does get better but the hurt remains.

@benjaminantone9962 2 года назад

I am misunderstood 99% of the time despite making perfect sense. Unless I’m communicating in writing. Then it’s only 50%

@mariobonvino Год назад

even funnier when you think you can chill and enjoy your time with your friends but then you say something simple but in a not so simple and fool-proof way so they just think you're saying some bullshit

@dy-fathiyana3385 Год назад

I feel u 😅😂 sometimes it's hard to be us (INFPs)

@gailbailey6945 Год назад

@@dy-fathiyana3385 . "It's not easy being green!" Kermit the frog on Sesame Street. I've have always felt that way😄😍

@bencollins1210 2 года назад

I'm an INFP, I relate to this a lot, I'd much rather be lost in my own thoughts while reading a book or making scenarios up in my mind, or going out on a hike. Often I like to contemplate places and see the beauty in things like a landscape, old barn or a forest etc. I find that structure, order, and routines make life very stressful, not because 'I cant be bothered rather because I see harmony and fulfilment in meaning as of greater importance, though sometimes I have to suck it up of course when it comes to my responsibilities ( I understand these things are essential). And its very true what I see as important is very different to the norms. Life for me is fulfilling when I'm appreciating beauty, or meaning in something, or hidden meaning. I suppose I like to appreciate everything that has some spiritual or artistic meaning which may make me look naïve and easy going, but id call it more naïve to live for what is socially acceptable at the expense of fulfilment as a lot of beauty, wisdom, truth and hidden meaning is brushed over by prejudice. It is very true I loathe dis-harmony and would hate to cause someone pain. It really annoys me when people ignore someone's values and treat them as if there ignorant It ruins peoples self confidence (over a light comment), and I know from experience that that is really damaging to ones mental health. I have my own biblical values so I lovingly challenge other peoples values but I find it distasteful when people mock timid people (all it shows to me is that there loud, and the victim is mature and rational enough not to mock back). People may perceive this as arrogant that is not so I am just explaining how my mind works. I have to make people understand that what I'm saying about being misunderstood is not to be misunderstood under a comment section asking whether I feel misunderstood (; Perhaps I am misunderstood...

@thuyma3042 Год назад

Same here

@ValeriesGallery Год назад

Your comment makes me feel understood. I love appreciating beauty and finding hidden meanings. Other subtle things fascinate me, but they aren’t “practical” or seem important to most people. I’m making an effort to focus on what I value now

@natet5959 Год назад

I'm an INFP and a middle child. I consider that a double whammy. I have been pleasing people, keeping the peace and I have failed to express my feelings in key moments. This has led me to ruminate over specific situations where I should have stood up for myself, but I just let it go, because everyone expected me to remain calm.

@nicolekurschildgen3546 Год назад

This is exactly explaining my life. I´m 47 years old now (also a middle child) and not able to stand up for myself. Just because I can not handle people getting upset with me. Self-sacrificing to please the people, fulfill their expectations, belittle myself,....etc. But I´m working on it. It`s my life and it´s never to late. I´m an INFP and I´m not going to change that. I am what I am and they have to except and respect that. And it is good to know that I am not the only one with these problems. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

@Dzanarika1 Год назад

Nate, do not forget to be kind to yourself. That os the single most important thing to a person. Sending you hugs

@natet5959 Год назад

@@Dzanarika1 Thank you!

@Robidu1973 Год назад

The main problem is that far too many people are incapable of handling the complexities of an INFP's mind. I, as an INFP, have made the experience that when I arrive at a conclusion, people have great difficulties understanding how I have arrived there, and since it involves multiple steps at once that sometimes are spliced into one another, explaining things is so extremely difficult and exhausting. Add bonus points once people lose track of what you are attempting to tell them, thereby forcing you to repeat yourself. At the end it usually leaves me completely exhausted and thoroughly frustrated. On other occasions people see an INFP pull off a feat and want to do so likewise, but they inevitably fail, because they don't know what amount of processing has been taken place in the INFP's head prior to that. However, instead of inquiring how to get that done, they oftentimes get miffed and start shaming the INFP.

@Robidu1973 Год назад

@@more444store6 The fun part of all this, however, starts when they are about to do something stupid and you, as an INFP, have that eerie feeling that that isn't going to end well. So the INFP is going to tell them something along the line of "If I were you, I wouldn't do that." Of course, they are going to dismiss that, especially since we cannot back that up with hard facts at that moment (pulling them from our background processes is rather long-winded and as such a complete pain in the butt), yet that peculiar feeling remains. However, then watch their surprised Pikachu faces when things actually start to go south. The standard reaction from the INFP: "Told you."

@melilotus Год назад

Are you perhaps trying to say that we tend to think of, for example, a situation from multiple angles and points of view, that others simply cannot grasp it, plus it's hard to even translate our vision of this situation, because it's so complex, and sometimes these different angles are even in some sort of contradiction? I don't know if you get me, but it happens to me all the time. Plus, i see and understand a certain situation in my head, let's say, intuitively, but if I try to organize it into thoughts, or (even worse 😂) words, it's sometimes mission impossible 😂😂

@kathyann9643 2 года назад

As an INFP am I the only one who hates watching these canned stock images and would much rather see scenery images in the background while listening to these types of videos?

@Bonesph 2 года назад

Isn't that the same thing but without poorly people?

@patriciamcgrath1289 11 месяцев назад

I'm too busy reading the comments to look at the pictures!

@jimspelman8538 Год назад

My ex-wife used to tell me that I need to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. I have always lived in my own "fantasy world" where everything is great. As an extreme optimist, it took me years to finally get feet on the ground and head out of the clouds. It made me more cynical and I do not like that. After my divorce I learned more about who I really am as an INFP and I have embraced it and am at peace. I started writing poetry. I learned that I can express myself that way. I met a wonderful friend and we had lots in common. I wrote her a poem to express how I felt and it was too much. This video is spot on as far as INFP's being misunderstood.

@bakhtzada7969 Год назад

As an INFP I feel misunderstood most of the time by everyone, even my family members, friends, teachers, and colleagues.

@kurniaw741 2 года назад

I think INFP should find INTP boss. They love our crazy ideas. I've teamed up with intp and infj bosses. Best years of my live ever. Many of somewhat absurd ideas become realised and surprisingly - very successful.

@user-vw6xp5nl6t 2 года назад

That’s a great point. When we become to rigid and ordered we need to do something fun even if it seems illogical.

@emmaksendal3098 2 года назад

For me as an infp im not always that quiet. I can seem pretty exstrovertet with only a few of my friends. But only if i feel wery comfortable and feel like i can be my self.

@AlexisNishay 2 года назад

Same

@katwilliams2950 Год назад

That's the caveat. We're introverted till we're safe. Then all bets are off

@Dzanarika1 Год назад

@@katwilliams2950 love it 😂

@Killemwithkicks Год назад

I fell in love with astronomy as a kid. Space is so unfathomably big and our knowledge so limited that the possibilities are endless. I often daydreamed about exploring the stars in a cool ship as a kid. Back then I thought I was just bored and space was obviously better than school right? Now I’m 25 and going through the process of learning myself and I noticed something. For one, my imagination is just as colorful as it was as a child. However, the most important thing I realized was that I loved space so much because it felt so familiar. Space is such a beautiful yet lonely place. Stars shine ever so brightly, unaware that billions of miles away, potentially countless life forms marvel at their splendor, eternally grateful for their warmth and light. Every step of my life I’ve felt as if I was different in a way that I couldn’t explain, almost like I’m not from this world. The difficulty of expressing/explaining the complex thoughts and emotions in my head doesn’t help and it can create a sense of distance between myself and everyone else. When I contemplate this, I can’t help but think of how the sun can seem so close as to blind and burn you, almost like you can touch it. Yet, it’s 93 million miles away.

@AriodanteITA Год назад

True. in the last 10 years, I have done at least 20 times the interview for someone of the "Big 5" (Google, FB and so on). I know i have good skills for the job. I am resourceful (in spite of being studied literature i have been able to pursue a career in IT), i speak several languages at a very good level, I am resilient, I am a very good person when it comes to support and help, i am devoted, i have years of experience (and some times i know in depth the product itself i am interviewing for). I almost always reach the last round, but I always got rejected because when you interview for one of those company they want you to show your cool and extrovert side - and maybe a bit structured (funny because you HAVE to write on your CV that you are an "out of the box" thinker, but then they don't want to hear that in the interviews). You have to be able to "sell" yourself, and i am totally not the kind of people that brags about his own good sides, or who is able to "lie" or be someone he is not. Many times in several interview have been told that the "level of energy is low", just because I speak slowly (and if i am nervous I start stuttering or forget the words). I am also not too comfortable in speaking, while I am better in writing (i need my time to think and structure my thoughts, and i prefer writing longer but more "reasoned" text, that an impactful tweet that is void of real meaning. I honestly think that this is a bit a shame, especially when it comes to big companies that always brag about inclusion and diversity, but have a hiring system that de facto is designed to disadvantage people like us, diversity is also this. Also this world focused on image and showing off doesn't help. Even if it will probably be too late for me, I hope that one day there will be more awareness (as there is for skin colors and body types) about this different in characters, hopefully more and more introvert people will get visibility, and our peculiar character will not be seen like a handicap but a resource.

@melilotus Год назад

Yeah, I totally get this "selling" part, because I cannot even imagine to tell something about myself that is not true, at least in these situations. I give people precise information of my capabilities (I'm even pretty harsh sometimes), but people mistake that for my incapacity for a certain task or job or activity, while far more incapable folks will advertise themselves and sell the story of how great they are for this or that...

@AriodanteITA Год назад

@@melilotus People also made me noticed (last week I was practicing with an interview) that I have some uncommon trait, or i'm able to do/see things that other people are not able to see, but i don't realize it. To me it's totaly normal. When in the interviews they ask me "tell me about a time when...you dealt with a difficult customer/ showed leadership" or things like that... I struggle to find examples because to me it's so normal that I don't even realize i'm handling difficult situations. Also because I keep very low my emotion and it's almost impossible to make me lose my temper and my cold blood. Which is a quality very useful in many circumstances. I do that all that without realizing. And yes, i can't lie. In the good and in the bad, i never lie. If I don't like you, or don't trust you, whether I avoid to answer, or if I answer i can't help but telling the truth. And this is not always a good thing.

@dasweetestapparel 2 года назад

Definitely not childish at the same I love like a child, forgive like a child and has as much fun as child! But cross the line then you'll meet the adult frfr

@kurniaw741 2 года назад

When i was a child i am curious why peter pan dont want to grow up. When i grow up, i understand him completely why. Grown ups are boring creature. I give up trying to look mature and make my self okay to be mocked laughed and underestimated. Losing childishness can be depressing. It's our strength. Let s hope nobody cross the line and have the chance to see the hell ^^. INFP-A

@jessis3300 2 года назад

the carefree but at the same time serious is so me, haven't realized that's why everyone thinks i'm so weird 🤩

@VictoriaForSale Год назад

It's said that all teenagers feel missunderstood but I can tell I felt so misunderstood that I learned not to talk about my opinions at all. If I do I realize most people don't listen. For a long time I was deeply desperate and didn't know why Noone understands me until I analyzed myself enough to learn that it is me who Is not able to communicate the complexity of my inner self. So, whenever I say something upsetting or I am strict or whatever I explain to others why I was like that. Mostly it's because I am stressed or because I see potential in others and get frustrated they don't see it and use their skill, just working a bit on themselves. I work hard on myself and though I let others live I really get frustrated about people not putting any energy in development their talents. There's so much more to say but I don't want to overdo it

@bladerunner8832 2 года назад

I feel like an alien on this world. Maybe I am 🤷‍♂️. I feel that the world needs us however. I’m still, however, saving up for an INFP island somewhere.

@ladameblanche4700 2 года назад

I labeled myself as shy or introverted all my life but it’s not like that, i am not shy i’m just afraid everyone is gonna reject my true self, i am literally the opposite of shy but, when i let myself be, people tend to be scared off or think i’m “too much” or they just don’t understand my perpective at all. When i’m around people i really like, i’m extra shy and end up with them not taking me serious, but, when i’m around people i dislike, i feel like i can be myself because i rejected them before they can reject me, it’s an ongoing cicle & i don’t know how to end it.

@martine5716 2 года назад

Having been told more than once lately that im not an introvert and saying to them, you've got to be kidding, I'm only just beginning to understand that what I think and what people see are two completely different things. This explains me almost perfectly. I'm also ADHD so at work I'm quite noisey, dim lights are only before bedtime, and I spend most of my spare time reading after wearing off some energy in the gym❤️❤️❤️

@azrielmateria8050 11 месяцев назад

im an infp who spent many years using my dark side to maintain a mask of who i truly was not. we are sensitive individuals and many see this as a weakness or as too intense when its a definite strength. its hard to put into words exactly how we feel at certain moments. sometimes the feels are so powerful that words just arent enough.

@calmingbabysleep1256 3 месяца назад

There is a song " words" by Joe niemand. It has these exact lyrics: but the words don't always come out right, I let them go and they take flight. Words will fade like falling stars but you'll find m in the meaning of my heart.

@calmingbabysleep1256 3 месяца назад

@russellmcdonald7777 2 года назад

I absolutely love this video. This video expresses some of the most misunderstood aspects of this personality which no other video I have seen expresses. Thank you for the video. It’s such an encouragement.

@SmudgySage 2 года назад

Well done, my friend thank you for putting words & explanations to our world 🌎.

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

Thank you so much for the compliment, and you're very welcome! I appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 👍🏻 🙂

@Jenmoon144 Год назад

Reminding myself to smile and show emotions outwardly to make other people feel comfortable, is the most draining activity lol I’d rather be alone. 😅

@chadanderson6500 2 года назад

Great video! Thank you for this explanation 👏🏻

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

You're welcome! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 👍🏻 🙂

@dy-fathiyana3385 Год назад

As an INFP, i feel misunderstood most of the time, sometimes i feel overwhelmed, but as time goes by, I feel used when people misunderstanding me, and over time sometimes I become ignorant, coz i'm too lazy to explain to people😅, coz sometimes it's difficult to express my though on words

@Mannwhich 3 месяца назад

Sounds like you're just your own self fulfilling prophecy / problem. No one will ever understand you if you don't open up to others. Duh!

@kathrynleannazuck9305 2 года назад

Thank you! I needed words for whats going on!

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

You're very welcome! I'm so glad you've gotten some great information from my video. I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment. 🙂👍🏻

@abdallahmostafa3275 2 года назад

Yeah, the points you mentioned are really true I actually gave up on making people understand Anyway the point that we don't really recognize that we don't know that we don't know how to express ourselves is not so true for me I know I can't express myself so much but nah as I said I gave up on making people understand me so I gave up on how to express myself so much (INFP 6w5)

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

Hey there! That's something I feel like a lot of INFPs go through, for sure. I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 🙂 👍🏻

@maio0077 2 года назад

I feel like we are contradictory most of the time and it can confuse other people

@tarajoyce3598 Год назад

Examine it deeper. We are neither contradictory nor hypocritical. There are things that only work fairly under very specific conditions.

@helenablavatsky9136 Год назад

This is scaring me. It's too accurate. I've been scoring as an INFP for a long time.

@zurkio210 Год назад

I usually don't like personality types or labels like this, but this video is spot on

@loisbock9591 10 месяцев назад

Such a relief to finally understand this well. Have searched. Now it all makes sense.❤

@prashantiyer7 2 года назад

Describes me, but the tragedy is if I try to change any of the things mentioned here in order to be felt understood. It would be like living out of my body, the moral compass, values don't allow me to do things any differently.

@marandazilk3175 Год назад

I get compared to my bestie all the time. One thing I am told, a lot, is that she is so fun and interesting. She is an INFJ. I am INFP.

@patriciamcgrath1289 11 месяцев назад

If they only understood how interesting we are!!!!

@marandazilk3175 11 месяцев назад

@@patriciamcgrath1289 🤗

@survey9728 Год назад

Everytime you deal with an INFP just remember to tell yourself "Bold of you to asssume that.." in both good and bad ways. Lol

@gentianvandewerken929 2 года назад

If you learn to manage/not getting rid of your emotions/wield not getting rid of taking life(creations culture) personally, this being personal is a great gift - - in taking personal responsibility/being personal - - - in being warm hearted not cold and impersonal, life is hugely personal and knowing this and living this makes the world a realer healthier world, not being tough and living in the great moxie of your softest softness creates a working dynamic for yourself where ever you are, managing your uniqueness from the inside makes life great, I used to feel misunderstood but the more I understand myself and value myself the better I feel/I didn't get bitter and the misunderstood feeling has vanished , INFPs loving the gift of living in this wonderful way with their own understanding of themselves gives you a great/beautiful saga feel reality,Im almost 61 and lived in an emotional break down of sorts for 55 years until I got away from judgmental troubled souls and begain living and valuing my unique creational way of living/ant it took loosing all but one person that I loved and living alone /almost completely unsupported /lost my home my dream gardens animal friends income and 30 year deception marriage and was ostracized severely by family and still am, I love my life and three new INFP friends helped me getting free inside from a disadvantaged childhood and ensuing dysfunctional family unhealthy un/healing entanglements!

@jasminotoco4746 2 года назад

Basically INFPs don't make sense. 🐣 (I'm a INFP)

@xxyenxd2382 2 года назад

Exactly (confirmed by INFP-T)

@jasminotoco4746 2 года назад

@@xxyenxd2382 XD

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

At least, not make sense to a lot of people! Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment 👍🏻 😁

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment and for watching 🙂👍🏻

@oooo1743 2 года назад

I'm infp and sometimes things that i say to others don't make sense to me.Like wtf did i just said.

@iionheartheart4974 2 года назад

No one has time to waste on us.

@EverygurlUSA Год назад

When you’re an INFP and Aquarius girl 😂😂😂 it’s real fun over here

@syrenixmsp3112 6 месяцев назад

Omg saaaaaame

@discountovid8325 Год назад

Realizing I'm in the 1.5% of the population has definitely given me some much needed perspective.

@mikhailjohari6016 2 года назад

im INFP with the Assertive type .. thanks for this great video

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

You're very welcome! I really appreciate you taking the time to watch and for leaving a comment 👍🏻 🙂

@tylerfields2654 2 года назад

It's not us that's the problem it's the people that feel they need to put us in a box to understand us I like that I'm wierd and people don't understand me

@cjclementine434 2 года назад

Yeah I’m INFP, yeah I’m misunderstood… and made by the people surrounding me to feel like this is because my ideals are misguided and naive. They’re right. I’m the wrong one. Just unrealistic. Boundaries are not a luxury I deserve until I decide to grow tf up.

@drpamelamozingo4079 Год назад

Yes , I feel misunderstood much of the time

@dy-fathiyana3385 Год назад

There's no doubt i'am INFP after i watching this vid 😅

@febriani0711 2 года назад

yeah everytime..... everyone always misunderstood me for being such an arrogant person.... like no man, i'm just exhausted 24/7 and have a resting bitch face! i do appreciate everyone who said Hi to me everytime.

@AlexisNishay 2 года назад

Lolll same

@MrEpicdary Год назад

Just here to leave a comment for the algorithm. A lot of these points hit home, it's tough being an INFP. I've only recently found out my mbti personality type (Thank you tinder..), but knowing is half the battle, right? Well, I'm off to another video, so much information to ingest.

@ni._.859 2 года назад

6:18 YESSS AND I HATE THAT WHY THEY underestimate me???

@tommunyon2874 7 месяцев назад

I was taken aback when, after delivering the eulogy at my father's funeral, a former neighbor from my childhood said, "You must be a professor, or something. You're so cute!" I was 57 at the time.

@irenemcnamara9699 Год назад

I am an INFP and I am not rigid or obsessed with self-control! In fact,, I am the opposite!! I have always been a rather laid-back person. You need to refresh your learning about INFP's!

@hannahrose266 9 месяцев назад

Same here! My chill level and not much concern for control is one of my many qualities that are misunderstood and completely outrage the ppl in my life, even worse for them is the fact that I'm not too worried about how they react to me since i truly don't feel my chill is anything to get worked up about

@tarajoyce3598 Год назад

Half done but I don't feel this video explains why the outside doesn't match the inside: social conditioning. INFP quiet is socially acceptable compared to an INFP living outloud. Took a long long time for me to realize most people comparatively are shallow puddles. I've quit diving in, due to head trauma, and now only dip my feet.

@netgnostic1627 Год назад

Inflexible and arrogant? Wow, I've never had anyone describe me that way or react to me that way. As a manager, I don't like creating rules unless I have to, and if my group needs a way of organizing something, I prefer to let the group decide on their own solution. If there's conflict over it, of course I step in and make a decision, once I fully understand what's wrong, and also what was good about their idea. Hmm. I'm near the middle on the I vs E scale, as well as the F vs T scale. Maybe that means I'm not a typical INFP.

@Nyxeline Год назад

I literally stay outside most of the day cause theres so much nature. If I'm sad, or happy, or angry I perfer to be left alone outside where I can relax and be at peace.

@Таволга 8 месяцев назад

Я не перестаю удивляться как многое совпадает !!!! " Тускло освещенное пространство" и тут попадание в точку!))

@Hollyfilly Год назад

I'm an infp with impulsivity and if only I could keep my mouth shut.

@denisesiddon7241 Год назад

Being infp is so confusing. I know i have the right values on how to treat others so why don't everyone else see things my way. This has alao made me realise why i present as a thinking type when stressed. Normally the happiest person around when not stressed

@cliffordcarey3997 9 месяцев назад

I'm a INFP and Ive been misunderstood alot in my life. Its always been hard to express my feelings because I don't even know where to start I'm a good listener and I hold alot of people secrets that only I know about them. I express myself through music ive played guitar 33 out of my 49 years and I have to have my alone time people in my hometown call me the mystical unicorn rarely seen but always talked about. It's not easy being a INFP but I wouldn't want to be anything else. I love being a mystery for other to wonder about back in school I would do things differently than others and make it a better way of thinking about how something could be done I always did things my way I was a nonconformist my teachers would call me Maverick I didn't know why they called me that my name is Clifford. One day I was reading another hobby of mine and seen what a Maverick was its a title and I can say I'm a mysterious childlike nonconformist misunderstood musician and maverick. Jesus said to understand the kingdom of God you must be childlike not childish but childlike and I can say I understand what Jesus is saying. To all of my kind us INFPs keep your head up and love yourself because you are someone who has something to offer to the world and that is to help heal the wounds of hurt and lost people and help them see the light.

@ashleytaylor235 Год назад

I just think infps could live an alternative way than what society often tells us.

@Azrielle7 Год назад

what's worse is that other INFPs misunderstands me..

@martinoheat1712 Год назад

Well when I as am INFP was growing up your emotions feel totally out of control, like feral animals, that pour out without any control. And you learn and realize that you must hide these emotions even though you feel them deeply. And people don't see your emotions, your care and consideration, but you realize that it's a self-defense mechanism. In regard to our depth, or lack of words, the reason why we appear quiet, is because we are busy thinking. No one ever asks us how we truly think or feel, and no one goes through the time or depth to allow us to express all our thoughts and contradictory feelings. And so it's better sometimes to think about it and to imagine something within the confines our mind then share what we have gone through just for someone to critique or shit on it. That's why INFPs appear within drawn because we don't want something dirtying something so pure in our mind.

@Mannwhich 3 месяца назад

You've just explained all the reasons why I'm this close to giving up on my INFP friend who says the exact same things. Friend: Woe is me, no one understands me. Me: It's because you never open up to anyone, not even your friends when they try to get to KNOW YOU!!!!!!!!

@martinoheat1712 3 месяца назад

@@Mannwhich well that's not true either I do talk about it but ppl don't ask more questions so that's actually problematic.bc it shows that ppl are not wanting to know more

@martinoheat1712 3 месяца назад

@@Mannwhich it's good practice to not relate your experience to mine as it is completely different.

@Mannwhich 3 месяца назад

@@martinoheat1712 Did you miss the part where I said my friend says the exact same things? 😊

@Mannwhich 3 месяца назад

@@martinoheat1712 "it's good practice to not relate your experience to mine as it is completely different". I remember her saying this also, on more than one occasion. 🙄

@user-wb6bw1dc9n Год назад

As an INFP I push ppl to understand me by showing them how I think. Then they say, OHHHH that's why!.. But yeah mostly ppl r too dumb to understand me.

@ostcentre4995 Год назад

Bro but INFP is all about not being rigged, but loved the video, very relatable.....

@TheOriginal_Unaleska 2 месяца назад

This is the dark aspect of an INFP. When we've lost ourselves, yes, we become very rigid and controlling. The more healthy we are the less rigid we become because we don't feel the need to control

@jeffjones7108 Год назад

The sheer number of people in this video exhausted me.

@thesunflower-ilaoethelmari9436 2 года назад

I AM MYMP. SALUTE!🌻🌻🌻

@SuccessForBreakfast 2 года назад

😁👋🏻

@prodigalpriest Год назад

Five eggs seems a bit excessive to me, and I could do without the beans. Beans for breakfast?!? I'd sooner crop the grass in my own yard. 🤣

@rnntann7590 2 года назад

You got me bruhhhh its so infp me

@yeahno8294 Год назад

I've long sense learned not to worry about being understood by everyone if people like and understand me great if they don't oh well no harm done

@shaunaireland7781 2 года назад

Brutal

@lisajohnston5081 2 года назад

💙💙💙

@yeahno8294 Год назад

Way I see it this is all for how we can change to benefit others when we should just be us and the people who get it great the people who don't oh well. I'm not changing to fit I'm me I'm weird and athentic and if others don't like it they can just steer clear it won't bother me

@anshushukla4847 4 месяца назад

Thats 100%me

@ebony888 Год назад

😩🤣🤣🤣 I feel so seen! 😅

@healingandgrowth-infp4677 4 месяца назад

Video has too many images of work ppl not relevant to what it is about or spoken about n not related to who a infp is just causing stress watching it n makes listening difficult also with the speed in which it is spoken n words not being all English had to put the playback on lower speed setting to follow most of it

@Pain-bf8mr 2 года назад

Sigma

@BMGPark Год назад

Dear INFPs, Don’t assume people will read your mind or your nonverbal signals. If you don’t speak up and let people know, they will not know what you want or don’t want. Lack of communication on your side is mostly why you are misunderstood, not because others want to misunderstand you. I had two people in my family who are constantly in a victim mind set and it took over 10 years to make them understand that you need to communicate, as people are not mind readers. You are not a victim.