Todays newspaper had an article where there was a detailed description of how a girl manipulated feelings of a boy who was studying in higher secondary school. Girl was an extrovert and boy was an introvert. She initiated their contact but used to keep on saying that she will always love him though she may get married elsewhere in future. The boy failed to recognise this red flag. This continued for three years and the boy lost interest in his studies in school and college. One day this boy accidentally caught this girl comming out of a closed house with another boy. Now our hero grasped the situation Later on when he asked this girl about this she easily said that just like you she was in a better relationship with the other boy. At this point our hero recovered and cut relations with that girl.
sahi kaha aapke emotional damage me sbse jada aapka best friend aapko aapki Kami bta bta k or low feel krwate h jb Hume sbse jada unke emotional support ki jrurat hoti h or apke behaviour me hi kmi nikal nikal k aapko bht week kr dete h ... or ye wahi dost hote h Jo apne case me ro rhe hote h lekin aapke time pr aapko bdi bdi baate karke dikhayege ki hum to bht strong h ... aise dosto se to dushman hi sahi h ek bar ko dushman ko bhi dekh leta h ki kisi Galt insan ne aapke sath kaise emotionally khela h lekin ye best friends aapko motivate krne k bajaye or low feel karwate h jb tk ki unke sath bhi kuch galt Naa ho jaaye😑😑
@@aartishrma963 mujhe to lga tha ki friendship ko worst bolne vajah se mujhe Gali (abuse) milengi...lekin Arti sharma ji Aapke respond comment shabd ekdam sahi h, kyunki shayad aapko bhi meri tarah best friendship vjah hurt & sorrow pahuncha h,...jin kuch best friends ko lifetime last anmol dill k kareeb samjho aksar vahi sab best dost hamara kharab samay dekhkar humari galtiya ginakar, hamara banakar Psycho Pagal bolkar door ho jaya karte hain...They makes us frustrated, foolish, full of faults,.. when our worst situation come, almost All friends go far.
Mera bf ne mujhe bahot mara. Pair se.mara hamara 8 sal ka relation tha wo bahot toxic mujhe bola sudhr jaunga aisa bola milne kie liye bulya to bhot mara mein ro rayi thi to bhi wo mujhe mar raha tha.mein gussr mein boli chala etna mar khane se koi bhi ladki yahi bol skti hain .paisa bhi mere se hi liya usane wo coffee ka fir lath mari mujhe bhot royi bad mein usne mujhe msg kiye to maine usko block kiya .usko boli ja mere zindagi se nhi rehana there sath .hamara 8 sal ka relation tha maine usko 3 month bad msg kiya to wo married ladki ke sath chalu hogya .dekho kitna mc tha haramkollr
Ekdam sahi apne bataya sir sab topic one by one hamare sath kiya gaya h jisse mai pura inner side se toot gayi thi but mere Bala ji ne mujhe bachaaya .thank u for telling these accurate things .
Bhai bohut ladke ke sath ayesa hota mere sath bhi huwa h ab my tut gaya hu mujhe ayesa lagne laga h my dunya me kisi par bharosa nahi kar sakta Bina kisi reason ke baat Karna band kar diya or fir beijjati bhi Meri 😢
is duniya me bass do hi tarike ke log khush rehte hai pehle vo jo pure agyan hai or dusre vo jinhe pura gyan hogya dukhi bas vo hi hai jise adha gyan hai😂
Thnku very much sir, mujhe vi ek girl ne bahut pareshan kar rakha hai bus dekhti hai milti kvi ni ajj tk ni mila ek bar vi jis wjh se mai emonally bahut tense me hu.
Sir apki ak ak word sahi hai 😒 apki sari bat sun ke tut bhi rhi aur jurne ki himmt bhi aa rhi hai ,,,, bas sir mere life me koi adviser ni hai sare ke sare negative person hai mere life ne ,,, mai bahut agee jana chahti hu par kaise niklu ye ni pta chal rha sir mai life ko leke bahut tension me hu ,,, ky kru mera koi ni itna dekh li sir mai 4 month tak khana thik se ni khayi aur kabhi khush ni rhi 🙏 abhi thori si thik hu khud ko samjha ke
I face these problems by my Big brother ( namo narayan) and father amd harkesh Meena and whole family on low level . I want police action against my family but whole family are collected ( agree against me ) and do search & make fake avidance and support of people & negberhood & relatives , I can not do any complain against family members
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I'm emotional being Sir wo is bat ko jan chuka h. Galti hr bar uski hoti h or mafi hmse khta h mangne ko hm bhut jhuk chuke ab nhi. Bolta h mere undr bhut kamiyan h. Or ab mujhe blackmail kr rha h hm kabhi face to face personal nhi mile .culigue tha wo bs ab bol rha k tum meri marji k bina nhi ja sakti sirf mamuli chat ko lekr blackmail kr rha h block kr diya hmne fir bhi mentally mujhe control kese kr rha h sir plzzz guide m
Ek ek baat mere husband per sahi sabit hoti hai ,aaj Mai beemar Rahne lagi hu ,aur Mera husband mujhe chhod ker ja raha hai ,jb ki mujhe is time mujhe sabse jayada unki jarurat hai
Ha Yar ye guilty vala mere sath bhi hua hai 😂 my partner commented on my weight , which I didn’t like so I fight with him.. later he said sorry like he is the victim and gave silent treatment for one week… I felt like I should have not fought for such small issue 😂
He bhagwan ye mere wala ka dukh hai usne mujhe link share Kiya dekho tumhare pe vid bna hai😂..par mera koi Aisa irada nhi use leke fir bhi jane ko usko Aisa lg rha😂😂🥺...haan Mai ignore krti hun kuchh din bat jyada na badhe aur wo galat way me leke hmko song dedicate krne k wjay ye vid dedicate kr rha🤦
Ldkiya hi nahi ladke bhot higher rate mi ye sb krte hai May be u won't believe It's Just God's grace nd my strong will nd inborn intelligence or what should i say Will matters the most will saved me .. Guy now adays take money from girls Abuse them nd when theu leave they start to beg nd start saying sorry .. Never talk to a guy who never does heart related things for you just ask for money Nd want to meet you or wanna be physical be with you girls .. Thanks to god who saved me otherwise i might be crying today ....
Or ye bimari jayada ladki log me hota h my das saal se in hasianao se bach k tha fir mujhe ek ayesi ladki mili jispe my bohut bharosa karne laga or depends ho gaya tab wo achanak silent ho gayi or my request karta raha lekin badle me mujhe or takleef beijjati bardast karna pada my sirf naam ka jinda rah gaya hu
The Thing is girl can leave. but boy cant leave just like that... the moment boy leave such girl.. immediately it will be rain of false cases like rape, blackmailing and all on boy.. so End of the day. Boy scape goat in life. That is the reality.
I have been through emotional abuse , all the points mentioned are so accurate. These things actually can make you depressed. I was in no contact and was so relaxed .
yaar mai Abtk fasa huu smjh ni aa raha kaise bahar aau sir ne jo sare points btaye vo sb follow ho raha hai mere sath even ki mai padhai ke time v unhe hin sochta rahta huuu....smjh ni aa raha bahar kaise aau acchank se bnd kr dunga baat krna toh fhir khin vo kuch kr na len ish chiz ka dr lgta hai
Mera bf ne mujhe bahot mara. Pair se.mara hamara 8 sal ka relation tha wo bahot toxic mujhe bola sudhr jaunga aisa bola milne kie liye bulya to bhot mara mein ro rayi thi to bhi wo mujhe mar raha tha.mein gussr mein boli chala etna mar khane se koi bhi ladki yahi bol skti hain .paisa bhi mere se hi liya usane wo coffee ka fir lath mari mujhe bhot royi bad mein usne mujhe msg kiye to maine usko block kiya .usko boli ja mere zindagi se nhi rehana there sath .hamara 8 sal ka relation tha maine usko 3 month bad msg kiya to wo married ladki ke sath chalu hogya .dekho kitna mc tha haramkollr
This was happened with me when I was working in a private sector Bank my manager who was a lady she played with my emotions and she was taking advantage of my patience.
Please make more such videos.. I am tried of dirty office politics and family issues.. even after 3 years of covid.. people don't understand basic happiness & simplicity of life..
Sir aapki narcissistic video excellent hai sir me village se hoon sir wo padi likhi nahi thi phir bhi extreme narcissistic sir aapke ek ek point milti hai mujhe kismat se aapki videos mila tha first time sucide attempts karne bacha salute sir
All points are resonate with me sir.......2 saal lag gye mujje... emotional mentality physically I damaged...mera health issues bhut aaya ....finally I take my own decision...thank you so much sir....❤god bless you ❤❤❤
yaar sir ne jo sare points btaye hain vo sb mere sath ho raha hai ..meri Friend jaan much kr toh ni krti lekin indirectly vo yesb kr rahin hai mera v padhai me unna mn ni lgta abhi haal me btech 1st sem ki exam finish hui hai bilkul bhi accha ni gya kyuki exam time v unka hin khyan aa ri thi 😞 please help me mujhe baut kuch krni hai life me aur apne Bharat maa ke liye but mai ab apne relationship se bahar ni aa pa raha huu... phone uthane me 1-2 baar mish kr deta huu toh kafi naraz ho jati hai vo aur baut baar toh rone v lgti hai but mai kya kru unke karan mujhe piche me baut rona parta hai baut baar toh mai raat tk soo ni pata hostel ke corridor me ghumta rahta huu ki mai aakhir kr kya raha huu padhne aaya huu itne sare goals hain mere aur insb chizon me mai para huu mumma papa ko dokha dekr .... please help mai relationship se bahar kaise aau mai unse acchank se baat krna bnd kr duu toh khi kuch kr na len ish baat ka tension hoti hai..... please help
@@ashishraulinI'm really sorry abhi apka comment dekha maine..mai yhi khungi dear apne intuition ko sabse phle follow kro...yhi se apko right direction milega..khud ko bhehtarr sirf hum khud samjh sakte hai..apka Mann kya kehta hai wo kro...I totally understand....Ghar se door reh kar apne decision par chalna its really tough.....as a challenging face karna padta hai hum sabko...agar relationship toxic hai then turant move on kro...leave everything..and surrender to divine...bharosa rakho khud par..break lo...khud ko smjho... lesson lo ki iss relationship mein kya sikha apne....apni galti hai toh usko bhi accept kro...uski galti Rahi hai toh maaf kro mann aur dil se...aur aage badho Bina guilt liye.....agar lesson nhi liya apne toh same cycle repeat hogi other person k sath.... that's karma law...... accept kro jo bhi hua hai....bhago nhi situation 1:25 se..... happy rho....god bless you
@@ashishraulinkoi kuch nhi krta khud ke sath... Ye sb khne ki baten hain, aisa bolkr log emotionl blackmail krte hain.... Aise logo ko chhod dena chahiye kaise bhi... Khud ko busy rkho... Uski reality samne lkr aao kuch b krke, logo ki help lo
Iam also facing the same problem,my husband is not taking closely,hertly.lam asking him to talk means he ls calculating the words and talking,last 22 years he didn't change.lf l complain this to my family members means they won't listen.
Jadatr ladki hi emotionally khel jati hai ladko ke sath 😂ladke ko emotion show karna nhi aata wo tough hote hai rote nhi hai lekin jab pyar karte hai to ek soft corner rehta hai apni gf ke liye jab usse dokha mikta hai to wo na unko koi smjhne wale hita na koi sath dene wala 😢ladki ke sath bhi hota hai lekin kam or jab wo asa face karti hai kuch to unke pass hazar log hote hai jo support dete hai, wo to emotion show karegi ro degi lekin ladke ko koi nhi smjhta
@@raksha676 wese maine majority cases ki bat lhi,sirf relationship mai hi nhi har jagah jab bhi ladkiyo ko problm hoti hai bhle uski female friend sath na de unka male friends sath dete hai isliye kehte hai ladko ki dosti kash hoti hai cahe dost ladka ho ya ladki sath dete hai specially ladkiyo ka jab bukate hai tab jate hai madad ke liye,kya hua kehar puchte hai bat band karde to bolte hai manate hai care show kartr hai or bat share kar deti hai ladkiya aapas mai supoort to dogi na,ab ladka physical hua hai ye bhi wo female friend ko nhi batate na, wese hi ladki male friemd ko na batai ho lekin agar koi presani ho to ladke humshaa sath rehta hai Lekin jab ladke emotional, ya koi probm mai ho to kisis ko frl nhi parta ladke keheg bahi hai ladki thodi hai asa aur ladki to ladko ki madad kar hi nhi skti, busy hu kehakr bat hi nhi karegi Ro nhi kste ka gana nhi gate rote hai wo bhi behn lekin dikhate nhi bas Aur ye 100 mai se 95 asa hi hota hai Whi kuch kadkiya hogi jo na dikhati ho 100 mai 5 asi ho skati hai
@@raksha676 aapne kha physical ho jati thi to uske bad phone nhi uthate to ye saf pta chl jata hai ki time pass hai kyuki physical ek bar thodi hoys hai bas, aur ladkiya bhi kitni sari physical hona chati hai lekin badnam ladke hai bas
Sir humare saath ek narcissistic Relition ship me ae sab ho gya hai hum sirf uske gulam te aur kuch nahi na us insan ko bul sakte te na uske begar rah sakte te ae gaw jb tk hamare jendagi rahege tb tk bul nahi payenge 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 hum ne bahut kuch kiya us insan kiliye liken o hamare pyaar ko samj nahi paye 😭😭
@@bhakti-sangam793 ladkiyon ladko dono k sath aisa hota hai jo jada pyar krta unke sath hi aisa hota samne wala taken fr granted le leta. Ajkl k time me true luv ki koi value nhi
