Been there done that but happy to say I'm now a year and a month plus celibate. Sometimes you have to take control of your body back, love it and respect it.... above all share it with those that are worth it and deserve it and chosen by you.
@@omadjourney I have read and I understand. . And yeah the streets are terrible place to grow up as a black child, I was almost caught up in that lifestyle, but I never went all the way in because of the values I was taught as child, when a mother encourages her son to become great, it gives that man a purpose. And he will avoid things that will take him away from his mission. Im also celebate or at least I try to be. It's not just women who lose something after sex, as men we lose our drive and ambition when we become sexually active, we believe we have made it in life and so only put half effort towards our goals. So we all lose by being loose. Most of the greatest men on earth have practiced some sort of celebacy long periods of time. Jesus Christ, Nelson Mandela, ghandi, Steve jobs, dila lama, ect and plenty more.
James has never been able to control himself when it came to women. He has no respect for them and thinks there just there to have sex with, why doesn't he just be man and say I want to just have a casual relationship (sex) and thats it. He will never change so women need to stop thinking they'll be the one to take his heart because he couldnt keep it in his trousers on TOWIE and his still saying his got issues that need dealing with...No James you just love casual sex, STI Alert Lady's lol.
...or maybe he just didn't fancy her in the end. Overall, James is not particularly promiscuous on Towie - he's always in long-term romantic relationships with women who get possessive over him. He can be a deceitful asshole, but he's not an immature player who will sleep with anything. That's more Dan Edgar, or Mark Wright. James' problem is that he never wants to compromise for the other person, and he never expresses his emotions - so his girlfriends get insecure about whether he loves them. They get controlling, then he cheats on them almost out of spite. Yeah, it's awful, but he's not a happy-go-lucky horndog who can't control himself.
Actually any women who does 20 minutes of research on youtube can figure out what he is all about. Most of the women he’s with actually KNOW what he is like yet they trick themselves into believing that he will somehow change for them. James doesn’t express himself much but it’s quite clear if you read between the lines that he just wants to date without commitment
He’s not a player lol, he’s a loser. “Players” are teenagers and immature men; real men are capable of more than just sex, he clearly has no depth and there’s obviously nothing more to him than a penis. She’s not missing out on anything.
WeirdInternetz exactly my point; immature, loser guys think that sex is the prize and that’s all there is and just try to blame the girl for being “easy” to try to cover up their inadequacy in being incapable of more. Tho I do agree that some girls do give it away too easily, but who knows in this video how he’d manipulated her into bed.
@@lauratt7743 sex is the prize. There is a reason men become depressed straight after sex. Research it. If we don't like you in anyway other than sexually then best belive after the sex we are gone. You can convince yourself otherwise if you want. But my advise to you is keep it In your pants until you build a genuine connection with a guy.
Joshua Kingsley Odigie yeah it doesn’t look great, a bit of enhancing can look good especially if it makes you better inside but if this lady carries on she will resemble the cat lady.
should be kicked off the show for that - unless 'the agency' is ok with the label the the law uses in association with grooming and enabling predators.
Sam Serrao I know the fact he just slept with her and didn’t want to take her on a second date is pretty harsh, it’s got nothing to do with him having issues within himself as said to Paul he wants to see other girls just not the girl he banged!! How awful, all that surgery and a man doesn’t even want to bang her again, sorry can’t help but to cackle, phahaha!!
@@amityvillehorrorfan1840 I agree. Some of these comments are acting as though rejecting women = hating women. Calling men "pigs" for having sex when it's offered. I don't get it.
@@pneron2032 Let's not lump all of feminism together. That's like lumping all Christians together, or all centrists. It's quite varied, really. There's feminists who hate men, and then there's feminists who just want a woman to get equal pay if they're doing the same job as a man.
Kevin Lynch she kind of did lol but he just rejected her after having sex lol, don’t think she’s going to beg him on national tv is she, you can clearly tell She was gutted, all that surgery and he didn’t even want to take her on a second date! Phahaha
She shouldn't have slept with him so quickly. He's a player - surely she knew that. You can't give men like that too much power, so early on in a relationship.
Amy Stott you literally said “if you ask me”. Anyway, if you have a point please make it as otherwise I have no idea what the purpose of your comments are.
Amy Stott lol you’ve made no point whatsoever, it’s hilarious that you think you have. Oh the irony of you accusing someone else of bullying with your rude comments.
Amy Stott you’ve not made a point by not having made a point. If you feel you have indeed made your point (lol) then why are you continuing to comment especially as it’s not getting you anywhere.
