When Tamera said "can you walk us through that night?" while this girl was already on the brink of tears, I shouted "What? Whatchu mean?" in a Tamar voice
Right like why would you even want to ask her about something so tragic just for views 🙄🙄😩 So you want her to walk you through the tragic death of her brothers. I don’t like them smh 🤦🏽♀️ They Are Still mourning dang! 😩
@@shaetillman8362 You know people have to approve the questions before they go on the show right? She knew she would have to talk about her brothers' murder and the host don't come up with the questions.
This woman has superpower strength. I'd be grieving for over a year. The day I finally stepped out of my house I would have gained 100lbs due to not leaving my house. More power to this woman. ✨
+iam deja I actually dealt with death before and I couldn't eat for weeks. I didn't take it well so I know for a fact I'm not as strong as her. Granted, I was a child at the time tho
+Dee Jay well friend I'm glad you made it out ! I remember in 2012 I was 11 when I lost my grandfather when he passed from a bad liver and I used to visit him in the hospital and I remember at one point it had gotten so bad he had to have a breathing machine to help him breathe & he wasn't able to talk and I know he didn't to keep on living like that ! Thank he made it to 61 he lived such a wonderful life ! He was a man I looked up to and he was an OUTSTANDING father figure and he gave back to his community ! That day I found he died I was lost for words ! I don't even know how I just moved on with life so easily ! Like two weeks later I was like "He was better off just being in heaven" because I didn't want him suffering. But what got me through that time was my mother and brother because at that point I realized " Hold on to the relationships and the loved ones you have now because you never know when something could happen to you or them" no I wasn't depressed but it was hard!
She actually doesn't care she's just happy that it wasn't her and she only cares for the money who wouldn't grieve for their loved ones if they actually care
To lose two brothers at once must be horrible. I lost a brother in 2012 and it was horrible. I can't imagine losing two brothers at once. Stay strong Toya and praying for your family.
As black people we need to start dealing with the issues that are affecting our community. Black on black violence IS a problem. In order for black lives to matter to others they need to matter to black people first!
+ Emma Baker But I'm not addressing violence in general. I'm addressing the violence that occurs amongst young black men. As an older black man and father of 2 sons that is where my concern is and will always be!
I agree 100% this is not what MLK or Malcom X fought and died for we as a people need to put a end to all this violence because if we don't stop it nobody else will ijs
Be specific and say "As African American" Not all black people on the planet have your issues. The senseless killings amongst yourselves (African Americans) have to stop. Do you know the recent stats of YOUR people in Chicago south side
Missy Kay If it doesn't apply to you, then don't say nothing. Ignore the post and move along. We know what people are doing that's why the person said something. You don't have to bring up the stats when we witness and know what's going on in our community.
They're asking question because she AGREED TO BE ON THE SHOW! What are they supposed to do? Have five minutes on dead air on a live show? Wtf is wrong with you? If she didn't want to answer the questions she wouldn't have agreed to be on the show. Swear some of you ghetto chicks have sieves for brains.
lol dude you need to relax..it's called having compassion and looking at Toya, wondering why there was a need to ask so many questions, is natural unless you're cold-hearted. These shows be wanting rantings and often forget they are dealing with human beings..so what if they were to give her time to get through the questions? They know how to keep the show going and shouldn't take much to speak on violence or comment on coping mechanisms when dealing with the murder of a loved one while she takes the time with her responses. Mad for no real reason =P
My thoughts and prayers continues to be with Toya, Her daughter, Mother, Father, Family, Friends, and Loved ones of her brothers. May they rest in eternal peace.
I don't even think it really hit her yet that's why she can talk about it. It took me 2yrs to really accept my mom's death. I cried when it happened but like she said, I kind of went numb to avoid dealing with it. But boy when it hit me I lost it😞
I've lost 3 brothers, 2 in one night from a shooting. I was with them when it happened..I know how she feels. That pain is so deep and raw. I didn't fall apart until the funeral..I hope she can get thru this..I know she lost a cousin too.
My condolences to you and your family let's spread this all across the world it takes a village....🛑 STOP BLACK ON BLACK KILLING its not cool we have to make a change as a whole race it starts somewhere I feel like it will take us black women to help our black men get where they need to be in the head at least us women with good sense we birth them they are killing one another at rapid rate like they in iraq.. while we are going through a whole race war as well it makes not one lick of senses because all involved suffer in the end its not worth it please stop killing one another for no reason smh...❤🙏❤😔
Praying the lord wraps his arms around you and gives you the strength to persevere and not let their names live in vain. God bless you and may they rest in peace 🙏🏼📿🛐
This is opening up old wounds and making someone relive their trauma. Which is a complete No. If you don't know how to close the wounds, dont open them.
When she said, "that pain'', I resonated with that. I witnessed my uncle leave this earth. Some people come close to death themselves, but witnessing someone else brush death is......unspeakable. It's not normal pain, it's a soul-wrenching pain.
She and Jennifer Hudson should talk to each other and she can reach Jennifer Hudson for counsel about something like this because Jennifer Hudson has also been through a similar number of events. I hope they will find a friendship from this. Also I understand Adrienne had to ask questions but I would have hoped she wouldn't have questioned her further on it.
they should and force the black music community to at least acknowledge the senseless killings in these communities. BET award show and no one brought it up
Just hearing how her mom reacted to the news almost gave me a heart attack. She did not DESERVE to bury two kids. I will NEVER survive if that happens to me!
She has to be very strong for her to come on the show and talk about this. I can't imagine what she is feeling while reeling with this type of pain. She is a strong lady for speaking on this to help others going through this. I remember how she really wanted to take Rudy up under her wing on the first year of her reality show.
got me crying like crazy.i remember when my baby brother was murdered and when I got to the scene i went crazy.I'm going to pray for toya and her family
Why! bcuz she should not even been there? That's Tamar's bestfriend. I would be crying too, after betraying my friend. Toya could've told anybody her story except them. Smh. How would you feel if your bf went to a job that fired you and loved it? Upset, and now unsure of them right? Ok that's what happened here sir. Sad about her brothers tho. I loved their family show! I thought that Toya was a loyal friend, it doesn't look that way here, so the storyline should've said Tamar's ex bf, Memph ex wife, and Wayne ex baby mama TOYA! I wouldn't be surprised if she starts working there. #Loyal
Impossible to listen to this without getting teary eyed. 2 gorgeous Kings taken away far too soon. May their Spirits forever live in love. No words will ever take the pain away as I know too well what it feels like to lose a Brother. My condolences goes out to you and your family Toya.
I've alway loved toya. shes so genuine and beautiful inside and out. stay strong girl. This is the first time Loni looked sincere because this is a real and tragic situation. When her co-hosts are having their "real" moments she gives them the side eyes like you're crying for bs (i.e. Tamar's muppett story)
I went through something similar in June. my brother was murdered. I still can't believe he's gone. I miss him very much. so I completely understand what Toya is feeling. 😞😔
The strength that she, her mom and family need to have to get through this major loss. I can't even imagine. I felt this one, my prayers for this family. There goes to show, violence only kills innocent people for no fucking reason. It needs to stop. ASAP!
I pray we in the black community can find a way to deal with some of these violence. The're already enough people who don't value us, we need to find a way to value ourselves. I know the problem is systemic (and spiritual imo) but we need to do our part.
+ Emma Baker "Not just the black community, white as well" Last time I checked Toya and her family were black. Which is why you will see other people commenting on the relationship between the black community and violence. Why is it that white people like yourself, always act like you're being left out, its not always about you.
Ew who is thumbs upping you??? Wtf no stop trying to take attention away from what really happened IN THIS SITUATION. We KNOW violence is a GENERAL ISSUE. But this is DIFFERENT, so stop harping on about that white this white that too bullshit.
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Oh my lord. Just hearing her tell the story I imagined myself in her shoes and I started shaking like unstoppable . Its like i could feel her pain and I started crying.
Out of respect for her, I feel like this topic was inappropriate since it's a sensitive subject and discussing something which is recent must of been super hard. I applaud her for the way she conducted herself, super strong woman, she done really well. Prayers go out to her and anyone else effected by this. 🙏🏾
My little brother was murdered 3 years ago and we have yet to have justice. This hurt my heart to the core because I absolutely feel her pain. you'll never accept it but you'll learn to live with it. Rest in peace Josh and Rudy ❤❤❤❤
I can feel her pain I lost one brother in 2013 and then my other last month 2 days after his birthday in a motorcycle accident they both were 34. It was almost the same way, got the call, rushed to the scene, wasn't able to get close to him because of how tragic it was, I was hysterical and it's still unreal to me, I miss him so much. Ride in paradise brother 9/2/82 - 9/4/16 My angel now. All of you who ride be safe!
I was born and raised in New Orleans and people think crime has gotten worst since Katrina. No crime been like that. I left for Katrina and did not return. My mom returned and did not want us or her grand kids to visit because of the crime so she decided to relocate to Dallas. I'm so sad for Toya and her family sometimes change is better get your family out if you can.
I wish Toya and her family the absolute best! This is so tragic. I couldn't help but tear up. I have 3 brothers myself and I can't imagine this happening to them...it's horrible. May her brothers rest in peace!
Toya is very brave and I'm glad she did this interview. it is therapuict to speak and open up and death. voilence is everywhere and I pray that her family gets justice and peace.you can hear her voice cracking and she is very strong to use this as a platform to open up about such a tragidy.its just shows that she is human and she deals with things just like any person.
i lost my brother to gun violence in 2012..When it hits her or if it has it will knock the wind out of her,I tried being strong for my mom & some one hugged me and said sorry for your loss,I blacked out when I awoke i was screaming ....praying for Toya and her family
so sad.. he must have told her he loved her in that text, something she must won't use to him saying to her.. and she just wrote it off as a dumb brother text, but now he's dead she can see it was all love... So Sad.. God Bless
I've lost a brother as well & watching this made me break down, I understand & feel what your feeling, the situation maybe different but our pain stays the same😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
I have two brothers & is three are always attached at the hip & no joke I'm always scared that they r dead somewhere & if this happened to me I wouldn't be able to do this I couldn't be able to do anything cuz those two we're like the only siblings I knowingly had in the house & we shared a room & a bunk bed which made us close we shared clothes (they didn't want to but what are they gonna say to a 4 year old no nah they always said yes) & all I have to say it that the family is strong & I hope they make it through this tough time
I know this feeling all too well I lost my brother 3 years ago and I’m still not healing from it. It hurts so much for me to lose my brother like that but I keep on pushing and doing good for him.
I totally stand with you Toya ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love you so much and I really hope the police catches that awful man I hope you are feeling good and my deepest condolences to you and your entire family
Toya is sooo beautiful and I pray that her family get the peace and justice just as my family & I are awaiting peace and justice for one of my brothers. I feel her pain as my brother passed the same way. Love you Toya, in time God WILL bring both our cases to a close, a PEACEFUL one.
