Traci & Evelyn's Heart-to-Heart | Braxton Family Values 

Indeed and Amen 🙏🏾

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How can you rest until eternity?

She was valued!

@@abdurahmanmohamed3378 I am sure we all know what she mean’t 🙃

I totally agree... and that couldn't have been said any better

Soo True!

YUPP!!!!

Agreed my mom is a better grandparent than she ever was a parent and so now she tries to correct the mistakes she made with me through my son but don't try to belittle my role as mother so that you can be a better grandparent though. I'm sure alot of mothers can relate to this situation cause my grandparents were totally different people from what my parent said they were. Its like a whole nother person they talking about. When you become a grandparent it changes so much of you as a person when that next generation comes into play.

Then apologize to your child for not doing it right with them so that they understand why you're different as a grandmother

Yes I just hope it was real because stress can kill.I am learning to release things that no longer serve me and to forgive even if that person can no longer be apart of my life because holding that stuff in will make you ill. I was so saddened to hear of Tracey passing.My prayers are with her family and may she fly high with Jesus.

@@kimberlyagee7338 - Absolutely, I agree. Well said! And yes, I pray she was saved in Jesus Christ ✝️🙏🏽

We're all "saved" - unconditional love means just that, as does free will.

@@RnBReworked - I disagree, but you’re certainly entitled to your philosophy and opinion.

@@JohnThreeSixteen7373 Fair enough 🙂

It's the authenticity that makes a person a black sheep in a family.

@@Blissedx Facts. I'm the black sheep in my family.

Me too

Glad they got a chance to heal. Evelyn did a great job by admitting her wrong and telling her that she loved her, before it was too late.

I agree!

Evelyn would never ever have admitted it had the conversation not been videoed. All these yrs she hasn't said a word to Traci about loving her and relationships or nothing. How long will that last. I wonder if she wall call her and just see how she is doing

This had me crying and smiling. It’s hard to admit that you don’t know everything as a parent to your children. After almost losing Tamar, maybe Ms. E will start seeing her girls as individuals/people and not just her children. I pray they continue to blossom and learn and come back together as a family. 🙏🏾❤️

@@estherfarris3802 Exactly Ev could careless ...she really makes me sick because she plays favorites

@@estherfarris3802 evidently you know Ms E and her motives.

Amen

Facts

What good is a marriage if y'all are both cheating on eachother

@@hannahbarbarian6786 was Traci cheating?

@@2358H okay, that makes more sense then. Traci really didn't seem like the cheating type at all.

@@texan903 traci admitted that both her and her husband were cheaters

AMEN AND TRACI NEEDED TO HEAR THAT

Evelyn is such a mess, she lied to Tracey with such a straight face! Nevertheless I am soooooo very proud of the women Tracey has become.

Amen

Yes I agree. I love Traci ♥️

I agree with you they treat Traci so bad sometimes yesss Tra 👍

More like her RESPECT that she so deserves, yeah Tracey!!!

Yassss

We, as individuals set the standard of how others treat us... if you notice, traci is JUST NOW valuing herself, and no longer seeking validation. Shes just now maturing like her mom said. After so much hurt and now being a granny, I guess she has learned. She too played a big part in the madness.

I feel she was right but, just went about it in the wrong way. But, they obviously used to her behavior and they actually do respect each other. Sometimes family just think they can say and do anything cus they are your family but, that’s not right. Treat me with respect and just cus I’m your child don’t mean I should be treated like like a child if I’m grown.

Amen.

Well maybe her past trauma hasn’t been dealt with properly? Have you actually talked to her, or just acted stressed. Can see why she can’t let things go if everyone else feels this way too.

@@ineedya123 I honestly believe so too and they definitely feeling it now !!!! Everything

Amen 🙏🏼

AMEN 😇🙏🏾

Mhm I'm struggling with acceptance that Traci is gone. I still say No, why, why oh why. It's still like a dream. I feel for miss Evelyn. I feel for her sisters, i feel for everybody.

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Now she's gone😢

Aq(

Because she was sick 😫

That's my mom's words all day. Yall this, yall that, when she talking about only one of us in reality 😆 and we're in our 30s and 40s!!

So true; give flowers to the living!🙏🏽

T

She was my favorite too 😢

Mines to she’s more real

Absolutely love Traci💞

Me too!! Since Day 1

@@cynthiaadams2392 Same here Always From the jump

Traci also held a grudge on her family for her own mistakes that also somewhat hender them from moving foward. Even during Tamar suicide attempt she said she didn't care what happens to her. That's unfair because Traci wasn't the only one crying out for help. Tamar just expressed hers different..hopefully tut he grudges were let go and peace were made upon everyone

@@USER1236630 she is gone now so it's no point in this. Tamar is still alive. Be positive

@@Blue-zx5mp Amen! You are right!

@Blue AMEN!! Facts

@@Blue-zx5mp don't tell me to be positive when the whole post is negative. She only bringing up issues they had in their family and didn't even focus on the good times like singing, jokes, love and ect they also displayed..its also tasteless to bring that to when the family is grieving. Traci is gone unfortunately but the family is also concern about Tamar mental that can possibly make her try kill herself again and possible succeed. This post is insensitive as well. It's a family grieving and all yall can do bring up old issues they had. Stfu

VERY true! .. she actually is a counselor, and many people don’t seem to know that.

Woman not girl

She taught them to be bitter

@@dayum_mi ..I had d same conversation with my Mother it Works 👍🏼🙏🏼

@@joycecoatesbennett9541 thats great your mother was receptive. Not everyone has that luxury. I pray your relationship grows stronger

Please go watch that episode, that’s not Tracy’s house. The sisters with the exception of Tamer went on a vacation somewhere, planned by Toni to celebrate Toni’s birthday. So their mom passed by to cook for them and that’s when Traci took the opportunity to have this conversation with her.

@@akuamoff7272 Her house WAS shown on the show tho, and it was pretty, with a beautiful garden. Might not of been in this scene,but I haven't watched this scene in over a year tbqh. Have a nice day. :)

Her house was beautiful she had good taste I liked her house the most out of all of them

I agree. I just cried my eyes out.

I feel the same way and the terrible news of her passing is so heartbreaking 😪😪😪

Hope you find that you are of value and you were created for a purpose no matter what others say.

@@lanonda38 Thankyou, I needed to hear that!

Take some time away, if you have to, love. I OVERstand how you feel, and like Traci, I've learned to set boundaries and pull away, when I need to. My peace is so important to me, now, and I won't let ANYBODY take it away, FAMILY included. I just started going back to counseling, and it has really been helping me. Even if not by your family, you are valued and loved. Tell yourself that any time you feel that you aren't. Ask God to send divine connections to uplift and encourage you, and to sever the ones that are toxic and draining. He will!! TRUST ME!!!!! Be encouraged, love.❤

Me to

Are you the oldest too? Seems to be the case with a lot of the 1st borns.

Me n my Mother had d same conversation. Then she Passed 08/20..That was so good..We both Cried...But i was so Happy to hear...She Loved like my Other 6 sisters n 5 Bothers🙏🏼🙏🏼👍🏼❣❣

Idk why but i laughed so hard. The truth!

She treats all her kids differently! Hello!! She just said she’s human! She’s going to have different relationships with each kid. She treats Trina and Towanda the same but they don’t care, unlike Traci.

She never treated her different

I think you are wrong. I’m sure Traci felt her mom treated her differently, or didn’t pay much attention to her (we can’t dismiss that) However, I don’t think it stemmed from the parent’s divorce. It had to be an issue prior, that made it easy for Traci to even choose her father’s side in the first place. It’s deeper than the divorce.

@@Aliasss Traci didn't choose her father's side. She chose just to continue to have a relationship with her dad. You don't divorce children, you divorce adults the other parent. Now Ms. Evelyn has made it clear that she's glad that Traci has continued to be close to her dad as she should. I think its the other sisters that resent Traci for making that choice and I mean its easier for her to do so because their brother and father are in Maryland with Traci. Also, I think because Traci is older she's like after Toni as the bigger sister she feels like Traci should handle things a little different especially when dealing with Tamar. Traci is a grandmother now so she can't be acting ratchet and can't be popping off at people like that and thats why her mom came at her at Trina wedding the way she did

Boundaries are very important, no matter who it is. It keeps peace in your sport an home. I'm that boundary type in my family. I'm the one who don't play the back an fourth with my family or friends. Respect my space an limitations an we good

Me too Sis! You are not alone!🤗

Girl same

Yes...I too feel your pain, but the indifferent is always the one they really can rely on...we are survivors!

Exactly

Precisely

This!!!!!

I was thinking the same thing to

But Reality TV is fake

I don’t know what her generation is, but I got the most love and affection from people who are now in their 80s and 70s. Some of them apologize and admit when they are wrong, others are mean, hurtful, unapologetic and cannot humble themselves to admit wrong. Those types are in EVERY generation.

Good for her. It's called boundaries!

False equivalence. Tamar never had an issue with her sisters not respecting her.

@@JCole-fg3rr This must be your first time watching the show because Tamar had problems and disrespect everyone on this show, even her own mother. She would throw tantrums everytime her sisters would defend themselves, the world would come to an end of her sisters do so but when it comes to her disrespect her sisters and have her opinion, they have to be quiet and accept whatever she say.

@@askboutluiss you didn’t understand what J said at all 😭

@@askboutluiss I’m sorry, I read your comment wrong. I thought you were saying that Tamar had to scream and ignore everyone for her to get respect. I was like huh? Lol

This is so harsh and unfair. You don’t know that they excluded her or if Traci excluded herself. The snippets we saw on TV are grossly edited to create a narrative. Those sisters labored and tolerated long with Traci’s self-induced insecurities. Not disrespecting the deceased, but the whole world is coming for her sisters and that’s not fair. Tamar had Traci open for her tour (for example) and folks’ memory faded. Traci was resentful when they boycotted WeTV for poor wages and she couldn’t because she had no other source of income - but somehow that narrative got flipped. Traci spent a large part of her life being resentful because her sisters didn’t bow to her circumstances and choices. Even in this clip she says “I’m not my siblings.” Yet she choose to be a part of the show (for example). She could have done like their brother and only made cameo appearances and continued live her life on her own terms. She jumped in and played the victim A LOT! May she Rest In Peace.

They MISTREATED and abused her. 🥺 It hurt to watch.

@@followpeace351 Traci spoke for herself. We watched it , we listened .

Yesssssssss I thought that tooo and her husband did not play with nobody about her and had her back up and down

@@willwife05 You so right! Her husband had her back when it came to her toxic family!

Imagine watch this now.. This has a whole new meaning...

True but i'm glad Evelyn took responsibility in the part she played, and Traci got to hear that before she died.

@@lstarsabb no they were not on good terms after this. She didn’t like how she was close to her dad.

Totally agree….Traci and Trina were my favorites.

Tamar always feels like she's the best but she's not she always has to put do her sisters she even tried to sing like Tracey in some of her songs I've never cared for her i love Traci ❤️