Tracie Spencer - It's All About You (Not About Me) 

I'm glad she's back on the scene

I used to be obsessed with this song!!!!! ❤❤ Tracie if you out there, girl this was a true bop!

Something about the 90s.. They have the BEST music video directors.... Billie Woodruff, Hype Williams, Joseph Khan. Made some of the best music videos ever .....

20th anniversary! Who listenin in 2019?

It's hard to comprehend that this is almost 20 years old. This video was ahead of its time, It still has that clean, modern-contemporary feel. It could easily be a music video of today if only it was shot in HD quality.

I’VE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS SONG FOR YEARS!!! I can’t believe I finally found it. Thought it was something that was made up lol.

This song came in my head out of nowhere ...so now I'm here 😂

This song is sadly underrated. Straight banger

This was my summer jam, and I remembered the video being played on BET and I said that is more mature Tracie Spencer that's all grown up ever since she signed with Capitol EMI releasing her self titled debut in 1988 followed by the 1990 Make the difference album and now 1999s Tracie with this slammin hit single "It's all about you (not about me)" and back then I said this sounds like Whitney Houston's Heartbreak Hotel feat Faith evans and Kelly price.

Remember the first time I heard it I was in love with this women all over again

This video was in heavy rotation on B.E.T back in the day

This song, "Fill Me In" by Craig David, "15 Minutes" by Marc Nelson, "808" by Blaque, and "The One" by Aaron Skyy were my 1999 summer jamz 🔥🔥

I still love this song.. July 2023

This was a regular vid on BET's Midnight Love Show

Took me 21 years to find this song. I remembered the video and chorus vaguely. Can't believe i found it

Oh my gosh I haven't heard this in years but I still remember every word

Tracie need unsung. It’s a shame what happened to her?🙁

One of the best pop r and b songs of all time

I used to keep this on REPEAT!!! i'm still a fan,hope she can come out with some more music:)

Heard Tracy on the radio tender kisses then I went down the rabbit hole of my childhood!!!! Love ya ❤ It’s giving Carrie ❤

This video and parts of this song has been fractured in my mind for decades. I always tried to remember it, who sang it.... Then today, I found a BET midnight love play list on spotify and I FOUND IT. it's all flooding back lol. I love the internet some times.

Have you ever checked out her previous 2 albums? If not, you should.... for those of us who were older than 9 when this came out, it was the 1st we'd seen her in years. I was happy to see that she re-emerged from her teen years to come back out as a smooth sophisticated woman with an album that reflected that. Still love her 1st 2 albums also.

This was thee lowkey hit.It still sounds so different even till this day.One of the best songs that didnt blow up like it shouldve.

Love Tracie... This video was most definitely ahead of its time

You can tell now that she's a grown woman in this one. Still have that voice and 90's style that I miss so much.

I am glad that I grew up. Around good music. #imissrnb

This got that late 90s early 2000 sound!!! NICE!!!?? Her sound definitely got updated

Why is this masterpiece NOT in HD?

I liked her because she was talented kept her clothes on and still sexy. I read that she received a Graduate degree from some school in the northeast and she never got married...I think she maybe the only Grad school R&B singer that alone gets props!!!

I remember this song in the late 90s

The only other female artists nowadays that maintains that classic 90s late 80s sound which sounds so pure and wonderful would be Chante Moore and Tamia👍👍👍

She was speaking the truth on this one.

This sounds like late 90’s early 00’s listening to this now it’s crazy how much the sound has changed

I liked the remix with The Roots more but ❤❤❤still one of the best R&B songs that came out in ‘98

Had this dope ass album!!! She's a beast!!!

OMFG!! I have finally found this song after weeks of searching.. Had no idea what her name was or even what the song was called until I wiki'd R&B artist a-z lol... and as soon as I saw the name Tracie I shouted "FUCKEN FINALLY"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Still one of the best songs EVER to help you through a break-up.

Tracie is a great rnb singer. I love this song. I have the single. The song is very emotional. It's All About You (Not About Me)" was the first single of her third album "Tracie" released in 1999. The video is wonderful. The director is Francis Lawrence. He is from Vienna, Austria. He worked with many artists: Jay Z, Destiny's Child, Shakira, Will Smith, Beyonce ans Lady Gaga. He also directed the movie Constantine in 2005 and I am Legend in 2007. Tracie you need to come back! We need you!

When we first met stole my heart away Your love was incredible Wonderful Then you began to change You used to make me feel special Now all you do is make me cry I gave you my everything baby But all you gave me was lies I, I try to be the one for baby, you you never was into nothin' what I do, do That's why I'm leaving 'Cause it's all about you And not about me I, I try to be the one for baby, you you never was into nothin' what I do, do That's why I'm leaving 'Cause it's all about you And not about me When we get in a fight I'm always the first to apologize Even if it was you who did wrong I never do enough to please you That's why I can't go on No matter what I do for you It's never any good for you You always got to complain That's why I got to say I can't stay I, I try to be the one for baby, you you never was into nothin' what I do, do That's why I'm leaving 'Cause it's all about you And not about me I, I try to be the one for baby, you you never was into nothin' what I do, do That's why I'm leaving 'Cause it's all about you And not about me Selfish baby Anything you want I do I never understand how you Could treat me bad and be so cruel You're begging me to come back to you Baby I gave you all my love But what I had was not enough You turned around & broke my trust Got the nerve to ask me What about us? I, I try to be the one for baby, you you never was into nothin' what I do, do That's why I'm leaving 'Cause it's all about you And not about me

I was a kid when this came out i finally found it omg 😂💓

1999! I was in Elementary school! Good Times in '99!

I was looking for a Travie McCoy song and accidentally spelled Tracie and she popped up and I remembered I used to be obsessed with this song!

She is all grown up

This was my 🔥🔥🔥 i couldn’t remember who sang this song and finally saw it again in a clip on insta and fell back in love with this song 🔥🔥🔥🤎

Sad to see her singing this song. That someone treated the little Tracie Spencer I remember like that..

This music had it really going on those days....

So happy I came across this time piece today. This song is so relevant in these times and would never get old

She was speaking the straight truth about those jerks out there in this song. I always loved this since I was a youngster, its so real.

Gosh I Was So In Love With Tracie Spencer As A Kid.

HOT throwback!!🔥🔥🔥🔥

I remember when she came back with this banger!

CLASSIC!!!❤🔥

I will love to see Tracie Monique Spencer on #Usung

It’s the futuristic video & ice cold beat for me.

Tracie Spencer 80s,90s excellent ,Amazing Volcals hit after hit and this was a badd ass song showed her grown up side!! Come back Tracie!!

She was only like 23 when this came out.. Imagine that when Tender Kisses came out in '91

I been lookn for this jam...this was tight

Wow....wow...memory lane

I just discover this song and I’m in love with it been on repeat the last few days

Shanice Wilson and Tracy Spencer = Brandy and Monica

I love this song

I bought the CD back in 1999, ten years ago, man, it does not seem like it was that long ago. The CD was very good, she hasn't put anything out since then, it's a shame, I really like Tracie Spencer.

i was about 5 when this vid came out. i loved it so much. i wish she would come bac. she was ahead of her time.

Now I feel old as hell because I can remember being a senior in high school when this song and video came out. Hard to believe that was almost nine years ago.

Great song and great francis lawrence video

Love this song then she came out with still in my heart 💜 she is awesome! 🙏🏾

Omgosh, I remember this

💚 I had this CD single when I was 18-19! I loved it! It was always in my mind through the years, the beats and melodies were addictive, it was very underrated then, I felt like I was the only one that knew of it, I loved KSJL every morning b4 school with the tom joyner morning show with the 'Its your world' radio soap opera!😂who remembers that?!😂

man my girl in high school used to sing this song. great song

Why I'm now finding about this I don't remember this coming out ! This is good I wonder why this wasn't a bigger hit .

This Still Goes Hard Today!!!! Tracie Will Always Be One Of My Top 5 Female Singers Of All Time

It’s funny how people keep saying what happened to her? I think she is fine. Getting out of that industry probably was the best thing that happened to her. She had been in it since 3 years old! She’s free!!

This was my JAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Here in 2024 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 A lost treasure thats finally been rediscovered for so many of us I see ☺️☺️☺️

When I tell you I have been trying to find this song for over a decade.... its TRUE!!! I remember the video was cool bcuz she was turning into mutant and fvckin the house up!!! The only part I remembered was you you you and I I I..... I used to sit backwards on the chairs and kuss them out like her 😂😂😂

how does this only have 200k views surely???

August 2019🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

I always thought the super power concept was very cool and different for R&B period. She killed it! Sum of the other singers at that time might've been kickin' themselves for not comin' up wit dat concept.

I've been trying to remember the name of this song for the longest time!!! This song + Still In My Heart!

I feel so old I bought this cd back in '99' lol I love Tracie Spencer she was the ish!

This song and video was so dope and brings back so many childhood memories!

wow i have this single! this is good music right here. i wish she was back!

One OF My Favorite Jam's @TracieSpencer🙌🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥

This song was played alot on the radio and in the clubs but what really blew it up was MTV and BET playing this video heavy rotation along with their other popular Dance Pop music videos by other music artists. I got Dance mixes on cassette tapes from 103.5 KTU New York and Z100 back in 1999 and 2000 when they played a lot of music by Tracie Spencer during that time and also by artists like Ginuwine, Sisqo, Aaliyah, Will Smith, TLC, Nsync, Backstreet Boys, OMC, Enrique Iglesias, Christina Aguilera, Fun Factory, Next, Blaque, Debelah Morgan, Ricky Martin, Rockell, Marc Anthony, Angelina, Cynthia, Stevie B, Destiny's Child and Sonique. Real Dance music kid! Yeah baby the late 90s and early 2000s were great times! Unforgettable memories. :)

Tracie was my crush🔥🔥🔥🔥

I loved this song!! I miss music like this

LOL, I remember that episode of Family Matters she was on! It's on here, I just watched it the other day. :) Remember the Shanice one? Nah, she never married him. She's still modeling and working on some new music from what I hear. She's on myspace too.

2020 here and this is still my jam

2020 and I'm here! This was a very underrated song!

Still listening in 2020! I remember listening when I was little in my sisters room on the boom box . Young with a old soul❤️

I love this song it's my favorite song she sounds amazing wonderful and looks so beautiful and gorgeous

she's from my hometown waterloo ia.....i luv this song

Wow. I remember the lyrics and did not think I would.

This came out when i was fifteen I still remember seeing this on midnight love this is a classic

Tracey came back with a bang with this song. This was in the late 90's too when music was fun and everyone could make a good hit!

after all this time i still remember this jam...loved it

Still listening in 2021. Love her and this song.

I had to be 11 lol. I love this song, plz TRACIE come back.

Really aged well: fashion, dancing, choreography, and special affects.

Thank you, she can SANG and she's Beautiful.