Hey everyone ! This is my first ever vlog on RU-vid. This is a special subject to me so really hope you guys enjoy it ! Follow me on all main socials: Beckyboultonxo
I tried to come out when I was about 14 but was meet with my mom telling me I was disgusting and she wasn't dealing with it. All my life I have felt just off and not me. I don't fit the typical masculine type. I have always felt more in touch with females. I am pretty much a girly girl but also a girl that doesn't mind to get dirty. I have hobbies that were forced on me but I grew to love. But all the time I just wanted cute outfits makeup and nails done and those beautiful female curves. The male traits don't feel right at all. I have now come out to family and friends but with not really support they just ignore it mostly. But I am in therapy and trying to be me. Your video is great. Your a wonderful person. 💝
I actually have no idea how i got to your vid, but i’m so glad i did. You inspired me so much and helped me realize i’m not alone and helped me to stop procrastinating and actually take the next step and come out to my parents. I’ve already came out to a few of my friends and they were so supportive and accepting and i really hope my parents will be the same. So i just wanna say thank you for making this vid and i hope more people that are in a similar situation to me see this vid.
Is great that nowadays there is much more acceptance for trans people. I hope you never have to suffer the level of hatred and rejection other trans people have. When it comes to you, you are ao pretty and cute that one cannot help but to love you. I'm sure that as a person you're even more beautiful as you seem very friendly and happy. I'd be honored if I ever have the opportunity to meet you in person.
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I'm so happy I came out last year! For the first time in my life, I finally feel like myself. I think I've always wanted to be a pretty girl, it just took me a long time to fully understand that it doesn't have to be just a fantasy. It's something that you really can do, you can make your dreams a reality if you work hard enough.
Never judge a book by its cover. She is a beautiful woman. Would like to correspond with her but probably that will never happen. But I totally understand her feelings. God bless you and keep you. Such a marvellous speaker enjoy your comments immense.
Always be who you are,and get what you want out of life,as long as you don't hurt anyone. But sometimes, that isn't always possible in certain scenarios... If friends love you,they will support and understand,and if they don't,they aren't really true friends... Take care, love S♥
That was a very good and inspiring story Becky. I wish I could be as brave as you and would have started my transition sooner. I am nearing 60 years old and my whole life has been living a lie and not being my true self. I have seen a psychologist for evaluation for hormones which I hope to get soon. I know what you went thru in high school as I was extremely shy and when people picked on me and bullied me I just smiled and kept going. Bravo on your story and glad to know you realized this when you were young. I never did anything when I was younger and regret it but am glad I'm starting to transition now.
You're a so nice person when you talk about your situation and good example for people in the same situation as vou or not. And you are so gorgeous and very beautiful woman for real. Sending you much love and a big hug for luck to have a happy life like you deserve pretty girl. x
Oh Becky, you are so authentic and caring for those of us who are at the beginning of realising that something needs to be done. I for one do truly have respect for you and I'm also really happy for you as well. I am also a 50 year old trans woman who has medically transitioned and so I fully understand the dynamics of the situation. Finally I just want to say that you are a stunner babe, me being envious, god bless you.
Thinking about what you said in your video, I will tell you my sister refused to speak with me for 7 years. Now, the relationship is mostly restored being that she has finally accepted me. I think she believed that she was beyond the "transworld" where she just not need to have to deal with any of my problems, but the fact is her world isn't so perfect as she recently told me. I wish I could say more but it would violate her confidence. My brother knew, and he was gay. My father knew something was up with me and thought I was gay. My sister's husband thought I was gay, and so you see, you MAY THINK you are hiding from the world but the truth is PEOPLE ALREADY KNOW something is UP with you but they just don't know what? So tell them. TELL THEM. TELL THEM. TELL THEM. If I could recover all the years I wasted waiting for my father to literally die of natural causes because I was so needlessly, blindly, pointlessly scared of him then I would have made bucket loads fewer mistakes and saved tons of money and time that I will never, never get back. The advice BECKY gives you in this video you can take as the gospel truth. You are likely to see this posting elsewhere because I would like for others not to make the same mistakes that I made or waste their lives being something they are not. I expect I will talk more about this on my RU-vid channel, but unlike Becky who has her whole life in front of her, most of my life is now behind me. Don't waste your life. Stand in your power and take action, but whatever you do, make sure you finish school. Education is everything. And for those girls out there who think they're going to marry into money, think again. You need to be able to take care of yourself.
You're a really good communicator, Becky, and you look great... I've put your video on my playlist so I hope lots of people watch it. I'd like to give you a bit of gratuitous feedback as someone who watches a lot of transgender vloggers (even complete nut jobs with 10 views). I'd really like to see a trans vlogger who combines the classic themes (when I came out...my transition etc.) with a more general picture of their life, their friends, their ideas beyond being transgender. I always loved it when Elena Genevine (or whatever she calls herself these days) took her camera to school and just started showing us her friends and teachers and stuff. However, I suppose that also has a flipside as you're giving much more to the audience and you may not want to give that. Anyway, sorry for rattling on... I really liked your first video and I think you could really make a great channel. Un abrazo xx
I feel like mothers have this superpower of knowing shit about their kids. When I came out to my mum she sat down next to me and said: "that explains SO much."
You're absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your story. I just found your channel and plan to watch all your videos. I'm 44 and just recently came out as transgender to my family and friends. It took a while to get the courage but I'm glad I did. To their credit they've all taken very well so far. I'm currently working on feminization of my chest using natural methods as surgery is out of the question for me. I'm a 36b hoping for a min 36d if you have any suggestions how to do this more effectively please let me know. I think you're amazing and it would be nice to have advice from someone who's understands how I feel.
Thank you for telling me your story.We all have one and knowing others somehow calms my tension.My mother and sister called me a freak with serious gender issues.They made me homeless.
I feel much more at home being surrounded by gorgeous transwomen than a bunch of closed minded other straight guys...on account that I'm also attracted to them, and their world is more vibrant and livelier than most.
Coming out isn't the problem getting treatment is now that i'm 23 years of age and still not on HRT. i'll never be this feminine thanks to the NHS and any other doctor crossing my path.
Hello Ms Boulton, thank you for being so brave and for helping other people with gender identity issues. I think a lot of people worry that teenagers choose to transition for the wrong reasons, and find out later that they have made a grave mistake. I realise that every case is unique but I think if you could explain a little about the counselling you received before and during the transitioning process, it might serve to enlighten people. I realise that this is a rather intimate topic but I hope you can offer us your thoughts on the subject. With the deepest respect.
That but where you was like “what the hell do I do” is exactly what i did. I just don’t know myself really. I’ve always had lots of girlfriends and as a kid liked being called amy and daughter, and today I got a huge rush feeling of. Oh shid, I want to be a girl. I’ve always showed signs of gender dysphoria slightly so maybe this was meant to happen eventually. Thanks for the video
I truly believe if we did not nurture boys and girls as we do from birth and rather treat them the same ie equal, allowing either to express their natural personal expressions of masculine or feminine attributes not discouraging or encouraging either for any children that most people would be "transgender'ish/ esgue". In begavior and appearance, with that said I believe in a better / more ideal world would and society woupd be full of many wonderful humans such as the human in this video whom I personally see as a human who is true vs a human that outwardly reflects and encourages conditioning, stereotypes etc.
You have a great story. I love your eyebrows. I don’t like the profanity though. I will be visiting my parents at Christmas. I am not out to any of my family yet. All the best to you on your journey.
You look amazing! I could never picture you as male...I would be interested to see your younger male pictures. I support you & consider you female and wish you success on your new channel! Fairly new sub here!
I consider myself to be spiritually advanced but I’m struggling with accepting this. I don’t know how to get to that level of understanding to transcend my ignorance and fear of this societal change. Gosh I wish someone could advise me.
Jennifer O'Gorman Arafa The mothers hormones can interfere with the development of the embryonic brain causing an oestrogen spike so the brain becomes feminised instead of masculinised. This can’t be reversed in the same way that homosexuality or autism can’t be reversed, these conditions are also caused by prenatal hormonal imbalances. If you are a God fearing American, this can be difficult to accept. What is easier to accept is the Adam and Eve story.
Hi becky i need bit of help deal with my ex boyfriend Morgan from high school whating go to be girl when he got special needs but he wants be girl he date me so I don't what to do about it i what be with morgan but i dont understand what to do for their best and he what be date him has girl i am not homophobic i feeling he was blackmailing me for it please help
I'm transgender I loved your video gotta watch the curesing I had to turn the sound down when other people walked in the room I curse too some people use the curse to comdem the whole video cause they don't like the subject matter
So proud of you! Im 16 and getting hormones soon..... btw my parents/ hole familie is not supportieve. wel I know that when Im 18 my mom is going to kick my ass out, she is really a transphobic 😕 so idk where Im going but whatever 😶
Alexis Shine Stay strong ! And remember to always be yourself no matter what. The real freedom in life is you and what you make it. Never give up on yourself 😊
Its amazing to me that most of the transwomen I have watched on RU-vid embracing their pass. What would you say to a person that they have a lot of trouble embracing their pass ? There are a few that don't want to be called transgender but to be recognize as a cis woman. For those people cause extreme depression and isolation.
As a heterosexual man I had to come to an understanding of why I was attracted to passable women with a dick❓Luckily I saw a great video telling me that I was attractive to her feminine womanly looking ways.. because I have never been sexually attracted to gay men; but the sexy feminine qualities of trans women..Yes I love pre opt bottom only trans women..her dick makes her sexy and it’s doesn’t make me a gay man..
Its so interesting I dont even have to hear one word and just know when someone is male to female trans its so easy to spot even after post op. But Female to male its much harder to spot.
I'm full of muscle, but I have feminine attributes, and I am not so masculine in nature either. I love being the kind of guy I am,and I would never change that.
