Triple Episode: High School Sweethearts Come To Court About Paternity | Paternity Court 

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but it all could've been avoided had he stopped cheating. They both agreed she only steps out when he does.

@@moorechristopher873 EVERY woman says I only cheated because you did. Now if that's what you wanna believe I have a bridge in Brooklyn I wanna sell you. That ex is on stanby whenever that woman wants him and if you think if only when that dude messes up you crazy. I'm glad he admitted he needed to get himself together before he considered getting back with her.

​@@moorechristopher873 oh please! that's a weak excuse that changes nothing about the truth in the doubt of the paternity. There is there no man on this earth that can make me stoop to that level, if it is against my morals and character to do so. She wanted to cheat, just like he does, she just uses his cheating as an excuse to get away with hers. except oops now a baby is brought into the mix and because we know who the mother is, the father is filled with every viable reason to doubt. That man owned up to his faults (while seemingly doing nothing to change it) while she did nothing but blame him for her choices as a grown a$$ independent woman. doing nothing but making excuses for a woman who could very simply walk away from a cheater but chooses to cheat to "get even". Cheating is still cheating no matter the reason. They're both cheaters.

@@moorechristopher873Silly comment! Men are not the ones that end up pregnant not knowing who their baby father is! She should have kept her legs closed or used protection

Exactly

True ..I kept wondering why they were coming so hard for this Man !!!

Yet she still taking up for a woman who had her in foster care at the age of 2 and saw her twice over ten years before she died, sad smh

Why was this last father did not hug his daughter after it was a nnounce that he was the father. He said he was glad but he did not show it. Anybody else notice that?.

@@yvonnegabbidon2430 yes I wonder as well

Definitely

He loves chaos too , he cheating to begin with,

No she doesn't. He has obviously cheated on her a lot yet plays the victim.She is a reflection of his treatment towards her

@@tylergoudeau well clearly but he isn't blaming someone else, while she is.

And she said no matter what the results is he still going to take care of her and a baby that’s not his if the results come back saying that he’s not the father. She’s not even thinking about how hurt he’s going to be if the baby not his.

My mom did that to me It hurts so bad, till now i don't know Who is my father, the person she put on my birth certificate is not my father! I'am struggling with depression and i don't feel like living I am 24 years old, and my life just doesn't make any sense at all! I am so lost

@@madge397 so sad! My dad got with a woman when I was younger and they had a son who looks exactly like him and me and I’m not saying my dad did good in the relationship, he was really messed up, but she now refuses to tell my brother who his dad is, in fact, she put her husbands name on the birth certificate and he’s a white man my brother is mixed. it’s been very difficult because I can’t even get in contact with him. If there comes, any chance where I can get into contact with him, I’m just waiting at this point. I hope your family is doing the same. I hope God guides your path together. ❤️

Trash!

I’m so sorry, Judge Lake! 😢

What are y’all talking about?

@@rcinfinite fr

@@rcinfinite I am guessing that her dad passed away????

Sure is

Agreed

Her mum is dead

@@dsp_91she’s still a terrible mom she should’ve told her daughter who her father was before she passed don’t defend the mom

@@johnomalley7211 who said I’m defending her mum, the woman is dead so she can’t grill her for lying to her lol

It’s hard to be mad at the dead when you are in grief. That girl needs to be in therapy.

My heart goes out to the children. They having babies like changing their underwear. I wish they thought of the children before bringing them into the world.

Makes her worse in my opinion...she had 0 humility and was no where near contrite ...he was... so why is she not addressed in this comment?

@@Novakane78 because they never hold the women accountable for their own actions and choices. She has to get it together too and stop blaming him for the choices she makes.

You only see a little bit of them here. They're probably blaming a lot more than what you see.

💯 nobody cared if you was in the system

People are trained in our society to always blame the father over the mother in almost every circumstance. They're conditioned to think of women as the victims, and men as the victimizers. Very unfortunate but true.

Trauma. Some kids cling to the parent that was there others like myself cling to the one the one that wasn't. I'm just now at 31 repairing the relationship with my mother who wasn't necessarily kind to me but was present & have chosen for my own peace of mind to go no contact with my father who i use to put in a pedalstool. It really depends. She could have respect for her mother for giving her up knowing that she couldn't do better for her children. When you're deprived of the bare minimum when it comes to love from your parent a crumb of attention seems like a grand gesture.

Maybe mom wouldn't have....had 'DAD' been there to help.

That’s because it’s emotionally easier to have an absent father than a narcissistic mother. It’s also harder being mad at the dead when you are in grief. It’s easier to scream at the living than someone you’re in grief over losing. The girl needs to be in intense therapy. Especially since she was in foster and that obviously left damage.

It's because Men will actually take accountability. Even when they don't have to.

​@@gooddogtalksthat is opposite of my experience. It was always my mother that was there, even when it was hard. My father was in the military and in and out every other year. By time I was in 4th grade, I would have preferred that he didn't come back. We were poorer when he was gone, but the world didn't revolve around him like when he was home. It was like a stranger butting in every other year. He would come in and take over. Supposedly we were close when I was a little kid, but I don't remember that. I totally understand why kids give their mothers more leeway, it's because that is who is there for them, even if they are less than perfect. Fathers walk away if they are inconvenienced. You can't trust them.

@@kadebebesis4204 so true. No matter how I express my unconditional love for my son. I still became his target. I think it's because I'm relevant in his life. Where as his father being decease and absent prior to his departure. My son had nothing tangible to Blame his father for. So as an adult and parent it's expected to bear that cross. Only because the WORLD VIEW from the eyes of a child is different from the lense of an adult. Constant communication, attentive listener, receptive to the truth ,conditioning and just getting to the root. Is all one can do for healing. Also my grandmother's kids resent her for the way she disciplined and how she expressed the kind of men they should date. I had to explain to these now adults that their mother was raised in a time that men ruled, beat women, and kept them pregnant. MY grandmother escaped that life with no education. Moved to the U.S with 5 kids. She had explained to me her world view was the segregation of various colored children be treated differently. Which was one reason why she was opposed to her children dating dark skinned men. I shared this story. Because without being receptive to the idea of listening to an individuals life choices and what molded them. We would never overstand the love of history. Thank you for sharing your experience.

​@@kadebebesis4204she is prwmature vrey, and si is she!

Big ‘ole egg head and all… chile 🙄

Yeah, when I saw one of the younger pictures of Her, I could see instantly, She is His !!!

Yup 😂

In my opinion the 3rd case at the end when the results was read he was the father he didn’t appear to be happy about it.

yess that's what i thought when the third ep begin

Exactly she’s not holding who she needs to accountable you mom left you in the system and only saw you twice and you blame the father that’s not even the father

Well it's pretty hard to be mean to a dead person.

Just didn’t want to have anything to do with taking care of them children that’s all it is point blank

My heartfelt condolences to our dear Judge Lake, may u and your dear beloved family find solace in the Lord Jesus and may dad's dear soul rest in eternal peace

Why stay when you still gon cheat on your baby mama ?

They both in the wrong either way

True

@@Faith-mi3ti no one said either one of them were right.

@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I never said anyone did 💀

No he had MULTIPLE reasons to act like that. She keeps playing herself at the same time sitting here saying he’s still gonna be with me. She’s toxic and he’s toxic. It’s a whole mess!

She’s stuck raising three of her own kids.

I wonder if He has a whole nother Family !?!?!?

@@daihalla1139 that’s exactly what it seems like. He has a woman in his ear. He don’t want to take care of any of the kids.

I was looking for this comment. I knew it couldn't just me

There was absolutely no disputing on looks

Great you’re doing okay

I caught that too. I was definitely waiting for her to say because I used protection🤦🏾‍♀️ like the man said all she do is lie

Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!

That needs a t-shirt

God Bless Him ....Waisted years,l pray a good woman comes in he's life ...he looks so young as a father to her ..the mum too ...

Sorry for your loss 😢

I’m sorry for your loss

She has doubled frenchrolls. I haven't seen this style in ages

@@veronicajones7486 Uh, What Part of My Mom Passed away did you not understand?

​@@johndecelien did you post for judge lake or to get sympathy for you? I get the troll posted to see where your heart resided and you showed your hand.

Pretty Much !!!

She was so angry at the nice man and not her mom. I believed him all along. Her personality is possibly of her mother. That man who wasn't her dad seemed to be a just a nice guy who tried to help a woman with kids.

The only thing expected in this life is DEATH!! A lot of ppl just need to welcome it and the family needs to start to heal

Standard! 😂 anytime i get into the kitchen 1st thing I do is PaternityCourt BayBeeee!

I immediately thought the same thing. She is gorgeous!

Family trifling just like the mammy.

They didn't want her

Did anyone else notice how happy he was not in that same picture 😐

Right. He did the right thing and still got blamed.

I want to know why too...she said her mom's family lived close by...and she had contact with her grandmother 😢

It’s possible the mother’s family was unable to for many different reasons from them not wanting to not being financially stable to the amount of children they already had

"If you must cheat"? You do know that cheating by the lady (female promiscuity) is literally why paternity court exists right? As the saying goes, "Mama's baby Papa's Maybe." So no. Bad advice. Just don't cheat!

There's no must...shouldn't period!

​@@alejandragonzalez5763 😂😂 Let me rephrase. If you feel.the need ro cheat, do it responsibly.

@@cherylseebreth328 I don't understand why anyone finds the need to. Like just break up and do your thing why mess with someone

It’s okay when he does it but a problem when she does it? Are you forgetting STI’s he could give her?

A cousin found me this way. I wish I knew who the father us but I have a lot of male cousins

As she should

@@jakeb6473 sure, til you're pregnant and it could be someone else's kid. If you're not happy with someone, you should leave them, as opposed to playing cheating game. Just my opinion.

Tell him that too. They both wrong in this situation

​@@nancylovett2399 You are right like judge lake always says 2 wrongs don't make a right.

It gotta stop somewhere SMH

Same where I live. The husband is the father, the end. Getting out of it is a circus and if the mother works against you, 50/50 tough luck. If you didnt do it in 1 year of finding out, sucks to be you. If you didnt do it before the kid turns 4 (going by first court date, not date of filing!), sucks to be you. Getting engaged to or married to a woman that you reasonably could have or should have known to be pregnant equals adoption, where you knowingly take the chance to raise another mans baby. No way no how you get out of that one. Trust me on this.

Lol then he should stop cheating tf

Both of you STOP CHEATING.

Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!

@@daihalla1139 lol kudos to nobody , they all trash.

The mother is dead.

Right. Unfortunately her emotion overrode her logic. Her mother did worse than she wants to believe.

I too have lupus and there isn't anyone in my family tree that has it. Some things aren't from DNA.

@laduke5759 dumb move

@@Leo-qf3iq Michigan law. If you’re married he’s the father no matter what. They don’t even ask for signatures. Even if a man is proven not to be the biological father in Michigan, if you’re married he’s responsible. That’s just the law here.