Triple Episode: Is My Friend With Benefits The Father Of My Child? | Paternity Court 

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I’m a man and that’s facts unless he’s already in one lol 🤷🏾‍♂️just sayin

@KeyMike Scott I'm a man and that's not facts. Every person is different. I know a couple people I want a relationship with. If I had the chance with them I wouldn't go for it. If it was just for fun then yes. I have my reasons. To me even though I can't be in a relationship, it would still be nice to have something with the women I want. Ya'll don't speak for all of us.

Well said I totally agree

@@Talyis84 Agreed. I don't want to be in a relationship but I still want the company and companionship of a man. But I am clear that I don't want a relationship. Honesty is important, however there may come a time that although you're up front and honest with them, they can catch feelings when you're not out to hurt anyone. I commend the man in the video for being honest with her but he should've left her alone knowing how she felt about him.

EXACTLY!!!!! She really need some deep therapy!

Preach sis 💯!

That's what I said too

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Yes she doesn’t love herself and needs to walk.

Exactly he is not her friend

@@gelleh.5456I felt so sorry for her!

Why do people lie to themselves. I don't get it. This guy has demonstrated he doesn't care for her. YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE A MAN.!

These women just LOVE begging. Addicted to the dust smh

Yeah, especially as he said he has 4 kids!!

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This life is not real man o man

100%

@@iy4563 right, he switched back and forth too quickly. He was just trying to save face.

Okay!!! She was ticked off to the 100th degree!

I hollered so loud!! 😂😂😂

He really not Ish ..😡

I forgot she was from Detroit. Can you imagine being her CHILD and getting that look?😂

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Excuse me takes 2 to make a baby 🙄

A lot of men who don't want any kids and yet not enough that don't just take the snip 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@Skyarmychic very true. I don’t know why guys don’t get a vasectomy done more often. I’ve heard it’s easily reversible.

@@funkytown5858 it takes two to make a baby and only one to decide to have it. This man went into the situation telling her that he didn't want any. As women we need to take accountability for our choices. She should have protected herself but just like the judge said she wanted to have that child to stay connected to him. It was a trap to keep him.

@@fuckyourfeelingstheshow i get this. I agree. But I wouldn't put my trust in someone else like that. Especially some I saw as only a FWB. Especially if I knew I NEVER wanted kids

Never does 😔 It's on us to either accept the terms or move on.

I can’t lie I’ve seen it…a friend of mine got married to her “friend with benefits”….I’ll say it’s very rare

Mine did 😅😂 6 years later, own a house, have a kid and a dog

I believe it happens because there are examples of it working out in that regard. But people need to remember that l, it doesn't mean it will work out like that for you.

If he don’t want you he don’t want you .

Me too my heart dropped a little for her. I know that feeling

😂😂😂

For eight years she wasted both of their time she a woman who hate herself what she put herself through for eight years other people can't love us until we first love ourselves that a fact in life

The woman in the first case have some mental issues she have never addressed and probably won't ever address those issues. Those wild eyes tell us something wrong with her.

i agree .. and if I was the sister or mother i wouldnt want anything to do with hi or HIS family i dont blame them for being hurt , his actions were so hurtful

@@BBWboobie Agreed! Blood isn’t family. People can be so greedy, jealous, hateful, and selfish. I just gave you my sister’s personality. 😢

He showed his true color’s. He is dispicable and would run her under the bus so long as he could benefit from it. No way would I accept an apology, a hug or a relationship with him. It’s his loss for losing a sister who loved him.

@@sylvia54591st case: she apologized to him because she accused him of being the child's father. However, the DNA determined he was not the father

You’re spot on. Personally coming from an abusive household I hate when people try to dictate how you’re suppose to feel or express your emotions like the judge did towards the end I know it was coming from a good place but you can’t fix family issues with a 3 sentence speech it just doesn’t work like that

the lady had serious issues, she needs mental therapy YESTERDAY! I feel sorry for her!

She thought he would change his mind.

---Judge Lynn Toler

Judge Lynn fans showing themselves lol

Po you

Believe me she knew how to spell his name as much in love as she was with him. That was her way of telling him she was putting him on the bc

How many of us can even spell well .

@@nikkitrice5808 Your point makes perfect sense 👍

I had to sit down when she said that...

That was his right. Now the rumors is dead. Now they can move on. Forgive and move on.

I would not forgive him. Its fine wanting to know if they were related but he made it all about the dads money. Toxic family have no place ​@lizziehill7293

No forgiveness for toxic fanily members. He was out for a money grab not to know paternity

He is not the father. yes she also sleeping other people.

​@@hassansaid5472 she admitted there had been one other man who sounds like she used to make him jealous.

@@ngahuiroimatanutira-langda4153 not only to make him jealous because he is not the father. i thing there is more the one men. she has no Idea who her child father is

😂😂😂 right

Guy #1 is just a little boy that can't decide if he should grow up or keep being a little boy

I took it more as “if I’m their father then I can claim them on my taxes.” Which isn’t unreasonable because the legal parents can claim their children on their taxes and she’s trying to pin this child on him so if that’s the case why shouldn’t he.

😂😂😂😂

That’s not tax fraud if he’s on the birth certificate 🤦🏽‍♂️

I ended all relationship with my siblings after our father died. Just a rude nasty bunch. Toxic brother, a sister who claims to be Christian but she's a manipulative hypocrite. I could forgive any hurtful words to me but not insulting, attacking one of my adult sons (their nephew) who has only been polite and sincere towards them, the rare times they remembered that they were aunt and uncle. My bro tried stealing money from our dad's bank account shortly before he died. He bears the same first name, and imitated his signature. The bank sent a notice to our dad asking if it was He who wanted to withdraw everything, at 90 and receiving Medicare at home that was fishy.. Then my son replaced me to make the interactions over the internet with my siblings cuz my bro was being agressive, nasty, sending me insulting text messages. My son got used, and finally both siblings became very greedy (they flamed each other's head up), and threatened to alert the authorities of our country, hoping to put us into deep trouble, jail, whatever it would take** (we live in Europe, as did my Dad.. My sister in the US and bro in Africa where he had kids with many women abandoning them all, lying, robbing them, destroying lives, etc) ** saying that my son and I robbed them of money (inheritance) cuz what we split up evenly didn't seem enough to them after second thought. Actually we could have but wanted to be morally good people, plus towards family. Had it been the other way around I'm definitely sure that my sister and brother would've robbed us of every cent. So there was no true danger of taking their threat seriously, except that it is unforgivable to have even imagined such a nasty scheme on their sister and nephew (I and my son). Even if there was no reality in their assumptions, this nastiness was the last drop. We want nothing more to do with any of these horrible beings. And I'm the only paternal representative in my bro's place to a beautiful nephew and niece in Africa. One single sister-in-law was smart enough to find out my phone number from this toxic guy before he got her pregnant by force and left her for his mistress 2 days later. He wrote his pregnant "wife" she can drop dead... Etc etc... And my "Christian sister was on his side. They can have each other, they are both evil. And I have the beautifullest Sis in law, niece and nephew one could dream of. Losers 😱🤮 Sorry I got carried away 😂 Just felt like sharing my story, these videos are no fiction!

They look alike all of em !!

@@NovemberTroxlerRight? As my grandmother used to say, “she looks her father spit her out of his mouth.”

If I was her i wouldn't want a relationship with him.

@missaretha 1969 I am totally in support of Miss Lutz and her mum and all my sympathy goes to them and was with them from the very start. The fact that the man was bringing her up as his daughter before he died swayed it for me. The brother and his aunt are monsters. Having said that I noticed the resemblance in the noses the most: prominent and ever so slightly displaced to one side. Both of them have long heads. However when it came to Ms Lutz's eyes I was severely confused. Ms Lutz in my opinion only seems to have Asian style eyes and eye sockets to some degree, and I couldn't see any resemblance there, either to her father or to her brother. Thanks to the wonders of DNA testing I was proved totally wrong, and I am overjoyed for Ms Lutz and her Mum. Maybe that's what the Aunty and the rest of them saw. If it were me though, I would let it rest because what the rest of the family have done is unspeakable. It's probably due to the expression of a hitherto hidden gene array present in either Ms Lutz's father's or Ms Lutz's mothers genome. Any which way Ms Lutz is 100% genuine.

Yep!!!

Exactly...mad because they brought a house!!! How dare she give her daughter a comfortable life?

@@lyricaearth 😂😂😂 how dare 😊

I completely agree so messed up.

I feel so bad for the defendant. Her entire life was blown up a month prior because of rumors and what's probably bad blood between the mom and the aunt. The brother said he's got four kids, he's probably behind on child support, and thought suing his sister for $100k would solve his problems. What a loser.

The second case was really a waste of time this court suppose to be about women and men and the DNA not about sister and brothers

Truth!

For good reason tbh

They are from Southeast Louisiana ..... they will carry a grudge to the grave. Trust me.... I’m from there 😅😂

The aunt had to have put him up to that.. he ruined his relationship with his sister cause auntie mad.. smh

If you don't have enough love you can never have enough money

Money usually comes between family. Too bad these adults can’t pull their own weight…

Agreed. The judge was wrong there.

Agreed. Scumbag

THIS!

I was looking for this. He told her and she ignored it. Why? I have no clue...sigh

The friend even vouched for his lies, please

They say when someone tells you something on the first go or at the beginning, you should believe them. He first told her he didn't want a relationship, she should have just left it at that. Just my opinion anyway. I've somewhat been in a similar situation and I just let it go. I hope she can move on.

Bingo

You could see right before the results were read. She knew he wasn't that baby's father.

She seems a little unstable to me. I hope she has some support bcs unstable mothers can be a bit a hindering to kids

​@Tatiana Correia something isn't right

Right these women stay with these cheating men and this is what happens. Desperate women make me sick.

Embarrassing to the delusional leftover female who now has multiple kids w multiple men, how did that revenge s*x work for her lol

Yes lord

I guess gold digging doesn't only apply to the elderly.

@@anjallama4986 Or women.

She be on it always. Seeing the tears still in the glands😂😂,

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Man EVERY TIME! 😹😹😹

Freinds with benefits is one of the greatest moral corruptions on earth ... invented by the youth. Madness ...

Yeah but the man knew as well that she is in love he also took advantage

I kept saying “its his own nose” Fooled me 😂

I was fooled too! I really thought he was the father. 😳

I kept comparing the nose too lol

I noticed that, too. And thought he was definitely the dad

That’s his fault

With the 4 children he needs to pay for them that's why he's chasing his sister

She's trifling for letting him.

@@roxiestarr7124she didn’t

@Verisha They'll probably do other tests too, like father's brother's DNA and father's sister's DNA, and the father's other children's DNA, etc. They will establish for certain that they are related as concluded before they make an announcement. The science is highly sophisticated and it has never stopped evolving.

Friends with benefits for 7years hmmm sometimes I wonder if these women even got brain in their skull

This comment right here

Woman aren't built that way. As much as we try to lie. Emotions usually get in the way. As much as people don't want to admit it, men and women operate different in all types of relationships. She tried to tie him down and change him and played herself, now she's blaming men for her problems.

Women do NOT Voice it all the time soo 🙄

He is not the father of that adorable cute baby.

Agreed. I will never understand how people play roulette with babies and deceases by rawdogging everyone

She could also make him use protection

@@Ilikemonk that's not 100% accurate, anyone with sense knows this!

She fell into delusion lol 😆 😂 🤣

Sibling DNA means that they have one parent in common, in this case the father. They have different mothers, right? But, more importantly, I think about the father's wishes. The brother can't override his father's beneficiary, related or not.

Thats why the tested the grandmother too

Ummm. DNA as in chromosomes. We each get a set from our mom and a set from the dad. Sooo...if they have the same dad then those set will match, if they had the same mom they would also match but in this case they don't.

Right. They shouldn’t do tht. I’d always wondered abt tht too

Exactly!! They don't need to test siblings. They can do a DNA from a deceased person.

No reason to be sad for her. She knows all possibilities of fathers. Yeah, she lied

Don't you mean they were using each other she agreed to the terms of the relationship it's not his fault that she wanted more she even told a white lie about not using condoms on some occasions unfortunately this is one of them

@@williamsrishard She consider him as a friend, that word never came out of his mouth. That says it all. He played her in believing his feelings are the same and started a relasionship with another woman while she confessed to him that she loved him. He was not ready with her but was with another woman. He should have stopped this benefit relationship while he was playing that other woman aswell. He has its own harem garage. These men are nasty, glad he was not the father.

It does sometimes because fling and fwb means no commitment so the women could have been with other men . And that was proven in two of the three cases in this video. The first was adamant that he was cheating and that she wanted him but he was playing her and that he was the only one yet he wasn’t the father. Same with the last case she doesn’t say until the end that she already told the other man he was the father or at least that there was a great possibility that he was

Well he was using condoms and she brought the condoms with her when she came to pretending like condoms aren’t 99% effective is crazy. She just wanted to commit paternity fraud and wasn’t expecting him to have doubts because they had been sleeping together for 8 years

I said the same

Spoken like a dude who has zero understanding of women and their emotions. You also missed the parts where his actions were leading her on, too. Does she need to take responsibility? Absolutely! He does too, though. If you only want to be f buddies and you know she wants more, be a real man and break it off. Just because he was honest with his words doesn't mean his actions did the same.

@@MrsZillaLifts or spoken like a man who is married and lives with his woman in a happy relationship. The woman was silly and deserved everything she got. He didn’t lie once.

@@JazzyJeffRealTalk and that is wonderful for you. We should all be so lucky, but not all are as lucky as you. I'm happily married as well but I can still have a heart.

@Sarah Boudreau no one can lead you on unless you allow them too. She allowed him that access to her knowing in her heart he didn't want her. That's why she was giving him the benefits because she knew that was the only way she could keep him and she thought she could change him with a child. That's not the only man she's going to let get away with that, if we want to be honest. The common denominator in her failed relationships is her. Accountability is the name of the game.

Yes, he was honest. She got pregnant by another man. She was hoping her stepping out with another man, she could pin it on him. Vengeance usually never works in favor of the person doing the revenge. The lady motives were impure, and now she has to contact the other guy to discuss DNA testing.

@@standupbcounted2420EXACTLY!!! She thought he wouldn’t question paternity!

The lady needs some serious intervention, BUT, he is also at fault, he knows that this lady has mental issues, and he took advantage of the situation! Let's get real!

Loaded Rhino, Too bad he's an opportunist with no morals. No thank you I'll pass.

I guess if they weren’t siblings then it wouldn’t be a match since they have different mothers.

@@wshelby83 exactly, it would make it seem as if the daughter wasn’t really the dad’s biological child. Because it’s resting on the assumption that Ricky Jr is the biological child. So the family would’ve assumed that she wasn’t really his daughter not the other way around. It’s kind of a risky test when the father isn’t there to be tested himself.

He was a fool tho to accept it so quickly in the beginning. Glad he wised up and asked for a test.

@@mrscheek7611 Exactly! I'm pretty sure anyone that has a threesome on the first day that they meet someone; there's a really good chance that all the people involved in threesome are probably sleeping with at least 1 other person.

I've seen where a man and woman have a friends with benefits thing cuz neither wants to worry about loyalty but when they feeling frisky have someone to relieve that stress with instead of going out everytime you get those urges.... Now they both should been protected from pregnancy and diseases tho..

yeah, she has some serious mental issues. I pray that she receives the help that she needs!

Seriously? If you find someone's pain amusing, you have some real problems and should probably take an honest look at your own personal relationships, and with a professional no less.

@@MrsZillaLifts No I find it hilarious when people lie to themselves to the point they look & sound delusional, then try to play the victim when the lie isn't reciprocated !!!

@@carllavell8673 unfortunately been there and yes she was very delusional she believed what she wanted to because she just wanted him oh well it happens lol

@@Theresa.J_216 So delusional she became devious, using another guy to try & get back at the one who didn't want her & now she's saddled with a child most likely raising her alone.

😂

How did he take advantage of her and he was honest with her from the beginning?

@@pamelanthigah8890 once he knew she was waiting for more, he should have stopped the physical part of the relationship. Yes, he said he didn't want want more and was honest but continuing to sleep with her knowing she had deeper feelings than he did wasn't cool. She should have broken it off, too but I think that's just mean to do to someone.

@@MrsZillaLifts that doesn’t make any sense when they were both sleeping with other people.

Why waste your tears.

​@@MrsZillaLifts But why did society let young people establish a humongous corruption called "Friends With Benefits" in the first place? A lot of research papers have been written about it, and the conclusion on meta-analysis is that it only favours males, and is detrimental to females as they get more attached to someone when they start sleeping together; and then try to convert the relationship into a permanent relationship. It happens to males as well at least some males, they get more attached to a female they are sleeping with, but seem to be able to detach themselves from that person a lot easier. Remembering the time restrictions on the biological clock, you can see how this infernal arrangement is in no way in the interests of women. Society should never have allowed it to take route.

He’s a clown. Perfect closure to cut them off

Omg 😂. I was eating I was like let close so that can I see her 😂but I didn’t see anything 😂

Who don’t even want them let alone a baby by them

Because sadly, some people convince themselves that a baby will fix everything. They know that having someone's baby ties them together biologically for life, and they wrongly assume that means that feelings and commitment will follow. It's a hard lesson that some people need to learn - babies are not band aids for broken or bad relationships, and they will not make someone love you.

Many women think that having a Baby will make the man love them and would be with them

Absolutely. Make it make sense and u know immediately when you have s@x or after tht this human don’t want a kid or won’t be there like u want. U jst know. It’s no secret yet u would find women deliberately choosing to get pregnant by these type of men smh

Amen 🙏🏾 God Bless you ♥️

Thank you

Needed to see this,, thank you

Thank you!! Right back at 'cha. ❤❤ God bless. 🙏❤

@@crystalmcwoodson3609 Thanks🙏🏾❤️😊

He is the child on the revenge s*x entanglement she had lol. She is classic modern woman feminist 😆

He’s not disgusting weird yes for sure! He made it clear that he wants to be FWB no children, she agreed and went against those terms and gaslighted her self. Simple

When she said “he’s my friend” then broke down I was like BUT YOU DESERVE MORE

@@JAH-iu3yh she doesn't realise, they're only friends became there's benefits, outside of that he's not interested in her at all.

She's the disgusting one. She got pregnant by another man and wants to pin the baby on him. She's foul

No. She is the one who wanted more. And yet she is a liar

How he was honest with her

@@Ilikemonk he told her what it was.

@@AkinolaWilliams and showed her!

Ma'am what about her she agreed to the terms of the relationship also no accountability for her she slept with another man and got pregnant and had his child were's the accountability in that

Correction: “The love of money”