A lot of their fights was honestly down to Trisha being super disrespectful. She trashed Ethan’s family, Hila and Moses’ family, the Jewish culture, and their final blow was because she was disrespectful to Ethan’s existing production team. She basically insulted their work ethic and ideas, and wanted them replaced when they’ve been loyal to Ethan for years.
as a person who is diagnosed with BPD just like Trisha, this was very hard to watch. she is literally "splitting" on camera, and is clearly getting triggered. I really hope she is getting the help she needs cause it must be very hard to experience this every day for her and the people around her.
Agreed. She was splitting so much throughout the podcast's lifespan. You can explicitly see it on the first fight the video showed. In most episodes, Ethan is her best friend--one of her favorite people in the world. Then during the fight, he is the epitome of what she hates in this world. It's essentially textbook splitting.
A big part of this was that Hila (Ethan's wife and Trisha's sister-in-law) was pregnant at the time and had been through a lot of fertility treatment so they were extra worried about her miscarrying. Trisha kept up this tirade against Hila and kept calling her names and sharing information about the family. Ethan's mom text Trisha and told her that Trisha could cause Hila to miscarry with stress, and then things got worse with Trisha calling them all evil and said that Ethan's mom cursed her.
She is clearly a very disrespectful individual and doesn’t care about others boundaries. She lacks remorse is vengeful and is so full of hate/spite. She literally seethes negativity, it’s hard to watch.
Yeah she has multiple personality disorder people with multiple personality disorder tend to be very vengeful and they tend to be very hateful when someone gives them a reason or hurts them and any shape or form
@@WhyfallinLUVwhenUcanfallasleep too honestly be honest it's literally like a cycle or a chain her parents traumatized her really badly and I hope that the cycle breaks but the disorder she has literally occurs from bad parenting at early parts of your childhood
Dee and everyone else who don't know, Trisha has BPD. People with BPD have extreme mood swings, unstable relationships and trouble controlling their emotions. That's why she's always triggered by certain things, acting "crazy", etc. Trisha really needs to get her illness together because it obviously affected the other people around like Ethan and the H3 Podcost crew. Hopefully she's doing better now.
I was diagnosed with bpd in high school so I understand why she reacts the way she does but with all the money she has and resources she could be getting help but she doesn’t she’s grown she needs to get it together I don’t genuinely believe she actually goes to therapy .
I mean, he does instigate sometimes and pretend like he didn't start it. But most of the time she blew up out of nowhere. They talked bad about her on H3H3 before they made this podcast with her, but Hila is off limits for her to talk about on the podcast. They dish it but can't take it. That includes Trisha too.
Actually, they used each other, that's what it was. Trisha was getting support at the time for exposing shane dawson(one of the biggest creators at the time) and it was an opportunity for Ethan to have her on a podcast and milk the temporary support. When the support started to fade away and views weren't as high, he started poking the bear and triggering her behind the scenes and on camera, he knew exactly what to do and how. He got what he wanted IMO. He painted her as the bad guy, but really they're both bad people IMO.
@@RedditsNightOwl I know it’s smart and I like him for that, because he twisted viewers minds to believe that Trisha is always the drama creator, it’s time she gets what’s coming to her
@@gzsworld1508 I don't know what you mean by what's coming to her literally the reason why she is has bad as she is is because she's unhappy and being triggered like if you don't want her to act like that don't trigger her cuz at that point a lot of the things that she says and does is his fault like if you get hurt you're the one who put yourself in danger
@@williamhardee8863 I think they just mean their highlights/highs of the podcast were epic when they got along. And I still think that's the "healthy" Trisha.
@@cameronleerodriguez Same. Podcasts usually bore me halfway through, or I will skip to the interesting parts. I listened to Frenemies from start to finish lolol.
@@williamhardee8863 people can have good chemistry and still fight and argue literally the clips in a video are not their whole relationship it's literally just specifically the moments where things went bad like kehlani's album says it was good until it wasn't
Idk how people could watch this podcast. It was always SO tense. I couldn't take the stress. Frenemies ended in predictable flames. Trisha is now due to give birth to Ethan's niece by fall and has been completely cut off by him and Hila. Internet mess that turned into a real life mess that all their future kids get to be negatively affected by. Ethan and Trisha's children will be cousins whether they like it or not. I was barred from my cousins due to my mom having issues with their mom and it was so depressing.
It wasn't always tense. Most of the time, Trisha and Ethan were hilarious, making jokes, and being overall really entertaining. There were some tense moments but I still enjoyed the podcast. At least that's my experience.
I used to love and look forward to this podcast, and I was rewatching and even though I realized she was bad, her reactions were just annoying more than entertaining to watch 😂😂
she really is crazy but damn he wouldn’t stop pushing her even when she was clearly upset, he should’ve ended those episodes without making her talk about their mess publicly 💀
Me too, but I think if he didn’t talk about their mess on the podcast he wouldn’t be able to set things straight. Trisha would go home and do an hour long video exaggerating so at least he could call any bs out and defend himself
Half the time he kept saying he was genuinely sorry and that she was free to stop at any time... If that's pushing her then the fault is on her. She also was the one to bring up issues in the first place.
He's been trying to trigger her the whole time, he knew exactly how to do it. why you're calling her crazy though? Being emotionally unstable doesn't mean you're crazy, stop shaming people for their mental illnesses.
Trisha is so damn crazy. She is literally insane and you can see it, I pray to whatever god there is that I never encounter a person like her in my life
She's not crazy, ok? Mental illness ≠ insane. People like you are literally the reason people don't talk about mental illness because b***** like you would call them "crazy".
@@RedditsNightOwl Yes. Because she actively makes the people around her miserable and literally trashed Ethan's WIFE and him being a parent to his kid because she's jealous he has a baby.
Ethan was way too nice and patient with Trisha. I wouldn't have had the patience to deal with her disrespect, insults, drama, etc. I would've given her the choice to either respect me or to cancel the podcast altogether... Ain't no way I'm letting someone sit there and insult me and my wife over and over lol. Growing up with family members like Trisha taught me trying to solve things with them is never worth it.
For real. I actually ended up liking her a bit more after that podcast came out. But I tuned in around the end of it (like a couple of episodes around when they did their Disney trip together). I didn’t see the prior breakdowns on previous episodes, so I didn’t know what I was getting myself into. And asides from my own perspective, I’m also pretty sure this podcast ended up making a lotta people see her in a bit of a more positive light (than her usual problematic self). She was gaining hella fans. Too bad it had to end the way it did, though.
Just my perspective and I could be wrong!!! From what I see is a man who knows all of the triggers of another person and pushes every single one of them to get these desired reactions. He appears sympathetic but he's only doing it because he knows it's going to piss her off further. He also does this thing where he tries to tell her that she's upset, when she's telling him that she's not. Clearly she's upset and doesn't want to further the issue by talking about whatever it is they are. Even sane people sometimes get more upset when someone gives them the "let me tell you why you're mad". It's hard to leave an issue when you feel like you haven't properly defended yourself. Which is probably why she sticks around during those heated moments. She doesn't have the mental capacity to just walk away, because he's constantly trying to control her narrative and feelings by telling her how and what she feels.
Honestly, I feel as if this is true. Now I never watched any of these Trisha flareups/the end of frenemies because I just really didn’t want to witness that go down, but looking at these few clips, Ethan does the exact same thing every time. Ethan might be trying to calm down the situation by agreeing with Trisha, or trying to get to the bottom of their feelings in a blatant manner so things could be resolved quickly for the benefit of the both of them, but seeing it from another perspective, it does sound like he’s mocking them. Explaining why they’re mad to him, like they don’t know. Keeps on reiterating, again and again until they explode. “You’re right, I’m wrong, everything is fine, you’re not upset”. He literally does this in all three clips. Which in turn, makes Trisha even more angry because they probably think he’s being sarcastic/not taking them seriously. Ethan’s tone at times isn’t really helping him in his case either. And who knows how many times he’s done that outside of these clips. But lord, that last episode of them together… anyone can obviously see that Ethan sarcastically saying “yeah I’m gaslighting you, you’re not upset, you’re in perfect condition”, is what triggered her beyond no return. And to ask what he did that made them gasp in disbelief right after that? Come on now. Ethan also tries to go out of his way to make these horrible interactions with them entertaining/a joke. I guess to try to ease the tension. It is supposed to be an entertaining podcast, after all. But none of these clips are even slightly humorous to me. It only makes the situation more awkward. Plus, with him pretending that everything is nonchalant, continuing the end of the show on entertainment mode while Trisha is leaving in this storm of rage *does* make Trisha look like they’re the crazy one… which they hate being perceived as, as you can tell from prior incidents. So I can see why they had to say that. I cannot defend Trisha’s awful comments/actions towards Ethan, his family and the crew from what I’ve seen, but consciously or unconsciously, Ethan kept on pushing them. This isn’t one-sided. Trisha is clearly unstable. Ethan shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells, yes, but avoiding the behavior you keep on exhibiting over and over again towards Trisha that gets them riled up every. single. time. shouldn’t be that hard. This video was sad to watch. Anyways, this is what I thought while watching the video Dee put on. Sorry for all the rambling, lol. and I may be wrong as well on certain things. I definitely don’t have all the details on what happened overall.
Trisha has always been super jealous of Ethan & so it spilled out multiple times over the course of this podcast. Ethan is married and has children & his wife, Hila, was trying for another baby. Trisha, who has always wanted to be married and have kids of her own, could never stand to hear Ethan be excited for his life & so she constantly lashed out. And then married/had a kid with Hila's brother. It's insane.
wooboy the fact that i only ever watched one episode of this mess, but still know about all of their drama is crazy lmao all jokes aside, even though i dont fvck with trisha, i truly hope she gets more help. all of what she does definitely doesn't seem like trolling. like dee said, she seems very unwell mentally as the years go by. for the love of her _child_ if not for herself ffs, please get help and do better... edit: also, i remember being skeptical about her bpd diagnosis (for obvious reasons ie. lying constantly lmao), but after seeing all of this it definitely makes sense now. really sad
People are now seeing that ethan is a scumbag and rude ash but i saw it from the beginning i get trisha is trisha but yall gloss over ethan being a shit starter
I never thought they were actually friends. All the crap H3H3(Hila included) talked about her before she joined and made the podcast with Ethan. Then her talking all that crap about them when the podcast started and throughout the podcast. What kind of friendship is that? It was fake for views and cash. They even hated the fact she got with Hila's brother even though they definitely are perfect for eachother in my opinion. (Two horrible people joined in holy matrimony)
@@dewdew4047 he does Trisha is no angel either but Ethan definitely has a part to play as well like how exactly do him and hila get to talk about Trisha and Moses in their podcast but Trisha can’t talk about hila? That never made sense to me
I used to love this podcast but Trisha was getting away with so much shit she’d say but if anyone said something back she’d meltdown and play the victim. She thinks because she has disorders she can be disrespectful and say/do whatever she wants with no consequences and Ethan was always the one having to apologize to her when he usually did nothing wrong.
I don’t like Ethan but I absolutely hate Trisha, Ethan needs to kick her off and get a better non-delusional person to make it a better work environment for everyone
I never watched the podcast but see lots of drama and stuff tea channel talk about and all I have to say is wooooowww. And yes they ended the podcast . Married Moses , Ella brother. It was a lot of weird stuff behind the podcast , and family drama .
She was always so jealous of Ethan and his family and it was always so ridiculous how she reacted to everything as if everything revolves around her. She needs help, seriously and so many people thinks so
@@Jeremy-wp4yh She's chilled a lot since she got pregnant. She didn't even acknowledge Ethan trashing her to Howie Mandel recently which would have normally set her off for hours and days! I'd say that's growth.
@@moppetmaker nope. She’s been backed in a corner. Her channels are dying. She knows she can’t say a word. She needs to make money off her daughter when she comes
@@vip5hawol-deehirota i recommend watching some of her newest content. not only is there a clear huge change in her mental state, but also in character. i’m really happy for her tbh
