Thank you, Patty, for sticking up for me. I can't help having a crappy, deteriorating voice (which I have been seeking help for) & of course, it frustrates me because I have to talk all the time for work, & youtube is a video-based way of communicating. Someone criticized me on one of the Dan Markel Facebook groups saying she didn't like my channel because "it's obvious she has a speech impediment." I responded politely to let her know I was in the group and still pushing forward because I care about justice for Dan Markel and getting information out. People can be so ungrateful and rude online (like "joycewang" "John Lucas," and others who said they can't stand listening to me)-- would they also go around telling strangers in person, "You're ugly!" "You smell!" "You look like garbage!" & other insults? People need to chill out, move along quietly without throwing insults at the disabled, stop being such embarrassments to humanity, & try to make the world a better place instead.
@@aalegalfocus Judy. . . . sigh. . . It's just so ugly to see the depths to which people will stoop. Besides being such a BELOVED, respected and appreciated member of the justice-for-Dan community, you are also an impressive human being. I know that you deleted the attacks against me that occurred in the live or replay, so that I never had to see them Guys, she deleted hateful comments, even if the attacking comment gave her an opportunity to reply with a valid or legal point . She chose to protect me from being hurt. I only wish I could do something , concrete, to help protect her. I used to tell Judy, "don't let these haters get you down, ignore them". And I know those of you who say this to her ABSOLUTELY have your heart in the right place. But a funny thing happened to me, I was attacked on RU-vid in another matter entirely ( not the content about the Adelson Crime Family case). And it shook me so much, I deleted my comment. It is very hurtful to be attacked, and hard to simply "ignore it". And now I see Judy making statements like she "shouldn't subject her viewers to her crappy voice". These mother humpers have affected her in a way that she is questioning herself. So yeah, this troll-bash-Judy campaign has angered me greatly. When I said that I struggled to make this video, I can tell you that what I posted was my THIRTEENTH attempt. I'm not exaggerating. After version 12 ( which I thought was good), my husband told me that I sounded like I was intentionally trying to antagonize the trolls. So I had to channel Carl Steinbeck, and his cool, calm, collected, unflappable demeanor. I had to do version 13, one sentence at a time, and . . breathe! That's why it sounds so stilted. Anyway. . .anyhoo. . . meanwhile, back at the ranch. . .we need to keep the focus on justice for Dan. We need to keep the glaring spotlight on the Adelscum Crime Family. (((Judy, big hug))) 💕
Judy much respect for you! People can be so terribly ugly. You keep doing what you do it's much appreciated. More skating videos too. 🫂 you are loved in this circle 😘
I agree!!!🙏👍 Judy, when you are poked, is because you are on track of doing good...the devil hates good deeds...Thanks Patty N for standing up for #justicefordanmarkel supporters! 🙏👍😉
@@NY_Patriot_Lady That is right, Patriot Lady! And I thank you for standing up for her too. I have made a decision not to swear on my channel (not that I mind swearing, or judge anyone who swears. It doesn't bother me.) But sometimes I sure want to fling a few f bombs! I decided if I get driven to swear, I will do so in Spanish. I know it's dumb! But to me, it seems to take the sting out. And the worst I think I would do is say "pendejo" ( meaning ass hole). These trolls attacking Judy are pure pendejos. (Oz has spoken)
I am so glad you are in this community and making these videos. I was off line for a few days but glad you are here Patty. Thank you for your advice too. #JusticeforDanMarkel
I can’t imagine why anyone would criticize Judy because she is having an issue with her voice. Who care if it’s raspy? I care about her health, but certainly not because of the raspiness. Honestly I don’t read the comments very often so I didn’t know anybody was saying anything about it. I know she keeps apologizing, which is NOT necessary, but it doesn’t matter. As you said, it’s the message that matters. Judy is a treasure and I will continue to listen to her as long as she continues to post.
Hi Patty, thank you so much for making this video. I completely agree with you and I am outraged & offended, yet again, at the bottomless level of nastiness that these A4 defenders will sink to! I made a post about it as well when I saw this latest attack on Judy’s voice yesterday. Disgusting. You are a sweetheart, Patty, keep sharing your input! :)🤟✨
i like this. it's a real skill I've learned through life to hold back and not ask what's on my mind. I wondered at first oh why is Judy's voice strained, But my curiosity is just that. I know that having a natural curiosity doesnt instantly my turn into a right to ask why or offer my cirque or opinion. I also really love feeling comfortable in not knowing stuff about people. When I meet people I never ask boring 'normal' questions that like seem harmless but in fact can be too personal and probing. I'm always so surprised when people will ask me things like of Im married or have kids, like within five minutes. I might answer or not but I'll let them know that that's really weord to bring out such a targeted and closed question out of the blue. I always think of how I feel when people ask me way to personal questions so before I say anything to anyone I always check on my Helpful/Harmful gauge. And if I don't think it's helpful,I shut up. It's amazing how many times a day you can just have an impulse to say something. Knowing that's kinda normal and trying hard to overcome it needs to be a taught life skill. When you say nothing it really feels great. You just get to think it, you then realise it was pointless anyway. if it was a questiion after a minute you realise 90% of the time, you didn't need to know the answer and you've lost interest anyway. case in point , consider a 'funny' comment that bounces off the tongue when you come across something unusual about somebody. maybe they are tall, have a foot brace on, have an unusual style. before commenting on any of the things you can see or hear about someone, it's so smart to jjst think, oh hey how many times today have they already heard that wordplay or joke or comment. and if you don't say it , you get to be the clever one by not being part of the brainless mob. in my early 20's and ever since I had such bad RSI in my wrists, i still struggle bit ear,y in was the worst, and I learned in hurry how quick people are to comment on what they can see, one time in a bank and the teller said ' what happened to your hands?' i just shot back ' so I try to leave the house to forget about it, is that OK?'. and from then on I've gone quite extra smart in personality dives and looking at how a person perceives and receives comments, and the basic maths of it, so like people. here's the thing. before you say something you thi k is legit hearted or ' funny' and it revolves around someone's looks, abilities, situation, finances etc. just ask yourself 2 things. 1. how many other people have said the same thing today. or this week? if the answer is more than one. say nothing. even just to not be lame, but mostly , think, at the end of the day. how ma y times has that person heard that! and then, ' what positive value did they get from it. ? a see is zero, so shut up, 2. I invented a scale. you use it before you say anything to anyone it's a horizontal line woth 5 at each end and 0 in the middle, it's called HELPFUL all HARMFUL. all comments fall on the scale, check always. kf your comment isn't in the HELPFUL end it's on the other end. there is no in between. even if you can't explain why. just have a quick check, i literally do it always now, it's learned habit, and i feel so good and smart when I just hold back. it's the remedy to fix any passive aggressive tendencies, which we all kinda have,
@@357twilson Yes. I wanted to change the title to one that was more accurate. At first I was unable to do this on my cell phone-- I googled it and learned this had to be done on a computer. But eventually I DID figure out how to change it on my cell.
