I am sorry to hear abt yr bro. but I share the same faith as you do that things will get better. there will be some day, something will get him changing and bring him back to you. I love the following saying that " Life is like a Rubik's cube. Sometimes you have to make it worse before you can make it better." It's so true. If you're goin' through some hard times, dun be frustrated cause it means that the future you and enjoy the good times. And i find you are really appreciative of helping
That's really sad that the trans community disrespects individuals who are not on T. I was not aware of that (do not know a lot of trans men IRL). Especially for groups that are really marginalized, it's important to support each other, like you said. You are only hurting your own community and yourself by snubbing others.
I'm sorry about your brother. But you are so right the fact I'm not on T ( yet) I don't get a lot response from other ftm who transitioning or did. It's sad. Thanks for sharing.