Sister, you been through so much and suffered greatly as a daughter. You have no debts to your father and stepmom whatsoever. Some of our Hmong stepmother and stepfather are terrible people. Glade that you’re able to find love and peace in America. America is the land of laws. No one is above the law…wish you luck and peace 😩👍🤠!
I'm sorry that you went through a very bad hardship life....your dad fail you...your dad suppose to protect u as a young girl. Remember...all this bad things happened to you is never your fault....don't blame yourself. I'm so happy that you find a way to survive and support your siblings...it is very blessing. Remember..don't lose hope and God is with u....blessing u well. Stay away from negative pple who not in your shoes. I'm very proud of you as a strong woman. Keep your head high and continue to be strong. May God bless u sister.
Tus me viv ncaus aw!! Txoj kev ua ntsuag yeej tu siab tshaj mog yog leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub li mog es kuv twb tau ua ntsuag dua los lawm thiab es thiaj paub txoj ua os mog kuv pab hlub koj os mog . tab si koj twb muaj hmoo es tau lub neej zoo22 lawm es sib2 hlub xwb mog. Es koj ua ntawv mus tos koj tus niam hluas tuaj nrog koj nyob teb mekas no es kom nws tsis txhob txom2 nyem mog .
Sometimes sacrifices are necessary to survive another day. You know the reasons why you make your choices. No need to apologize to anyone and you don't owe anything to anyone. Just focus on yourself, your family, and those who loves you. For those that mistreated you and abused you, no need to give them any attention.
You did what you did to survive when your father failed to protect and support you. I’m glad you were able to get yourself out of poverty and created a good life for you. Be happy and continue your life. No need to look back at your dad and stepmom.
I am sorry you went to such a hard time. I am happy you found someone that loves you. Go and live your life. Do ever feel sorry for yourself and your life. It’s your time to shine and be free. Sending love and hugs.
You did what you have to do to survive and support your younger siblings, you are not to blame. Your dad failed you guys. He should be ashamed of himself! It's great that you found someone who loves you for who you are.
Niam laus aw zoo lawm o lub ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag nrog kj zoo siab qhov muaj kj tu txiv lo rub kj tes es kj thiaj li hlub tau kj ob tug yau ces zoo lawm o
Tu me viv ncau kj lub neej tu siab heev kv mloog ma ib ke mloog ib ke quab vim kv lub neej tseem nyb rau txoj kev txom nyem ntawv khwv nyiaj txhawm rau tej yau ua hnub ua hmo xb os
Nrog koj zoo siab os sister. I support you doing whatever it takes to survive. Poverty is REAL. Many of us never experienced that and so its easy for us to pass judgements.... you don't have the luxury to think of "Self Respect", your main focus in life is to survive and when people pass judgments without attempting to step in ur shoes, I really don't understand what they're trying to achieve. I'm proud of you. And ur decisions to end up where u are in life!
What is past is past. I applaud you for your courage. No one can judge your life because no one was in your shoes. You had to do what you needed to do to survive period. Bravo!
Sister I'm so happy you are so loved right now. You deserve nothing but love. Don't be ashamed for your strength and resiliency. Be proud. I am proud of you.
Txhob tu siab os.nrog koj zoo siab hmoob lub neej ces koj hais tsawg los paub ntau os.tsis thas hlub los yeej tau.koj ua tau zoo kawg raws kuv siab xav ntag.nej cov hmoob nplog mas kuv tsis nyiam kiag li lawv yog neeg dag noj dag haus npav lub yeej yim kuv ntxub dhuav tshaj plaws.
Tus me ntxhais, yuav haiv neeg twg los tsuav yog nws hlub yus thiab yus hlub nws os mog. Peb muaj mekas yeej muaj tej tub ntxhais yuav lwm haiv neeg coob coob kawg, tus zoo kuj muaj tus ho tsis zoo raws siab los kuj muaj os me ntxhais es txhob tu siab txhob xav tau…yus twb muaj tej me nyuam ces yus tso siab rau yus tej me nyuam hlub yus thiab yus hlub lawv os mog ❤️👌
Nrog hlub nej cov me nus muag ntsuag yav thaum nej tiv thaiv tsis tau nej tus kheej. Zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm mog tus vivncaus. Koj yuav leej twg los tsis tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog koj tau lub neej kaj siab. Hlub tus neeg hlub koj xwb mog. Tus neeg tsis hlub koj thaum pib los koj tseem ua zoo rau los yeej tsis muaj nqi mog. God bless you.
Sister don’t worry as long as you n your husband love each other don’t care about your parents if you read this statement you are not ALONE I’m also Hmong too i married to Hmong man but my parents are real parents not even step parents but they don’t love me as the other siblings they only want to suck your money so don’t feel bad feel disappointed your fortune happy what you have and continue love yourself since I came to America almost 30 years I NEVER go back to my old country so love your husband your kid and the most is yourself happy start from you…. No one understands you if they are not on your shoes
Tsis cem koj os tus me ntxhais, tsuas yog nrog koj tu siab rau koj zaj neej neeg xwb os, txoj kev ntsuag tu2 siab, leej twg tsis tau ua ntsuag ces yeej tsis paub os mog, tus ua ntsuag thiaj to taub koj txoj kev ntsuag tu siab xwb os mog!
Sister don’t worry about your life in the past what you did we understand you. We say you did a very good job, and you so lucky come to United State of America. Don’t ever think about your husband is too old, he’s not your nationality. You really need the one he loves you, don’t worry about what peoples said it’s your life.
Pab hlub koj thiab koj cov siblings dhau lawm os. Yus tej neej tej tsa tsis hlub yus. Tus yuav hlub yus ces yog yus tus kheej xwb thiab yus tus txiv xwb. I’m happy you found happiness and love. What everyone seek is love. Some that seek money is never really happy. Nej yeej tsis npam ib zaug li os sister aw. Nws lub siab tseem lim hiam tshaj qhov lim hiam lawm thiab os.
Dang I crying 😢 😭.. neog nej tu siab tshaj. My dad love me even my ex left ne.. my dad help me out watching my kids for me to go work. I'm lucky one, but so sad my dad he passed away last year 😢.
I’m glad you found your happiness. You are a strong woman and you deserve the best. Don’t ever stop believing in yourself. I too have a wonderful quiet life with my American man. I have to say I’m the luckiest woman. I understand why you don’t go around the Hmong community. They always have something to say, and it’s not nice.
Sister everyone who doesn’t have parents to guide them, education, and role model, can make mistakes. Don’t let your mistakes define you. I am very happy to hear of your happily ever after. Happy you can be a role model for your siblings, because you had to walk the mistakes to learn to guide them. Don’t worry about the Hmong community, they don’t deserve you that is why God gave you the a different community.
She didn’t make a mistake, she did what she had to, to live, to support her young siblings. It was the only way she knew how not having education or a way out. Proud of her that she didn’t let it kill her or defy her life but did it only to better herself in the long run. 😊
@@JRxwb exposing herself to her boyfriend in the beginning was because she thought he loved her to only find out he didn’t. She didn’t expose herself to him to survive. Her troubles worsened after that and so she then did what she had to survive. So yes she made a mistake by thinking it was love. She didn’t let her mistake define her.
@@NN-ks9pq True, that was her mistake but again she thought that was what he wanted in order to get $$ from him lol 😂 When Hmong Mekas date girl from back there (haven’t you heard) all they want to see is her naked 🤣 but yes she was stupid to fall for it. 🤦🏻♀️
Hauv qab ntuj no ces cov menyuam ntsuag tsis muaj niam tsis muaj txiv es raug tej niam hlob txiv hlob, los yog niam ntxawm txiv ntxawm tsim, los tsis muaj tus niam es raug niam tshiab tsim, thiab tsis muaj txiv es raug txiv tshiab tsim mas thiaj mob ti txha nkaus li no tiag. Yuav luag txhua tus Hmoob yeej tsim menyuam ntsuag li no. So sad, but I’m glad you found a loving husband and having a good life! God bless you and your family!
Wow! Sister May, this story is one of your best IMO. The sister in this story was so brave in my eyes. She loved her siblings so much she was willing to sacrifice herself to support her family. Love has no boundaries. Age is only a number. She made a good decision to marry the one who showed her love and support. I wish her nothing but the best. ❤️
Koj ua Yog kawg lawm os sister, tsis npam li os. Tug neeg ntxub yus Thaum me, niam no yus loj hlo tsheej neeg lawm. Lawv mam tig los hlub yus thiab kom yus pab ces lig lawm. What you do is right sister.
Txhob tu siab os txhua leej neeg muaj kev tu siab thiab yam tsis zoo.....Hlub2 koj tus txiv xwb os......Yog yus ua neeg zoo ces txog thaum kawg yus yeej tau yam zoo xwb.......
Whatever happened in the past is history. Let them be a lesson to learn and teach your daughters to be a better person. No matter what storm came through your way, you are strong enough to fight through it.
Everyone has made a lot of mistakes in their lives. Nobody is perfect so don’t worry what others say or think about you. What’s important is that you’re loved and you’re happiest than you’ve ever been. Sometimes the families are the ones letting you down and hating on you. Don’t let them get in the way of your dreams. It’s mostly your dads fault for not defending you as he should be. He just let your stepmom have her ways. How dare she abuse you like that. It’s ok to cut out toxic people out of your life, even family members. You deserve to be loved and have a happy life for yourself. You are absolutely right! You don’t need others approval on how you live your life. If they can’t accept you then cut ties with them. Im glad that stepmom and dad are suffering they’re own karma for not loving you and your siblings.
No matter what u do. Good or bad, people will always judge. Your not the only one who had to do the things u did to survive and support your siblings. A lot of young women’s in the Asian country works at places like this to help support their family. Its sad your dad didn’t stand up for you but im glad your siblings are still apart of your life and that your married to someone who loves you. Glad you have a better life now.
Txhob tu siab os mog, txoj kev txom nyem koj raug ko Los Twb yog Tim koj txiv es qhov phem los koj Twb ntxeem dhau qhov zoo CES koj Twb ntxeem mus txog lawm os mog, nrog koj zoo Siab tshaj li nawb mog, kev hlub ces yog los ntawm yus Niam yus txiv yus Viv ncaus thiab yus tej nus yog ib Co roj ntsha xwb cov sab nraud CES txhob TOS lawm mog😭😭
Very good story. Hais tau thiab ua tau yog kawg. Peb hmoob cov niam tshiab thiab txiv tshiab mas yeej siab me. Thiab feem ntau yeej tsis kam hlub cov menyuam ntsuag. Thank you for sharing.
Me niam hluas aw hmoob hais hmoob yus tsis muaj neej tsa lo tsis care kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv kom tsim nyog qhov nws cawm koj tuaj es dim plaws txoj kev txom nyem xwb os mog..hlub tus neeg cawm yus txoj sia es thiaj tsis muaj kev npam mog..
Ca peb hmoob es feem coob kv yeej pom cov coob es yog thaum twg yus muaj nyiaj cev rau luag thiab muab rau luag tas li xwb es yus thiaj li yog tu zoo xwb os...... Yog thaum yus tsis muaj nyiaj lo yog tsis muaj rau luag noj ces luag yeej tsis xam tia yus yog luag neeg li os tu siab tshaj li os peb hmoob tsis txawj sib hlub
There is nothing to be ashamed of, you had to do what you needed to do to survive. You are kind and loving. And sacrificed a lot, for your brother to have a better life and future. You deserve, to be loved and treated well.
just be happy with what you have now and appreciate those who pulled you out from the pit of sufferings. love those who loved you and move on away from those who hates you.
Tus me niam hluas kj yog 1 tug ntxhais ua muaj peev xwm tshaj plaws li os thov qhuas kj os g muaj neeg tsa los txhob ntshaw os tsuav kj muaj lub chaw nyob ces yog qhov zoo lawm os mog
No matter what the situation is then I hope you are doing well today and living the dream. I hope you do yourself proud, if not for anybody. If you have fulfilled your dream that's all that matters. Live it up, life is short, and enjoy life while you can.
Yus yeej los ua Niam ntsiab tabsi cas tsis muaj lub siab phem npaum li cov Niam tshiab nyob tim nplog thiab. Pom lawv cov me nyuam ntsuag2 nos es yus twb pab2 hlub tsis ntxawj tas li. Rau tus Niam tsev nov, koj yeej ua Yog kawg lawm…tseem ua Niam ntiav tseem zoo dua muaj tus txiv Hmoob es tus txiv Saib tsis taus yus. . Ua Niam ntiav yeej yog muaj pheej xwm, yog ib txog haum lub xwb thiab tau nyiaj los Pab yus cov nug muag, Yog muaj hniav txiv es yus hmag deev tsuas2 hmo los twb tsis tau nyiaj tseem tau ua nws qhev ua rau nws noj thiab. Zoo siab ua kj tau ib tug txiv hlub2 kj lawm, thiab cawm tau kj tuaj nyob Mekas theb no lawm. Yog kawg tsis hlub kj txiv thiab Niam ntshiab los yeej tsis npam vim lawv ua rau yus ntxom nyem txaus2 lawm. Ua li koj ua mAs yog kawg li lawm os. Tseem yog kuv los ntshe kv yeej yuav ua li thiab mog.
Your past, the good, and the bad makes you who you are today, sister. I'm sorry for your struggles and hardship you have been through when you were younger. I hope now you're doing great and doing well. I hope only good comes to you and your siblings. Keep your head up ❤️
I am so sorry to hear what you have been through. We known the old use to tread orphans like that. But do not feel broken heart too much to you dad. At least he is your dad who gave you life. Please forgive him and God will bless you more. By the way one day you don't regrate. Do not let it be that way until one day it is too late. Forgiving is a very beautiful thing a human can do.
Good for you tus me vi ncaus ntsuag! Nrog koj zoo siab koj tawm tau ntawm txoj kev txom nyem lawm. Education is everything to me, but I will never understand the Hmong people in Laos and their educational goals when the return is practically ZERO to NOTHING. If you know how to read and write, then STOP wasting your very hard-earned money to continue or go any higher. Your Laos country has no jobs - no companies that will hire anyone to make a decent living. No place cares if you have a degree or not because your degree(s) absolutely cannot and will not get you anywhere in that country unless you are a Superior Laotian Government Official’s daughter or son who will someday run Laos. My father-in-law has his younger brother in Laos, and he has sons that went over sea to Japan, the Philippines, and China for Higher Education. These sons returned with Ph.D. yet ended up with a Teacher position that pays $100 to $150 per month. Health care Dr. with higher levels get $150 to $200 per month. And if the Laos government hires them, they have a municipal city job that pays $45 to $75 per month. Their earning wages got them nowhere. The many $$$$ that my father-in-law and his six other brothers in the USA helped these nephews was wasted. My husband, his brothers, and his Hmong USA cousins were pissed and told their one and only uncle and auntie that were left behind after the Vietnam/CIA war, plus these Hmong Laos cousins, to farm, raise livestock and sell their crops and meats to Chinese and Vietnamese Exporters. They made much more money for their living expenses and needs. They have STOPPED asking us families here in the USA for support for more than 12-15 years. Also, these Laos cousins no longer care if the kids in their generation have higher education or not, as it is not helping anyone in the line of making a living.
Kuv yog txiv neej tab sis kuv yuav tuaj tus muam no tog kuv ntxub cov txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv li no thiab kuv ntxub cov poj niam siab lim hiam li no tus muam koj tsis yeem xa nyiaj mus rau ob tus neeg tau tsim txom koj dhau los yeej tsis npam koj ib zaug li o nawb
Parents like that don’t deserve your love. They only notice you bc you are better off now, and they can use you. You could be dead now and they would of never cared to call and follow up on you, if you had no money and life.
Tus me niam aw niam tshiab ces yeej zoo yam txhua 2 tus li os peb cov niam tuag lawm ces yeej ntsib txhua yam koj tshib los ma yus tus txiv ces yog tus hlub tshaj xwb os
Viv ncaus aw...tsis hais leej twg li yog u ntsib txoj Kev txom nyem ces yeej ua 1 yam li os mog peb hmoob ces yeej 1 txwj tsis txaej xav ua dab tsi Los lawv tias u rhuav lawv ua rau lawv txaj muag no xwb tab sis xab maim no leej two ua yam two Los tshuav u muaj peev xwm os mog txhob tu siab os zoo siab rau koj lub neej niaj hnub no xwb txhua yam phem tso pob tseg os mog .
Good job tus sister, you did what you had to, the only way you could and know how to survive and help your young ones. Only an older sibling would go this length for her younger siblings. It would never be the order way around. Be proud that Ntuj helped you and found you the guy that truly loves you and took you out of that misery life work. You totally deserve happiness and you should love him for the love he gave you too. God bless you both. 👍🙏🙏
Koj ma ua yog tsaj li lawm os koj xaiv tau txoj ke yog taug lawm peb nyob mecas no los peb yeej yuav mecas ib yam! Me ntxhais xaiv txoj ke kaj siab xwb mog
