Tsis Sib Tau Los Tsuav Tau Koj Me Nyuam. 9/6/2022 

Cant blame her too much for craving love. She’s only human. How can you love someone you hate? I can only imagine trying to love someone who hurts me constantly. Waste of my time. Sorry for her loss of happiness.

Kuv feel tau koj qhov mob kawg li os. Yug los ua ib tug poj niam yeej zoo kawg. Tab sis nyob rau qee lub caij nyoog mas phem heev. Tab sis kuv twb tau nrog koj zoo siab kawg thiab. Qhov koj rov qab mus muaj kev sib hlub nrog koj tus hluas nraug. Yuav tau rov mus hlub tus neeg yus nco. Ob peb zaug thiaj li tsis khuv xim. Thiab cov niag txiv neej no thiaj li tsis zij zij poj niam. Thaum yus tus txiv tsis hlub yus lawm. Yus thiaj li tsis mob heev heev.

Urgh……This is a depressing story. It’s hard for me to understand how people stay in a marriage where there is no love, only hatred and revenge. I’m glad we’re born in a different era where we have the right to choose who we love and married to.

Hmoob Txheej thaum ub siab lim hiam heev muab tub ntxhais sib yuam tu siab kawg

Haib tas2 kuv mloog 2 lwm kiag

Lub neej tu siab kawg thiab os tais aw pab khuv xim kj tus hluas nraug neb

🤬🤬 11yrs old and haven’t even had her first period makes my blood boil

Tus niam laus aw cas yuav nrog koj tu siab nkim koj lub neej ib tiam. Koj niag txiv dev thiab niam yau maum dev siab phem tub nkeeg ntawd cas koj yuav ua nkawd qhev ntev ua luaj. Neeg siab phem ntawd twb tuaj txeeb txeeb koj ntawm koj tus hluas nraug cas tseem tsis hlub koj. May you have good health.

Ab me niam tsev aw koj txhob tu siab rau koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj nawb, yeej paub hais tias koj raug zij mus yuav tus koj tsis nyiam, tabsis koj thiab koj tus hluas nraug yeej ua ua niam txiv muaj ob tug me nyuam ces koj lub siab twb tsis ncaj rau loj tus txiv thiab ces koj tus txiv yuav niam yau los zoo lawm.

Niam thais. Tim koj es neb Thiago tsid sib tau . Muaj ntau sib hawm koj khiav los Koj pheej nyob. Tim koj xwb.

cov poj niam thaum ko ntshaw txiv hv li

I don’t get this woman. She hates her husband enough to keep sleeping around with her boyfriend but not enough to leave him? Once I open my legs for another man, I am leaving my husband for good. Maybe she likes having 2 men. 🤷🏻‍♀️Oh well…. Since her husband has 2 wives, she might as well have a side-dude.

Koj siab tsis ncaj thiab es koj niag txiv thiaj tsis hlub koj nyuam quav txim

Ntuj aw cas koj lub neej mas thiaj txawj yog yug los xiam tiam tiag2 xwb os tus me niam tais aw. Hmong people life back to the old day mas g ncaj ncees 6 txoj kev hlub li .poj niam ces zoo yam tus animals female Es yuav mus yug menyuam xwb .muab xav li qhov tseeb ntawm neeg txoj kev sib hlub ces koj tus ex neb cheated los yeej g txhaum

Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj los koj txhob tu siab vim koj xub ua rau koj tus txiv ne

Hi

Niam tais aw. Kuv mas kuv ho xav tias txawm tsis yog yus tus hluas nraug los nws twb yuav tau yus lawm Ces yus tu siab npaum twg yus lub siab txawm hlub nws tsis tag los yus yuav tsum ua lub siab ncaj rau yus tus txiv tsis txhob nyiag mus noj sab nraud li koj hais ko ma. Yog koj nyiag mus noj sab nraud lawm Ces txog hnub yus tag lub neej txoj sia yus yuav muaj kev npam kev khaum mus txog saum ub los yuav raug txim nawb los.

Koj zaj dab neeg ces yog kev txhaum xwb tsis nrog koj ntshaw kuv tus txiv wb twb tsis yog nkauj nraug we sib yuav tau yeej muab tej niag hluas nraug pij xej tso pov tsis xsv txog tsis nyob hauv siab li lawm sau siab los hlub nws yeej muaj pob ntseg qhov muag nws yeej hlub koj kawg xav ntsoov lwm tus xwb Es nws tsis hlub los dawb khan's tau xwb Les Es

Just so sad 😞

Yog kuv los kuv yeej yuav ua li koj ua thiab os niam tai. you tus hlua nraug you hlub2 tsi tau lawm ce yeej kawg nyiag noj xb +555

sister, all your stories are all the same. switch it up!

cas peb cov poj niam hmoob es muaj cov liam liam li no thiab los tseem tau luag muab coj los hais thiab lau koj muab los hais los koj yeej tsis dim kev npam li o

Woman, this story makes me sooooooo mad!

So much evil. Living like animals! No justice, no righteousness.

Peb Cov Hmoob ib txwm saib cov ntxhais li tsiaj xwb. So sad thinking how bad females were treated then.

WOW!!! KOJ MUAJ PHEEV XWM KAWG NKAUS LI OS TUS VIVNCAUS AW...AUB TOS LUAG TSIS XAV HLUB YUS LOS VIV MUAJ KEV TXAUM RAU KOJ TUS TXIV LOJ KAWG NKAUS LAWM THIAB NE...YOG HAIS TIAS KOJ MUS YUAV KIAG NWS NO XYOV PUAS YUAV ZOO NPAUM LI KOJ TUS TXIV LAWM THIAB OV...VIM YUS UAS TXAUM LAWM CES YUAV TSUM TAU NYOB TIV QWS TAG MUS LI XWB NE VIM YUS RUAM ES MUS UA TAU LOS TSIS MUAJ PHEEV XWM CES NYOB MAG QWS OS VIVNCAUS AW.

Hmoob txoj cai quav dev ces zoo li no ntag tos kuv ntxub npaum li no na. Hmoob ruam mas ruam tiag2 li . Koj tus niam loj ko os los ruam phim koj tus txiv dev ntawm thiab os

I hate these types of stories. Hmong women in this time and age allow people to treat them like that. I don’t feel sorry for her.

Niam no yuav hnov cov laus lub qe qias neeg zuj zus lawm lauj……

Urgh sister you make my blood boiled. He divorced you and kicked you to the curb. You came by yourself with your children. Why would you still have anything to do wth him?

Tus ntxhai koj mas txim nyoog kawg qhov koj tus txiv tsis xav hlub koj vim qhov koj muaj ob tus txiv Hlob txiv yau ob tus me nyuam tsis yog koj tus txiv me nyuam koj kuj muaj peev xwm kawg

Tais Aw koj siab Tsi ncaj tos koj Tsi tau kev hlub twb yog koj tus txiv tseem thiaj yuav xwb os🤮🤮

I think u should tell your two sons the truth. They deserve to know the truth. If u don't tell them, they will never know for the rest of their life. Isn't this a heavy sin to carry onto the afterlife?

Txiv neej hmoob ces thiaj txawj phem

She did what she thought was right back then. Cheating isn't right but force marriage isn't right either. 2 wrongs aren't going to make it right. But at the same time, she can't leave the marriage. Back then leaving a marriage is difficult for girls. And he end up marrying a 2nd wife. You go girl! Leave life with no regrets.

Nyab aw thaum ntaw es lawv twb txawj hais lus miv kas lawm los hihi

Lub ntiaj teb no ca tsi muaj kev ncaj ncee rau poj niam li o

I can't understand this woman. I feel so bad for the boyfriend's wife. She thinks she is the only one with feelings and that is human and the boyfriend's wife is not. The boyfriend is just as bad. He married someone just to be close to his girlfriend and not for love. Wow!

Ça koj yg ib tug niam tsev siab TSI caj li kV mloog koj txoj neej neeg no kV kuj pab koj tu txiv mob siab thiab os vim koj twb muaj txiv lawm koj tseem muaj ib nplooj siab ua tau li no rau koj tu txiv

Tus txiv tsev no lub siab phem lim hiam tiag2, twb mus zij zij tau luag los ua yus tus poj niam los tseem g hlub nws tus poj niam tseem muab hluav taws los hlawv nws tus poj niam 2 ceg thiab ,neeg siab phem ces kawg rau tus txiv tsev no lm xwb

Tu niam tsev koj ua. Txhaum rau koj tus txi. Lawm yog yuav swb koj lub cev rau koj tu hluas nraug thaum koj txiv tau yuav txiv ma thiab yog nawb

Tus niam tsev aw.. koj mas ruam tiag tiag koj tus txiv twb hais kiag tias nws tsis hlub koj lawm na. Tseem yuav nyob kom nws rho hluav taws hlawv yus tus niam tais hluas caws tag los twb tsis khiav rau neej tsa. Lub neej no ntshe koj tshuav nws nqi lawm tiag lau.

Why stay when he already push you out? Gotta learn to love yourself.

Koj mag hluav taw tsw obceg caw pliav tag vim koj muaj lub siab phem.

Wow! Grandma so much Sin is make in this story🙅‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Peb hmoob txoj niag kev cai ruam lim hiam rau tej ntxhais mas cas yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj li ,tej ntxhais twb tsis muaj nqi npaum li tej tsiaj ,yus tsis nyiam tsis hlub tsis kam yuav los txhua tus nia yuam kom ua li lwm tus lub siab . tej ntxhais yeej tsis muaj cai xaiv tus lawv nyiam lawv ntshaw li, hais rau cov niag txiv neej txiv dev ntawd thiab ua cas tsis mus yuav tus ua koj nyiam nws nws nyiam koj es kom ob leeg ua lub neej kaj siab ho mus yuam yuav tej ntxhais ua luag muaj luag ib tug es luag twb tsis nyiam yus coj los ua neej ho tsis hlub luag li

Eventhough you were not your husband's girlfriend once he had decided to married you, you should be honest and be nice to him. What you have done was totally cheating not a mistaken that's why he wasn't loved you as much as you wish. You were the cheater. Therefore, you should let your child's know that they are not your husband's children. They have the right to know their real father before it's too late. Right now your husband already passed away it is ok to let them know who is your child's father.

Can't pass too much judgement on her because men do it all the time back in the day. To be robbed of your virginity and youth at ages 11 thru 14 by men twice your age, I do feel so sad and sorry for the Hmong women who went through this. Thank goodness this mess isn't so common no more.

Niam ntsuab teev zoo li tsob tshuaj ntawm kj xub ntiag yog tshuaj mob hniav sub as

Koj hais tau zoo22 kawg os tab sis cas tus niam tsev ntawv ho Ua tau Lub siab phem Ua luaj thiab ..

Hmoob tej niag cai ruam cai poobqab no yuav tau muab tso povtseg.

Can't sympathize with is grandma. I think she was not happy because she created her own unhappiness. She was able to do whatever she wanted.

Tseem2 yuav yij Yuam nyab

Old story only. Twb hnov tag lawm sav.

Tsis ntev peb cov laus lim2 hiam twb tuag yuav tas

What a primitive culture. It’s kidnapping

Cas yuav txawv ua luaj ne

Koj niam twb muab koj muag rau koj tus txiv uas sij koj lawm

Hi...

Kuv nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tseem muaj kev hlub nrog koj tus hluas nraug os....koj txawm tham nws thiab tsis tham los koj tus txiv yeej tsis hlub koj twb yog zoo qhov koj tseem tau cuag thiab muaj kev hlub nrog koj tus hluas nraug...txawm koj tsis tau koj tus hlub los koj twb tau nrog nws ua ke ib ntu lawm ces zoo dua qhov koj ua siab ncaj rau koj tus txiv tab sis nws ho tsis hlub koj nawb...kuv nrog koj zoo siab os..tus niam laus aw....

Haib tas tas, koj tsis txhob chim txhob tu siab kiag vim koj yeej tau 2 tug txiv txhua lub caij lawm. Yeej tsis nqhis txiv neej li lawm. Keej tshaj koj na.

Tus txiv twb tsis hlub tsis xav yuav los pheej nyob yuav lub npe ua luag qhev. Txhob nkim sijhawm tseem tshuav lwm tus neeg hlub2 tos2 yus mus ua nws tus txijnkawm.

Kuv tab tom ntsib qhov teeb meem thooj nkaus li no ntag. Xav hlais cov dev uas yuam cai li no seb puas paj siab . Tseem hlub koj heev li os tus neeg lwj siab tig rov los kuv tseem tos koj xwb

Muab xav los kj g ta tu siab qhov kj tu txiv g hlub kj o vim kj siab g ncaj rau nw ua ntej

I find this story to be disturbing how he beat you and you still went back! It’s your fault too. Even back in the old days women got divorce. You just chose to stay.

Ca cov lau thauv e tseem muaj lub maib no thiab g ncaj ncee pua tsawg pob

Haig tau zoo heev

Damn woman!! You go girl!!😂❤️👍🏻

สงควรที่ผัวไม่รัก

I wish I do like her back in time

Thank you for sharing your story, sister. Times back then is so different from the times now. I'm glad we women can work here and support ourselves and our children and not have to put up with a crappy spouse. May you find love now and in your next life.

I love stories like these dear grandmother. Ua tsaug koj tau share nrog peb nawb

Hmoob txoj niag kev qia neeg ces zoo li no mas

siab phem kawg yuav tau tsi hlub

Good woman 😜😜😂