No regrets, you knew what you were getting into. If you are unhappy just move on and change your situation. Can't control what others will do. You hold your destiny in your hand.
You deserve the very best and you gotta remember to give yourself just that. When you cut yourself short, only you suffer and pay the consequences... Hmong women need to know, it’s ok to be by yourself....
Viv ncaus aw txiv neej tham hluas nkauj los vim lawv muaj ci tabsis ib tug poj niam tham hluas nraug ces yog ib niag neeg phem ntxeev siab rau lub neej. Peb ua poj niam yog tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj es koj ho mus tham hluas nraug pauj koj tus txiv ces koj los yog ib niag maum dev li koj tus txiv. Yus yog neeg zoo ces txiv mus tham lawm los yus yeej tsis muaj ua pauj tus txiv li os, yog tsis sib sib haum lawm ces sib nrauj mam li tham hluas nraug thiaj li yog neeg zoo. Thov txiv tabsis koj zoo li ib niag maum dev tham hluas nraug cuag dab tsis thiab es lub ntuj tiaj li tsis pub lub neej zoo rau koj los txhob tu siab vim koj txoj hmoo thiab yog koj xaiv.
First of all you should never cheated on your first husband just because he did to you. Second of all when a man cry’s and knee on us women asking forgiveness and doing their all to make the marriage work again you should have forgiven him. Feels sorry for you big sister.😪 Thank you for the advice and sharing your mistakes for those who about to be in your shoes.👍🏼
Zoo kawg nkaus vim thaum yu tus txiv rov los thov los yu tsis yuav tab tom sim nyog lawv tsim koj.....kuv xa tias tsis tau txaus thiab yuav tsum tsim kom mob no ntxiv.....
Tus niam tsev, thov qhuas koj lub peev xwm ua rov rau koj thawj tus txiv tiam sis ua cas lwm tus poj niam tham koj tus txiv koj twb mob siab. thaum koj tsis muaj txiv lawm koj ho mus ua lwm tus poj niam mob siab thiab. Peb cov poj niam yeej tsis txawj sib hlub vim peb tus txiv ua peb mob siab los peb tseem ho mus ua lwm tus mob siab thiab. Ntxub cov poj niam coj tus cwj pwm no vim cov poj niam no tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws.
Stop judging people. You all ain’t perfect either. You don’t know her or her life. Just listen to her story. She can do whatever she wants. It’s her life.
koj hai yog lawm kuv yog ib tug thiab vim thaum kuv tseem g tau ntsib lwm tu ma kuv uv xb ho thaum kuv mu ntsib lwm tu lm ce kv yeej g noc nw li lm vim muaj tu lo hloov nw qhov chaw lm ne
Cov txiv uas nws twb muaj tus niam tsev lawm tab si tseem yuav ntxiv ces Txawm hais pem ntuj ti hiav txwv los tsi tha yuav li os. Tsi tha li kuv twb mob2 siab koom tsi tau nrog leej twg es ho tseem mus ua luag niam peb thiab ces tim yog ib tug qauv liam tshaj plaws li ma.
Poj niam Hmong ces yeej kawg ua tus swb xwb los mas, txawm koj mus yuav dua ib tug hluas Los yeej tsis zoo lawm ces yog koj tus txiv twb nyoo thov koj lawm ces rov nyob nrog koj tej menyuam xwb zoo tshaj os
I disagree. Once a cheater always a cheater. There is a small, very small chance your 1st husband would have changes. If he is that old, changes definitely will not come easy. Sister do not regret.
Kuv tsis to taub peb cov viv ncaus hmoob. Peb mob mob siab txog lwm tus tham yus tus txiv tiam sis yus ho mus tham thiab yuav lwm tus pojniam tus txiv. So selfish some of hmoob women that behave like this woman.....so sad! Peb cov pojniam hmoob need to change our perspective or mentality like this woman🤔
Cas tsis txaj muag es tseem muaj plhus nug txog luag tus niam loj thiab cov niag ntsej muag uas ntshaw ua niam yau li nej na tsis muaj hnub yuav piv luag tej niam loj li os
Lwm zaus ua abtsi los ua zoo saib. Txhob ua siab muag rau lawv tes. Tus yav tag los yeej tsis zoo. Tus no los yeej tsis zoo. Yav tom ntej ua zoo xyuas. Pub kom yus yuam kev 2 zaug xwb. Tsis pub muaj zaum 3 ntxiv lawm. Hlub yus tus kheej xwb os tus viv ncaus. Men had no respect for women. Be careful!! Stay single is lonely but it’s worthy. Love yourself more..
If truthfullness pervade her story, I agree that her husband has, for many years, done her so much pains and wrongs. However, her refusal for any reconciliation shows that she is no better than either one of the two devils. . Her infidelity would have started, if not at the same time as her husband, not far from behind---maybe in months instead of years later. In this story it seems like no one can stop the two running-down-hill-without-brake vehicles. . Cia nkawv ua kom txaus nkawv siab os, vim ib tug ua txhaum los ib tug yeej tos rawv pauj kua zaub ntsuab thiab xwb nev.
Koj yog ib tus poj niam li hiam , siab phem,thiab ruam tshaj plaw nyob qab ntuj no txiv neej tsis muaj nyob ntiaj teb no lawm los ua cas tseem pheej tu siab rau yus ab tsi yuav dub,dawb ,mev,nplog mus las mas pheej yuav tsem ab tsi os ib tsam sij hawm tsis muaj rau yus lawm nawb.Mus yuav 4 tus txiv yau los nrog yus pw ib txaj koom yeej nws kiag thiaj tsim nyog.
Wow yog yuav nrauj cas tsis nrauj thaum nws nyuam qhuav pib es koj twb uv2 txog kiag thaum nws hloov lawm koj ho mam mus es zoo abtsi nawb tus niam laus aw. Cas yuav ruam ua luaj li os
Your first was dumped because you couldn't tolerate his abuses, yet you went blindly to be this guy's #3, still deprive of love, and accepts his full, reckless abuses. Why not stand up for yourself like before and set a good example so other women won't be taken advantage off so easily?
Koj tu txiv loj neb ma tawv sib phim nkaus koj txau siab tias tau ua niam 3 to ob niag niam loj kam koj ua niam peb lo ntshe nkawv twb dhuav tsi xav hai lawm os
Tus niam tsev vim koj tsuam koj thiaj tseeg txiv neej cov lus dag. Koj tig tsi tau rov lawm koj yuav nyob lub neej tshaws luag tus tag tiam no koj cov hluas nraug uas Tom qab koj tus txiv muab mloog cas lawv hais tib cov lus dag tham koj xwb ua cas koj ho ntseeg lawv thiab vim koj lub hlwb tsawg duas lawm xwb mog.
I feel sorry for what your first husband did to you, lesson learn when leaving your husband... don't do it because of a guy.. what makes you think that the other guy wont cheat on you... Be smart..
Tu niam tsev aw ca nej twb nyob teb chaw vam meej tsi ntsaw nj tsi ntsaw hnav li peb nyob nplog teb no lo ca hai txg niam txiv txj nkawm e yuav lwj siab tshaj peb cov peb cv nyob rau ntuj qub qab no th
Kuv xav tias koj ua npaum li koj rau koj tus txiv, xav tias koj yuav tsis taug txojkev yuam kev es yuav rov khuvxim thaum ub koj tsis kam zam txim rau koj tus txiv. Cas txog thaum kawg koj lub siab muag koj ho khuvxim thiab os tus vivncaus? Pojniam txojkev ntshaw yog tus txiv hlub u 1leeg, tabsis koj tseem mus ua lawv tus niam3, kuv mloog mloog nej tej neejneeg, kuv Yoob tag li os vim kuv txoj hmoo phem kawg nkaus thiab. UV los mob, nyob los mob, kuv kavliam lawm xwb, nws phov nws, kuv hlub kuv ua ntej tso.
Lady aw, ua cas es yuav muab koj lub qe ruam ruam los rhuav rau lub teb lub chaw mloog os. It seemed that your first husband had learned his lesson and was trying hard to make it up to you. You should have stayed with him.
Txhob tu2 siab vim tus1 los yeej phem kawg nkaus lawm txhob khuv xim. Koj ruam zog lawm vim koj qhia koj lub neej 1 tag2 rau cov tom qab paub ne lawv thiaj tsim koj ua neeg nyob txhob ua siab zoo 2 mas. Koj yeej paub li lus tias ua zoo tau phem ua hais kom ntxim 2 hlub na ua rau ntxim ntxub xwb. Tsis tau lig pib dua tshiab rawm Kim qhov yuam kev siab zoo yav laus koj yuav xav tau ib tug los nyob ntawm koj ib sab txhob xaiv tus txawj hais lus xaiv tus siab zoo thiaj kav laus vc
My God. ! this story is the same thing that what happen to me now..right now I want to live my husbands for good.!it hurt So bed can´t take it no more..
TXHOB CHEEM2 MA PEB TWB XAV2 SIM UA NIAM #3 IB ZAUG THIAB NE. LAWV TWB HAIS TIAS NIAM #1 TAU LUB DIG XWB. NIAM #2 CES TAU RAU NIAG QWS TXOB. HOS NIAM #3 CES LAWV THIAB LI NOJ NCEB NO NE.
Heeeheee hom. Tab Tom xwb os pog awssssss. Txoj kev mus txiag qauv thaum yus tseem muaj txiv os. Koj tus txiv yeej siab Phem rau koj ua ntev, tabsis koj txuas koj sian uv txog 10 lub niag xyoo es. Ua cas koj hos tsis nrauj no? Ua cas koj hos mus txiag qauv kom koj hos tau lub niag npe phem thiab no? Koj mas ruam tiag2 lo....ruam tsis raum los tseem zoo siab hlos Los ua niam 3 thiab.....neeg npam ces yog koj ntag.
nej cem tias tus txiv liam no tab sis tus poj niam tseem ruam tshaj ua niam loj tsis yeem ho yeem ua niam 3 kj ruam tshaj lawm os wv g tau tus txiv tham hluas nkauj xwb ho g kam yeem ho yeem ua niam 3 hahhh poj niam ruam.
