Tso Txhua Yam Tseg Khiav Nrog Koj. 5/30/2024 

I am a divorcee too. My husband was a single guy never married. His family was against me, but my husband didn't care. He went against them and married me. Now we have been married for over 10 yrs. Happy and still in love with one another. It doesn't matter about the status of a person. Its about willing to love that person without judging their past.

You are a true leader of your life and your family, not a follower and not easily influenced.

I am glad you love her. I hope that you will love her til her last breath. Best wishes to you and your family.

Yup! Always protect your spouse and don’t ever allowed anyone to disrespect your spouse.

I love your story because you are a true and genuine man. God bless. Need more of this kind of story

Koj mas yog ib tug tub uas tawv ncauj tiag tiag li ntag , vaj tswv txoj cai yeej sam hwm kom tej me nyuam hlub thiab hwm yus niam yus txiv xwb vaj tswv tsis tau kom peb niam peb txiv los hwm los nyoo peb , yog peb tsis hwm niam hwm txiv ces vaj tswv yuav tsis pub peb muaj sia nyob ntev ua neej nyob no xwb peb cov uas yog niam yog txiv ces vaj tswv kom peb hlub peb cov me nyuam txhob pub peb tej me nyuam tu siab no xwb , nej cov me nyuam no mas tsu nrog tus poj niam twg pw lawm ces cuag li tug ntawd thiaj yog poj niam xwb ntag .

Love is the strongest thing in the world. Glad u followed your heart and did not listen to anyone. Forgive parents and cherish whatever time they have left with you.

Txhob tu siab rau cov laus kom tas2 vim tej laus twb pom los lawm txiv neej siab phem2 vim thaum laus txiv neej laus txaus siab phem mam tawg mam ua phem xwb yog koj lub siab hlub koj tus niam tsev li ko kom kawg los kuj zoo thiab thov kom sib hlub kom kawg lub neej kom zoo xwb mog

I'm glad you stood your ground. I wish all parents would put their children's happiness first before theirs.

Txiv neej mas luag tau tus luag hlub mas luag txaus siab ua txhua yam Txiv neej tau tus tsis raws siab xav mas tseev ua qhov zoo los yeej tsis pom luag zoo Tsuas pom qhov phem li phem xwb

Parents just want the best for their child. They want you to not ever regret your life because you can never undo it.

Cov niam txiv OG no twb tuaj nyob Meskas teb no lawm thov tseg txoj kev qub 2 tau 2-3 tiam tas los no lawm es pheej yuav xaiv nyab xaiv vauv rau tej megnuam cia lawv xaiv lawv tus lawv nyiam es lawv thiaj li xav nrog lawv tus txwj nkawm nyob. Tus tub koj ua yog kawg lawm txhob cia koj niam koj txiv xaiv koj lub neej rau koj thiaj li yog kev hlub tseeb.

txoj kev hlub yeej zoo kawg, koj zoo rau koj tus poj niam, me nyuam. tab sis koj siab phem dhau rau koj niam koj txiv lawm

Cov coob ces yej ntxeev siab thaum laus es thiaj hais ualuaj. Koj yog thawj tug ua siab zoo hlub koj tus pojniam, Uatsaug nawb.

Kj txawm chim npau cas los Nc ntsoov tias muaj kj niam thb kj txiv es thiaj li muaj kj tiam neej no nkawv txawm phem npau li cas rau kj los hnub twg nkawv zam txim rau kj lm kj yuav tsum Nc ntsoov nkawv txoj kev hlub tu kj los mog

Wow zaj no mas zoo tiag2 li os kuv nrog tus me niam zoo2 siab heev rau tus txiv hlub thiab nyiam nws heev li os

This story is very strong relationship I can tell and see that you are a true Hmong son can show your parent , your family that you love her and protect her because you love her then you have to tell everybody know that she is part of your life that is why you can’t let your wife down you are doing the right thing don’t hate your parent and don’t turn your wife down too you do the right things.

I think you should forgive your parents. I think most of it they're protecting you. You could've regret marrying your wife and divorce her because she's a divorcee. I would try to talk my son/daughters out of it too because marrying someone who already has a past comes with a lot of baggage. There are so many people who wished they didn't and it's already too late.

I would do the same thing. Yug yuav tsum tiv thaiv tug neeg yus hlub. I am so happy for you both. Sis sis hlub moog kuas txug nub kawg nawb mog. ❤

Yeah koj mas ua yog kiag lawm. I like. Tiam 22 lawm yuav tsum khov li ko lub neej tom ntej thiaj li tsis tu siab rau koj tus kheej.

Tu tu siab heev

Nyias yug nyias mam paub os hmoob aw

Txoj kev hlub uas dawb huv thiab caj ncees yog hlub tawm hauv nruab siab tuaj , g hais yuav phom sij, nyuab thiab txom nyem npaus cas yeej g muaj leej teg yuav txwv txiav tau thiab yuav yeej tag txhua 2 yam, i support and respect you brother ❤

Good for u. U should forgive your parents because they love u and care u. Nrog koj zoo siab os brother kam tsi hlub hlub koj tug niam tsev os.

Beautiful story! Wish a lot of the men can be like you! Its sad that a lot of the men are not men enough to stand up for their situation that they cause for their girl and what she go through! They promise their girl and after that they betray her!❤

Nrog neb zoo siab os tu me nu koj thiaj yog tu txiv neej txawj xav tshaj plaw li , thov kom kj hlub kj tu me niam tsev li no mu ib sim neej mog

Tib neeg txoj kev hlub loj tshaj plaws txhua yam, yog koj tus tub, tus ntxhais nyiam tus twg lawm, yuav tsum cia nws yuav tus ntawd, nws thiaj kaj siab, nws thiaj zoo siab thiaj xav pib lub neej nrog tus nws nyiam. Tsis txhob yuam nws kom yuav tus peb cov niam thiab txiv nyiam.

This guy no good. Why would you abandon your parents just becus of this reason? So much for a cop!

A dad should not "check out" or bring girls around you that fits his taste as a man, nor should put you in a situation that makes you uncomfortable. Even if he is your dad, you don't need to bow to his wants. Thanks for showing us Hmong brothers to be strong and fight for what we want/need.

Wow! All husbands should have protected their wives the way you protect your wife. She was so lucky that you chose her.❤

This is exactly my story by then in the 80s. My parents and my husband’s parents didn’t like us getting married too. So we ran away too but we both are very much in-love and we both are single. Our parents think we are too young and the marriage will never last. We been married for over 37 yrs now and still much in-love

Don’t be so harsh and mad at your parents. They were looking out in your best interest. Imagine if it didn’t work out, you would be living in regrets and upset at your parents for not stopping you. Dam if your parents did stop you and dam if they didn’t. It’s hard being parents. You will be in your parents’ shoes one day and will understand where they were coming from.

What a great love story! I applaud you for standing up to your wife and not married or cheat on her with the girls in Laos

Saib koj hlub koj cov me nyuam zoo lica ce koj niam koj txiv yeej hllub koj lis ntawm thiab qhov koj ua tsi yog lawm koj tej yam tsi zoo rau koj lub

Wow thov ua koj tsaug nawb brother koj kuj hlub peb cov poj nrauj kawg li thiab thov kom neb sib hlub nawb mog

Wow! Zoo siab rau tug txiv tsev nos. Cas yuav hais tau tu sab ua luaj os. Xav kom tau coob tug txiv neej lub sab zoo le tug txiv neej nuas. Cag peb cov nkauj nra es yuav tau lub npe phem ua luas.... zoo sab tas thaum kawg es koj tau tug koj hlub lawm os tug nug. Yog ib qhov kev kawg rua cov nam txiv khwv tij tib tib cov nkauj nra nkauj tsog yawg nra yawg tsauj. Lub neej sibsib hlub tseem muaj yog muaj coob tug tseem xav zoo les tug txiv tsev no.

I don’t understand Hmong people about divorce women. Imagine if that was you, your sister or your daughter. Would your thinking still be the same?

Kj g tsim nyog kj txiv yug kj li os

Hopefully, you will not regret it when you get older, most of the guys married to pojnrauj always complain when they get older they will start to see differently.

Thank you. brother

Tau tu kj hlb lm es sib2 hlb nawb ❤❤❤

I wish my ex was as brave as you… I was not even a divorcee and was treated badly by his family all because I speak a different dialect and is driven. May you guys love each other forever! So happy for your happy ending.

yog ib txoj neej zoo thiab tu siab kawg li...I am tear to your story brother...

As parents, we need to change the way we see a divorcee. There’s nothing wrong with loving someone who once married. We need to give our kids a choice in finding love for themselves and not for our own happiness. I would never be happy with someone I do t love as well.

You are one of a kind. Please forever love your wife and prove to people that status is nothing.

Brother, I applaud you. You did everything right

Thank for protecting your wife

Kuv tus nyab twb 2 tug txiv 5tug me nyuam lawm los kuv twb tsi txwv kuv tus mi tub es tsuav lawv sib2 hlub xwb

Next pls

Very less men love the one once married like your story.

Vim li cas nej niam thiab txiv ho ntxub ntxub poj nrauj li nes yom

I like your channel ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

Cov poj nrauj tam sim no siab phem phem lawm ceev faj nawb...

zoo siab nrog koj o viv ncaus ua koj tau tus txiv hlub2 koj o❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

This man is so romantic! Are there more of you in the Hmong community?

You are good man

A true man

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

TOS kj niam nkawv txawv kj los kj tus poi niam yog poi nrauj lwm hnub kj yeej tsis hlub Nws lawm vim txiv neej hmoob siab phem heev

Very sweet love story brother. It’s good you followed your heart and not let anyone influence you to leave your wife after you married her.

He's definitely a protector of a dad, husband, and son. There is nothing wrong if it's all about love. So proud of you, son.

Tos cov laus tsis pub yuav los txiv neej siab phem222 nej nyiam thaum tshiab xwb nej yuav poj nrauj nej yuav tsis kawg koj tuaj hais li no tab sis kuv tsis ntseeg koj. Yog koj pojniam tuaj hais kiag tias koj zoo no mas nyaj yuav ntseeg me22 ov.

What is a real hmong gentleman God bless your

Lovely story. We need more love story like this.

You might regret it in 20 years, believe your parents.

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Hmong people and their prejudice against divorce or orphan kids is ridiculous! Those people are the type that knows how to love because they faced hardship!!!!

Not everythings your parents, wanted are right but some parts are also important, too. Once you are older you will know. One day you will wake up and realize some of things said are also true. Nothing happens right now because things are going good and you are happy but only time will tell.

That’s great. You are a great guy and stood your ground.

What a beautiful love story. Sad that you two both had to prove yourself marriage to your family. It all comes down to you…. Continue to Love and respect her the way she deserves. May God bless the both of you.

Txiv neej ruam thiab hlwb tsawg ces yog tus tub no nthag

Me tub aws cas koj lub siab yuav tawv ua luaj koj tsis ntshai tsam lwm hnub es koj cov hos khiav mus thiab los, yog koj khiav lawm los cas koj tsis hu rov los noog ob tug laus moo li na koj yeej ua yuam kev me me lawm thiab

you did a great job i would do the same thing like you too

Hopefully you will remain the same way until the end. But also remember that you can’t take back the time missed with your parents. They are getting older each day and you will regret all those times. So make up and move on.

What a real man!!!! ❤ Happy you stood by her.

Its sad being a hmong woman. Once divorced u have to carry a scarlett letter. You as a hmong woman have to have a strong will to move forward.

Nah, won’t be letting my boys get with a divorcee. No baggage allow.

Let’s hope the you love her until death due you part. Most men changed when the woman is older. The love is no longer there. You made a choice for yourself. Don’t ruin her the second time.

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Definitely hmoob people problem. Hopefully when all the og passes the new generation will change.

I'm a divorced woman with 2 beautiful boys, very similar situation, I was dislike because of my status, but my husband (single guy) and I have been ❤️ together for over 17+ years! Don't judge poj nrauj, we didn't choose to be divorced, we chose to not be a victim of abuse by leaving our abusive partner.

You did right. Old Hmong ppl will say what they say at the end to make excuses but we all know if it was up to them. They would never accept a divorcee woman for their sons.

I hope you don't ever regret down the road and complain that you married a divorce woman. And I hope you better NOT say anything if your sons or daughters ever marry a divorce. LOL

WOW, I can't believe your parents knowingly that you're a cop yet they want you to marry an underage,,. Forcing you to marry their choice. Glad you stood up for your love...

U did right brother But Hmong people always like that Too hard to complain 😢

Koj zaj neej neeg zoo heev koj kuj ua tau zoo heev li 我舅舅的儿子来娶我大妈家的女儿，去了有三天舅舅他们未经我表哥的允许，就把我堂姐送回来了，说嫌弃我堂姐有点矮，可是他们两个很相爱，却不能在一起，后来有外省来的人把我堂姐娶走了，从那以后我表哥就离家出走了，直到现在都有二十多年了，从未回来过，也不联系家里人。

Can my husband be THIS sweet/obsess with me?! 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻

Hope your parents learned their lesson. Most Hmong men are so obedient to the point that they lost everything they want in life bcuz of parents like yours. I applaud you.

Can someone please tell me what is so wrong with divorce women. Why can't a single man married to a divorce woman. Is okay for man who divorce many times to marry a single woman.

Wrong Title. It should be “Tso Txhua Yam Tseg Khiav Nrog Tus Yus Hlub”

It’s ok I got a used Toyota Tacoma and I’m happy 😂😂😂😂😂 the previous owner took good care of it 😂😂😂😂

Yawg no muab faib rau sab pawg ruam! Mus txog nplog teb thiab maiv maum nrhab tib si tseem ua aib xiab hlwb tsawv tseem hais “ excuse me “. Npom5 nib xiam tiam li yawg txiv hais haha.

Hmong MEN have come a long way to CHANGE this CAST system thinking that only singles can marry singles, or only rich can marry rich!! I applaud 👏 you for the change! The newer generation singles R MoRE accepting of divorcees now than ever b4. You also said some GOOD things about life that I AGREE, however I DONT AGREE with you running away……your parents R your life also. They gave you breath. Even though it’s tough for them to accept, a REAL MAN can stand the pressure n take control without RUNNING away …. I feel bad for your Old parents having to live 10 yrs missing you!! That’s NOT COOL of you to do!! Some men …..like you…..love just a little TOO HARDCORE lmao 🤣……overdunn!! Honestly, if I have to judge, I would say YOU R just as stubborn/hardcore as your dad…..y’all R both same! Sorry, I don’t support runaways!! That’s alittle too immature to me! What u did was WRONG, considering you’re a cop, that’s BAD practice! I hope u don’t ever have to face your kid running away. Your heart will break in every way possible! 🙅🏼‍♂️🙅‍♀️

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loyal 🐖.

Your parents swear single women are virgins 😂. Virgins are a rare find..

Tsis txaus ntseeg… you are a coward… ib tus police es tseem tso tes plau thiab es puas yog police? Puas ua tau hauj lwm pab neeg tiag naj.

Koj zaj niag neej neeg no cas koj tseem muaj ntsej muag coj tuaj hais rau ntiaj teb mloog thiab es koj tsi paub txaj muag li los niag tub dev

You got screwed by your in-laws. You respected them, but they took advantage of you. Your dad only wanted the best for you. You’re selfish. Over exaggerated and over reacted!

This guy will never know the feelings of eating a fresh fruit for the first time 😢 why drive a used 🚗 when you can drive a new 🚗