You're so on the money bro. Females tend to be very delusional about their value/price in the dating market. For some reason gents must accept them as they are and they want guys with options. Why would he pick someone with a high mileage vs someone doesn't? A high mileage alone is enough to be a deal breaker for most guys just as much as an unemployed guy is a deal breaker for a lot of ladies out here. I admit though not all guys are the same. It really is each to his own. But for most guys the lower the mileage the better. Sisters need to be realistic. It is what it is.
@@shandukandaba1499 Many sisters need to be realistic… you are spot on! Not all guys are the same, but we are generally the same. Thank you for your comment!
Everything has a cost in life, for both men and women, some people seem to not understand this (they actually do understand but it hurts them to admit it), there are many examples and case studies that can be made from the things we experience in ur communities. The catch here is that the more one is disciplined in their younger adult years, the more likely they'll be rewarded when it comes to certain situations and circumstances in the future. Every choice you make has an outcome, unfortunately most people learn the hard way.
I believe in a nuclear family structure but your videos made me realise I actually am fine on my own hey? 😂😂😂 there’s so much going on, so much politics in this sphere of life. Hai no.
@@pensonmlotshwa doubt that it’s a realistic pursuit, especially after your video about cheating. The risk is far too high & ends up harming innocent children and I don’t think I can handle traumatising my kids when I knew the truth and took a risk anyway.
@@iambloopy That means you need to be about to vet your partner more or potential partner better if you see something that does not align with your beliefs run, and run away fast not slow. The problem with most women is they are terrible at vetting a good partner because they look for all the wrong things in one. Instead of important things like are they a good person, are they kind , are they caring , is this person from a good family with strong moral values, y'all look at if he excites your emotions rather than if they'll be good fathers and husbands. Y'all look for if he can take your emotions on a rollercoaster ride rather than make you feel safe and secure with the person.
@@marciandlovu The truth that majority of men don't prefer women who have a promiscuous history, kante weren't you listening to the conversation on the video?
Question? 🙋♀️ how can you tell a woman has a high body count? Isn’t that easily manipulated through perception? If a modestly dressed, religious woman, young and has no children kept her affairs discreet, who resembles “purity” has a high body count how would you be able to tell? I find it a silly metric because it’s one that can be easily manipulated in many ways.
I suppose a woman can hide it from a guy that is not experienced and not street smart. Apart from loss of elasticity, which is quite obvious, there are other subtle telltale signs…such as being too experienced in terms of intimacy, lifestyle ( been there done that.. such as a 20year old who is clearly not established career wise and cant afford much herself but has travelled all over the world business class etc…) Of course none of these are conclusive on their own but they raise eyebrows and best believe that experienced guys can definitely recognise these red flags. Truth is most people are not experts at hiding their true nature, so some red flags will definitely show. Besides the red flags, the truth always has a way of coming out sooner or later .. streets talk and the world is so much smaller now because of social media, so the idea that you can move to a new place and reinvent yourself and leave the past hidden is unrealistic.
If she really has a high body it usually shows through her actions with time. She may fool you into a relationship but true colours always reveal themselves with time.
@@iambloopy it shows through things like having too many guy friends,entertaining guys on your DMs on IG,how you act around my friends when we out,your circle of friends..etc..A person can pretend for soo long til their true character comes out
Me and my friend this thing of high mileage, and what we realize matters the most to gents is not so much the mileage but how many owners have had it previously.
We're all different. Some people change, some people change for now, some people just don't. It's very important that we respect ourselves. Regardless of age. People will make their own choices, that's fine, hopefully with the understanding of what exactly it is they're getting. It's not your responsibility to change/fix someone. There's an abundance of therapists out there. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be with that kind of person at all, it's your standards, if you're gonna lower it for someone, you'll only have yourself to blame if things go south. You knew exactly what it was you're getting. Lastly, such things like a hoe past should not be hidden from the person whom you see as a potential spouse. Communicate. If the person loses interest , move on 🤷🏾♂️. It should be very simple. Love and respect yourselves bafe2
The fresh coconut was cracked but then many strangers touched the water, trying to get a piece.. Freshness is gone but she still speaks of Electrolytes in that evaporated juice.. What new guy's drinking it? 😅
Lmao AMATHEKENI!!!...waze wayikhuluma indaba...there's alot in my mind abt it on experience as we all have n da thot who do i go for as a wife yazi uze ucabange ukuya traditional uyemhlangen coz "citygirls" u compremise yourslf for umuntu who wont compromise for u...u can't have sex experience wintombanzane usuwaz isperm count zolova....i cud go on but u pretty much sed wat m writin...ngiyakuzwa!!! N a woman who has ticked all da red boxes(red flags) has to work harder to b valued,smart avuse umuzi,akhuthale... AkuBalance emhlabeni...if i were to compromise it has rob 1 babydaddy oshaya iwunga hectic uhlulekile....m not abt to combat da whole saying of lapho okwama khona amanz asangaphinde ame lol..
@@SiyandaCarl I'm glad you're comfy with it, that's great. Yazi I think 2 years ago (if I'm not mistaken), the Roald Dahl collection of books we read (if singontanga) was recalled for the sole purpose to change that word. Children use f-bombs etc. mostly as an adverb or adjective. The word fat is directed at someone mostly and creates long lasting esteem issues. I ask him to not use the word around his kids because it is silently deadly.
@@MbalenhleQwabe lol.. Phuma ku Siyanda 🤣🤣🤣 I was saying around his kids for a reason. He used far worse words, that's his right, but kids calling other kids fat is a serious issue we are dealing with. It is in majority of bullying statements and until children develop a sense of self and who they are, their looks and peer opinion matters. Hence I say Siyanda can say that ngaye because he/she has firmly built other esteem measures. You get?
