Wuag ua tsaug ntau2 rau koj zaj dab neeg siab zoo os mog...kuv yuav kawm koj zaj no los ua neeg zoo li koj txiv ntxawm thiab...zoo siab koj lub neej zoo tuaj lawm nawb. Thov kom peb hmoob txawj sib hlub li nov xwb tiag lawv...
Such a beautiful, educational and inspiring story. Brother, so sorry for the loss of your uncle. May he RIP. You are a great son/man. Your faith and determination didn't stop you from achieving your goals/dreams. I'm sure your parents are very proud of the man you became. May God continue to bless you and your family.
This story makes me think of our mean uncle my dad pass away when we were young when my brother they got older they wanted to get married all the uncle said no but my brother they work and earn money to married their own wife still the uncle wouldn’t help with the wedding we had to get outside uncle to help with the brother wedding muab xav los mas tusiab tshaj but I’m glad that this makes my brother they know how to love each other and love each other kids
Thank you for sharing this beautiful sad story of yours. I believe that you are indeed very lucky. Some of the orphans go through so much suffering and trauma especially if the aunts and uncles are abusive. It’s sad to hear that there were so many orphans then.
Bro, the part where you went to pick cans that reminds me when my cousins and I went to pick cans too with my grandma( RIP) in the 1980s. It was early in the morning during the summer, it was a fun time for us.
I love a good ending story. You are a better person today because of how they treated you. Somehow that's what it takes to jump start your life because they are teaching you to be better (Not in a good way). We learn better if people are hating on us. When your family tells you, you just ignore it or don't care. When haters tells you that "You're nothing or a nobody", and because they're hating on you, you take it to heart. You can learn a lot from your enemies because you want to shut them up. You want to better yourself and prove that you are somebody. You want them to silently fear you because you're everything they are not. There's no better teacher than your enemies. "Keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer".
Hauj! pab koj khuv xim kawg li os cas tus neeg siab zoo es tsis nyob kom ntev 2 li os Tus neeg siab zoo hlub tau tej me nyuam ntsuag mas thiaj yog neeg siab zoo.
Tej saum nkawd noj noj koj cov nyiaj ntev los nkawd tsis Kam nta koj Tus niam tsev Rau koj es ntshe koj niam koj txiv tsis pom zoo cia ob tug neeg qhia dub los Rau neb tu thiaj cia tuag ua ntsej koj poob los poob tsis ntau Li los nrog koj nyob mog us tsaug
I don't understand how u can be more resentful n stressed out over her side vs ur own uncle that didn't give a damn bout u but ur very lucky u got another one to help u.
I don't blame those orphans in Laos or Thailand as they barely have an opportunity to make money. In this country, I feel like sometimes these orphans have no responsibility and no brain. They are blaming their care taker. You know you're an orphan, you know you have no money, don't get marry so young. Be responsible, make yourself a man first before you decide to get married. My husband is an orphan too but he knew that he has no one to rely on so he worked and saved money. One day when he get married, he doesn't need to beg anyone to pay for his wife. We have a nephew, his dad passed away and he is only 17 but he got his wife pregnant. He was lucky to have us, the uncles, to help pay for his bride. He contribute $0.
Koj pojniam neb muaj hmoo kawg. it just REALLY ANNOYS me when girls like your wife set a time for you to get married or else, like you guys were in your late 30s or 40s already. you both were barely grown kids and already wanting to get married already??!!! Especially you knew you're poor and hlob & niam hlob never gave you any $. Rather, they take your hard earned $ as a kid and kept it. You should've known nobody was going to want to help you, especially being an orphan. But you were SO LUCKY to have a loving and caring uncle and aunt to carry your burden. You are blessed. It's great that you are a kind and thoughtful man to be good and do good to both uncles.
Agreed. He is lucky but he can't be mad at his txiv hlob for not willing to pay for his bride. It is not txiv hlob responsibility. That's the responsibility of his parents and himself. My husband's nephew is very lucky to have my husband and his brothers pay for the nephew's wife. I do feel like some tub ntsuag has no responsibility. They can't help themself and expect other to help them yet they're not even trying to help themself out first. This man knew he was poor, he knew he has no one but he was stubborn as heck.
Your uncle is good. However I say this. Many of us are also orphans when coming to America. The wrong decision for orphans being in America is getting married so young like you. You caused problems for yourself when begging for your txiv hlob and others to help you pay for bride. Some of us took the opportunity of free college tuitions for poor people like us to get a college degree first before thinking about woman. This is the very best country to help orphans to get the best education and career before love.
COV NIAG NIAM HLOB TXIV HLOB THIAB COV NIAG NIAM NTXAWM THIAB TXIV NTXAWM LAWV YEEJ TSI HLUB YUS LI OS...VIM PEB HMOOB MUAJ IB TXIA TSI MUAJ LUB SIAB ZOO ES YUAV HLUB TAU LWM TUS TEJ ME NYUAM NTSUAG LI OS...
Peb hmoob lub siab phem siab lim hiam hlub g tau leej twg yog tias nyob teb chaws nplog g muaj nom tswv pab ma thiaj li pob twb tuaj nyob miska teb nom tswv twb muab av tas rau koj noj thaum koj me2 los li koj tus txiv ntxawm hais os twb noj koj av tas tag ntau tseem g kam ua tshoob rau koj siab phem tiag2 nrog koj zoo siab heev yeej yog li koj txiv ntxawm hais nyias muaj nyias ib txoj hmoo los ua neej tiag...koj tus txiv hlob ces g tas hlub xav txog nws tej lus thaum cem koj ma g xav mloog txhob pub los nrog yus nyob os....
What kind of jerk uncle takes money from a minor 🤬🤬🤬🤬 he should be ashamed of himself. I hate people that treat orphans like your older uncle and his wife. I also hate Hmong people’s words like...”koj tsis yog kuv yug kuv yeej tsis nta koj vim tsam lwm hnub koj hlub tsis taus kuv”...you take an orphan in, but you want to ntsuav nuj ntsuav nqi cuag nws los thawj koj!!! So glad your younger uncle took the responsibility for you. I bet your older uncle is wishing he’d help you.
Neb txiv hlob uas phem2 ntawv puas tseem muaj txoj sai nyb na. Yg tseem muaj no ces qhia seb Nws nyb rau qhov twg e peb sim mus saib seb ces siab phem ua luaj li na
Do not love those who does not love you...who cares about them...i am not that nice...dont be that nice...it is america...they can go live at the senior home...i would not butcher them cows...why waste your hard earn money.
Koj niag txiv hlob thiab niam hlob siab phem welfare twb muab koj li as tas rau nkawv tawg lawm ho tsis xav them nqi nyab rau koj los kav liam nyaj nkawv xav tias nkawv cov nkawv yug yuav hlub2 nkawv no es muab koj av tas nyiaj mus them rau nkawv cov tub tiam sis saib mus ov nkawv cov nkawv xya yeej yuav tsis hlub nkawv nawb siab phem li nkawv na. Nev txoj ke siab phem ne tsis kam them nqi nyab rau yus tseem ho yuav los thawj yus os
if so called that your uncle passed of covid19, why didn't his dr give him hydrocholoquine, would of help your uncle, if he had the wuflu. I'm sorry but it's upsetting to see an angel passed.
Your txiv hlob should have help you with the wedding but you seem to think you come before their sons. Just finished high school with no degree no jobs and you think marriage is a smart choice, what is she going to eat? What are your children going to eat. Get a job before marriage.
Right. As a tub ntsuag, no money no marriage. Don't just push the responsibility to the adult relatives in your life, you are responsible for yourself.
