Ibyo uyu mu mama avuga ndabizi rwose bibaho. You can live with a man/woman for years have children and if he is not your husband/wife you will still part ways.
Umugabo w'uyu mudame ntabwo ari narcissiste ahubwo ntabwo yari uwe bambi, nature has its way to solve the issue. If you know spirituality u can understand that every woman/man has a chosen one created for him/her( some call them soul mates).
Imana igukomeze mama Quen kandi irangurure ijwi ryawe kuko ni iryayo! Urugamba rw'isenyuka ry'imiryango ni rurugomba kurwanywa nta kujejenjeka kuko rujegeza imiryango na sosiyete muri rusange. Ibiganiro nk'ibi nibyubahwe! kandi namwe abari kuri uru rugamba Imana ibahe umugisha
What happened to you is a mess and hope u learned from it.. but people always ignore red flags in relationships and hope to change someone. People can't be changed people change.