For the sake your kids and parents if not for anything else, please do not commit suicide because of a partner who did not even deserve you in the first place. This applies to both men and women.
Cutting onions in my shop😭😭😭,,wadada wenzangu ndoa ikikataa imekataa,, there's is no need of forcing issues,mwanaume akichoka na wewe amechoka ,I lived in a toxic marriage for 9yrs ,he never changed and he was no ready either ,but I thank God he saved me with my 3children and they are grown-ups now
The father has the legal rights to raise his child, but he should find it in his heart to allow visitation. Even meeting somewhere for tea or lunch, when school closes, is not too much to ask for. Just be kind and allow this grandmother to have sone contact. Her only daughter is dead, and this is her only grandchild.
@@virginiawangui7372she's not talking about those that were forced to leave their children and spouses! She's talking of the single mamas who chose to leave the abusive marriages to go struggle for their children rather than dying in the name of " keeping the marriage "
😭😭😭😭😭😭wooiii Ngai, being married by a Luo men's,nikujijimbia kaburi, saying through experience,4years and I was all over suicidal,but I thank God am alive, Luo's are big no!!!!
@@blessedwachera7133it's not just kikuyus,luo men are naturally proud and Kinda arrogant, Kikuyu women are brought to be tough and independent,so they become tough, to "tame" us, but inakua impossible
Wambui hatuoni number ya huyu mama. Aki i have cried with her the whole time, she needs therapy 😭😭😭😭😭😭. May God make a way for her in Jesus name amen 🙏
This is so painful but hawa watoto mimi sijui shida ni gani ....unaongelesha mtoto na hataki kukusikia am here praying for my daughter who doesn't even listen to and shes my only child😢
This is such a sad story but our parents should accept their children back when the marriages fail and there is a lot of disrespect We can always start again surely it shouldn’t lead to mental illness 😢 So sad 😢
Wambui woiiii haki wamama wanapitia I'm all Tears I can't stop crying. The Brutal this gal went through in the hands of that Man God will pay you Mum💕💕🙏🙏
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! Someone I know Ukrainian has been with a married Romanian man married to a Philippine wife , the wife has two children , the Ukrainian knew that the man was married but chose to buy his lies of I don't love my wife , I'll divorce her to marry you thing . I told her to respect the wife and never to think that he adore her than his wife ... she reject my words , stayed with the man for more than 8 years , got a child who is now 8 years , only to be left by the man for his wife ... the house he had bought for her ( Ukrainian) she later found out that it was not in her or her son's name ...she once said that a child who has no fathers will never enter in the kingdom of God because she " was married " hence looking down on the single mothers .
This is Soo painful 😢😢 God yani ata mtu anakunyua Sumu akiwa Na husband yake unaabia mamake ati amekunyua sumu Na ulikua Kwa nyumba then una kataa na mtoi nahukua Na haja Na mwenye ame zaa huyo mtoi shidwe sana utakufa kama Umbwa Na utasikia uchungu kuliko hii huyu mama anaskia
Pole sana Mom, I feel you. It's your own grandson and whenever you talk or see him, reminds your daughter.All will be well. Just ONE DAY at Gods time your grandson will come around looking for cucu and no one will stop him. The battle is not for you. it's for the Lord, be blessed
Pole sana Syombua may God give you peace your daughter was school mate with my daughter at St Lindas .so sad but we can't ask God anything he knows why it happened may you get justice for your grandson
Ladies don't get me wrong,,why would one stand a guy who beats you...i was insulted verbally once, the following day i had left.... self love, for me is first.pole sana mama, MUNGU akupe nguvu na ajaze hilo pengo.shalom!!
What hurts most is that this guy pushed the lady to suicide 😢😢😢.... what do people want? There are things we're not supposed to do. Is this man happy now that she died and the mother is suffering? Where is kindness? Kwani watu ni wanyama aje aki? May this man never find peace
May the God Lord give you strength. I can only imagine what you're going through mama. Please get a counselor for psychological support, you need to be helped, it's not easy.
Aki kuna watu wengine wakiingia kwa familia yako kila kitu huchange if i may say Ladies tujipende jameni ebu tujiwekeni kwa kiatu ya mama zetu how can you feel mtoto wako akijiua?? then maybe uanze kusumbuliwa hivi na mwenye amefanya ujiue is it even making Sense get busy chase money and cater for your kid love is blind and i will still say it's madness.Hugs Mum all shall be well
Even this one probably watched her take the poison. He didn’t even take any action to try and safe her life. Why didn’t he scream for the neighbors, instead of waiting for the mother to come back? Aende akufe ata yeye. 🤬
To anyone going through depression, before you make a decision to take your own life please consider the people who care about you and not the one person that has hurt you
That man is selfish, heartless and loveless hii ni Dunia hata yeye atakipata one-day kile mtu anapanda ndicho atapanda hata yeye atalia vile anavyo lilisha huyo mama
In the Kikuyu culture once you're married to other tribes (ndúrírí) the person is considered lost...... having followed this story there are many gaps that lead to such occurrence.....ie the guy hasn't paid dowery yet he gets the privilege to take the kid.......when the lady took poison he watched it and never bothered to take his wife to hospital....the grandmother's marriage never matured who's namesake to the deceased..... Mother's marriage ended immediately after conception of the deceased......anyway may you heal mama
God is able mum😢😢😢😢😢 may God see you through na akuponye moyo na Akutetee upate haki😢😢😢.... Wooooiii mtoto wa kipekee😢😢😢 heri kutoka kwa hio ndoa kuliko kufa aki😢😢😢😢
He is not a kikuyu, so he has no respect for Kikuyu traditions. And the court system follows the constitution, not the traditional law. So only the man can agree to the grandmother having contact with her grandson. I hope he will act like a human being.
Pole Sana Mum for the loss of Ur daughter lakini where is the government? Plz put Ur shoes on this Shosh shoes n react. This man let his wife died. N now fighting to see the grandmother follow her daughter. Plz help to get her rights to stay with her grandchild.
@@catemwangi1450 don't give up some day u will make her proud,yes we always remember the hardship they hv gone to bring best in us ad the love mum shows me tht what drives me,God bless you dear
People should just stop being selfish Think of your own mom being denied the access of your kids ,, how would you feel Pole mom may God heal your heart
Woiye i really feel for her😭me too i have one daughter n i can't imagine her killing herself bcoz of a useless man,,na by the way that man doesn't have any right to stay with that child coz hakua amemuoa vizuri there was nothing ya kuonyesha the girl was his wife,so huyu mama can go to court n claim that kid back
Hi wambo ungeoa na kiswahili since the man is a luo,tena hawa watu luos nime ishi nao sana l know there reasoning Wana chukulia watoi ni wake, women has no wright for there kids matharau tuu mingi to the in law may God heal that woman,😢😢
I pray for this woman..so much..I was in a toxic relationship na mjaluo..ile kichapo nilipewa over a woman..mjaka mwenzake. Wee it was a concern..I sunk into depression wakati wa corona..I couldn't eat I became slender weak and couldn't walk well..I made up my mind and left that bad relationship.Kuolewa na hawa watu esp if yu ar frm ana tribe ni shida..am sorry this happened..so sad .na hawaoni kitu kubwa.
Similar Case with the Dr Brown, if you start inviting parents to case our; marital issues that itself is a warning ⚠ let's normalise stepping aside and taking some time alone on each of party!
When a man disrespects you or your parents that relationship is over.period. ladies stop being scared of being known as a single mum..leave so u can live!
Not just Luos. There’s a similar story about a Kikuyu lady married to a Kisii. They also took the child and denied the lady’s family any visitation or even calls. Six years and they have never seen the kid. No dowry paid or even a courtesy call.
@@blessedwachera7133you have to understand, Mila Ni tofauti Sana , for other tribes mtoto Ni Wa baba ju amezaa for Kikuyu mtoto Ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, so watu waolewe tu Na Kabila zao
Watu watu avoid intermarriages olewa tu na kabila yako, ujue ata kimila wajaluo mtoto ni wa baba ju amezaa, alafu nayo uku sisi mtoto ni wa baba ju amelipa mahari, sasa mungu tu asaidie wakubali aonage mtoto, ju wakikataa ata court iamue atakua anaenda kwa cucu yake anakua mgonjwa wanamrudisha, me kaa si mkikuyu acha nikae single
I tried killing myself took dawa ya panya while I was pregnant just because of so called marriage, was admitted in KNH for a month.... but when I realised I can't put my family through pain now am happily single mum for 12 years now since i walked out of those hospital doors..... So sorry mum may God touch the heart of that man and allow you to see your grandkid
Please ladies, please. Stop taking your lives and leaving your kids with your abusers. He'll go on to enjoy his life while your child suffers. You only punish your family when you die. This is so sad 😢
As someone who has lived with luos for more than 20 years and understands their culture, and coz we are yet to understand the animosity between these 2 tribes , the mistake that you did, was to tell the guy,to keep off your daughter's burial coz hakupiga report,, not unless 2 people from these tribes are Spirit filled, ni ngumu mjaluo kuoa Kikuyu na akae na yeye as the only wife, they still believe akipata mali,atauliwa-hata kama hana kitu,ako na that mindset,,but still kikuyus we value dowry more than lives,they were couples,, mngemwambia kile angetoa, awe accepted kwa familia yako, for the sake of the innocent child,,sasa aliona kama ulikuwa na mpango wa kumnyang'anya mtoto, you share the child,ako na right na kukaa na mtoto kama babake, na pia wewe akupatie chance ya kuona mtoto,, and the way their women mistreat watoto wenye wameachwa na bibi wengine,kwanza awe wa Kikuyu,, but I hope he is protecting the child,,,
@@catherinegitau9053shut up,so marriages/couples between mûgîkûyû na mûgîkûyû ndiyo hupigana na kuuana zaidi kuliko ya other tribes,again wakikuyu wakikosa kuolewa na hizi kabila zingine, na wanaume wetu wengi hawataki kuoa, unataka central Kenya ijae single mothers
It's unfortunate losing your child and only daughter. As for the custody issue, I wish they'd reach an agreement between them. Taking it to court could work against her wishes. I'm amazed that the court had given a 50/50 custody between a parent and a grandparent.
I know this mum Benna was my friend..it was very very sad story we walked with mum throughout the journey untill we laid Benna to rest..it was so saaad
True,I am shaking can't believe what am hearing. Naccissts are very bad.They have no feelings they are happy when they see you cry. Mum,may God heal you and wipe your tears away
So painful but ladies don't be stupid in marriage ukufe ju ya mtu heri niende nikunywe maji na niwe na amani please ukiona red flag kanyanga kubwa kubwa
