Twin Flame as a Tool of Manipulation 

I would be too embarrassed to tell him 'I'm your twinflame or we are twinflames' I hate the term.

i have a tendency now to tread carefully with anyone. if they reach out to me i am welcoming, whether they are karmic, twin, or soulmate, soul tribe, but i don’t necessarily reach out first or go out of my way. I would never label any of them as anything as I find it cringe for me personally , unless they were into these concepts which few are. I keep it all mental bc i could be hella wrong, especially with who I think is Twin-flame, but ultimately who knows, I just have a feeling he’ll be back. My Karmic lesson is probably self worth. Also it’s easier to discuss this stuff online than in person, so thanks, I will check out your book soon bc i love your explanations.

Such a great video! I was thinking about this yesterday. Until your book, I didn't know anything about the other soul family members. The relationship that entered my life was so intense that I was getting various synchronicities that pointed to a twin flame relationship. The teachers I listened to on TF were really good, but only recently, listening to one of your videos did I realize how much they all actually treat karmic relationships as twin flames. I believe they have no bad intentions, just lack of knowledge. And yes, it is very difficult for the ego to bear the truth how a karmic relationship can resemble a TF relationship. Only recently did I realize that I am actually in a karmic relationship despite all the synchronicities. I thought that if there is no loud drama and conflict in the relationship and I feel such a magnetizing attraction and a constant change of push and pull dynamics, that it is TF. And it was only a month ago that I realized that I was repeating some of the same patterns that I had with my husband and that there is no conflict because I am not expressing myself completely authentically. You were the first to speak very clearly about that incredible and confusing similarity between TF and karmic relationships, and thank you for that. It's very hard for the ego to bear that truth, I cried for days and it's still hard for me, because it leads to some existential doubt and a lack of self-confidence because of this mistake, but in the end the truth is the only thing that sets you free. Thank you for everything!

Being aware of this ‘concept’ or ‘phenomenon’ is great, for one to be sure of what they have been at, however, its juvenile of individuals to hinge their future or life-path being dependent on it. Your emotions are your best indicators telling you whether something is meant for you or not. Your videos are quite informative, Alexx. The audience should only absorb information they feel suits their situation. If they are the creator of your their reality, it doesn’t matter what one says, they should take complete onus of their decisions.

4-part PRAYER: 1) There are five things Jesus has shown me I MUST do... - I have to make amends to my sister - I have to use my voice (radically honestly) - I have to write the book - I have to continuously surrender to God, more and more - I have to completely let go of Bryan... I pray I accomplish all of the above in this blessed New Year of 2024. I pray I don't have to do it alone. I pray Jesus and the angels assist me and guide me, and help me through all of it... So that it all feels joyful and easy! 2) I'm desperately lonely and alone. I pray for true love (with my twin flame). And a tribe of real friends. 3) I pray to be healed on every level, in every way: - emotionally - spiritually - mentally - physically - generationally 4) I pray for YOU! Yes you. You who are reading this. May you be blessed. For on the deepest levels... Crazy as it may sound... We are each other!

Know what's been the most interesting thing for me, Alexx, after geeking out and watching all of your videos probably three times and reading your book in one setting is I think I said before in a comment something has happened to me and I feel so at peace and Serene and I could give a flying fuck if the person who I think is my twin flame is my twin flame or a karmic or a soulmate it's like I just don't care anymore. I just want myself if that makes sense. It is the best feeling I have ever experienced - its like the work you do, especially rhe book, brought me to myself so thank you.

The way I discovered the twin flame phenomenon is by going thru “the dark night of the soul”. I was talking to my friends while listening to music on RU-vid and RU-vid must’ve picked up the conversation of how terrible I felt and then videos about twin flames started to pop up on my RU-vid feed. When I told my twin sister about this, she said that she already knew about it, which surprised me? I’m the ‘chaser’ but I feel like running. Your videos are the best ones on twin flame, it resonates with me the most because I feel that you not as egoism as the other videos.

I was about to ask how that whole twinflame universe thing made you feel about twinflames. When I found out about it, I immediately started doubting myself and my journey thinking I was just “crazy” or “delusional” for thinking this way because of the amount of criticism I saw. I always thought those two were odd, especially on the beginning of my journey when I saw their videos, because the twinflame journey is not all this sunshine and rainbows “love of your life” kind of thing. It’s like going through literal hell and back. Sure, I love my twin unconditionally, but also I know they reflect things about myself I obviously don’t want to see. No matter how much I say I’m all in my head about this it always comes back. I met my twin in highschool, mutual friend wise. I never really spoke to him but 5 years ago when I was 16 was when I went through my ego degradation. It’s crazy how young I was, but it quite literally changed my entire life. I’m with a soulmate, and dont see my twin in a romantic way (though I used to). For me, my journey is more of being friends with myself, which is difficult.

Nobody needs to heal a damn thing to be with their counterpart soul. I get sick of hearing that garbage. They are YOUR SOUL so what does "healing trauma" have to do with it when everything on earth is perpetually traumatized until death? Hunger is a trauma. Sleepiness is a trauma! NOBODY can tell you what you need to do to be with yourself. All you need to know is YOU ALREADY KNOW. The only thing of use are the conversations about what this phenomenon is like, so that the person experiencing it will know they're not alone and "they're not crazy." Peace to all.

I’ve never discussed this with my simultaneous incarnation-because it sounds so cringe! So I just keep learning on my own. Thanks for your wisdom! ❤

The way things r happening it's sometimes unbearable so yesterday i did try to convey to twin to keep the ego aside and listen to heart..i thought might he needs some reminder so i did but alteast yes all is in hands of devine and both learning n growing side along it's ok then and here came to reconfirm whether actually on journey, it's feeling so let sort soon ❤

I’ll claim the third point as I clearly can relate to that perspective. Now, that I am at that point shifting perspectives to see the important lesson that I should have learned obviously.

Love your book!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m unsure if I believe in twin flames. I believe in past life connections with people. I’m unsure what I’m experiencing with someone I met 10 years ago. Together we are amazing sexual chemistry is crazy, apart It’s painful and confusing etc.. and they never leave my mind no matter how much I want them to, they come in and out of my life… I had to move on and get married 😕 I wanted children…, even after all that he still doesn’t leave my mind and he still randomly contacts me, I feel telepathy with him. He seems to have issues! It’s horrible because I’m married and wanted that with a husband. I may have married a karmic but he is a good dad and provider and I trust him, yet we fight badly at times…Maybe they are both karmics. Or the other guy is a narcissist and it’s just a trauma bond🤦‍♀️ it’s all so confusing. If I’m going to learn about twin flames I think you’re the only one I’ll listen to.

Love the way you put words in this concept ❤

I remember seeing those two years ago and thinking to myself they weren't twins 😂 their energies or core frequency just didn't match up. And even if they were twins there's no way they could be in the same room together and talking about their relationship like they are in harmony when they are not.

We are in first separation now. Im the chaser. I only found out yesterday regarding the twin flame. Before this I never wanted to be with anyone full time since soon I will be off on my own to grow. I have a cosmic family before meeting my twin flame it was already decided a few years ago I will fly off on my own. I also decided after finding out about the twin flame I shall not share this with my TF. The TF has a strong belive already that we have known one another from past life's. If it comes to them when the time is right I shall always be there. This doesn't not mean I want to change my plans nor disrupt the TFs cosmic life.

Thank you so much for all the info re TFs. I experienced something weird when looking into my TFs eyes which I have never heard or read before. I saw the galaxy in his eyes, planets passing by. It was so weird, I even blinked and saw the same things again. Has someone experienced this too? And what does it mean?

Being on a TF journey is already isolating enough. Add in the numerous confusing definitions of TF on RU-vid, and the negative experiences within the Cult-like TF Universe... when I hear the word 'Twin Flame', I start to cringe. I'm not a person who egoically clings to fads of any kind; in fact, I run from most popular beliefs, trends, and fads... almost to my detriment lol. I prefer to be egoically different... none of this actually matters, though, within my feelings about my own journey. Already feeling like no one would understand my situation,I am definitely not going to be freely discussing my TF journey to anyone

oh this is exactly what I try to figure out and I still don’t know what is the truth and don’t know how to find out. Maybe time and my progress finding back to my own core will reveal it ?

I watched this video as you suggested and idk maybe you are right and me not accepting that he couldn’t be a tf and at this point believing that he is a tf with whatever he does though i still do very much doubt it and wanting him to be my tf just because i feel those intense feelings where it could be a karmic or other as well says he is not a tf when he also like i mentioned said he doesn’t feel that connection and i cant force it but have to accept it but Alexx even if my ego manipulated me into now strongly believing he is my tf but with whatever said and done by him and my reaction and pain for this for the longest time does that clearly mean he cant be my tf?

TF teachers tend to be youngish people who have only " found their twin " a few months / years ago... If you check older TF teachers - even the ones who seemed to be the " real deal " serious ones for whom the concept of Twinflames/ Soulmates was their life' s work and purpose, after 10 years or so of teaching / guiding people on the TF path , they suddenly disappear from the scene, drop the concept and return to being general coaches or whatever work they did before they got hooked on the idea of Twinflames . So the concept really does not stand the test of time - - or TF Union is not the last stage of the journey...

Heloo can you do a video about. Runner chaser change in roles. In begining of mine 7,5 year old twin flame yourney I was runner now after emotional cheating in begining of decemer she is a runner saying it was to much that went on in our relationship and is time to end it. Feelingns are strong but that it is enough is stronger.

Since your twinflame is you... do your natal charts look the same, or maybe mirror each others?

Lbh- aint no one trying to hear they someones twin flame lol. Especially if that person never earned such a title!

How can I be sure that he is my twin? We could spend hours with eachother withouth having sex We just enjoyed each others presence He has a wife He met me when he was married :( He didnt tell me until it was late and I was in love And he was full of guilt He refused to even touch me cause he told me i dont wanna play with ur life …. Our sign is butterflies Can u help me?