Honest answer is betrayer trust most important thing too me realized twice . Second time believe was worse pray new person come truth 😢deepest betrayal in my life. Forgive you but honestly it was self preservation did no regards for me feelings . God told me leave you alone should have because couldn’t avoided this . I’m careful now happy be back where was when reconnected my life heart was whole intact . I deserve man never hurt me just because people what think same thing ex husband . You were just nicer version took five years build took you less year try destroy honest would have gained my respect .