Twin Flame Separation (An Important Message) 

This video is so helpful ❤ I am done with all these other stories: you need to embrace your feminine energy more, you need to be more patient, you need to give your TF time to fix his karmic situations.. as if I have to turn into a Buddha before I get my Twin Flame as a ‘prize’. It makes you feel so guilty for not being completely ‘enlightened’. After 3 years on this journey, I finally realize that I am already good the way I am and that this whole ‘connection’ was just created by me to realize this. 🤞🏻

thank you so much for sharing this. my twinflame just died a few weeks ago through an accident ... it felt / still feels like the world was ripping apart. i've never had a connection like this in my life before with anyone else before. we were not in a romantic relationship anymore at the time because we decided we need to grow on our own so when i found out i was shattered because i didn't have like physical contact to him at the time if that makes sense. it's very enriching to still learn about the twinflame connection because it helps me understand what's going on and helps me coping a bit so thank you for sharing this video!

Wow this is amazing. Interesting point of view Grateful to come across it. Much ❤️ love

I have had to watch this video a couple of times. Especially when the going gets tough and I need someone to remind me why I'm doing this and what it really is for. I love this video and I more "cheering us on" videos. They are so helpful as well as your book. Thank you and keep going.

I have been on a "Twin flame vacation" for over 8 years😂❤🙏

I keep finding good twin flame RU-vid channels and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. Then I find another and think - this is so good, no one is better than this. And I think - I’ve learned all the info the Internet has to say about twin flames, there can’t be more, but then I learn more! Well, your channel does both - it is a really great channel and is presenting new info I didn’t think possible. The universe keeps pointing me to new info I didn’t think was possible to learn.

I love the way you teach these life lessons. Thanks a lot.

Damn!!! I'm so with you on this! You, you're good!!! I get all of this, 100 %. Thank you!!!

I literally will call it that from now on, vacation. Thank you for this

You are the best, and I am choosing myself over and over again, for my continuous self-healing.

I love this and I love you!!!

Thank you so much for sharing this message. I understand so much clearer now. Thank you so much.

Another beautiful video! Someone has said genius is infinite patience! But being infinitely patient means to just be!

Your videos are so helpful, clear and to the point. Thank you.

Omg! You are the best! This is by far the best explanation in two years…❤❤❤❤❤

This just blew my mind! I thought the same thing about my TF before I knew what the concept was. I thought he came into my life to teach me about patience. Mostly because I believed that patience was a virtue that I lacked. Just meeting my TF was a blessing or gift as you call it because before him, I was hyper fixated on getting into a relationship and it was a major blockage in every other area of my life. Now, I can release that fear of being alone and continue on with all the things I ever wanted to do that I neglected in search of my match. I can not thank you enough for making these videos. 🤍

Beautiful video. 🙌💜 x

Thanks for clarifying!

You have no how helpful you have been to me.TY for your light and clarity on this very connection that can be so challenging to say least. 👌🏾

Sooo helpful! Thank you ❤❤❤. The "patience" defined this way was a wow moment !!

Amazing. Such truth. Thank you 🙏

P.S. your videos are beautiful, amazing, and honestly life changing. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WHAT YOU DO! Bless you

Thank you for the information 🙏 is so interesting

Omfg... I needed this now and you just finally made perfect sense more than any coaching i've paid for...you are a legend and I can't ever Thank-you enough !!!! Now I can live again and do it right, for me and my soul ! They can never come back in if I don't rise up and be in total zen.

Thank you !❤

This was so good and exactly what I needed to hear, thank you.

Thank you Alexx ♡ Yes to be pulled out, as if your soul is being reeled in and reeled out without any control

Thank you so very much , for this much needed information in the message. I love the vacation view point of separation...because that's exactly the way I feel during this time of separation from my Twin Flame 🔥. Although, I feel that we are one; I made the mistake of once telling him that I felt that we're one. I say mistake because it only caused him to say that I was crazy 🤪. At the time I couldn't understand why he wasn't feeling what I was feeling. Especially since I felt him with me all the time, sometimes...I even expressed to him that I felt like when I was pregnant and my child was with me always...that's how I had began to feel towards him. He just listened to what I saying to him, because I couldn't explain to him how or why I felt that way. I even told him that as much as I wanted to be with him...I already felt complete from the time, I call it, that we were activated...and although we have not been intimate, I feel it's okay because I feel we have been together on another plain or in the spirit, I call it...somehow because I have felt him. I also told him to stop making love to me when I am driving down the street, it comes out of nowhere like something out of a movie and I know I am not crazy 🤪, because it's not about that it's more than that...that's the way I feel. Thanks again, my love 💓!

Thank you very much. 💙

Yep, I recall liking this one.. I remember relating to the "bowels of emotional hell" and having IBD, well I def understand this on many a multifaceted level lol. I def see where Im waiting on myself to stop being resistant to this whole dynamic AF lol! Also appreciating the reprieve of the energetic "chaos" ie are we vibing or imbalanced today lol. 12:12

I’m feeling it! Fighting twin flame vacation. I’ll never give up. I have my path

Thank you very much, your video makes great sense and is very helpful for me. Peter UK

Love your shirt! This video made me laugh. 😂

thank for sharing this video. I wasn’t able to understand other videos around this practicing patience around separation. I hope I will be able to implement atleast lil bit on this journey. When I detach myself, I dont feel energy of my twin, and that triggers my ego and the whole cycle starts.

Thank you so much💐💐💐

Thank you - I had a perfect aha moment...I was confused why this longing reappeared when I have been in a really good place with this separation...EGO - thats the only part that is screaming and aching. It is confusing having such intense heart pain but now I'm realizing this pain is actually coming from my ego's suffering?! This is enlightening...

Yes to all of this

But had to be honest I have going through a monumental spiritual awakening and gone back to who I have always been, after being stuck in a limbo for years❤

Thank you a lot🎉U are great.

Vacation word this is so healing 😂 nice guided ❤ thankyou

I am on a twin flame journey for 2.5 years now. And while I am sure that he is my twin, when we talked about it he denied it. Even worse. Said someone else was his twin. Then I started just denying that twin flames even exist myself but just a few weeks ago things about twin flames kept popping up again in my life / feed …. And I am convinced that he is my twin. It all makes sense. What is just so heartbreaking for me is that he denies it, he doesn’t want to be my friend and he even says that he doesn’t think we will ever have a deep connection again. He’s also dating someone else. It hurts me so much for him to say this after everything we have been through I honestly can’t believe it. He says he’s changed and it’s just how he is now. Pain pain pain for me while he’s living the dream life (3D) I know. But it seems like he hasn’t done any work. Doesn’t even believe in 5D. Or is he just saying that? I’m really entirely exhausted to the point that I wish that I would have never met him. All attempts from my side to meet someone new and forget about him failed. I know it all sounds like I still have a lot to learn. I know I did learn a lot already but I just finally want to be done with it or at least for him to give us the opportunity to have an open minded conversation about it. Unfortunately he is still “running”. Even though I feel him, sometimes I have thoughts which I know are not mine. Sometimes when I close my eyes I see situations with him and me, situations I would normally never think about or plan to have. I know those are his thoughts. I’m just wondering WHY is he so cold and stubborn to me. I guess I still have to do a lot of work on my ego and self love. And while I do not want to play the victim but I do feel it slightly unfair that I have to do all the work, go through all the pain and illness because of it while he just continues with his life :(

Perfect Video! Thank you so much!!!

And no I didn't make the choice to meet her so you absolutely rung about that

Thank you

Wow all of this should be in a twin flame Bible

I was stranded in Vegas without money phone or glasses. I was having to find the bus to the airport. Never been to the state of Nevada. Never rode a city bus. I was on the verge of panicking. I had to tell myself to chill the eff out and get it together. That’s not going to solve any thing. It took my entire inner being to tell my ego to stfu. God I’m flying through this journey ❤️❤️

I hadn’t thought of patience in that way. I can appreciate that viewpoint. Isn’t it a compliment to me that I want to chase me?😅 I do walk away and focus on myself, but he never leaves my head. It’s not as intense as it was for quite some time, but there’s not a day that goes by I don’t think of him. I actually beg the universe to get him out of my head, so I can just focus on my own stuff, but I think the universe isn’t listening - jk😂 I am always working on healing, but I’m sooo burnt out on it. I hired a local spiritual awakening coach and am looking forward to meeting with him. I feel like I’m going through another mini dnots😩 My gawd, how many are there?! “…get through the bowels of emotional hell…”💯💯💯 Separation vacation…uhhh….definitely doesn’t feel like any vacation I’d pay for😅 “The shit storm of tf lessons…”💯💯💯

I'm feeling like I don't even want my twin flame back anymore. I've replaced her name in my journaling and affirmations with just having 'a romantic partner' with whom I have an ideal relationship. I'm also doing a 30day detox in the woods with no human contact or social media to connect more powerfully with SOUL. Now, I'm seeing her name in odd places. I also have a friend (who doesn't know our situation), who I hadn't spoken to in year, 'finally' tell me about a dream she had where my twin and I hosted her and some business friends in our home. She was very descriptive and it matches a dream I had a while ago where my twin and I were looking at homes. The big shocker for me was a response I gave her in the dream where I said: "I feed the soul". That's crazy because the soul is my WHOLE focus now. Why are these things coming up now? 🤔. I've surrendered my situation. I also don't even feel like I want it anymore. I just want to fulfill my purpose and have a greater sense of peace BUT could this actually mean something?

what a great looking shirt

I come back to this video every time I feel my ego beginning to sting and the urge to reach out to my twin comes up, for whatever reason. I will say that I'm proud to be in a state where I only wish to reach out to him to celebrate what work I've done so far and share that unconditional love in hopes that my changes reflect in his 3D life and incarnation. However, as you've said before, it's hard not to hope that we'll be in a 3D relationship someday again in the future. This is the part that confuses me about Union, I think. I've come far in my own work and recognize now the path I need to take to become the best version of myself that I can be in this manifestation, and as an extension of myself and my energy, I hope the same for my twin, so, in a sense, am I not choosing to do the work with my twin? I would choose to be with him again in a heartbeat in the 3D plane, so how can physical Union be so elusive and not always reached in this incarnation? Also sorry for jumping around your videos and leaving comments, my ego has been loud tonight, so I've returned asking questions, haha!

First of all, your Twin Flame videos are the best on RU-vid. They're easy to understand and most realistic, so thank you for sharing your insights! My question on this video is what do you mean when you said we made the choice to manifest our twin in this reincarnation and we made the choice to be the chaser? All I ever wanted was a lifelong partner with common value system and interest - something that feels easy and comfortable. I didn't need the twin flame in the romantic sense because it hasn't been easy, at all. I never had to chase in my past romantic relationships and here I am finding myself in the chaser role. I wish I never met him in the romantic, longing to be together physically sense. Although, from a personal growth perspective, this has been the best self-reflection period/exercise I've ever been through and I'm working on closing the gaps I've discovered during the process. But at the end of this, I want to be free. I just want to take my lessons and run if he doesn't come to the realization that we're supposed to be together. I know I'm good for him and he has so much to offer. I just wish he has the strengths to see this in himself, that he's a wonderful human being, and win the battle against his own demons.

Hahaha I was laughing thinking of my ego screaming to get them back I am practicing that stillness - sometimes I think this journey isn't real but I've let go of 6 friendships in the last year and have literally no material things and am absolutely peaceful & content than ever before

Can you do a video on divine timing, in what it actually is vs how it’s being used.

This is so exhaustingg :/

Great video. I wonder why we don't just call it 'awareness,' and forget about the whole 'twin' thing. Can you tell me what you personally mean by 'being the universe?" Do you mean like a "spark of God?" Also, what do you mean by 'growing' and expanding? We hear these things all the time but if there is no time in 5D, then we can only 'realize' ourselves.

Hi, can you create a video on frequency rising ang clearing of the off-grown emotions during the TF journey?

What does "long-term separation" in detail mean for your case?

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Is it ‘’normal’’ feeling like gasping for air if I randomly see a picture or video of my twin on social media? Or a normal reaction should be ‘’feeling at peace as we are divenely united”

So why they come back when you at the point that you don't even want them anymore. Is just like been tortured every day

I have gotten to a point where any interaction with people too much in the egoic realms just exhaust me and I have to sleep for 3 hours. Do you have a suggestion about how to get my high vibration back or perhaps a video on this? I've watched every single video that you have done and this is not Eco degradation as it just seems to be happening when I interact with someone who is stuck in 3d. I've already had several ego degradation so I'm very familiar with that entire process. This seems be occurring in situations even that I don't want to be in like my current work situation and or with people who I used to interact with and now I feel I have surpassed

Is separation defined solely as not being physically together? I know many videos say the chaser should not reach out to the runner so does that apply at all times that twins are not in a committed relationship with each other? If we are not together but communicating pretty well, does this still apply (don't be the first to reach out?). I know a couple people who say they only send birthday greetings to each other once a year and have no contact besides that. Is it OK to wish your twin a Happy Birthday every year if you are in separation? I know I saw your video about why we want to reach out and tell them we are OK and that it's all ego based, but it's very hard to ignore them completely. I have not seen mine in person for almost 25 years. We have been raising the children we had with other partners.

I can already feel the boredom happening. We just got into a seperation phase which will be longer then normal (this is how it feels) And Me imagining dating someone else feels exactly like this. My ego could be attracted (but this feels already to superficial) but my energy will be absolutely bored and not matched on the depth How do you deal with this beeing the chaser? 😂

TFV! 😅 Vacation!

Thank you 🙏🙏 I have a question, you said that I manifested my twinflame... but....my twinflame is bald...and really thats the one thing I don't find attractive in a man.... Is the reason for this that I have to overcome the ego/ fysical level things ?

I ask this question from a place of genuine curiosity and confusion: How do twins ever unite if both continuously fight the urge to reach out under the pretext that the urge is egoic or a form of chasing? Surely for every reunion someone has to reach out eventually or separation would continue forever. My twin and I don't have a clear-cut runner/chaser nor DF/DM dynamic. I ran but I also chased, and we are both women but identify as nonbinary and embody both feminine and masculine energy depending on the situation, so it's unclear which one of us would-- based on the typical twin flame stages-- be the one to reach out and end separation. Now nearing the 2-year mark of separation, I am starting to experience the things that people describe as signs that separation is almost over. I'm finally content with my own life and pursuing my dreams and passions, I don't feel lonely and in pain when thinking about our connection, I feel an increasing sense of peace. But I do also have the urge to reach out. Is that a sign that I still have healing to do or a sign that union is now possible?

Can I ask a question? So if we are meant to grow individually, spiritually, and into our best independent selves during separation from our twin. Then what truly is the purpose of union? If we get so much from separation no matter how hard it is, why would we want to come together? If that’s truly the case, aren’t we both better off separated? To foster continuity of growth? Am I the only one with these thoughts?!

How to increase frequency other than meditation?

How do I wrap my head around the concept that my TF, who does not exist, gave birth to three children? For the life of me, I am not understanding the part about my TF not existing. (I am autistic and therefore very literal, if it helps any).

Iam the chaser and i want to focus on myself but whenever i start caring for myself my twin comes back and the circle go back on Can i ask him not to talk to me again cause it hurts me whenever he withdraw again and im tired of the on and off sit

(a) (WeAreTheSame ~ 'Twin Flame Separation (An Important Message): 'Creating my twin,'.... 'and ASCENDING to HIGHER FREQUENCIES,'

At the time of this video, you both were in long term separation?

If you decide to not be with your twin, can you change your mind later about getting back with them? I’m very new to all of this, so I’m sorry if this is a dumb question.

Cute, cute tank top!

My twin complained I wasn't patient enough..😂😂😅

Is it not egoic to think that we manifested this person? Idk it kinda makes me feel a little better but I feel like Im simply telling myself that as a way to cope.

Oh i dont have to choose.They always want to call the shots.This was her gag or feelings or revenge .Which one i dont know,because i have not heard a word iut her mouth and she continues to ghost me.U beed to know what her agenda,because u dont have time and im definitely not for the games.

But I can’t date others when I feel him every second as he is with me I can’t open up to other man because he is there

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Can we meet our twin while we are married to someone else?

I do not get one thing, Alexx. How to substitute my ego so it does not come into way of me?

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I like your videos but the "choice" thing - hmm I don't think it's a choice we make because no matter how long you get no contact and separated, without doing anything and "NOT KNOWING" about it, it's going to knock at your door

What is the universe? God??

No offense but how do you make love with yourself when you re missing your twin flame so much that your heart is wrenching. according to you , your twin it's you , your twin it's there with you.. "You re waiting around for yourself" ??...if that's the case WHY WOULD YOU EVEN NEED THE OTHER PERSON AROUND ...??? I wish that I could agree with you and ease my pain by just ONLY loving myself..YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY SENSE UNFORTUNATELY WITH THAT THEORY, Nobody would need anybody else to love if what you saying it's true.. You are missing the TOUCH the hugs ,the smell, the voice, the presence of your twin flame , the way they Love You ,...How can you replace all that with your theory????

Thank you