Twin Flames - How to balance the shared energy 

I agree with your perspective here, Kathleen, as I’ve observed a similar overarching pattern with the human collective, regarding relations. Twin or not, soul-centric unions are entirely separate from relationships as we understand them. They’re indeed a construct, rather than a genuine product of divine awareness. The purpose of these awakenings is to change the game, as I’m sure you’ve already studied extensively since your own. Authenticity is the beginning, as well as the ultimate. It is the absolute key. Humankind doesn’t seek to be false in its relationships; we do so for a bevy of reasons - as you know, stemming from bad childhoods to trauma-bonded partnerships, and other toxic situations in which we allowed ourselves to abuse and / or be abused, until we discovered the truth of our behaviours and their origins, rooted in pain and fear - like you said. The weirdest thing is, it lies in the dynamics of relationship itself: an ongoing push-pull seeking satisfaction through endless compromise. I’ll give you this, if you give me that. I’ll be happy when, I’d love you more if, etc are all echoes of the wounded ego seeking to overcome another’s volition in order to serve its desires. Sounds awful, doesn’t it? But all relationships are predicated on this tacit understanding that once X changes, then the reward of love is given. It’s toxic on its face. No wonder one of the most hammered points in advising those on the awakening journey is unconditional love - first for self, then for other. I’m actually not the biggest proponent of this thinking, as it’s well-intended, but easily misapplied. Unconditional love as a goal for one already mired in a lifetime of people-pleasing is actually digging themselves a deeper hole, for example. In that sense, they need to learn the power of discernment - and maybe radical self-acceptance, if we want to stay on brand here, heh. This is why union is an entirely different animal. ‘His and hers’ is still distinction and separation, as another example. ‘Ours’ - with neither definition nor division - is the default of union. Sharing everything, with an understanding that you are a single unit of one - not two in relationship. There’s no expectation that the other should change to suit one’s personal benefit. The trust in knowing your partner has your best interest in all they do and advise is what runs deep - and guides the kind of change that leads to transformation that no amount of prior urging or bargaining could achieve. The change is soul-deep, and driven by an understanding that what guides our growth is purely our evolution - a stronger alignment with our true authentic selves. Our higher self, if you will. We are steadily changing the landscape of relationships, through what appears as effortless simpatico, but is really the hidden crucible of melting ego back into the original composition of soul. Pure consciousness, coexisting in two ‘separate’ human beings. SO much more is going on behind the scenes - because it has to. At the surface level, however, we’re teaching, and leading by example, that nothing less than total trust, complete commitment, and full investment - in the union itself and our shared mission - is going to get it done. Most in the back-and-forth of this-or-that commonly witnessed in the process of dating are stuck in these patterns of expectation and demand. When our partner no longer fits the initial image we had of them, we become disenchanted and feel cheated. We run. We convince ourselves we made a mistake, and check out on some level - whether emotionally, or physically. That’s a relationship. It’s what we’re taught to do. We can’t fault ourselves for following our programming. Union is on a level of awareness that transcends logic and reason. When united as one at the seat of the soul, you’re all in, no matter what. Ego doesn’t get a vote. Your mind may reel, and your emotions might seem as if they’ve been pushed aside for better or worse - because they have. Your knowing is stronger than fear, pain, or other low-spectrum vibrations that would distance you from the truth. That knowing is your only truth. We’re the forebears of this new reality - the vanguards of a social contract that thrives on the understanding that our bonds are at the level of soul, and our relationships are no longer transactional but communal. Those who marry will understand their bond is truly sacred - that it is a union. This is where we’re going. And, at this time, this has been our experience, and is our understanding. I’m sure you’ve seen similar yourself. Nothing less than union. Relationships need not apply. Totality, not transactional. This is where we’re all going as a society. Union. But, oh, have we got a ways to go before we get there. 😂😉 Thankfully, it’s worth the trip. ☺️

Thank you for this. Today was one of those triggered days for me. So watching this really helped to get back into soul. I don't have Facebook and am not a fan of social media so watching you here really helps. I am grateful for all that you do especially for those of us who at this moment aren't able to join your groups and trainings. Much love❤❤❤

Best twin flame video I’ve come across, 100% the truth and felt like she was describing everything that I have experienced on this twin flame journey word for word… you guys gotta get into unity consciousness, and start working on yourself if you’re still going through the dark Knight of the soul and the ego death. Once you transcend the ego it’s freaking bliss and you finally step into your power and trust and divine timing. All the depression, pain and suffering from the dark night of the soul goes away. Just Love remains as your experience, unity consciousness.❤️❤️❤️ you gotta do the work though.

I am a male DF. Thank you so much for your guidance. I am glad I discovered your channel. The world is heading to a good place with people like you showing the way. I have been feeling the third energy more consistently lately. My energy is mainly between my third eye and crown chakra. I can feel the energy as you say dripping down the left side of my face and more recently around my neck and upper chest. I feel my soul mission is unfolding. I am more and more grateful each day for these feelings/gifts and a second chance at life. Blessings to all. ❤🙏

I can't stand this sexual energy, it's annoyingly painful because I have zero desire to be with anyone but my twin, and we are currently in separation and I don't wanna reach out. This whole experience has put my creative life at such standstill because it's all I think about 😢. Even when I'm at work I can't concentrate because I can sit for hours just listening to this intense horniness that's making my abdomen feel so weird. But I think I understand what I need to do

So pleased I came across you. You have talked about this journey so well. Thank you so much 🌸💕☀️

Thank you! The chakra split is something I have tried to explain to "normal" people and they just thought we were a bad match. I always saw it as complimentary. I've been doing breathwork to get out of my mind. Today I inadvertently dropped into the yogic trance state (samadhi). I love your content! I push that shared/telepathic energy away. I will try to be more mindful about alchemizing it.

You are the best on youtube and other twin flame resources hands down.

Thank you ❤ if ever I were to share this experience with, I would direct them to this video so they could understand at least a little about what I’ve been through and continue to go through.

Thank you so much! This really really helped me. You're right too, this energy is out of this world! Stay present!

Thank you beautiful, it so helps listening to your wise and refreshing down-to-earth talks and catching up with your energy ✨🙏

Great video thank you 🙏🏻

Thank you so much 🙏🏻💖

Best video I have ever watched. Thank you so much!!!+❤❤❤❤

Thank you it helps!!!!

Thank you for your beautiful divine messages!! Many blessings!! 💗🌈😇🙏🫂

This video right here so so so beautifully explained thank you 💕

Thank you so much for this. Much love & gratitude 🙏 💖

Has anybody felt the eyes lock with an "physical" electric lazer feeling between you and your twins eyes? I meen intense as hell, not from this world kibd of magical experience...It lasted for a few seconds were I could not move my head. It was scary but at the same time, so amazing. It happened after 8 mounths of the journey when we kissed in bed and locked eyes. But I havn't heard anybody talk about that specific experience. Anybody felt that?❤

A master piece... it resonates so much !!! Many thanks 🙏✨

Thank you! ❤

Great video btw. I have found that the roght information cones toe in the roght moment recently. I now understand that this journey is devinity guided .

I was laughing how you described this energy. We met at our part-time job as friends and co-workers. About two months in, the agency closed for three weeks for maintenance. I almost "went crazy" missing him and wondering if he was okay.( We hadn't exchanged phone numbers at that point.) The relief when we returned to work.... I couldn't figure it out. Years later after he pulled away, I knew he was breaking up and I decided to end the relationship. I literally could not end it! ??? A couple months later he dumped me for the third party. I am doing inner work and focusing on myself. I am okay.

Amazing! Feel really good after listening to this video. Thank you 🙏 ❤

based on deceiving pleasures..Ibls led us via fears...to accept..bad ideas as safe vs love

Really appreciate your information

This is amazing!!!!! I am actually laughing at the way you describe the intensity of the kundalini energy, because it’s so powerful and 💯% accurate down to the letter, of my experience with my twin flame!!!! I laughed so hard with this today!!!! Thank you, 😊🙏 for sharing your truth in the most real, raw and authentic manner!!!! You totally 💯% made my day, today!!!! Happy Sunday, and the Happiest of ‘Labor Days,’ to you, sweet healer, and divine soul friend👼👼🌺💞💖🙏♥️💯☯️♾️🔥🔥🇺🇳✌️♥️✍️😎🌺💖💞🌞✅🎂🎊🎼🌎🛝🥇🏖️🎉😍🔜🎁♥️💞💖🌺😍🧚🏼‍♀️🧚🏼‍♀️⬆️🎶☯️♾️ 21:45

Thank you for what you share with us.

Thank you 🙏 It’s can be a lonely journey so it’s so nice to listen to you.

Thankyou

Hi Kathleen ❤ Yes I feel like A huge integration of my soulful self has happened over the past 4 months Awakening is definitely a gradual process but, my goodness after Aug lions-gate My energy has grown on a much steeper incline! It’s quite extraordinary I’m awakening to the truth with such clarity

Thank you! I'd swear that you have taken Cat's course, cause some of your words and phrases are aligned w/hers! 😍 I discovered Nov/23 that we're on a TF journey...and dang! It's the most intense ride! I do believe by my exploration and guidance of Spirit guiding me to different videos, like yours, is REALLY helping me learning what it's all about, confirming I'm not nuts, and how to balance this energy between us. I do believe I have made great strides just for a few months. And I was completely trusting my intuition even when we met almost 2 years ago, 7/22...I had no idea what a TF was, nor what was happening between us. I now have seen some of the signs of synchronicities' that were in front of me before we met (Divinely times events), although had not acknowledged. I actually have watched tarot readings to learn more about me...not Zack/TF. It's really helped me recognize so much about myself. And he's 27 years younger than myself...whew! I know he's very hesitant and ego based about this. When I saw him a couple of weeks ago, he was much more centered, and when we had some small talk (cause he won't look at me), I was walking by him each time and there was about 5-8 feet in between us....he heard every word I said and knew I was talking to him. And yes, we have been very telepathically connected since last year--it all kicked into high gear after he hugged me and his fingers whisped through my palm....sparks ignited! I knew he felt it too. All I can do is continue w/my shadow work, and be me and follow my desires. Sending oh so much love and gratitude!!!!! ❤‍🔥❤❤‍🔥

I experienced most of what you talked about here, beginning with a DNoS in Feb-19, then in May the kundalini began, but I initiated it intentionally so that energy wasn't as surprising. Turned out I was the only one participating in this trip so now that I've ascended the feminine side up to the crown and contacted guidance, I'm back working on the masculine end and tinkering with the solar plexus center. On all the energy coming at you: the subconscious (all included as parts of "the innate" as per Kryon) runs most of the body and you can tell that aspect of self not to let in visitors without permission unless it's an emergency. It's not the subconscious who's in a state below conscious, it is very much more conscious than we are, but it operates underneath your awareness until you start speaking to it. "Hey body, make people's energy wait 'til I know who they are and I allow them in, ok? Btw, you hungry? Yeah? Alright whatcha want?" is kind of a standard internal conversation over here.

Great video, thank you Do you have any videos on what exactly to do when they come back? How to exactly balance them back in without looping?

Well i certainly looked like "shit" last year, around this time till almost nov - dec... I lost sleep, appetite, and so much weight. I could literally feel the bones in my shoulder and neck region, they would stick out like I have been starving for decades. Everyone would be shocked seeing me and tell "what happened to you, you are so skinny" to be fair i have always been on the skinnier side..and everytime anyone asked me that, i would feel the tears start up in my eyes, because how do i tell them that have no desire to eat and that i barely get enough sleep, ofcourse i was going to loose wweight! its easy to sit and say eat more but everytime i ate, i would feel sick, like i want to go throw up what i ate. Nausea and headaches were so frequent ! Then I think around the end of last year, my eating improved and so did my sleep. I went on a vitamin d supplements regimen, got out into the sun, instead of being cooped up and i got better physically speaking. This year has been good on me overall, my mind has calmed down immensely

You remind me of my mentor

Shared energy is felt for sure. I felt exhausted off an on today. And I have felt it for the last couple days. Yes I worked the last two days. But this was different, I have also felt butterflies in my stomach at certain times. I guess it might’ve been something before but I never understood it before.

Could you explain also how does the divine masculine goes through the journey? What do they feel and how much different is from the journey of the divine feminine? Thank you so much!!!

After my spiritual awakening I began experiencing strong masculine feminine energy fluctuations. I believed it was due to the other half of my soul wanting tp integrate in the physicall. I was told by a spiritual teacher that the integration was for my higher spiritual purpose. I didn't know anything about this twin flame phenomena back then and as a male even questioned my sexuality. So does this mean my twin is on a parallel journey, experiencing same energetic fluctuations as my own.

Thank you so much for your help… you explain everything so well and everything sounds true true true…. I have a question… I didn’t met my twin flame yet and I wonder how can I manifest my twin flame. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

In gratitude for the guidance 🙏✨what do you do when your DM/TF is a galactic? Tele communication, definitely ascending, 60k ft between us. Advice?💙♾️💙✨

Listening to what you are explaining in this video.. As the conscious twin, are you advocating that I/We return to focusing fully on our own progress without being distracted as to what they are doing.. As to me it is beginning to become both a distraction and a strain.

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Thankyou Any advice on the……remove my energy thing? Just seems to be so uncontrollable even tho I’m aware it’s what I need to do

I havent caught it in any videos. Are you currently with your TF or did you choose against it?

Hi please give us the concret steps to 3 D forever union ! Thank you so mutch !

For couple of times I experienced pulsating down there. I hated. It was kundalini energy?

I was trying to cut energetic cords between me and my t flame before I found out he is my twin flame. I could they Are stronger

Actually I’m okay with the lack of contact she was never really in my life but I’d like the connection to go away because without any physical relationship it’s just an annoying energy harassing me But I think I’m crap out of luck on that account She can have the borrowed/shared energy just the pulling and signs with bo contact is just anusing Like the “person” isn’t coming back so I’m stuck with the energy connection Can she just take it all and I go my merry way? That’s what I need

Thanks! What do you do if you're in a marriage but you want to be with your TF. Your husband refuses to leave the marriage it hasn't been working out for us. He doesn't get me.I'm so stressed I don't want to hurt anyone.

Are you a Kiwi? My twin is. I'm naturally adopting his accent.

Actually ido not need my TF I need to become spiritual how can your channel help me with this.. I do not need to hear anything of TF .. does your programmes has only on spirituality?