Beautifully said. The Truth cannot be denied endlessly. Those who need to repent most will have it most difficult, and those who are best at it need it least.
Hell is a mistranslated word (Sheol, hades, death/grave, etc.) The lake of fire and hell are not the same thing. Our belief isn’t our own. Some of us will be saved by this belief given to us by God and the rest of us will be saved through judgment.
The word hell is erroneous. It's a mistranslation for the grave (Sheol, Hades, Tartarus, gehenna). No one is in torment right now since they are dead, and Scripture says that the dead know nothing. The second death hasn't happened yet, and even that isn't literal fire, but symbolic fire. We don't free willingly choose Christ in this life but all will do so in the next.