I feel your pain sister. You know why there are boundaries and rules you have to abide by. No open adoption. That means no contact afterwards to avoid this kind of situation. Your husband never truly loves you. Love yourself sister good luck.
As I listen to this story I am angry and sad. Thank you for sharing your life experience. They will not love you the same. I hope that one day when enough is enough you will find light and real love.
Sister, I can hear the pain in my heart just listening to your story. I hope you find the courage to move on and love yourself again. You only cherish the husband if he cherish you back. I would live my life without a husband if I was you.
Such hurt and betrayal. So sorry for this sister’s heartache but sister, you can be a great lover and also a fabulous wife/mother/daughter in law. You can be all of it 😀 and more! Women want the same thing from men, dignified and respectful but when he’s with you, it’s just the two of you and there’s no boundaries that can contain complete love. I hope you find solace in your true love after living this lesson. If he doesn’t love you, don’t torment yourself by staying - leave! There’s a whole new world waiting for you. Go live it!
Tu siab ua luaj koj lub neej. Kuv mloog tag mam cas yuav txaus chim ua luaj li. Yog kuv yog koj ces ntshe kuv twb mus lawv ntxov lawm os cas koj tseem nyob ntsiag ob niag ntawv sib ua thiab es yuav zoo qhov twg tuaj nas. Txawm neej tsab yuav hais li cas los ntshe yus mus yug zoo tshav ua nyob raug luaj tsim yug, tus hlub yug thaum ua tsis muaj qhov respect yug ib qhov me me li. Nws tsis Xav tias yog nws ne, tug ua muaj tsis tau me nyuam es nws puas tu siab puas yuav tau koj ntxiv yog koj ua li nws ua no mas. Txiv neej hmoob lub siab mas yo ! Pauv tsis ntxiv li os! Kawg no kuv thov kom koj tau kev Kaj siab xwb nawb mog tug niam tsev.
Kuv xav tias hauv ntiaj teb no thaum ib tug neeg tsis hlub yug lawm thiab tsis fwm yug lawm ces ncaim mus zoo dua ua nyob es rau tsis txom. Vim nej pheej coj nej lub hlwb hmoob qub qub puas thaum pog thiab yawg es ib qhov los kom uv, tsim npaum cas los kom nyob es poj niam hmoob thiab li rau tsim zoo li no. Thaum tsis muaj kev Hlub lawm ces tso nyiag mus nyiag xwb, me nyuam tsis muaj me nyuam los ib yam xwb. Qhov kev respect no los ntawm ob niam txiv txoj kev Hlub xwb yog thaum twb tsis muaj lawm ces tso mus mog.
Niam no ntuj nyob qis2 lawm hnub no nws ua rau koj tab sis tag kis yuav muaj tus ua rau nws Hlub koj tus kheej cov txiv uas xav tau cov niam tsev zoo2 li koj muaj coob heev nawb mog.
Wow. It is so frustrating listening to this story. I would rather divorce my husband because I will not put myself through that torment. It doesn't matter if I can have kids or not, the day he cheats , mean I am nothing to him no more. I really hope that u develop the courage to divorce him as soon as possible. And please learn how to love yourself to not do that to you. Your husband doesn't love u anymore . Move on, being by yourself is better than being with someone who does that to you.
As for me, I'm not leaving yet! You'll make them happy n thats what they wish for you to do. Y? i know it'll hurt, but think 1st. I'll be there and mess everything up before i leave. I'll never let them have peace. You'll know when to leave trust me. This is America, he hit you put him in jail, not good. Where ever he sleep, sleep with, he says no, report him to parents. He'll hear them. Who care cause he hurt you 1st n you didn't do anything bad. Soon both of them will fight n you watch. When they brake apart, then its time to leave n not stay. Thats what he deserves.
tshuavpomkojzoosiab Too painful better to leave and never see them again. Why would you waste your time to get even and watch them love each other to hurt you?
Pab Kj tu siab heev os tus niam laus aw tss yos Kj Tss muaj me nguam e thiaj tss hlub kj os Tsiv neej Siab yeej phem os Tsawm peb yuav muaj me nguam los tsiv neej yeej siab dub siab phem
Don’t know why you stay. He is not worth the pain and since you no longer acknowledge or love the children why are you staying? Go find your own happiness. So what if you don’t have children. You can still live a full life and be happy and content with what God allows you to have. We all die eventually with or without children. DONT STAY..Go on sister.....
Txhob tu Siab o mog.hlub hlub yus tus kheej o mog.koj mas tseem xav Tia's lub neej tsis kawg vim koj tsis muaj me nyuam .ho kuv ces Tub muaj 3 leeg ntxhai muaj ib leeg .tej me nyuam twb loj tag Los cov txiv Siab phem Siab Dub tshob Cuab khib xuab zoo no yeej tseem UA phem txog qhov Nrauj kom taus yus li thiab o poj hmoob .
Pab koj tu siab os txhob ntseeg cov txiv dev mawm dev liam tsis muaj siab muaj ntshws os poj nrauj khaus qhov quav txawm yog nus muag los yeej sib deev tau os..
Tiam 21 no cov txiv neej feem coob nyiam cov poj niam liam2 li no lawv tias haib tiag2 li hos cov poj niam zoo thiab tsim txiaj es yuav tuav lub neej ntev mus yav tom ntej mas lawv hais tias poj niam tsuam tsis paub ua lomzem rau tus txiv li.
Sister, you can still find love elsewhere. There are guys who don't want children. Guys that already have children and don't want anymore. You don't need to stick around and get hurt. He doesn't love you anymore. There is no such thing as "love" when they have someone else.
Nyob teb chaws no yus twb muaj laj kam ua, yus cov nyiaj 401k ces yog yus cov me nyuam yuav hlub yus rau yav laus nkaus xwb ma tus niam tsev aw! Cas yuav ntshaw ntshaw me nyuam es ua neej yuam kev tshuav li koj os. Muab niag dev laus ko nrauj kiag kom hmab tu hlua pluam kiag mam mus pib dua koj lub neej. Txhob nkim sij hawm ntxiv lawm. Txhob khi nyuj tos zaub hlob. Nco ntsoov tias cuav ua tsis tau tseeb li no nawb mog.
Mi niam laus aws, tsis txhob tu siab os mog, yus muaj tsis tau mi nyuam rau tus txiv ces tus txiv yeej yuav mus yuav kom tau ib tug los yug mi nyuam nawb, yog tus txiv yog tus muaj tsis taus mi nyuam mas lawv thiaj tuag siab rau yus xwb os.
Kuv yog hmoob kuv yuav hais lus hmoob . Kuv pom tias tus niam loj phem heev vim koj twb g muaj me nyuam koj ho rauj g tau koj ho ua siab phem . Koj tus txiv thiab koj tus niam yau thiaj ua kom koj khiav xwb kuv yog tus hais kom siv tau ku g pab leej twg. Qhov tseeb koj ua zoo ces zoo xwb vim koj twb g muaj me nyuam koj tus txiv thiaj yuav niam yau.
Mloog tau ntshav siab tshaj plaws! Cas mob siab ua luaj tsis ua li ib txhia txiv neej e tua poj niam tag ces mam tua yus xwb no. Yus tsis muaj me nyuam, tuag mam mus yug dua tshiab thov dua ntawv tshiab thiaj tsis mob tag tiam no.
Niam tais aw... Koj xav tias yus tus viv ncaus koom ib plab nrog yus kiag twb ntxeev siab rau yus tau es tus niag muam npaws xwb koj ntseeg ua dab tsi na
I feel your pain. Don't let them hurt you anymore. This is not Laos. Get your finances in place and ONLY take care of yourself. If you want a child, you can adopt another child some somewhere else.
Sister don't blame the woman who carried your babies, your husband is the problem. Anyway think of the children, and make the best out of a bad situation, God blessed you.
Koj niam aw!!!! Nyob rau lub teb chaws mes kas no lawm you don’t need to live with a husband like this!!!! Plus yeej tsis need ib tug me nyuam li os. They have places for the elderly when you are old.
Sister, why do u put yourself in such a situation? U should have divorced him when u found out he cheated. U should not have stayed and suffer such heartaches. If i were u, I'll prob die standing.
Txhob tu siab qhov neb tsis muaj me nyuam ntawv txawm yog tim koj tus txiv los koj yeej yuav tsis yuav nws ib yam peb cov neeg ua tsis muaj tub ki li ntawv 99 percent yeej sib nrauj tag li xwb
Cov niag me nyuam tsis yog koj yus koj lam tu tu xwb lwm hnub nkawv siab phem nkawv rau tswv yim ces cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj....nkawv lo ntshe lwm hnub cov me nyuam yeej yuav xa mus nyob tsev laus os
I dont care if the child belongs to my husband if its a child from cheating behind my back- ill accept my infertility and divorce him and not take the kid either. Infertility should not be a reason for me to accept his wrong doing! Mekas yuav menyuam tsis zoo li hmong es, yuam menyuam tag ces yuam tus niam thiab. Hmong mam tsis paub cai li. Zoo li ko xwb ces yuav txiv tshiab txawm tsis zoo los yeej tsis tu siab npaum li nyob ua khev yug thiab tu nkawv cov menyuam.
Tus niam tsev, yog koj ua tus take care tus poj niam ntawv 100% thaum pib los mas tej zaum nws yuav tsis muaj hwv tsam txeeb tau koj tus txiv na. Txiv neej mas txawm hlub yus npaum cas los tsis txhob ntseeg siab tag tag nav.