You are not alone.. I’ve been through hell and back like you.. both my parents are still alive today, but the damage already been done.. I don’t understand why but as we grow older we often feel sad about it
Tus txiv hlob aw...koj zaj no ces zoo li kuv tus txiv zaj thiab os yus yog tus tub luag tsis hlub ces leej txiv ntaus yus yuav tuag los leej niam yeej tsis cheem yeej tsis tu li os pw ntsaj qaws tsheej hmo ntoog mob xwb los yeej tsis muaj leej twg cev tes hlub li os kuv tus txiv lub neej tseem tu siab tshaj koj lub no lawm ob peb npaug os lam ua neeg nrog luag muaj niam muaj txiv xwb los twb tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub li os tu siab kawg li 😭😭😭😭
3 Hmoob txoj kev ua neej es yog raws li zaj neej neeg no es yog niam txiv kom yuav nta cov kwv poj niam ib nrab txhua 2 tus no ho yog cov muam yuav txiv ne niam txiv puas yuav muab ib nrab nqi tshoob rau yus thiab ma. Yog cov kwv yuav poj niam es niam txiv kom yus nta ib nrab tabsis cov nyxhais yuav txiv lawv ho tsis muab me ntsis rau yus no mas khub niam tixv no lim hiam rau yus dhau heev lawm aw.
Kuv siv thiab nyiam li tus kwv tij ko txoj kev tswj me nyuam. Me nyuam tawv ncauj tsis mloog qhia, yuav tau siv txhua yam cob, me nyuam thiaj tsim txiaj.
To txiv ntau los vim koj yeej txhoj puab dhau lawm nes. Peb yeej tau ua menyuam yau los lawm tiam sis peb yeej tsi tau ua tej yam lis koj thiab. Ntseeg tia yog loj txiv tsi tsiv npaum ntawd mas koj yeej tsi paub qhov zoo qhov phem lis thiab.
Tu2 siab os mloog tej zaj zoo li no ces los2 lub kua muag os kv muaj ib zaj thiab os tab kv zaj ho yog niam ua os tij aw yus yog tus lawv yug yuam kev yug tau los g txim hlub es lawv thiaj g xav hlub yus os
Tej mi nyuam yeej yuav tsum tau qhuab qhia, tiamsis tsis tsim nyog qhuab lim hiam npaum li koj txiv,,,koj txiv lub siab yog siab ntxwg nyoog,,,,, yog nyob tebchaws vam meej mas koj txiv tau mus hlob kav hlau lawm,,,,, qhuab qhia mi nyuam mas txhob qhuab qhia ruam2 li koj txiv tau ua lawm.... cov laus mas thiaj txawj xuaj2 pheej ntaus mi nyuam tau niag tsw2 lwj, tsw2 ntxhiab kawg!!
Koj txiv ces yog dev laus xwb yeej ua tsis tau ib qho dab tsi li. Txiv siab phem xwb, yog yus loj tuaj ces nws yuav tuag ces yus tsis thas yuav khes li, kom nws thiaj paub txog yus tsim2 yus tej menyuam.
I have to say you are a bit notty and your dad has a bad temper. He is a bit abusive and shouldn’t treat you so badly! But parents back then don’t know any better and not educated so they only know what they were taught! Sounds like your dad definitely treated you different from your siblings!
