Ua Li Cas Tau Li Ntawv. 9/18/2024 

Your mother gave all the money to the evil son and his wife so she didn’t want to move out. This is what happens when you love only 1 child out of the 10. Your other siblings offered her a place but she refused to live with them. She was willing to put up with the evil Nyab because of her favorite son. She shouldn’t have played favoritism, then she would had a better place to die. People, love all your kids equally and don’t give all your money to one child. 🤦‍♀️

So many stories like this. Hmoob people are so set in their own ways. Someone outside looking in but it’s hard being responsible for a elderly especially when they have a lot of kids. Everyone should take turns out taking care of the elderly parents. Y’all on the outside and complain but when it really comes down to the work is the one they live with. No judgment towards the nyab. But just my opinion. 2 sides to this kind of stories.

To the sister telling this story, you should have taken in your mom instead of complaining about your sister in law. Everyone has their side of the story and it's not easy taking care of an elderly parent let alone parents. All children need to take turn taking care of their parents instead of leaving the burden to one child. I know how it feels and yet none of the siblings raised a hand to help. It's even harder when you're family still holds the shamanistic ways. Every time the elderly parents ua neeb, hu plig, the person they live with carries the burden and none of the other siblings see it.

Cov neeg uas tsi txaus siab rua tej zaj neej neeg li no pheej hais tej muam na yog leej twg ua rau nej los yog nej tus neeg es nej puas txaus siab thiab so sad even tej coj li tus nyab no los tsi need nej yuav hais cov muam vim yog lawv niam mob lawv siab nawv yog lawv ua rau nej niam los nej yeej kawg mob siab ib yam thiab😢😢

Tim koj thiab. You should report the elder abuse to the police. You knew that they abuse your mother and you protect your brother and sister in law, that means you supported their actions.

Tsis hlub cov laus. Npam tiag tiag

Why didn't the daughter do anything to help the mom when she called and inform her. Everyone knew and yet nobody did anything to help, why? Because of the stupid old ways of thinking oh if you guys love her why don't you come take her to live with you? NONE OF KIDS LOVED HER. NOBODY WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER. Everyone can point the finger but didn't do shit to help so idk why complaining now. It stop with the stupid 1975 mindset. If it's your parent and you love them and nobody else want them then go take them to come stay with you or put them in a proper place for them to live. Better then letting them suffer like that.

Txawj ua niam pog txawj hlub tej nyab ces tej nyab thiaj hlub thiab hos yog tsis hlub tej nyab tsis txawj ua niam pog ces tej nyab tsis hlub los txhob tu siab.

Yom npam sai kawg nkaus lo nawb

I heard many stories like this. Low key glad we are the middle children who our parents don't love. We get ignored so less drama and responsibilities.

Were you there? Miss Nosey?

Koj niam twb hu koj cas koj ho tsis mus tos nws los nrog koj pw hmo ntawv. Koj twb tsis hlub koj niam thiab.

Good story

To the sister ‘Muam’ in this story, You are just as evil..your mom told you everything yet you did nothing to help her…shame on you

Idc what anyone says, blaming the kids for not taking care of the mom instead or what not. The fact that at the end the nyab got karma says it all. I rest my case.

hais dab neeg xwb txhob seev suab ntev ntev cuag li hais kwv txhiaj os ua li mas xu siab na !

Why is the blame always with the daughter in law? Where is her son in all of this? If he is still alive and allow all of this to happen then the blame should start with him!

Kuv tsis to taub hais tias twb muaj koj es koj ho tsis hais thiab cov mus tu

Zoo tas tas

Where is your brother in all this abuse? How sad. Why was your nyab not reported and put in jail?

Tiv ta koj lm pab tiv ta rov qab thb os niam lau ❤

Why do you guys blame the nyab? You and your siblings are all to blames. Hate this whole Hmong things that it have to be the nyab responsible for the in laws? To this lady. Can your own husband go take care of your parents? Why can you go take care your own parents?

Uas cas muaj ib cov ntxhais mus uas nyab es yuav siab phem tag npaum li os yog yus tej nyab uas li rau yus niam los yus uas maum yeej yuav mob siab ib yam

Siab phem yeej npam tiag2 nawb yeej pom muaj los lawm

😢

Why you guys are daughter doesn't take a look your mom too? And take your mom with you? I know all you guys didn't love your mom either 😢😢.

So what if I you’re the daughter, F take care of your mom!

Ca twb yog koj niam thiab e koj ho tsi coj mu nrog koj nyob ma

Why blame the nyab, tim niag tub dev ntawv xwb mas, yog nws hlub nws niam tiag ces niag nyab yeej ua tsis taus dab tsi.

Yog vim li cas nyab tsis hlub cas cov muam hos tsis mus hlub na

Why did any of you speak up or call social services to save your mom? In USA there are so many things you can do.

Wow!!😢. Karma do come around.

Why didn’t the sister take her in? I’m so confused at this. Sister complains but didn’t do anything about it. Seems like everyone is in the same Blame Game. No one wins and mom suffered.

Es yog yus tsis ua rau niam pog es niam pog ua rau yus ti txa nkaus ne ho yog li cas thiab.😢

What a evil daughter in law

Ces npam lawm los mas

Another nyab bashing story. I'm not saying what the nyab did was right. If the nyab was as evil as you claim her to be, why not divorce her? I'm just saying don't expect an outsider to love you when you have your own children to love you. You are burdening your nyab to take care of your mother when you won't. Shame on you!! Your whole family should be scared to get cursed cause you were the ones she gave birth to and none of you will take her in.

Xyov yog Nyab phem Los muam phem ne

Me niam tais aw!! Cas koj yuav tuag txomnyem ua luaj li os txaus hlub dhau yus tawm mus nraum zoov ntev me nris txias ntev zog xwb yus twb yuav txhav li os txhob ua phem rau yus niam yus txiv thiaj tsis npam os

Oh zoo tshaj nplaws cov nyab siab ces npam ntag yus ua neeg siab phem nas zoo tshaj qhov no ces tsis li lawm zoo rau cov neeg siab phem phem li tus poj niam hmoob siab phem phem no

We live in America 🇺🇸 If ya don’t get along, don’t live together. However if you don’t like your in laws don’t use their money and treat them like shit. I’d want to owe no one anything if I hate anyone that much.

Then that new daughter in law will have the same problem. And it just keeps going. Thats curse.

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li cas lo kv g hais li o tab sis yog niam pog quav yeeb quav tshuaj nees npam nees cem neeg tav tog rau ub rau no ces g hlb lo tau li o lv aw

That's murder. Elder abuse. It's sad she had called for help, and no one did anything. Someone should have called the police for a welfare check on her.

Twb paub hais tsis zoo ua li cas ho tsis pab txhob quaj os siab phem heev li..tsis qhuas leej twg li os

Cov niag laus no phem dhau lawm nrog tus twg nyob es tseem npav foom tus ntawv xwb uas cas cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob no nws ho tsis foom lawv cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob nas nws twb tsis tau noj lawv ib pluag mov hos tsis tau pw lauv ib ces kaum tsev li nws ho tsis foom es lawv ho cia li dim dawb dim do tseem tau lub koob npe zoo thiab tsis mag foom thiab hos tus ua nws nrog nyob nas yus twb mus nrog luag nyob nrog luag noj luag haus mus pw luag ib hoob txaj mus ua luag vaj tsev qias neeg mus tab kaum luag npaum li cas es tseem cem tseem xyav luag lub koob tsis zoo ho tseem foom tus ntawv npaum ub npaum no thiab ntshe yuav tsis tau luag cia peb tej ntxhais mus ua nyab hmoob lawm tsam mus tau cov niam pog txiv yawg npav foom yus tej ntxhais li no os lawv. Nws cov tub cov ntxhais no nws ho tsis foom thiab nws ho qhuas qhuas thiab es nws ho foom tus nyab nkaus xwb. Yog yus yuav nyab rau yus tej tub es yuav foom npaum ntawv cev txhob mus yuav luag tej ntxhais los foom lawm yus 2 niam tub cia li ua kiag li nom pov xyooj nkawv 2 niam tub lawm xwb nawb lawv aw. peb hmoob mas yeej phem tshaj li luag tej lwm haiv neeg.

The fault lays on you guys.

Koj niam Yog ib tug neeg coj ncaj kawg. Nws paub tias nws hlub thiab ncua nyiaj rau tus tub tus nyab twg ntau tshaj, nws yuav tsum nrog tus ntawv nyob. I hate in laws who throw all their life savings to their favorite tub and nyab but expect the everyone to carry the responsibility the same.

Will, the mom, have more than 1 son. The daughter even told her to go live with another son, but she chose to stay with the evil nyab and stupid son. She would rather live in that situation. Some old OG are very stubborn and will not leave to live with other.

What happened to the rest of her kids? Why no one said anything and do anything…? The son is not the only child.

Ua neeg phem2 rau tej laus ces npam ntag lauj….

Koj tus nyab muab phem dhau cai ntawm 1 tug nyab .hos koj niam los cas yus muab yus pob nyiaj 6 tub ntxawg tag nro .nej coob baum koj es nej ho cia koj niam tuag ti no kiag nram shed .kuv thab qhuas nej thiab nej tsuas zoo zog nyab xwb

why isn't this txim tua neeg? it should be but how can the daughter of this story KNOW and SEE that the mom is sleeping in a shed outside and NOT do anything about it?? Even if the mom refused to leave i would drag the mom out of that cold shed! shame on everyone!!!

Koj tus nyab tus nus los yeej phem kawg, koj niam los yeej tsis zoo thiab, sib phim xwb os.

Kuv tsis paub, cas cov muam hais npaum ub npaum no tsis pom cov muaj tuaj saib thiab tu 1 pliag los 1 tsam

Too boring stop listening after 10 minutes 😴

What country do you live in because something doesn't add up. If the doctors said she froze to death, it needs an investigation but looks like no steps was taken to find why she froze. I think you're exaggerating. Plus, you're all at fault too. If the abuse/neglect was as severe as you described and you and her brother didn't informed the authorities, you're to blamed too.

Ya females listening to this story, ya know it’s about ya too..ya doing the same thing to your MiL…that’s why ya complaining why is it the sister always telling the story, ya should have a open mind that the sister is telling the story to warn ya Nyab not to do the same thing

Ruam hais lus ruam xwb

Why is it always the sis (muam) that always complaining about the nyab and brother. Us muam have to learn to let the brothers do their thing and if the muam decide to help then help with a heart and stop talking shit about your brothers and nyab.

CAs hlub koj niam ua luaj os

What’s go around will come around?

Story sounds like it’s missing parts here and there…