UK 🇬🇧 Life: Balancing Family and Work 

I love this woman authenticity. I just followed you. I like your videos and you’re very real. Keep giving us more content ❤️

You said it all. I kept on telling people that each family is unique and doesn't have a particular formular that must be applied in another family. Well-done dear. At the appointed time, God will make everything beautiful.

Ginika, you are doing a great job balancing motherhood , being a good wife and adapting to your new life in the UK.

That's powerful video Ginika, just my little advice, remove every non and take sense from all the nonsense people says. Your children and your family is the greatest treasure, if you work and lose your children from some addictions from the househelp what then is the gain?. All i want to tell you from my own experience is, do your best to do homeschooling with your children if you can't afford the school cost for now, that's how some diaspora mums do it. Again as PhD holder, i encourage you to find phd candiates online and help them in their research work so that you can work at home on your own time, Moreso, focus more attention on your RU-vid content work, this also will generate income for you even as you stay at home. Paying for house help in the diaspora is quite expensive, Where we are you can't get house help for 600 usd per month unless the person doesn't speak English. So I want to encourage you to keep investing in your family, when your kids grow you will have all the time to work and be tired of working. In as much as there is health you will be tired of work, just look for online work and do it at your own time in your home. God bless you

The ‘God forbid I am not coming back’ got me rolling 😅😅😅 It is well

I have always said it , that your videos are therapeutic. It gets better with time. You are doing amazing already ❤️😊

Thank you my sis

You are a very wise & polite person.

I just love you for being you and you have really encouraged someone here

This video has made me realise that am not alone in this. Just been here for 2months .thanks. looking forward for another one.

God will reward you for being a faithful wife and mother. Soon we will congratulate you🎉🎉🎉

So authentic ❤

Thanks for this video. Since RU-vid recommended your video to me I’ve been watching your content. Thanks for your honestly.

I just stumbled on ur page and as someone who recently moved to the UK I can totally relate .... One thing I know is no two fingers are the same and things get better with time. Let no one feel pressured ... U are doing well Mama ..chin up.

Your videos are so real❤

I think the problem is that people are inpatient. It takes some time to settle down, and thank God you are favored that you hit the ground running with a job. The children will get older and you can work. For now, work on preparing yourself for that time so that when it comes, you are ready. I applaud you. You are doing a great job, Ginika.

I so much love your contents very relatable,one thing I have come to understand is that dishing out advice is so easy when you are not in the shoe leave people and their opinions. Do what's best for you and your family,there's absolutely no need to rush anything time will put everything in it's rightful place

I concur with your point. People differ. If someone can handle 10 jobs simultaneously doesn't mean another person can do the same. At best avoid such people who try to compare you to someone else cause they are bad news. I am glad you have wisdom from God to decipher the advice you should take.

I too love U ma ! U’r so real and I enjoyed this vlog ❤.. lovely vlog ma

First of all,i want to commend you for your simplicity and honesty. For not living a fake life and painting the picture you are not. I don't normally subscribe to RU-vid channels but after watching some of your video,i subscribed. Please don't change bcoz of family, friends or pressure mounters. A lot of our Nigerian ladies have thrown away our manners and good upbringings bcoz of pressures and trying to impress or be like others. Do what works for you, respect your husband ( coz that's the mean reason you agreed to stay home)and keep loving your family. You will reap your reward❤❤❤. God bless you for proving we still have good and godly women not withstanding their academic level. Cheers

I love watching your videos sis! You’re so eloquent and everything you said is 💯 correct. Gods blessings always ❤️

True talk o…Do whatever works for you o….very important…your peace of mind matters. This is the period social workers are looking for kids o(holiday period)

U re right, u don't own anybody explanations, just do what works for u and be happy❤

Nwanyi oma GINIKA, JISIKE!!!!Loads of love to you and your wonderful family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

People can put mouth in what does not concern them, the annoying thing about it is they hardly practice what they preach. I love the advice you put out where you said do what rocks your boat don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself and work things out on your own terms. Don't worry God is with you.

This vlog is well loaded with good information. Ride on sis🎉

I fill it my sister, I stayed at home in Japan after given birth to my daughter and I can relate I keep on explaining this to my family and friends but they can understand. It's not easy abroad with two kids like me too.but we shall overcome 🙏

Same here, madame.the lord will see us through.sometimes I cry like a baby.

Life is in stages. The most significant thing is understanding the phase you're in, enjoying it, and working towards a better one. We should also learn to draw a line between showing concern and putting people under pressure. It becomes a pressure when you keep pushing someone for something you can't proffer solution to. This too shall pass❤❤❤

This is such an interesting video. Thanks for sharing your experiences. May God continue to favour you ❤

Ginika do what works for you. It is well with you in Jesus mighty name amen ❤❤

You are doing well ❤

God bless you sister; you are doing great! Please ignore all these know it alls that couldn’t even walk a mile in your shoe. I have been in England my whole life and I can attest to the fact that what you are saying is correct; even for those of us born here! The lord is your strength 🙏🏽❤️

Nice video ❤ just found your channel. Subscribed right away 😂

I enjoy watching your videos cos u re so real....u re doing well

I like the way you are so real. I just do what suits my family circumstances. SHIKINA

Balancing work and family life is hard in your home country even more so in another man;s country. Child care is expensive and it's not like you can ask a family member or friend to look after your child because the government check up on children especially if they are of school age..

No body said it was going to be easy, but God will always make a way of escape for u. You see this UK , u must possess your possession. U will reap the fruit of the land. And at the end of the day u will all be counted and non will be missing. Relax as far as God is on the throne u will flourish in Uk, u will not borrow but u will lend and give to people.

Don't mind anybody, u are doing well

First time commenting, I must commend your sweet spirit and realness. I feel you dear, I lived in New York with my family for some years and didn’t work, despite that I had a work permit, pressure from home is real, for different reasons, the same people that pressure you to work are waiting for you to start sending them money, most don’t have you interest at heart. Build, instil great childhood mermories and core values in your kids and enjoy motherhood and family together. Do only what works for you, na only you know where shoe dey pain you. Raising kids is already a 24hrs job, God will give you direction and honestly, you will never lack any good thing. Sure you know that already. Wealth and riches is relative ooooo. Ultimately be happy, trust and depend on GOD. Una go dey alright last last❤

Don’t worry u are doing welll❤️❤️God will see u through❤️

Welldone ma’am

Dope content keep creating

What works for Mr A might not work for Mr B, there’s no manual to how to live life. Do what works best for your family. Sending you hugs and strength ❤❤❤❤

I stumbled across your channel a few weeks ago and was attracted by your eloquence, realistic content and the fact that you mentioned Ilorin (I lecture at Unilorin). I usually hardly ever comment on videos but I felt you would appreciate some feedback from your audience that your content is refreshing, unpretentious and down to earth. Please don't be pressured by the opinionated backseat drivers who are self professed "experts" on every issue. Keep keeping it real and continue to do what's best for you. Cheers❤

Lastly just do u and don’t allow any one pressure u for u shall reap the fruit of the land

Very true talk Do what works for you 😉

Sis am always encourage by your video

You're such a darling sister ❤

People will always have something to say

Omo it's not easy o! There's no formula in life, do what suits you and your family. I'm a stay at home mom for now because we want to have one parent around our toddler/ kids during their formative stage and that's ok by us. Diy is what I've been doing 19kperigidi 😅. I can't even eat out now in Nigeria because of high rate of things talk more of those in obodo oyibo. Thumbs up and share done sis Ginika

Ohmagoodness! I'm glad I watched this video. This is the realest video I've ever seen! I love your honesty, vulnerability and yet courage. I am almost feeling same pressure, so you're not alone. But Truly, God forbid that I jakpa back to Nigeria!!😂 Like... can you imagine all these advisers? People should just learn to keep their opinions to themselves and allow people do what works best for them!! Thank so much for sharing!

Please ma don’t allow anyone to pressurize you. At the right time I the lord will favour you, Keep your joy and peace intact

Great content👍. Do you make the kulikuli yourself ?

You really talk good

i love you sis❤❤❤

Well said.

This portion of the Bible is for people like that: Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.

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I can relate

Your really owe no one any explanation. It’s your life, just do you. People can say whatever. Who no go, no know. No matter how you explain certain things people back home may not understand and it’s understandable. A lot of people have risked their kids being taken away for the sake of money. Like you said, do what works for your family.

You dey try

I don't know the youtuber that uses that phrase oooo,oya whisper in my ears...i won't tell anyone 😂😂😂😂

Bye, dear

Please be putting the Uk 🇬🇧flag on your title ooo....It’s very attractive 😂😂❤❤❤❤ Just suggesting 😁

*Out of context * Did you travel with our local broom or you bought it there?

How can I make an order for the kuli kuli?

Thanks for sharing; we want to support your business. What is Koolie koolie? I hope that's the correct spelling.

Wat can u advice someone he get 1 house nd about to roof d second one nd he is thinking may b he should sell one to japa wat is ur advice

I love you 😍

Chai!!!

Pls blank any hollabalu out from Nigeria for at least 2yrd straight,focus and do it at your own pace with God you will triumph,again blank out any story from Nigeria I repeat hmm .

Just like asking a married woman why she is not pregnant yet.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha

Don’t worry u are doing welll❤️❤️God will see u through❤️