I was sometimes ashamed of my ralstionship, but now I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot.
Its funny because back in 2018 I met my Girlfriend whom we currently dating , she is 39 this year and 25 and we are happily together nonethe less I've experienced a lot ey we have each other's back and she has changed me a lot with everything and I look at life differently ever since
I like this conversation...bcz it teach izinto besingekho aware ngazo...tx guyz...i would like to knw if your partner ikushiya only nge 2yrs for examples u girl huye oshiywa yindoda nge 2yrs...indoda 1982 u girl 1984...bengicela u Dokotela angichazisele lapho..i would like to know abt this gaps ages & whts going on in that couple ages plz
I've dated an older guy, he was my mom's age. He was giving me problems, he wanted to own me and I couldn't take it so I decided to leave him. I found another one now, I just hope he will be able to understand that I'm younger than him and I have a life. Ngikhathele ontanga bandla bayakhathaza!!!
I married a man 13yrs older than me but he behaved like a 16 year old.he never saw me as a partner but as a child and he referred to me as such" lo mtana".
I am not married but he's 13 yrs older, He behave like a 15 yrs boy and akaboniseki he is so stubborn..... Akakwazi ngisho kuXolisa me wrong @@noncebasokupha8716
I'm in love with my husband I'm 28 years old and he's 37years old si happy njani nganeyakwethu nd we planing to have children because I don't have he has 1 on his own
I am in love with a person who is 17 years older than me. I feel like old men go out just to explore and have fun out of their marriage. He goes missing n come back again. I feel tired n used.
Siyafana just it's mine he's seeking attention and affection of which he no more gets from his mate. Nami giving him what he's never got has landed me in polygamy with twins for him.
Ngibuya emendweni ( divorced ) there is no way I will bring my emotional baggage to a young guy. No ways. He has to experience life naye. No ways. Anything younger than me or has never been married, andizi.
Uyaphoswa mntase, I am so comfortable with my new man, 5 years younger than myself, he supported me throughout my post divorce trauma, I love n respect him a lot. 😅
@@nodumolupalule5208 enjoy doll😍😍😍 Different strokes for different folks. As I said " I will not " I was not implying everyone should do the same. Kanti he was even your therapist!!! Unhealthy attachment 🤣🤣🤣 Hier kom kaak.
What's different from old man dating you girl, love is love akulzwamwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂 what's different from old man dating young girl, love is love,akuzwanwa amandla la kuyathandwanwa😂
I'm 39 and he's 29 but siryt nje but kubakhona lokho okubuye kungibangele amahloni if ngizovakasha kubo ngoba ay bayajajana shem,inkinga yam manje angisenalo ugqozu lokuya ocansini
Mina Ngingaydedela i Mamas encane ingene e Club mina ngi sale ne red wine emotweni kuma parking. But ungapheli u two hours engezanga ukuzongbheka acoshe u One aphindele uko Bhenga whole night if she cares that march about partying . We can go together watch stand up comedy together. U One no Two sesombona endlini. In a decent way ❤️🙋👍
I am in a 5 months marriage and my husband is 9 years older than me, there is no romance, no good communication or future, I feel bored aways and loosing mysef
Sister M, how did you end up marrying the guy if you saw red flags while you were still dating him?? We tend to ignore red flags thinking that they will get better or we will change them. You cannot change a person. I feel you're in a toxic marriage and he possess toxic masculinity. It's one of the reasons you feel bored and suppressed. You walk on eggshells and playing it safe not to make him sad or cause sadness for yourself so you keep a lot to yourself as he will twist things not the way you meant them.
@@mariankuna1428 where did she state ukuthi she saw the red flags whilst they were dating?? And where did she say she's in a toxic marriage??yeyi nasi isangoma /psychologist bo! She has not indicated anything toxic about her marriage, only communication break down and the lack of romance probably due to the age gap
@@gugublake911 I get you sister Gugu. I get your point of view. I don't think one can marry a person they just met. There is a dating/relationship phase where you get to see a lot about your partner. In most cases, red flags are ignored and toxic masculinity also includes a guy who is not good when it comes to communicating. The person denies you the platform to express how you feel simply becuase he is able to respond to how he is, not how things are.
Akushiwo-ke ukuthi jola nezingane ezincane let's say you are 30 and the child is 15. Cha, they are not condoning pedophilic relationships especially with underage children. Just a note nje. We know you men and young girls.
Why do you insist on calling her umama when uAlex says uSisi, your insisting has an underlying message. LoSisi okukhulunywa ngaye, ungumawakho yini Dokotela? I think subtly, that is the reason older women feel the way they do at times because society boxes them. Ungadinwa, ng'yakuthanda Dokotela.
Xoxani ngokuthi y engaluthandi bcs um engalwenzi nawe, ulwenza nobani? Maybe wahlukunyezwa ebuncaneni bakhe etc. Endabeni yeconsike, nakhona mbuze ukuthi kusuke sekwenzenjan uma wenza u 1 no 2, bcs uma wenza kanje akungiphathi kahle
Ayi lumnandi shame loluhlelo mina ngina 52 years u guy uuna 41 but ngiyamthanda too much and ngiya m feeler and ngiym enjoyer when make sex my problem is I so asham of my age and when comes to go around or I t when it's his friend are coming
