Thokoza Gogo...mina ngiwu mlanjwa so kuya khonakala umu ngiyenza ilati ubize abantu bakhini ko baba namo you just stick one side, ka bo malume ku phela naa,cos sometimes I just feel like calling upon all ancestors both maternal and paternal...ngezwa kuthi wa ngiya bangwa amadlozi lastly,ngine siphiwo from father's side also what should I do.thokoza