I swear this is the bond children need with parents banange...ma parents would provide everything, went to good schools naye embeela yali yakijaasi nnyo ...u leave your children with maids , u come home late home only to complain on wat wasn't done right 😢... I promise God , am gonna be a friend to ma kids ❤❤ thks mummy Ruth ❤❤❤
@@ShivanBusuulwa 😂nange nakuba omwana w'omuwarabu nga nakamala omwezi yeyambula stockings nazinteeka kumumwa nemukanyuga Eli nabuuka nga tenar omukazi nagamba you touch my children i take you police nange nemugamba take me sigenda kukolela she was you no like my house nemugamba iyeee neyetonda nga atya loss naye she knew ngenda kuduuka
1. The mother/daughter dynamic...Ruth,u birthed yaself with this one; looks, laughter,mannerisms, voice...beautiful! 2. The love, pride & respect that permeates frm u to ya daughter & vice versa is palatable...beautiful! 3. The conversation/topic of discussion, the sage nuggets u're dropping both to the parents & their children... beautiful! This episode has me on a see-saw of emotions both happy & longing(wishing to have had these types of convos with ma parents). Thank u Ruth & Ruth.1 #twins. Beautiful!Beautiful!Beautiful!❤❤❤
This was so helpful, naye our parents bali bakabwe like police 👮♀️ officers. We as gals we used to go through a lot and we could not even talk to mums bse bali bakambwe nyoo. Naye nga mums let’s try befriend our children.
My mummy forced me PCB but God helped with knowledge and wisdom munange she wanted a Dr era am one now but l later studied my own course kati nkola her dream and mine
Mummy Ruth u resembles banange mulinga balongo even the facial expression 😆 kale am enjoying the show 😊😊❤very inspirational parents we should be friendly to our children ❤❤
@kalibbalabwanika Yeah nd definitely that's me n mi son 😂😂😂omwana yamalayo nd the bond btn us is unpredictable people tell me mbu omwana mulenzi njakumwonona.
I can speak for those who keep quiet for a long time. When we decide to speak up and decide to make our own decisions we are unstoppable. My parents never listened. Their word was that and when I grew up I decided to create as much distance as I can between us and since we have never been friends it makes things easier. It's not a good thing but my sanity comes first.
I miss my mother. I never had this kind of love 😢😢. Hope one day you will come. I know your still alive. Maama Ruth thank you for that love you have for your children.❤❤
Parents be friends to ur children when they r still young. It will be hard to make them friends when they grow, and it will be hard for them to make u their friends when they grow even when they want to.
What an educative convo especially to a parent like me having a high school son, it was a battle for us when choosing a combination till the DOS joined in and we reached to an agreement
Thank you Maama Ruth and bringing your daughter Nisha, this is the best episodes of yours i have watched. Our parents raised us like soilders, there was no talking, it even made me run away from home for some 3 days. But when i was there as my mother was looking for me, i made it clear to her that we are children but we also have a say in our lives. Trust me things changed, i don't even blame my mother because we lost Dad at 8 years. So single strangling Nalongo was tough, but am blessed because am what I am because of Maama. Thanks again Maama Ruth for the energy and educative talks and impacting to the new Uganda. Bless you and your entire Family.
True definition of (omwana yafanana nyina) educative conversation, thx Ruth and to Nisha uo future will shine just like a mng 🌞 and indeed parents nid to create a comfortable environment wea their kids can express themselves.
Wooow this was an interesting conversation. Parents need to listen to their children. Children’s opinions matter in all aspects. Let us move away from the autocratic kind of parenting. Allow children to express their opinions and feelings. Always check in with them to see how they are feeling. In this very fast era of technology there is a lot of stress, anxiety and depression among other mental issues. Talk to your children. Tell them you love them, speak to them positive reaffirmations. As for University courses, I believe parents should provide guidance and moral support but not choose courses for their children. Some parents just want prestige because they have a doctor, lawyer, engineer etc but care less about that child’s happiness.
Great conversations. OCD is extreme; imagine someone cleaning after you as you eat, they are arranging with people around, nothing should be a mess, straight lines, as you sit they are mopping, they are uncontrolled, etc.
madam thank you for sharing such important Information with your daughter to the world...this young lady is very intelligent ..she can be a.good Cancellor... to the high achool students...wish she can visit secondary schools and talk to her fellow teenagers. and they listen..
Just smiling from the start to the end Thx for the mother dota talk, but my gal can't be dis open however much l try to build the bond. But one day we shall make it 🙏
Thanks ma'am Ruth was in the same situation thought mum is soo strict on me but I can now witness my future if it wasn't her I couldn't be the woman iam today. Thanks alot
Bannange I have really enjoyed this conversation. Bambi mukyala Ruth webale nnyo era twebaza Katonda eyakuwa ekisa okukuza abaana mu ngeri ey'enjawulo.
Thank u so much mum ruth this bond is so sweet i wish i hard it with my mum naye mam😢😢and am praying for hard to God to bond with my children so help me God
This is wat have always wanted to explain to my mum Naye byagaaanaaa😢 I graduated and I took her degree to her, then I traveled to abroad, me and my mum dont get along always, im working on my self to be a perfect mum to my little son I have, im 24 ryt now. I can never sit on a table and I discuss anything with my mother. But yet I love her she has done alot 4 my life but, I dont have that connection. I'm alone. But. I'm gonna be a good mother to my kids, bring more of this ruth for the boys part too
Nze mikwano jejimbulilide naue nali nganye okwemanyiza abaana bange .I love them soo much naye bangeya mum mukambwe .naye nasaba nensiba nensaba mukama ankyise kati maze 1yr nga siyombyeko yadde .we r sooo happy kati bambulila nekubyebayitamu
RUTH I LOVE THE TALK AND IT IS MY PRAYER 😢TO BE WITH MY CHILDREN HOWEVER AM TRYING TO LOOK FOR THEIR SCHOOL FEES AND HAVE OUR OWN HOME BUT HER LAST STATEMENT MADE ME CARRY AND PRAY IMMEDIATELY 🙏 BUT BE BLESSED MUKWANO 😢😢😢
Omwana ono mugezi nnyo, imargin how proud i can be i feel Ruth's pride with her dota she is a photo copy my first born is 3years and i am i think just 3 years younger than Ruth, please girls almost making 30 and you say you are still young really look at Ruth it feels good to have that girl and look like your sis❤
God bless you ba dear Especially our baby Girl may the Angels always guide you in making right decisions. Mwaa I can't wait for ma son to grow and have such coversation.
Ruth, it's not about what you want, that you want a doctor in the family, appreciate what you have and may be one of your grand children or even more will be a doctor
God richly bless you Ruth 4 being a friend to ur children, I've done the same by God's Grace to our 3 Gifts of galz and 2 are now graduates (an administrater & a Banker) & the last born at MUK offering Journalism. I bless de Lord Jesus Christ HUGE. Parents need to b friendly ar the same tym rebuke them n love
Wow These 2 look like real siblings Oh Lord ... May u grant me the same relationship with my gals... Hanisha is exactly like her mom... Loved the talk❤👋👋👋
I hv been watching this girl's show on spark TV I loved her coz I expecting her to be Ruth's daughter nga era ndaba kagezi.I love u Ruth and ur family dia
Me too i hv doctor NAANAH naye abwagala nyo ali kyona namagezi agalina she is so hearted ,caring,loving alina byona ebyetagisa okufuka omusawo ate naye kyayagala.nsaba mukama nfune fees .
When a parent is so open to deya kids omwana newafuna ekizibu kyimwanguyira to open up to de parents lero me who has a dad who always quarrels however big my prob is i can nvr open up to him mbyemalila thanks madam ruth and please bring more so that we can hear what our children or youth go thru
Thanks so much dear, for me I have my son ,he is now 7 years but I like him bcoz he is open to me. Last year when I was talking with him on video call he told me mummy I don't want this school then I asked him why he said ndikoyo .
Like Mother like daughter,,,that's a good conversation but my opinion on this is,, it's good to be in the life of your children then it becomes easy to understand what they want.
i am a student also but my mother is soooooo tuff, I would like to add to the conversation, and I suggest parents should be more of our friends especially when we are at campus because it is when we need them more. because like it or not we face many challenges where we need to speak to them but insisted of speaking to them we end up speaking to the wrong people who advise us wrongly and end up messing up because we fear our parents due to the fact that they are tuff to us and and had to relate with them due to the seriousness. however, i thank God that i mate God while i am at campus and He is the one i run to.
