Uncommon Sense: Moving from a Problem-Focused to Solution-Focused Mindset | Mel Gill | TEDxVarna

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In Mel Gill's inspirational talk there are self-experience stories, giving you the chance to change your mindset, your point of view about the problems in your life and focus on taking action and responsibility for your mind, happiness and life.
Legendary Psychotherapist Dr Mel Gill is one of the world's leading experts in Personal Development and a Mentor to countless other Speakers and Trainers around the world. He is an internationally-recognized Training Consultant and is also Corporate Advisor to CEOs of Fortune 500 Companies.
He has been recognized by the Business Times and The Sentinel as one of the Top Asian American Motivational Speakers. He was invited by the Napoleon Hill Foundation to speak as one of the Top 17 Speakers in the World in their Inaugural World Convention.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@stevec404 Год назад

"He keeps dancing until it rains!" I am laughing and crying at the same time. From one who has given up on himself way too many times...thank you for this inspiring message.

@nellymorales1635 Год назад

Me too...same emotion

@aju3842 Год назад

Hahaha hahahaha dance until it rains hahaha

@jonathandenis5249 Год назад

Keep trying bro

@stevec404 Год назад

@@jonathandenis5249 - Absolutely! Thanks, J.D.

@dianamuringo3998 Год назад

👏👏 This guy is amazing

@DrMelGill 6 лет назад

I really enjoyed this talk! I hope to see you all again soon!

@surveenc6265 4 года назад

Dr Mel Gill maybe a year too late but great talk!

@mannmadantilak489 4 года назад

Dr Mel Gill, Your inspiring talks will surely bring out many Rain Makers from their old tribes & dense forests to explore new possible deserts, where their dance will succeed to bring much needed rains. Many Thanks to You for being there to motivate us with your single-handed Enthusiasm. Be Always Happy Be Blessed Lots LoVE

@kurthao3011 2 года назад

Dr. Mel Gill, i enjoyed your talk alot. 🇵🇭💓💓

@dericflairmultiverse4952 2 года назад

I couldn't HANDle your jokes but thank you for the inspiring talk

@ngqabuthomafu8559 Год назад

That was a good talk you are gifted sir!

@raphaelwalker19 Год назад

I am actually from Jamaica, 🇯🇲, perfect description, we have no problem ❤

@haaste_mies Год назад

No problem, no woman, no cry🇯🇲

@adulis73 Год назад

No problem man!

@Hotelsonfire Год назад

The “nobody makes it out of this life alive” bit and the “he keeps dancing until it rains” part really spoke to me.

@hasnhan Год назад

''Possibility thinking means never accepting failure as your final destination. Failure is a means to success.''

@theroadtoamillion Год назад

Watching this in September 2022 and it’s such a breathe of fresh air. I love this guy! He’s funny 😆 “no problem mon, you have a situation mon” 💯

@Always.2020 Год назад

What a sense of humor combined with serious ideas!!!

@pretinha718 Год назад

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@pretinha718 Год назад

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@mothiurNCL Год назад

I don't usually have much time to watch anything more than 3 or 4 minutes, 6 maximum. This man is inspirational and 22 minutes wasn't long enough.

@manifestationwithsami 2 года назад

You CANNOT solve the problem if you are still fighting against it. If you are still struggling with the issue that dejected you or the problem that stuck in your life, let it go. Do not fight against it. Sometimes accepting and letting go can give you the highest peace. Isn’t? Some problems are not solvable by our power; they are out of our control. Fighting against them destroys our mindset and energy level. Let it go and take a breath

@jcjlove Год назад

❤❤❤

@user-vq5ff6mv4n Год назад

Ironically, I lived a life that centered on the feelings of others. Instead of expressing my feelings frankly, I thought I had to live a happy life that would require suppressing my feelings to avoid making problems. At the same time, I firmly believed that my inner anxiety or nervousness should not be revealed. I tried to think positively or forced a smile on my face, hiding my unease and pretending not to know. Some feelings discomforted me, which I knew I should not be feeling, yet whenever those feelings arose, I would deny myself and suffer. I thought this was the right way, but reality told me the contrary. I became more vulnerable. I started to use the "Intended mindfulness playlist' and got much better. It really works 🙂

@amamamamamama97 4 года назад

Absolutely LOVED this TedX talk! Love the positivity he gave out and how he made people laugh throughout! An absolute gem! 👏🏼

@fayeburke7732 Год назад

We need more laughter in this world today love this talk

@pammiesingkho1786 Год назад

Oyeee!!! 💞💞💞💞💞😃😃😃

@sepidehpakmehr2650 Год назад

He was full of energy and that made the talk really enjoyable. 🥰

@ABC-du6yz 5 месяцев назад

how beautiful you look ma'am. amazing.

@jensonalex9610 Год назад

He's got a very strong mind to loose his hand and still say boldly and with a smile as well.... "I did everything Single-handedly"

@fashionlove 7 лет назад

Such a wonderful character! Such an amazing personality! So much laugh, so much life, so much energy in him. Such inspiring talk, thank you!

@mikeytobago 6 лет назад

i must put a like to your insanity lol

@DrMelGill 6 лет назад

Thank you!

@wrsk.7014 Год назад

‘Because he keep dancing until it rains’ Such a beautiful and motivated ending.

@thenavigator582 2 года назад

Can’t thank you enough for the magic you did with just few words. You have restored my confidence that i lost after few consecutive failures. I was sooo depressed and then i came up with this video. I feel like this 20 mins session that i have listened is the most useful thing i have ever done in my life with my mobile phone😂 Thank you again!

@kaksbaby Год назад

Not the most useful thing you’ve done on a mobile phone 😂😂😂😂

@camillac.s.279 Год назад

🙏🏻❤️🙌🏻

@DJ-sv7xf Год назад

If you learned something from your failures then it wasn't a waste of time - it was an expensive lesson. They taught us in college that the person who fails and stops trying is the only failure. Look for the lesson and change your angle of attack.

@sbkalatage1042 Год назад

My salutes sir

@timothyroberts2103 Год назад

As a solution focused psychotherapist i really enjoyed this.

@andrewacton5095 23 дня назад

Fabulous talk. Love that we have situations! We should definitely all keep dancing until it rains. Thanks for the wisdom Dr Gill.

@nooraisyah6655 2 года назад

Massive failure lead to massive success. Love this !

@Camille-pg1xw 3 года назад

CRAZY SPEAKER. What a guy filled with bright ideas! Thank you, Doc Mel!!

@user-fb1ys2lj9c Год назад

Thank for the hope and inspiration. Now I will find my next solution to my procrastination and fears ♥🙏🏽

@ganbatte1260 10 месяцев назад

How is it? Im in it now :(

@ninjuhnin Год назад

I'm so glad I got to watch this talk just before new year. So inspiring! Let's all keep dancing until it rains!

@chinthakasml9934 Год назад

"Tomorrow never dark" Absolutely love your speach. Long life!

@manoyjayrpacistv Год назад

If all english speakers talk so clear like this then i think learning it is enjoyable and easy. Love his accent..

@Gary-ts6dh Год назад

Wow! - Such a delivery that I didn't even notice his left side until he spoke about it! "Great talk, Man!"

@rsalanspeaks Год назад

Added to my Fav Ted Talks ❤️ A Good Start of my Day 2 Feb 2023

@laurenalvarez4302 Месяц назад

I watch at least 2 Ted Talks every day & this one is by far the best !!! Thank you for sharing your story

@london8737 3 года назад

This was brilliant. Light hearted truth. Made me laugh. A good way to learn with laugher

@mollypinto4666 Год назад

Thank you for this all inspiring talks Mel....wish I had someone like you to help my son who is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Some even confused called it Schizophrenia 😕 Hope you're doing well wherever you may be. God bless you and yours🙏

@Chikathegreatman Год назад

Amazing! How the things that appear as shortcomings could become our badge of honor. Just like the great apostle Paul, said three times have I asked the Lord to remove this infirmity but he said my Grace is sufficient for you.

@idamurry6611 Год назад

BRILLIANT! BRILLIANT ! BRILLIANT🦜

@MnMcancook Год назад

Talking about this is extremely important! Schizophrenia and Bipolar disorders are not understood very well by doctors, much less the general public. I congratulate you for having the confidence and determination to inform people of these disorders and the fact that you are functional. Keep it up, and good luck!

@kutitub7220 Год назад

dynamic speaker...full of life. 🤣🤣♥️♥️

@tayybasvoice590 Год назад

Gosh, his way of speaking is so magnetic

@joshuaesoko7712 2 года назад

This just made my day.... I'm glad I watched this

@timhardman9386 Год назад

One of the best Talks ever.

@charlesadah5929 Год назад

Beautiful, love his energy

@preparingminds-silamsharif1957 Год назад

Dancing until it rains is very powerful ..Need such a confidence and conviction..👏👏👏👏👏Enjoyed with great message 👍👍👍

@mojcahenigman5310 Год назад

So much fun to listen, laughed out loud a few times, and underpinned by really solid, encouraging ideas.

@mannmadantilak489 4 года назад

@yayrabernicebatse8911 Год назад

Massive success is the end product of some failures. Great talk.

@divyanshuji6879 Год назад

Omg😂😂😂..,the best Ted talk i watched till now......he made me so laugh 🤓🤓🤣 thank you 😘..........he has only 1 hand😥 and he is so energetic and happy..... and we are complaining about life...... i got new perspective about problems in life by you sir...... thank you so much for sharing.... take care sir ❤️....salute you 🙏💗💗

@mugambiharmaton2091 Год назад

This is pure greatness. I love his energy

@noora6909 Год назад

Absolutely my favorite Ted Talk, such a beautiful inspiring person! 🙌🏼

@thusspokeshabistari Год назад

this guy always give the commentary at the end of “Incredible Tales” episodes . Legend siol

@kylehall2457 2 месяца назад

Watched this two times in a row, Great presentation.

@maryrushlow976 Год назад

He is amazing speaker and yes definitely inspiring. Yes I read your book. BaRnna is lucky to have you living with them. Amen

@quatran3401 Год назад

Each. truyen Viet Audial

@camiloalejandroquirozcaste9852 2 года назад

Excellent TedXTalk! I would dare to say that is the best I´ve watched!!

@laarawilliamsen Год назад

Yes! Wow~ You got it right all through the talk! Thank you so much for sharing! We need many more talks like this!

@thanhhueoan9455 Год назад

wow, I found his speech so interestingggg, rather than considering them as problems, just turn into situations and then you deal with

@tdannichols Год назад

Perspective is Everything.

@patrickk.lumumba8869 Год назад

Your talk is so engaging, I didn't notice you don't have your left arm till you mentioned.

@abhinavshrivastava5544 Год назад

This talk is really comes for me when I am totally depressed and lost my self, really get a great 22 minutes of great talk, thank you for your great talk.

@ChristianTheMontana Год назад

Find peace in your purpose, even if you can’t always see it. Don’t be afraid to dream but back those dreams with belief and action. Much love and peace to you

@Zenigma217 Год назад

@@ChristianTheMontana Only God The Exalted and Mighty can help us. No oneelse can. So supplicate to Him , The Exalted, not His creation, or messenger, Jesus, son of Mary , Gods Peace be upon both.

@sueharper581 Год назад

He keeps dancing till it rains. Love it

@deefee701 Год назад

This is the best 22 minutes and 6 seconds of my life. Thank you Mel Gill. I will follow you on social media from Australia.

@rehemankisi3413 Год назад

Great presenter great presentation. Thank you so kindly for sharing.

@warrenbradford2597 Год назад

"You are all going to die"- Mel Gill I have always known this harsh truth since early childhood, but it is true. The fact that we are going to die one day means we only time to solve problems now or our dreams will never come true. We need the solution-focused mindset, not the problem-focused mindset.

@diannesampson1929 Год назад

I enjoyed this!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

@AnaMaria-zd3sx Год назад

Thank you so much Mel, you're words are exactly what I needed 🙂🙂

@dingling2645 Год назад

So if you just take a inventory of where you are right now understand where you are what resources you have how much money you have what education level you have what connections you have and then think about where it is you want to go what is it you want to be don't think five years think two years just two years something that's within vision and then notice what it will take for you to get from here to there what is the path between here and there and if you don't know the path find someone who has taken that path find someone who has already done it and if you cannot meet them directly find it out in books you've got the internet you've got all of these resources and this is the step that no one takes. Love it.

@huntedbyflight 2 месяца назад

Hi Brian, thank you for this. My current journey is to improve my problem solving skills and communication. Thus, thus was very helpful.

@sundareswarans435 Год назад

Possibility thinking, Situation for solution, keep on trying are essence of this speech

@nabinchaudhary926 Год назад

Thank you for such a beautiful insight talk. You are phenomenal. The way you have described the solution for problems is unbelievable!

@khalid6569 Год назад

SHORT OF WORDS, Never been so touched in my life, dance until it rains. Listened twice & would love❤ to listen again and again.😂

@colombianaliel Год назад

Thank you so much for this sir it’s exactly what I needed to hear right now!

@williamwaugh8987 Год назад

This guy is on point!

@meszaroseszter155 Год назад

I had out of body experience to , very similar. It changed my life till I will be in this planet. Thank you your speech 💚

@Nola_D Год назад

out of body experience?

@meszaroseszter155 Год назад

I been in coma after accident, ( traumatic brain injury) In my experience I saw myself in the hospital cubicle , was very peaceful. Than when I came back from coma I could remember for this strange memory. Our life is so precious,I feel every minute is a gift.God bless you all ! 😊

@lulekrzulek Год назад

this is one of the best ted talks i ever watched. Thank you!!!

@queennefertarimerytmut4336 Год назад

Thank You MEL… Absolutely stunning 🤗

@akiadanny9091 Год назад

Keep dancing until it rains!!! What an inspiration

@dd1409 Год назад

Wow so Much simplicity and profound ideas

@Seli2770 Год назад

I enjoyed this so much.. Such a great delivery & so informative, I’m defs Implementing all of which you speak on, Thankyou ❤

@ganeshkumarsharma150 Год назад

Awesome !!!!!! Unlimited salutes to you Mr. Gill Really awesome. Inspiring to deal with situation not problems.. Greatful for your lovely presentation.💯

@shalinikumar4203 3 года назад

Thoroughly enjoyed the talk!! 👍💞

@feraidadeleon2914 Год назад

Had so much fun listening and learned so much from it. Brilliant speaker!😊

@leilaw8331 Год назад

The best TedTalk ever! So inspiring🙏🌸💕I am about to set up my business!💃🥂🎉🌸

@CuteBamboo2012 Год назад

Lord that was the shortest 22 minutes of my life!!! This talk was really great!!

@ramamadhav2198 Год назад

you have done a wonderful job 👏. thank you for sharing your passion with us. wow really amazed to see your collection. 🙏

@joseanguiano7938 9 месяцев назад

Dope, I learned that changing your mindset on how you look at problems can help change that stigma. The word "problem " gets such a bad rap that nobody knows how to get out of it. Take inventory of where you are? where you want to go? and how your gonna get there, finally take the first step and try it. Lastly FAIL there is no success if you don't try. Here we go.

@TakedownmanLive 6 лет назад

Mel is awesome!

@Scole23786 Год назад

He is a dynamic speaker. I watched it twice!

@georgecoelho4607 Год назад

This came along by accident. Yet I really needed it. I enjoyed the laughter not the slaughter of my current state of mind. I do love to learn and teach. Now I need to join some groups to try, try...

@monasixtyfive4962 Год назад

Loved this talk. Please keep it coming🙏

@Shempullen76gmail Год назад

right on I enjoy and love intelligent people sharing intelligence

@Joy-jb3dm 2 года назад

What a wonderful speech

@johnfillmed5909 3 года назад

Love this talk....

@sujanajacob1193 Год назад

You make us think in a new way n act accordingly , n that too in a hilarious manner Thank you Mel.....

@yajushmaanparashar5869 Год назад

This was one of the smartest talks I've heard. I will be coming to Varna just to meet you and the people of verna to discuss my Ideas in the next 2 years, if you are still alive.. Thank you sir, now i can always re-watch it and gain all the strength one needs.