Understanding The Way Men Think | Kingsley Okonkwo 

There's a king and a fool in every man. The one you talk to is the one that answers you 😮. Wow Casual sex will always have casualties. This hits me so hard 😅. Every sexual encounter doesn't always leave you the same. Men don't treat all women the same. Men learn from you how to treat you. You set the standards for a man, if he likes you, he will rise to it if not he will go and that is good for you. Most women have no idea how gifted and powerful they are. Don't limit yourself. People change when they want to. Ladies don't compromise your values. Make your money, na who get the bag fit set standards. A man should take care of you not because he has to but because he wants to. Women have the tendency to look for trouble where there is none. A woman compares herself to the best while men compares themselves to the worst, making a women to have the perfectionist mentality. Hunt the good stuff ladies. Praise your man for the little things that he does. Don't focus on what is not working but focus on the good he is doing. Scripture, science and statistics. Men are more sexual than women. A woman enjoy multiple sex with the same partner while men enjoy sex with multiple partner. A man can cheat for fun but women cheat for attention and emotional needs. It takes discipline and the God factor for a man to not cheat. I feel bad for my brother's wife and pray that she heals from this kind of pain 💔. The average man will respect you until you start disrespecting yourself. Ladies, we are helpers, we make the world go round. Don't let a man devalue you. Learn to build yourself outside of a man. Have a life before looking for a life partner.

Can I just say that I really like the way the presenter presents. Kudos to her. And great insights shared by PK as always. Thank you.

This is so good! I do however hope and pray that men are equally invested in understanding women as much as we women are at understanding them. I believe that a happy home starts with both parties seeking to understand each other and being selfless.

My wife sent this video to me and i almost didn’t watch because i felt it is so long... but thank God i did watch...this is mind blowing. Thank you Pastor PK. God replenish you more abundantly

Wow... "The average man respects you until you start disrespecting yourself" Great insight man of God. Thanks a lot for sharing, please.

I pray that my future wife is listening to pastor Kingsley

Let's clap this amazing man of GOD for his wise knowledge about relationships and marriage👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Thank you so much Pastor #KingsleyOkonkwo🙏🏾🙂

Wooow....what really resonated with me is the part where he said men compare themselves to the worst while women compare themselves to the best.

Pastor kingsley is so humble!!!! And this is so insightful !!?

My nephew is 4 years old, and whenever we ask him to apologize to his sister he would say " I can't" 😂 he would rather take discipline than apologize.

Space replenishes the man, while companionship replenishes the woman.

This one hits hard… knowledge is key. I stumbled upon this on IG reels and somehow it pricked me cos I’m seriously in a journey to healing but somehow God pointed me to becoming more like Him other than focusing on my husband. Thank you PK for this message. It’s so timely for me.

I think I should listen to Pastor Kingsley more oo. This book is highly recommended for every man out there. ❤

There are so many gems here, I've enjoyed this session immensely, and sometimes I would rewind to grasp these points. However, this is where I disagree with you Pastor Okonkwo, and not only you but Pastors who reason the way you do concerning infidelity in these modern times, what you fail to understand is that things changed a long time ago. The way baby boomers used to withstand the crap their husbands used to dish them concerning adultery is not the way Xenials, millennials and Gen Zs will withstand. Now there are more women who can cheat reciprocating what their husbands do without being emotional, they're intellectually, physically and financially VERY empowered. More and more women don't care about or for marriage because they've been hurt or have seen other women close to them being mistreated. These women in these generations I've mentioned are built very different. What you need to do is update your teachings, because when you tell these generations to pray for their husbands meanwhile the husband is busy enjoying different strokes, am afraid you're preaching to the crickets. That's why the word of God says the man is the high Priest, MEANING? He is the one to pray for his wife and family, but African preachers want to change what God has instructed man, and that's why the results never change -the man keeps on cheating no matter how many times the wife prays. God hates adultery, in fact loathes it, that's why idolatry is compared to adultery. So many instances the Israelites committed adultery and they suffered excruciatingly for their promiscuity. Why was Hosea commanded to marry a prostitute? God hates adultery, and because of this New age teaching that "men are sexual therefore can't stay with one woman" is NEW AGE WITCHCRAFT and it has destroyed Africa. Our men concentrate on being between women's legs more than concentrating on innovating, building families, creating new things, and changing the world progressively. They left that for the yt man and Asians. Stop it! I wish you would concentrate more on empowering men on becoming what God desires the to be, women don't need to be taught how to be in their position, they adopt naturally when they're with a man who understand and knows his position.

Omo it's the way he was continuously dropping bars for me!! I will watch this video up to 10 times and it will still be sweet!!

This is by far the best educational podcast of relationship I've watched!!!! 👏🏽 I am headed to Amazon proto to purchase this book!

How can I like this message more than once…this message is so powerful. I really learnt a lot…even if I thought I knew some of this things, but it just hits differently from another angle…Wow 🔥

My mind is BLOOOWWWWN!!!! WOW!!!! I'm getting as many books as possible on marriage now! Thank you so much Sir!!!!

OMG! Thank you so much for opening my eyes, I've been in different relationships looking for Mr right, not knowing I was Mrs Wrong myself. At least this video helped me understand how men works. Thank you so much.

His journey as a result of the BURDEN he had for relationships started in 2000, probably before that as he mentioned that late Pst Bimbo Odukoya was the ONLY ONE HAMMERING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS IN FOUNTAIN OF LIFE. Where you invest is where you harvest!

I am mind blown 🤯 I thank God that i am able to learn all these things very early in my 20s. I think everyone on earth needs to study human beings so we know how to manage our differences and arrive at a middle ground God help us o

When I start watching the video, I thought the duration was too long, but after few minutes into it, I wished it would last for 72 hours❤ this information is really going to help me in my marriage

A good reader digging a good thinker... A seamless flow! The set is real amd relaxing to watch and listen. Time well invested. Thanks. 👍

Men are moved by respect and admiration.

Wow😮 " men need before they love and women love before they need" I've always admire you from afar sir. The very first day I came across your video on RU-vid was when I was searching for a particular video on RU-vid, that day became my very journey with you till date. God bless you sir and Chapters, God bless and increase you too for bringing him to the show.. Manual🔥

Pastor K is so right😂, my man is always worried about how his needs will be attended to than he can be able to think of love, he wants things solved not before you speak of any other thing

POWERFUL 👏🙌

God bless you ! This was timely

Thank you very much Sir.

Wow, I didn't know men compare themselves to the worst. This is helpful information at my work place.

Thank you, sir

I have learnt a lot from the man of God since the time I started following his programs you're really changing lives and families am encouraging men and women to follow Pastor Kingsley and learn we don't want broken homes anymore

This is gold!

Thank you Sir

This is Amazing 😍!

Thanks a lot this was great ❤

Thank you so much sir 😊

I’m so blessed by this. Thank you so much🙏

I learnt the about the importance of training in marriage, it cannot be overemphasised

Remain blessed sir ❤

More strength Pst k ❤❤👌

Wow... God bless you sir

Pst PK you to much. Thank you for this great insight

This knowledge is a gem! Wow! I learned so much. Thank you sir.

Whaouuuuuu thank you 🔥🔥🔥🔥

God doesn't talk to men emotionally, he speaks to them logically 🤔🤔 this right here makea a lot of sense

Awesome

God bless you poster k

I like these message, hits differently 🔥

I love this, i really learnt a lot❤

powerful insights

Value added. Thanks

Powerful

Great content. God bless you both 🎉🙏🥰💯✈️

This is so insightful..

Youve been a great blessing to me Sir. I honor you

This blessed me and changed my way of thinking. God bless you sir

Wao. So wowed. Lovely teaching.

Wowwww to say I've learnt something is an understatement. So wonderful. I'm getting this book ASAP

Amazing. I really learnt alot from this chapters

God bless you, sir 🙏

This is so amazing

Powerful message 🙌 Thankyou sir

Thank you Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, more grace 🙏

Wow I love this..

Sooo much to unpack, wow 😮. God bless you, PK

Awesome message

Nice one man of God So much value

powerful....

Interesting, I loved every moment of it. More grace pastor Kingsley 🙏🏾

Thank you sir for sharing knowledge 🙏

Thank you sir ❤❤

Really want this book

My Pastor! Thank you so much Sir

Thank you, pastor Kingsley

Thanks sir

You are a knowledgeable man sir 🙌🏽

This is so good... I am surely getting this book

I connect

Nice one🥰

Honestly my daddy you are a blessing to us, am always in line with your teachings .... If only you knew how much you have save thousand of thousands from getting into a doom life experience .... Daddy you are a heavenly package to us same am mummy your beautiful diamond sweet darling wife .... Am proud of you and mummy .... Cheers 💃💃💃💃💃

I am glad I didn't scrolled to another video today when I saw this it really blessed my life I'm greatful.🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

Thank you so much for this session. It was amazing. I learnt a lot.

I really learnt a lot from this teaching , I have always love to read this book manual , i have to get one for myself .

Don't compromise,well said

Wow! This is straight GEMS 💎 very very insightful. These are the kinds of conversations we need to be having in the church.

Thank you! This level of wisdom is what I long for!

Am so blessed by this message (review). Thank you Pst.K and the Lady

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Amazing! God bless you!

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Thank you so much pastor 🎉more Grace

Great

Powerful.... VERY powerful teaching Pastor K. God bless you Sir for the wonderful works you do, and for allowing God use you to bless and save so many marriages. And for our beautiful tv host, you're amazing Ma'am. 💋💋💋

I learnt I am special

That teaching grace! Thank You sir and ma

Thank you sir for this. I’m learning. Had to watch some parts of the video over and over, God bless you sir

I will watch this video over and over again wow❤❤

God bless you Pastor K🙏🏽

Wow! I learnt alot after watching this video, I am gifted and powerful!