You see, something capoeira hás taught me in regards to reading/understanding people (or whatever you want to call it) is: some people are conscious of the effect they have on other people, and some people aren´t. Neither is better than the other, they both have their faults and differences - however for those who aren´t conscious it is important to try and GENUINELY understand/see their point of view/perspective BEFORE you tell them YOUR way of thinking or send out NEGATIVE energy about them (criticizing and the like) ... Why? Because men and women alike cannot be taught anything. We can only be assisted in finding it (what ever it may be) within ourselves. Thus pointing fingers/blaming/criticizing wont get you anywhere but an argument. Caleb Buckley, June 2012