Hello - I think it is easy for people who have a relatively normal and good life to comment on individuals who commit suicide. Some people are truly suffering and sometimes due to serious mental or physical/medical reasons that are causing them much torture, pain and despair and it seems unbearable to live under those circumstances. You can’t judge until walk in someone else’s shoes. And unfortunately not everyone has a spiritual experience like an NDE to give them that higher experience/perspective.
Absolutely, I find it disturbing and insensitive that such people are referred to as being selfish for wanting to end the suffering they are going through and sadly they don't or are not willing to try and understand it from their point of view.