UNMOTIVATED TO CLEAN YOUR HOUSE GET IT ALL DONE BEFORE CHRISTMAS MESSY TO MINIMAL MAMA MESSY HOARDER

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UNMOTIVATED TO CLEAN YOUR HOUSE! GET IT ALL DONE BEFORE CHRISTMAS! MESSY TO MINIMAL MAMA! MESSY HOARDER HOUSE DECLUTTER AND ORGANIZE!
Have you been UNMOTIVATED TO CLEAN YOUR HOUSE? Are you overwhelmed by the mess and the holiday but need to GET IT ALL DONE BEFORE CHRISTMAS? Then this video is for you! Today I bring you a Real Life Messy House Hoarder Declutter and Organize so I can clean my space to make room for the Christmas tree! I wanted to start this new mini series to bring you that Real Life Cleaning Motivation to help you simplify your home and mind and get it all done before Christmas! Now get ready to get it all done with me!
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@jenniferific 2 года назад

What you said about cleaning is actively fighting the anxiety and depression! That hit me hard. Thank you. I got up and folded a basket of laundry!

@myheartsdesire643 2 года назад

Me too..I got up and started cleaning my spare room....she is so right if we can get up and get at it we are beating that ugly face of depression and anxiety!!

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Woo! Hoo! You go Jennifer! That's how we win! Stay Mighty! 💪🤎🙏🦋

@lindycarol3365 2 года назад

Hanging with you. Im 70. I have lots of issues and have a.🦒 Mess. Pitiful mess. Thank you honey for tall your honesty. You are a blessing to many. Proud of you. Love and prayers. Merry🎶🐪 Christmas.💕🙏🏻🎄🎶

@terrabelle07 2 года назад

The whole living with anxiety/depression and buying to much stuff and letting things pile up…oh my gosh I feel your pain! This is so me! And it is a lot! I feel like I am watching myself on this video! We’ve got this, we are so much stronger than anyone could ever imagine!

@MightyMama 2 года назад

😭😭😭😭Terra you are my people!! It feel so good to know I am not alone! Thank you for being here! We are gonna work on this shit together for as long as it takes! I got your back too! Praying hard for you and all of us here that share this struggle. Love you so much! Stay Mighty! 💪🤎🙏🦋

@terrabelle07 2 года назад

@@MightyMama much love and prayers!!!

@rosepetalsrebornnursery88 2 года назад

This has become me also this last year I’m an empty nester , the adjustment has left me overbuying . I’m so glad I came across your video , Im not alone and working tru this . Power and motivation to all of us🙏🏻🤛🏻🤛🏻

@lindsay2721 2 года назад

Purge purge purge! I know easier said then done but less inventory is less things to manage! It took me awhile to learn this and Im still working on it daily but it really really does make a difference!

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Yes Mama! Thats the plan but honestly I couldn't make those decisions fully on this day. Way too huge of a clutter mess to even think clearly. I am going to declutter hardcore once Christmas is over! Thanks so much for being here!🙏💪🤎🦋

@papatyagulgurbetci7591 2 года назад

I’m from different country and watching so many American woman’s video ,so many said;I have depression or anxiety and everywhere is so many stuff ,all the problems I’m seeing you guys have so many stuff even you don’t need that kind of stuff still own and buy more so if the house has many many stuff how do you organized or cleaning all the time white kiddos!! ?I’m very minimalist women i have 3 boys I don’t have so many stuff so if I’m cleaning the every morning just 15 min my job done because o don’t buy so many stuff ,believed me no body needs many many stuff for living, just trying to be simple and your kid’s learn it to…I’m not trying to be mean I just give you advice!!American woman’s problem buying so many things! they said they donated stuff all I see they donated 1 box and buy tree more boxes !!Be simple, be organized and happy ,don’t waste your time this kind off stuff cleaning and try to organizing…Sorry my English is not perfect

@sherriechampion7979 2 года назад

Just breathe....how many times have I told myself that?! 🙄😁 You are honestly doing an amazing job, it's not easy but you never quit and that's what is important! 💕💕💕

@shaneswing1114 2 года назад

Just watched this. Got up, finished all laundry and put it away. Tidied the kitchen. Early this morning I climbed under my bed and decluttered, then decluttered my Summer clothes closet. Thanks for the motivation. I don't hoard at all and keep a clean, tidy house but I have to push myself. I have had diagnosed and treated Bipolar that I struggle with plus Diabetes. I will be 67 in a few days. I won't give in and give up. Friends and neighbors drop by all the time plus my hubs loves a neat, clean environment. Keep working on it. I understand feeling overwhelmed!!

@dhunters5 2 года назад

I avoided my basement family room for over a year because I couldn't handle the chaos and trash. My anxiety and depression were more than I could deal with. This fall, I finally took it back. There are still some corners to deal with, but I can use it again. I actually like being in there again. So after Christmas is put away, I'll be doing a more thorough clean and declutter. Hang in there. Sometimes you have to take baby steps. I'm cheering for you and for everyone else who is struggling right now.

@craftyone2000 2 года назад

I've watched an endless number of motivational cleaning videos and you know what? Yours are the only ones that have actually motivated me! Until I found your channel I didn't know it was ok to NOT have grey kitchen cabinets, grey marble counters, using only a *certain* brand of cleaning products like hundreds of videos show. Your voice is soothing and calm even when you are in the thick of it. I don't have kids, 3 fur baby cats make enough of a mess for me. I can totally relate to your style of clutter and hoard and shopping. Those could be my piles. First and only cleaning channel I'm Subscribing to!!!

@sheiladannelly6115 2 года назад

Thank you so much for putting your life out there. Those of us with anxiety and depression can totally understand. I don’t think you’re necessarily a hoarder. I think you’re like me, you’re great at starting things, but finishing just doesn’t happen for us. That’s why we feel almost guilty when we do finish something. It really works on our anxiety level. Negative self talk starts and we search ourselves for why we can’t always do that. I find 15 minute times bursts help me so much. Even if it’s just the left side of the room. Looking at it is so satisfying and motivating for that next 15 minutes. You’ll find the Fly Lady is very much that way. She mostly does blogs now, but her early videos are awesome.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Omg! Sheila! Yes! Yes! All of what you are saying is resonating in me. It actually brought me to tears. I really like your 15 min method. And I still havent had the chance to check out the fly lady but I am going to look as soon as I am finished reading through my comments. I appreciate you being here so much! The whole anxiety about finishing hit me hard. It gets so overhelming snd scary. Why!! Am i like this. I already started like 3 homw projects but couldnt complete due to multuple reasons but thinking of going back to them is scary for some reason. It has to be the perfecr environment or condition for me to get started back up. No matter what I already started a Mew Years planner and I will be completing my home projects and getting things finally transformed in this house. I have so many great ideas and skill to acomplish then but my mental issues always get in the way of myself. I can be my own worst enemy at times. I cant thank you enough for being here! You are in my orayers! 🙏🤎🦋💪

@cavellwhite558 2 года назад

Love, love, love your video. I came across it at the perfect time. I too was in the middle of decluttering a room that was used to “dump” stuff in until I was ready to use it! I have to confess that I had to stop three times and have a mini breakdown with tears and all. I love that I’m not alone. Thank you for your honesty. Merry Christmas and soldier on! 🇨🇦💕

@n3rdygrl 2 года назад

I just subscribed. 2 minutes in and I feel like we are soul sisters. Christmas is over and I still feel overwhelmed

@nunya257 2 года назад

I completely identified with this mess and the anxiety that comes with it. I’ve just been paralyzed with my house. It’s a wreck in every room. I’m getting rid of so much stuff so that will ultimately be such a relief. Now I just have to motivate to take pics and put it online to sell. It’s currently piled in my guest room. Ughhhhh.

@irish_pixiexxpam2811 2 года назад

Well done you, our hoarder rooms could be twins.. Exactly what's happening here.. No Christmas tree 🎄 up here, as my dad passed & I just can't do Christmas.. I'm sat watching you, motivation definitely needed & you're right depression & anxiety, wants to keep us down.. Lots of love from Ireland 🇮🇪

@marciapickens7444 2 года назад

Fabulous job!!! Thanks for the motivation!

@tallygirl2streasures717 2 года назад

My sons are in college. I was so overwhelmed to make Christmas so perfect for everyone else, that I wore myself out. Now I am so chill about it all. Although this year, I feel very out of it and we haven’t even put up a tree yet. My hubby decorated outside before Thanksgiving, but inside my house is a mess! Sorting stuff to purge and my reselling business...remodeling projects. So today is the 17th and still no tree inside...We have one on our front porch 😀 My son is getting his wisdom teeth out on Monday. So hoping to get up a little tree at least this weekend.

@qberryfamily2362 2 года назад

Wow same here.. I'm cleaning out with my mental problems to. Every task completed I'm feeling better. Just keep moving forward! HOARDING is just the other end of the spectrum of OCD.

@gigipaz5959 2 года назад

Great job pushing through your anxiety👏 I totally understand your thinking in temporarily packing away the items for upcoming projects. It will be much easier to locate when you need it! I'm so looking forward to see the series that you have for us💖

@danazzimmerman5534 2 года назад

Such a great video mighty mama!!! I have been exactly where you were more times than I care to remember. Just totally overwhelmed and peaked anxiety!! You have really helped my come a long way. Thank you so so much❤️ you are the real deal girl! I could be more appreciative ! I hope you have a great weekend and everything is good your way ❤️

@hannas6407 2 года назад

What a great job you did with that room! I hope you'll have a lovely, stress free Christmas time with your family.❤️

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you friend! Wishing you a stress free Merry Christmas too! 🤎🙏💪🦋

@801LOVER 2 года назад

Also fell behind this year. Collected decorations since August and still haven’t put anything up 🤦🏻‍♀️. Thank you for helping motivate!

@pamelar3257 2 года назад

I would love a whole house tour as the house is now to see how far you get in say a years time. You just did your other living room, which looked awesome! Merry Christmas mighty mama

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hi Pamela! Yes that is coming up after I do my makeovers. House tour is on the agenda! Thanks so much for being here! Merry Christmas to you and yours! Peace on Earth!🤎🙏💪🦋

@sherrymccray3785 2 года назад

Loving the kids in the background noise because that is your life!!!

@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539 2 года назад

Great job, I am proud of you..

@ba3140 2 года назад

You could organize the bags of things that are waiting for the makeovers in the bins that you have in the meantime.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Yes. Thats what I am doing but storing in closet temporarily. 🤎

@AllBrightColors 2 года назад

You know what? LOSS seems to be a big trigger for hoarding / clutter to begin. I know someone whose issue started after a loss of her last parent. It’s been 15 years and it ONLY has gotten worse. It gives me very strong ANXIETY to go to the house. Especially when she keeps trying to send me home with more STUFF that she didn’t need to buy in the first place and that I don’t have room for.

@laurac.9322 2 года назад

You aren't alone in this. I often wonder why it gets so piled up in my house what caused it ugg. The struggle is real.once i am able to organize and declutter my mind it actually shows up outwardly with cleaning decluttering and organizing. But after i do that there is so much mental band width and i can get more done in a day. Oh and kids r fine it the raw and real. It's just part of being a mom.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Love you!🥰

@TheCaiira 2 года назад

You are not alone! We all struggle ro keep the house clean. You are doing great!

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you! 😭🥰💪🤎🙏🦋 You are the sweetest friend!

@toniconder696 2 года назад

You did a awesome job! You also have alot if beautiful new things for future decorating

@estersouza1978 2 года назад

Hatefull comments? C'on. You are marvelous! Keep going this way! We love and suport you. From Ester Souza, Brazil.

@johannathorisdottir2456 2 года назад

i´m a minimalist and it feels sooo goood!!! You go girl

@rosepetal970 2 года назад

Been fighting with the same my depression was really bad this week going through med changes and my anxiety has been up also I work nights that helps some what but I also have a phobia can’t remember the name of it now sorry 😞 I don’t go no where at all but work and home and that in itself is hard specially with Christmas here cause it’s so busy thank you for sharing this it means a lot ❤️😊 keep up the good work 👍👍

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hi Laura. I have just come to realization that I live with depression. Some days it's on vacation and others it consumes me. I just try to remain focused on that small spec of light until it goes back on vacation. I know it will pass. It always does. I believe your phobia is Agoraphobia. I have a mild case of this. Myne is mostly related ro driving because my firstbpanic attacks were while I was driving and so I have been traumatized since. I now am unable to drive alone. And I dont like going out alone either. I was the total opposite many years ago before I had kids. I feel lkie kids really change our chakras and energies making us experience vulnerability on a whole new level. With experience living with anxiety and depression does get more routine and I know what to expect or can recognize whats happening now opposed to having panic attacks. But sometimes they just come on so fast I just have to work through them and pray it away. Well Im always here for ya! I will be back Sunday with another video. Hoping to make lots more progress over the weekend! We gonna get it done!! Keep going!💪🙏🤎🦋

@rosepetal970 2 года назад

@@MightyMama thank you so much for your reply it means a lot. You always seem to do a great job on whatever your cleaning have a great weekend and I will be watching for it 😊😊

@tammymcmullen8238 2 года назад

You got this mama!!! I have faith in you!! Once you get your home to the point where YOU are comfortable, you will be able to have less anxiety and depression...imo

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thanks Tammy! Im trying!! I appreciate you so much! 🤎

@jessicaleigh9709 2 года назад

Love these videos 💕 Where did you get the blanket with the saying on it you held up?

@charlenebrissette3348 2 года назад

You must take a tea or coffee break when you get overwhelmed or just walk away from what is overwhelming you. You are doing a great job hun.

@aliciap477 2 года назад

Hi there! Love that green paint on your walls…what is the name/brand of it? 🙂

@carolhensley3857 2 года назад

put all of the new stuff in a room together. Clean your house totally. Then bring in 1 new thing at a time and put it where it goes before starting on anything else new. .. just an idea. No judgement at all.

@Hallie_G 2 года назад

Fly Lady, Diane in Denmark. She has a RU-vid, Instagram and wrote the Fly Lady book. I appreciate your honesty as I can relate to the anxiety and depression causing blocks to being able to clean and sort through things. I always feel better after I do it. It's actually starting that is difficult.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Tysm! 🤎 You are so encouraging and kind. I appreciate you being here more than you will ever know. I need all of you here!🤎🙏🦋💪😘🥰

@Alwaysherethere 2 года назад

After you clean , how long does it take before your place becomes a wreak ? Idk if this would help you, but I'd get a box and make a game out of throwing the toys in there. And the days they did a good job they would get a sticker on a piece of paper with their name on it. Make it like a job where they can get a quarter to save to buy a little something. This way they can learn responsibility to manage their money. Idk, its just a thought.

@lindagreenacre630 2 года назад

Wow you did it!! It looks lovely again ! Well done... that was a huge amount to manage.... lol do you wanna come and do mine now. ;)

@ericamershon314 2 года назад

And I have not put my tree up yet and not sure if I will.

@JulieMoren 2 года назад

Keep strong girl😍

@MightyMama 2 года назад

💪🙏🤎🦋

@flamflam6652 2 года назад

This doesn't look too bad, it looks like a ✨challenge✨

@cherylhoward9441 2 года назад

Great job sweet friend!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

@BrittanysBeautifulChaos 2 года назад

Hey hey!!!! Thank you for this motivation 🙌

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hey! Hey! Beauty! Love you!🤎 thanks for being a true friend! Im always in your corner babe!🤎💪🙏🦋

@BrittanysBeautifulChaos 2 года назад

@@MightyMama always 🥰🥰🥰

@MushroomMoonbeam 2 года назад

I love your yellow Vans! 😍

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you! 🤎💪🙏🦋🥰

@paulineapietila377 2 года назад

DO NOT feel guilty. Smile 😁 MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎄☃️

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you! I got this! It will get fone before Christmas and I am trying to smile the whole way through! God bless! 🤎💪🙏🦋

@Satya.447 2 года назад

Take your donations is to put them in your car! Just a suggestion. Hugs to you.

@reginaeudy9249 2 года назад

Dana K White on RU-vid has a no mess declutter system and she's great. I follow the FlyLady cleaning system and she wants you to start decluttering but she doesn't tell you how to declutter other than to do it by zone. Good luck on your decluttering journey.

@reginaeudy9249 2 года назад

I was where you are (having to store my clutter until I could get to it). Check out A Better Life with FlyLady Kat. She helped me figure out the FlyLady system and finally get my house in order. She also has mentoring sessions that you can sign up for. I did that and forever will be grateful. Maybe you can check it out in 2022. Great video!

@devine58569 2 года назад

Hello loving the video my question is why do you put it in storage bins why not just get rid of it you still have it all so your not minimizing your just putting the same stuff in a bin and putting it elsewhere in your home or have a yard sell and make some money back that can go towards your household

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hello and thank you so much for being here! If you listened to the whole video you would have heard me say how I needed to store this clutter temporarily until I do my home makeovers after the holiday. Those are new items that will be used in other areas of my home later. That is when I will be able to do a full on declutter of everything. This minimalism journey is a long process and I said it would be from the start. There is still every day life with 3 kids and a husband and a dog and the daily chores and life events that take place. I am all about real life minimalism for moms and beginners. I wish I could move quick enough for you. I really do! Believe me I want the clutter out but my main goal rn is to clear spaces to get it all done before Christmas. And if you watched through to the end. I did let go of some items and a huge box of stuff I put into my van earlier on in the video. Thanks for being here! Stay Mighty & God bless!💪🤎🙏🦋

@adriannahuezo6112 2 года назад

Love your videos. Helps me get up.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

💪💪💪You got this Adrianna! It aint easy but it's doable! We need to just do it! Got your back girl! New video Friday!!🤎💪🙏

@adriannahuezo6112 2 года назад

@@MightyMama blessings

@lorenevelynnascimentodacos1909 2 года назад

🌹😍

@LifeAdventureswithMichelle 2 года назад

Where do you get your music?

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Mostly epidemic but I donalso get some songs from my editing software. I use wondershare filmora. Thanks for being here!🤎💪🙏🦋

@heikejanka302 2 года назад

You don't have to justify why your house looks like this. I mean, it takes a lot of courage to show publicly what anxiety and depressions can do to a person. I am in exactly the same situation and wouldn't do it. I really admire you for doing these videos and I am grateful for the motivation they give.

@tinak6281 2 года назад

I couldn't have said it better. I'm in the same situation as well, without kids. Just too much clutter everywhere 😔

@joannebailey7463 2 года назад

I am sitting here watching and listening to your video. Your comment about "cleaning is actively fighting anxiety and depression" is bang on! I have 2 rooms that need to be completely gone through! My kitchen and my spare room! I have over the last 5 years or so been really feeling the loss of my parents and my husband! I think I have only had my tree up once in the same amount of time since I live on my own. Another hotspot is my dining room floor - boxes to be knocked down for recycling and a couple bags of garbage ugh!! I go to my daughter's home on Christmas day for gift exchange and dinner so I don't feel a need to put the tree up🎄🎄 PS Flylady (Marla Cilley) is a great person to follow once you have decluttered!

@ShortyyThicc87 2 года назад

This looks like my house ( mine may be a little worse) but thank you for the motivation! It's been a rough week and I most definitely need to get up and fight! I have so much to do and time is winding down and I have been letting my anxiety and depression get the best of me. Not to mention my kids are counting on me to make Christmas great 😢 so iktr to you in so many ways down to the shopping problem nbs! Thanks again for giving us the real you 🥰 take care💜

@MightyMama 2 года назад

We got this Mama! You got this! Get moving and dont stop until its done!😂 Stay Mighty!💪🙏🤎🦋

@amberlovejoy23 2 года назад

I just discovered your channel a few days ago. WOW. Even though I "knew" there are others out there like me...I can't believe how similar our situations are! Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. I personally think the realness of your videos is super brave AND inspiring. Shame to those who leave any hateful comments. Please keep up the good work, TALK AS MUCH AS YOU LIKE in your videos and know there are others out there that totally get what you are going through. YOU ROCK! ~Amber

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Amber! Thank you so much for being here! Your comment just made my night! You are the light in all the darkness that comes through here! I appreciate your kind and supportive heart. I hope that you will love all I bring your way! I promise it's going to get good and much more satisfying. Life just has a way of slowing down the progress we want to make. We must stay mighty & push through all the resistance and we will prevail! We will live in that clean and organized home that we so desire. Everything good takes time. So happy to have you here with me! Praying for you Amber! 🙏🤎💪🦋

@TheNaturalBirthShow 2 года назад

You are not alone in feeling overwhelmed! There is a lot expected of moms this time of year, but you got this!

@lcantu7865 2 года назад

It just hit me, yah we do have alot to deal with evey holiday bday & event . It amazed me how much we take on just alone with that. No wonder why we snap at times 🤦

@TheNaturalBirthShow 2 года назад

@@lcantu7865 I always want to be the mom who never snaps or yells, but it is SO hard when there is SO much going on. We have to give ourselves (and our kids) a break!

@Ergmermerg 2 года назад

I think a common mistake people make is organizing and picking new storage before fully decluttering. It tends to just make more work for yourself/spend unnecessary money.

@ToRpidGOD 2 года назад

You're so good at organizing and making everything pretty and aesthetically pleasing. I love your videos, my house is so cluttered, it's ridiculous.

@christavancour2875 2 года назад

You asked about decluttering without making a mess - check out Dana K. White's videos - she has changed my life! Love your videos and nice to see you flip the camera around on yourself!

@Niliana0912 2 года назад

Yes exactly. Dana K. White! Helped me so much with decluttering without making a mess. Flylady system is more about cleaning (I especially like Secret Slob‘s videos).

@kandyhughey4130 2 года назад

I deal with depression on a daily basis! I use to be a clean freak now I'm beat down and overwhelmed with clutter. I also shop to feel better and buy stuff that I don't need and truly don't need to be wasting that money. Also I'm very much older now and don't get around like I use to. So girl I feel your issues. This is something I've got to deal with after Christmas. It has started to effect my husband! So God bless you and may the force be with you!!!

@beckyphipps4825 2 года назад

Thank you!! I’m so glad to know I’m not the only one! I totally get the overwhelm in the midst 😫. But your results are beautiful and were hard earned Mama! I’m inspired! So it’s off to my kitchen which I’ve neglected over the last few days. Some clean dishes to put away, some dirty dishes to load and wash and a long peninsula that’s become loaded with stuff! Oh! And laundry 🧺! Gotta get caught up on laundry. Then I can decorate for Christmas too🎄! YEP! I haven’t either. Love to all!

@laurenbrighouse148 2 года назад

Laura you are amazing 🤩 . I love your videos they are so motivating , inspiring and reassuring. You are a truly mighty mama xx

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Lauren! Stop! 😭😭😭 Your the best! I love you! You help me soo much and your kind words fill my heart! I needed this! Stay Mighty my friend!💪🤎🙏🦋

@emmacastro1 2 года назад

I really enjoy seeing you talk directly to us. I like the voice-over, but this was really nice too.

@mtnewt1 2 года назад

This video came right on time! My house is a hot mess and not a lick of Christmas is up 😩. I'm determined to get it crackin TODAY! It's a week away! Fix it Jesus!!! Lol smh

@RJMahek 2 года назад

#spreadpositivity more power to you gal 👍 Your house is beautiful ✌

@labbrockington7854 2 года назад

Fighting depression is a pain if you could get me out of bed and out of my room I would get motivated to get the kitchen and dining room done but if I don't leave my room nothing will get done. 1st time watching you. My house fell apart when I was no longer physically or mentally able nor did I care about it. Mary Christmas 🎄 God bless you and your family. 🌲👑

@robyn-mareepenny2926 2 года назад

I love your content and totally understand the steps you are going through. It's the same way I think which makes watching your channel extra helpful for me so I feel totally blessed. I'm watching a lot of Dana K White's take it there now concept and it's helped me clear a room I felt I could never make a dent in. Fly Lady I have looked at and gotten a little picky with as it leaves me feeling a little too critical of myself. I really saw the stress melt away when you made the decision to separate and store and it was beautiful to see. You aren't putting off the declutter, you just can't make over 4 spaces and get Christmas set up at the same time! That is reality. Good on you for doing what's best for you and celebrate that you are now organised for each make over for when you're ready for it. P.s. I love Marina too 🤗

@jackieclingman9707 2 года назад

My decluttering/minimalism journey started in a single drawer in my kitchen. I’m not where I want to be yet, but I have touched all areas in my house at least once. I’ve found that if I control what’s coming into my house that I don’t make new messes that I have to clean up. THAT has been the hardest thing: Telling myself, “You do not need that. It’s just more inventory to manage.”

@TravelingSistas 2 года назад

I feel exactly as you described. I feel like I’ve let everyone down & my neighbors cannot even come in my house! I need this! Thank you!

@ccelms6581 2 года назад

Just want to say how much I appreciate you!!! Because you keep it real, you’re channel is now one of my favorites and I’ll be looking for more of your videos. If there was any hateful comments (thank God I did not see any) ignore them or tell them to shut up, seriously. Don’t give any power to stupid people, they are often pathetic people with no life. I appreciate your channel sooooooo much! The fact that you keep it real is SO important. You are SO NOT alone, mama. People who don’t even have depression and anxiety can get overwhelmed by housework. It’s a LOT of work! So the fact that you have anxiety and depression and that you get this done, OMG! Please don’t be embarrassed, you’ve got this and you’re AMAZING! I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you! For the anxiety, can you put on some music you like while cleaning? I do this and it’s soooo helpful! It helps me ignore what “has to be done” and focus on what I can get done NOW, you know? By an inch it’s a cinch, but by the yard it’s hard. Use your phone or tablet to play some of your favorite jams.❤️

@SendingLove-cm4kj 2 года назад

I am so proud of you! You cleaned the mess and motivated other people. I heared a simple Sentence to keep it clean: don't put it down, put it away. It helps me so much to do Things right away. Maybe it helps you too!

@joycefernandezbaham8380 2 года назад

Hang in there. You’re doing a great job fighting through the clutter. I’ve dealt with depression and anxiety and I know how hard it is

@viviansousa4194 2 года назад

Good evening mighty mama. I moved into my house with my boyfriend in 2020, far from everything and everyone, pregnant and very anxious. It has been so so tough. My place, instead, is very empty but doing life all on our own with a 18 month old baby with sensory and other difficult issues, keeping what little we have all clean and neat and baby safe and happy all at once is heavy. I have an AI disease which causes every movement to be painful. But when life doesn't give you lemons... you live without them! Pushing through until the clock stops. I do it for my daughter and because I'm a neat freak. It does come with a lot of sadness and anger. A lot of pain. I appreciate your content and effort and I will kindly add a sugestion: cut down on the projects, on the planning and envisioning. Have only one on paper, in your mind, your life, your sight, at a time. Buy only for that one. Upon finishing buy for the (only) next one. Anxiety and the home will thank you for it. The amount of wants we have and think about/focus on put more stress on the platter. Take care. I will see your next video. 💪❤️

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hello Vivian! You will never know just how much I appreciate this and the time you took to share your words of wisdom. I hear you loud and clear! Thank you so much! I needed this! Sending so much love, hugs and prayer your way! Stay Mighty Mama! You are a besutiful soul! Praying for your baby girl! I am always here when you feel you need a friend! 🙏💪🤎🦋🥰✝️

@elainespratt5521 2 года назад

Mighty mama, please don’t feel you have to explain for the stuff you have laying around. Many of us have areas in our homes just like yours. I have spent this last week trying to motivate myself to get on my housework x

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Elaine my name is Laura. And I appreciate this so much! You make me feel normal. 🤣🙏🤎🦋💪 God bless you!🙏

@livingwithleelee 2 года назад

This video came at the perfect time. I need this motivation im so overwhelmed with my mess lol

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Guuuurrrrrrl!! We got this! Im gonna do this thang and you are too! New video Friday! Get your tree up! Thats a win!! Thank you for being here! I appreciate you so much!🥰🤎🦋💪🙏 Stay tuned and Stay Mighty! God bless!

@livingwithleelee 2 года назад

@@MightyMama luckily I did get my tree up not too long ago. And shortly after this video I got a few more things done that I needed to get done now I am about to tackle cleaning my kitchen and my bathroom. We got this 💪

@missMediaChick 2 года назад

I create enough clutter and mess as one person. I can't imagine dealing with what 3 kids produce, lol! You're a trooper!

@kathybridges3343 2 года назад

When you grow with nothing a piece of paper seems like everything. I’m with you.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Yes! I am struggling and I am fighting all in the same time! Send me prayers to have the strength to unload when the tines comes. Even my kids school work is the hardest to part with!😭🤎

@audreyhertz301 2 года назад

Laura, our mighty mama inspiration, don't give up! Remember self-care fir yourself during this process. Drink tea, coffee, hot cocoa, whichever suits you when you are overwhelmed. Heck take a shower if that's what works for you. Just remember that those of us who struggle along with you understand. Let the haters hate and try to ignore them the best you can. Tell the trolls to go back under their bridges! We love you and we got your back!!! We all can do this. Tomorrow I continue with my kitchen refresh.

@judyfoot7182 2 года назад

I understand that your winter depression is linked to a significant and tragic event, but I do find that though my depression is linked to a much lesser event, a full spectrum light does help. Also, Dana K. White has a no mess decluttering system that has only two questions and is really easy. Thank you for sharing and I wish you all the best.

@tonilund9871 2 года назад

Have you ever done a challenge like buy zero items for a week or even a couple weeks? Some times it’s really refreshing to not purchase things.

@Sarah-dm9he 2 года назад

I have a room exactly like this. I didn't know where to start. Now you have inspired me to try. I know I can do it! Thank you!

@littlemouse9900 2 года назад

Thank you for showing the really mess. It makes me feel not alone in my journey. 🥰 just found your channel and can't wait to do our journeys together. 🥰

@laurac.9322 2 года назад

It helped me to let go of some of the stuff as im learning about and implimenting some of the principals of minimalism which is different for everyone...i dont have to get rid of everything and i dont have to hold on to everything either. I just have to make it manageable for me and maintain my system that works for me.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Yes! Thats my way of minimalism too. I am going hard with that starting the new year. Just need to get through this holiday season before I really get into all of that hard work. Tysm! 😘

@donnareynolds1541 2 года назад

You hang in there. You're doing great and you're in my prayers. Struggling with depression is so hard I know first hand.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

😭🙏💪🤎🦋 I cant express how grateful I am for you. Your kind words have helped me more than you know. Love you!

@AthenaUrei 2 года назад

Thanks for the motivation Laura! I’m pregnant with baby # 3 and need to get our house and the junk room which is baby’s nursery in order! It felt good seeing your space all decluttered so that just lights a fire under my ass to get up and get the things done lol

@tammymcmullen8238 2 года назад

I'm not judging you nor should anyone else. You are making progress in the right direction. Keep your head up and I hope I can help motivate you :) We need to build each other up not bring each other down. When you start feeling anxious, try stepping back or walk outside and take a deep breath....or 10. Then take another go at it and focus on where you want to be ( messy to minimal). You did a great thing by setting a goal of getting it done by Christmas. BUT if you don't...that's ok. You made LOTS of progress regardless. Be happy with the progress and remember that Rome wasn't built in a day. After you achieve your goal, you should think about how you can avoid getting overwhelmed again. Whatever you feel comfortable with. You have kids and should feel proud of them being kids. They are healthy and normal. I am here for you. Hugs

@sarahreinhardt1414 2 года назад

Just know, you are not alone! Overwhelm and anxiety can be so heavy to bear. The simple fact that you made this huge effort to fix the mess speaks volumes for you! You've got this!💪God Bless!

@kaleikam 2 года назад

I am feeling it too.. just moved into my moms' house and I still haven't unpacked and i am feeling so overwhelmed with a baby and family pressure.. and lets throw into everything the HOLIDAYS!

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Kalei you described me 13 years ago when I moved i to this house. The worst part is I am still unpacking and moving in. Especially being a first time Mama with Post Partum Depression and a new home owner. I was a hot mess and I still am! Lol! Still trying to play catch up but I am determined to get my stuff together and live that organizes life and be a fun carefree Mama with my kids. Im so done being stressed out all of the time and that is why I started a minimalism journey here too. It killed me having to pack away that clutter but its only temorary and I will attack it all in this new year! Like wow! A new year already! 😭😭😭 Anyway, I am sending you lots of hugs and prayers to get that clarity and energy to tackle your stuff too and get it done for Christmas! One thing at a time. Start unpacking one box at a time. Set a goal for X amount of boxes a day or bags. And just do thag during s set block tims. I am actually now doing time blocks and I am going to share this in my upcoming video! New video friday! You got this Mama! Stay Mighty ,& God bless! I am always here for you!🤎🙏💪🦋🥰

@maggytrafford1366 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing this vidio, all of your content is brilliant, I suffer anxiety and depression as well so I know exactly what you are saying. Thankyou Mama for keeping it so real. You have one of the best channels on RU-vid 🇦🇺🇦🇺🦘❤️🥰

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you! I appreciate you so much! 🤎🙏💪🦋

@rachelbee7921 2 года назад

Hope you're having a wonderful day, mama!!! I'm finally putting my Christmas tree up today -- my kids had been sick since November 13th and my 3 year old was hospitalized for several days last week. So, I've been exhausted and making excuses for not putting it up. But it just doesn't feel like Christmas, without it. Love from my family to yours! ❤ The Bowers Family

@dreamweaver3761 2 года назад

I don't mind the real life noise in your house at all!!! I really like these types of videos. Thank you for the inspiration, I sure need it. My whole house looks like crap :(

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you so much for you kindness and acceptance. My kids are very wild and the dog is always following me around shaking and scratching. Lol! The Loud House! 😂 But thank you! It feels so good to just be accepted for me. I am working hard to improve my home and my homemaking habits. I hope that my videos will help you too if you need it. Stay Mighty & God bless Dream Weaver! 🤎💪🙏🦋

@laurac.9322 2 года назад

You are very helpful and inspiring. For me running a.house and kids is like runing a business theres just things that ya gotta do to keep it up and running well.

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Hi Laura! This is such good point! I had this mentality before covid and somehow I let that slip! Thank you for the reminder and the wake up call! Tomorrow is a whole new mindset for me now. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers! Thank you so much!🤎💪🙏🦋🥰

@jeniferhendrix3940 2 года назад

Another video that was truly needed for so many. You have truly begun a journey of helping people tremendously! I know you help me during every video, and I want to thank you for that. God definitely is working through you Girl!

@jazzie-sanbelle99 2 года назад

i finally got back into cleaning out many spaces after watching some of your videos,thanks for being transparent and real depression and anixtey not feeling all alone given a much needed boost thx so much

@TheAssez 2 года назад

🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

@teresakannenberg1202 2 года назад

The room looks great! I don't suffer from anxiety or depression but I still enjoy your videos. Merry Christmas to you and yours!

@rachaelbrown6348 2 года назад

I'm so glad I came across your videos. I have anxiety and seasonal depression too and Probably a little OCD and perfectionist and cleaning is my therapy too but as a working mom I get overwhelmed by the constant messes that come with children and real life!! Thanks for keeping it real and cleaning along with you is such a motivator.

@nataliesutherland1018 2 года назад

Your doing great and when you said laying around or sitting around isn't helping depression because it's not you will get there i believe in you

@MightyMama 2 года назад

Thank you! 🤎 love you!💪🙏

@AquaBloomStudio 2 года назад

Thank you for the cleanup video. I watch cleaning video when I’m cleaning so I stay focus. Clutter of the house is very common and I feel every point you say in this video. Buying is a problem of mine as well so new year, I am trying a no buy year. Just essential.