I feel like being married is 1. A God thing, 2. a calling, not everyone is called to it, 3. An image of the Jesus and the bride. However a lot of us are trying to do it without the creator of marriage and without the being it represents. The moment we look at what the original idea of what marriage is, first we wouldn’t be entertaining of things, being using marriage loosely and you would actually know it’s hard, yet a beautiful thing, a sanctifying, holy process and the most sacred and intimate thing God has ever created. And to reach the level of intimacy that we all crave it needs to honour the one who created it❤
This is marriage through the Christian lenses, beautiful, and yet I don't think marriage is a calling. It can never be a calling but a commitment. The apostle Paul's words on marriage give a vague idea of what it is.
As a 28year old (1 year married) woman l would fully agree with you guys never do wife role whilst you still a girlfriend, what worked for me more was keeping my virginity till marriage,that made me realise who was in my life to stay and it created a lot of respect for me,ukuzogcina guys is everything ❤set boundaries for yourself don’t just be a loose somebody
This podcast is the best production out of Rampedi media ❤for the girliess.....the hosts are top notch and very wise and mature!!!! Cherry on top is they are Spiritual!!!!!!c'mon mahn 🔥
I had a boyfriend who wanted to have kids first then marry me after, hearing that it’s being marriage baited, makes me sad. Men really do what you guys have mentioned. I’m glad that I got out of the relationship because of the principles I live by, no man that loves me would bait me♥️really love y’all sooo much and continue spreading the word of God and his wisdom through your topics
It’s true ! No man that loves you would bait you . I’m glad that you made the decision that aligned with your principles ! Thank you for watching ! We’re happy to have you🫶🏽
Long topic for today is 🔥 I've been there for 4years, guy introduced m to his family in a matter of 2months. Asked m to pray for us daily. Soulties almost killed m Koz I became so connected to em that I could feel when he's being unfaithful, sexual activite. I was literally on that relationship alone Nd fighting battles. I was in my first year in university. 5years later still not finished WD my studies Nd lost bursary...I went back to Christ let em go Nd gathering Lil pieces again. God is good all the time
I truly believe its important to wait for the right time to get married. Don't jump into marriage because of a time frame. If you are not ready - don't do it. I promise you. It will save you from unnecessarily.
I really appreciate your conversations ladies. You ladies are stars, I love you you are bringing God and the Gospel to us using this platform . Keep shinning ❤
I am learning a lot from you guys even my vocalbary is improving. Yhoo! Talking about marriage baiting, I was once married baited and I knew that It was a red flag and he was too good to be true. He told me that he is looking for something that is serious because he wants to get married. His actions said otherwise and so, I removed myself from that equation from the get go. I haven't seen a doctor since I was born, I just hate anything that has to do with hospital. Now that you have mentioned it, I feel like I need to do better. Thank you so much for this incredible podcast. I so wish you could post twice a week. ❤❤
33:14 Rewatching this episode, particularly at the part where they talk about marriage baiting because I just realized I was love bombed and a victim of marriage baiting. I literally couldn't understand why I'm still sad about a month-long talking stage that didn't work until I remembered uba the guy had painted a picture too perfect for me to want to get rid of. Guy had me thinking I lost out on a really good guy and he is the prize. I'm still trying to get back to knowing my worth. This is actually really recent you guys, I feel like crying and cussing everytime I think about him. I'm just venting y'all, don't even know if this makes sense. Please pray for me😭. Men are ruthless!
Even though staying in a relationship for longer than 5-6 years without marriage is a major red flag, let's not forget that there are exceptions to it. For example high school sweethearts😭sana I can't expect that man to marry me while we're both students. Like kanjani
I'm so glad yall highlighted the poor state our medical facilities are in...I got turned away from both S.H.Joseph hospital and UJ clinic to get something as basic as my first HIV test.(M23)
That’s ridiculous ! Health care should be accessible to EVERYONE. It’s a basic need. No matter who you are. No one should be refused medical care. I’m so sorry that happened to you
Is it me or was the main topic a bit shorter? Arg I just love you guys. I have no long detailed message this time, I've just got mega love for you guys. Also made sure not to skip any ads 😊
I genuinely have enjoyed your conversations🥰🥰❤ I do think they will help a lot of young people to have a better perspective and go against the norms that we continue to see in society. Bringing a lot more purpose and intention to more people, in a society that lacks purpose and intention. You guys are doing great!! Well done❤
I honestly subscribed to this channel for you guys'❤so much wisdom from you ladies..I really hope and pray that God blesses and enlarges you guy's territory..this is definitely what a girl needs every week. Keep up the good work🙏
I'm taking this as a sign to go to the gynae😭I've been postponing it for so long. And recently my body has been telling me that I need to go😭but I'm so scared. First thing I'm doing tomorrow morning, is to make an appointment at Marie stopes
I stopped going to the gynae because…..pregnant women are prioritized! Ka nako yeo I have been diagnosed with PCOS. I was just tired so gynae will skip me please!!!!!
Stephanie ike said this (paraphrasing) "everything or every role we play we are there to serve, so for example marriage, the both of us are there to serve each other more than to get something from it, so if you do anything marriage included and you are there for that thing to fulfill you YOU MISSED THE POINT
i def. feel like mammi is misunderstood, saying this because i was one of the people that didnt like her because of seeing her on other people's videos, but i think now that im seeing her personal POV and getting to know her, i LOVEEEEE her🥹
We gave a disclaimer in ep1, that most of what we say is based of our own experiences up until this point in our lives, if our views and opinions change we will let our audience know. And because of the fact that what we say is experienced based, our opinions will mostly be feminine and cater to women. If you or anyone else thinks differently you are more than welcome to interact in the comment section and tell us your views ❤️
@MammiDearest I hear hence am saying understand every other part of it but reason I commented only on this episode is simply because you guys spoke on marriage...and you have no experience there...or rather I don't think any of you has over 3 to 5 years in a relationship???...I might be wrong
Every man must have two wives the first wife is his land, the second wife is the one who bares his children. If he doesn't takecare of the first wife he'll abuse the second wife. -Joshua Mapongo
