Unrelenting Standards Schema 

Thank you so much for this series

I seem to have all the modes. Overwhelming.

Thanks, Ruth & Rita. This was very elucidating and straight to the point! 🧠🤝👏🏻

I was in a relationship with a guy who was having unrelenting standards /hypercriticalness. He had more Schemata active, but when he looked at his results, he said "I want to keep those, they are not a problem". I suffered a lot from this, because he was never satisfied with anything, last week my therapist said that he was a narcissist. He was putting pressure on others and felt angry if the other person was not meeting his unreasonable expectations. She said, many narcissist have the schema (she's a schema therapist by the way). I am healing now with the help of my therapist from all the pressure and unreasonable expectations and rage he put me through. Just three years were enough to crush my self- worth.

So interesting, thank you for your clarity.

Thank you very much!!!!

Phenomenal, thank you

Thank you

I would love to understand more about how this schema shows up in relationships. I’ve just realised how belittling, demanding and insensitive I am with my partner. I want more Joy and less constant hustle, but I’m not sure how to catch it and correct it before it ruins my relationship.

Poor deontology, gets heat here