You see the kind of tricks they’re playing, it’s normal and okay for them because they are victims to that. But if they are not they would have spoken a different way. My girl use to go through my phone check my chats. During that period it was okay for her to go through my phone anytime she wants but when I started to pay her in her own coin by going through her phone and found out she was cheating, she spoke against it that it’s not fair for us to go through our phones. And she made it a bond that we should put a stop to it. They do things in favor of them @ ladies.