I’ve been going through same thing with the past lives for months through my meditation state before sleep and during sleep. It was spontaneous and unintentional and I never heard of this really or looked into it so was startling to me. I been on a spiritual path for years and had spontaneous stream entry or awakening 3 years ago and the last couple years working in the 10 fetters approach to liberation. Well , when I dissolved the 8th fetter is when all this started happening of the past lives for months and also leaning my body all the time not knowing that is what it is was confused. So I been looking around to figure out what is happening to me and why the experiences are more real than waking life here. I really appreciate hearing that you also experienced what I have been.
Everybody says, have fun, enjoy! But if someone you loved deeply, died! I can't find joy anymore..Am I doing wrong now? I don't know how to find my way back to love, joy and gratitude gratitude...
I lost my sister in 2022. My only sibling. I don’t process my emotions so I tried to stop myself from even beginning to grieve her loss. Her death has affected me more so now that it’s been 2 1/2 years than when she first passed. My reasoning for this is it was something I did not, could not accept, her passing on. And once time passed it started sinking in that she was no longer here in the physical realm or in my life. Bouts of depression hit me this year and there were moments where I didn’t care if I died. But one day I woke up and realized she would not want me to live my life not being able to overcome losing her or at least getting some closure and being able to move on with my life. Let’s say the roles were reversed and you passed and your loved one left behind just could not function after losing you. Would you want that for your loved one? This is how I’ve come to terms with losing her. And let me tell you I lost her to an overdose/suicide and wasn’t on speaking terms with her a few months before it happened. So I had a lot of guilt I was holding onto. This will not go away. You DID lose your loved one. But you have to take steps in order to heal. That’s my advice to you. And I am so sorry for your loss. If you haven’t already done so maybe speaking to a loved one if possible may help some. Or you can search for bereavement support groups in your area. Sending love and light your way 🥰🙏🏽💜celebrate their life as well. Live your life always remember them as they were, honor their memory.
Thank you. I don't understand why you can't heal. A lot of people who've had NDE's come back and spontaneously heal. Are you meant to suffer? Is this your lesson for this lifetime? 🤷
Why can't we just focus on this life? We dont get to be here long, and we only get to be here once. We're all going to experience the afterlife, and it's likely eternal, so why waste our short precious life on this beautiful earth focusing on whats next?
Who said anyone is focusing on what’s next? And even if people were, what’s wrong with that? Have you ever had a vested interest in tomorrow? If so, why can’t you just live in today? I think you get my point..
@chrisjohnssolarcross It's natural to be concerned about the future. However, being hyper-focused on the afterlife is unnecessary. We're all destined to reach it eventually, and there's no way to avoid it. Our priority should be making the most of the limited time we have here. People who claim to have experiences the afterlife likely just had vivid dreams. You're not actually dead when your heart stops if your brain is still active, which makes it possible to have experiences that feel spiritual. These experiences are personal and unique to each individual. But bottom line, we should concentrate on living in the present and valuing the time we have on earth.
For me, I deal with a debilitating neurological condition 24/7 that makes me wish I was dead. So yeah, I think about death and life after death often. Suffering will do that to you.
I do understand very well every thing Nanci said, but one. Yes, we are here to go through all experiences without judging, but I also see some people falling and almost losing their soul because they joined Demons who are real and they will test you. Your soul knows that, Nanci... Consequences. (We still have choices to make here on Earth and be responsible for what we decide). Depends on how much evil you do in this world, one life at the time .
