I think it’s common for high anxiety people to actually do well during stressful situations because it’s like “ah I’ve been planning for this and here it is”
Agreed! I had a kidney removed and leading up to the surgery I researched so much about what could happen,read posts from people who had similar surgeries,bought everything I might possibly need or want while recovering.So much that I never got scared for the actual surgery.People were freaking out but I was laser focused on prepping and hey - it worked! And I had everything I needed and much more afterwards! So plan away! It helps.I think it gave me some feeling of control which I desperately needed.❤
Chemo/oncology nurse/long term fan here! Carry alcohol swabs (the little squares) and smell them if you have a sudden wave of nausea. Cooling cap might help prevent hair loss. Warming gloves/socks could help with chemo-induced neuropathy if you’re getting cisplatin or similar drugs (neuropathy is that pins/needles feeling). Keep eating and keep moving!!!! Eat like a dang pig. All you want for breakfast is a chocolate cake shake from Portillos? DRINK UP YOU BEAUTIFUL BITCH. Sending you well wishes, strength and (virtual) support!!!!!!!
Your last video truly was a wakeup call for me. I had been ignoring a lump I felt for a month or two, and hearing your story gave me the push I needed to get checked out. I can't thank you enough 💕 We are all rooting for you!!
With your sense of humor, your amazing support system around you, all of us sending you love online and your strength, you’re gonna kick cancer’s ass!!!! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼🖕🏻
Get a shower chair and a detachable shower head if you don’t already have one! Showering was hard and painful for me and so was sitting all the way down in the bath. Those two things were a HUGE help to me! Lots of anti nausea medication, safe foods, spray deodorant (so other people can help you put it on), oversized clothing (my skin hurt and I didn’t like anything touching it), and a super comfy spot to relax in!
yes!! i was reluctant to the shower chair at first because i thought it was overkill but it's been so, so helpful alongside the detachable showerhead. i've been getting mad tired standing up for too long. hard recommend.
This is going to sound dumb, but Im an alcoholic who is quitting because of health...but I have alot of free time and the money I blew I want to go to something good. I can hand knit chunky blankets and donate them to my local center. I'm calling them Monday to see what people need. I see a common theme of blankets, does chemo make you cold? I only had one family member go through cancer, he was in his 80s and opted to not go through it. Id really like to do what I can to help, make blankets, donate books, ginger lozenges etc. Let me know what I can do. Sending you so much love, strength and hope.
@@megameg6038 Doesn't sound dumb. Not one bit! I know you and I don't know one another, but I'm genuinely proud of you!! Chemo can def make peeps cold, hospitals are usually kept pretty cool for comfort, so you taking the time to put some love into a blanket or maybe some hats?! Scarves?! It's just so fantastic!! Your heart is wonderful. You're lovely!! Way to be awesome, human.
Splurge on a teak "shower transfer bench" because 1. Pretty, 2. Fits across the whole tub so you don't have to climb over a tall tub wall if you are feeling wobbly. Or just a teak shower stool because they are way nicer than hospital plastic of most of them.
@@megameg6038my mom was also disabled for 15 yrs as a heart patient. Before passing Nice blankets for anyone long term in the hospital, can become a lifeline and support in itself…they can take it with them for hospital transfers. Hospitals are usually pretty cold in general to help prevent the growth of bacteria. My mom also loved adult coloring books. Sudoku, word searches ect. (She had a stroke) Interactive books are so helpful for them using their minds… I know it’s not specifically cancer, but just helpful ideas, and I’m also quitting drinking for surgery
I did a ton of research after my diagnosis last year, and now after going through chemo, here are some important things I learned that I wish I had known before: 1. If your chemo cocktail is one that causes hair loss, the actual process of losing it comes within aweek or two of your first treatment and it's actually pretty painful. Cutting your hair super short helps not only with the mess, but also the pain. Once it's all done coming out the pain goes away. 1b. Also if you're like me and develop foliculitis (lots of red bumps on your scalp) after the hair loss, Nizoral shampoo helps a ton, as does taking a warm wet washcloth and gently wiping your scalp morning and night. Really it just helps in general. 2. If you're looking for a sugar-free candy option, Brach's Sugar-free Lemon Drops are great and don't taste weird like other SF candies. 3. Don't be afraid to ask for help with symptom management. If what they prescribe isn't cutting it, ask for something stronger or better. You don't have to just put up with a certain level of pain/nausea. You're going through chemo, it does things to you, you're allowed to treat the symptoms. They'll start you off with not much but if you need more, tell them. 3b. Tell them what's going on with you, anything different. Your doctors and nurses know that chemo messes with you and they can usually do something about it if you're feeling any differently than baseline. Also they will yell at you for not telling them something was happening because you didn't want to be a bother.... Those are the lessons I learned the hard way. But I made it through, and you will too! Kick that cancer's ass, Grace!
As a cancer survivor I found a good sense of humor helps in times like these. I have no doubt you will come out the other side stronger and funnier than ever.
Such a huge fan of yours Grace, I never comment but I want you to know there are those of us who've been here for years who are watching your journey and wishing you so so well.
“..and that is growth.” *clap clap clap* This is the Helbig that I’ve loved since day 1. Your humor and vulnerability will help you kick cancer’s ass. You got this, Grace! We’re all here with ya! ❤
I have MS, obviously not as intense as cancer, but one of the things I've learned is that there WILL be highs and lows. There WILL be times of exhaustion and being tired of fighting. But one of the things that has helped me is to change my mindset. I learned to be, what i call, wonderfully selfish. If there is a day where i just need to cry and lay around i do, or i need to buy a new stuffed animal cause my inner child wants it i do.. anything that feels rights to me, i do it without apology. It took time to mourn my old way of life and accept the new, but being able to have control in those small ways helped. You've got this Grace. You have more love and support behind you from a bunch of strangers on the internet than anyone could have anticipated at the start. And, as a fellow Jersey girl, get out your inner Gritty and kick cancers butt!
I have something similar to MS, what you said is almost scary because it’s a snapshot of my life. Think of the things you can do, not what you can’t. I fail at that miserably but it sounds nice. If you don’t know what the spoon theory is, check it out.
@hannahremmel9550 yes! Spoon theory was very helpful when i first started out. It gave me words to verbalize what i was feeling. And that, alongside my wonderfully selfish concept, helped to change how i viewed those spoons and used them! Really great tip
@@jessicaseverns6578 about ten years ago I had plans to go out with some friends when my mom was in town and I’d just learned about it. My hands weren’t working that night and I asked my mom to text my friend “I have negative spoons. Talk soon.” She goes, “spoons? Like the things you eat with.” Then I get a text back saying, “okay, take care and be gentle with yourself.” My poor mom was so confused. Now she understands when I say “okay, spoons are in short supply.” It’s something everyone needs to know about, not just people that have chronic pain/cancer/invisible diseases.
Thank you for this! I have my MS diagnosis since a couple months now and in the middle of this process. I love the term ‘wonderfully selfish’, and did not know about the spoon theory yet. Very helpful❤
I know this is SO far from the point of this, but this video made me realise how much I miss the “old” style of RU-vid editing. This felt like a vintage Grace video (with the obvious exception of the subject matter) and I dunno, I just thought that was really neat. And somehow comforting.
Although the subjects shift as they shift through life phases etc.. John and Hank Green, as well as Grace Helbig all seem to do a raw and taking everything in stride style of RU-vid videos that fewer and fewer newer channels have the bravery to post by contrast..
I went with my wife to nearly all her breast cancer treatments including chemo and my own chemo several years later. I think all you can do is deal with it the way you seem to be doing. Take it as it comes. Try as best you can not to worry about things that haven't happened yet. Just do your treatments as they come and take care of yourself during the process. And everyone is different. I wanted to know all the science. My wife, not so much. Good luck to you. Step by step and I think you'll be okay in the long run.
I have cancer. I have a notebook where I keep all my medical things-orders, results, CT/MRI CDs. It’s nice to have it all in one place. Best of luck-you got this! ❤️
I’m currently hooked up to a bag o’ chemo while watching this (I have colon cancer so I’m on Folfox which includes 5-FU which is administered over 46 hours into my chest port woot woot). I can tell ya chemo isn’t fun but it’s MUCH better than the alternative. Actually it can be and is BOTH dark AND fun lol. You will power through this with your trademark wit, I know it. This entire process has been worse for my loved ones - I just follow my doctor’s instructions and nap a lot. My wife does the worrying. So hug Elliot a lot. He will need it. ❤ YOU GOT THIS! 👏🙌
My mom has been in treatment for stage 4 colon cancer since early 2021 and “it’s not dark it’s fun” is the motto I *wish* I had come across earlier to cope. Thanks for that 😅 My mom’s chemo-survival kit has included lemon candies, fruity popsicles (literally in the freezer at all times), and navel oranges, which have helped stimulate her appetite oddly enough. Rooting for you so so much.
My mom is on her third battle with colon cancer and oddly enough, she's also been obsessed with citrus. Particularly, lemons and lemonade. Sending good vibes to you and your mom ❤ (Also, lemonade Italian ice from the grocery store freezer has been a staple in the house if your mom needs a new treat!)
Stress balls helped me because my hands got super weak during chemo and I used them around my house. Also those blue disposable vomit bags, even if I didn’t use them, I felt more secure to have them around me all the time for just in case situations! Another thing is the hospital used alcohol wipes to sniff when I was coming out of surgery to stop me from feeling like I need to throw up so they might help in those times. Good luck, and don’t feel bad for asking for help from your loved ones during this time! They want to be there for you just as much as you will need them.
You’ve got this grace!! 2 years ago I was my mothers caretaker when she was diagnosed with triple positive breast cancer, she’s doing great now btw! There are a few things that turned out to be the best during the surgery section of her journey (she went double mastectomy w/ reconstruction): - button shirts that have pockets for the drain bags - mastectomy pillows for at the house and in the car - surgery gauze/pads (you can never have enough). All of these I bought on Amazon and they were life savers! We are all here for you! You’ve got this Grace!!
My mum had breast cancer about 10 years ago, now 5 years all clear. I would say prioritise comfort 100% (eg bringing pain killers/anti nausea, vom bags etc in all bags or cars). And try to be patient with yourself!!! We all love you Grace x
Grace, my daughter introduced you to me years ago. I have been watching you of and on, (MOSTLY ON!!!) , she met you at comic con in Denver when you came here!! YOU ARE LOVED!!!! Thank you for sharing!!❤ Also, your a f'n hoot ❤ please share. We're here!!!!
Grace! you have gotten me thru many dark times in the last 10+ years (as I'm sure you have for many of us), so any small thing I/we can do, you got it. one product rec, courtesy of my mother in law: from when she had (and beat!) breast cancer, she said one of her favorite products was a mastectomy pillow. it was great for protection from a seatbelt, as well as for sitting in a comfy chair or lying in bed. no idea what your medical plans are, but she said she'd have appreciated it even without a mastectomy just because it was so damn comfortable. also, she says: knitting!
Suggestions!!!: Hand held tech, kindle or ipad for reading/watching stuff if you're into games, get a switch!! especially cuz it allows for multiple player games very portably! small east to carry bag with essentials that you can also leave BY YOUR BED!!! idk why but sometimes having like a backup of stuff is Super helpful Now is the time to invest in Good Sheets/ Blankets, extras are super helpful, and good pillows for extra sitting support and so you're really sleeping well. You will sleep a lot thick headbands, they are less cumbersome than head scarves or hats, can help you feel like yourself w/o being super bulky/hard to keep on your person + alllllll the subscriptions buy whatever you haven't had but want to try, you can always cancel later but you'll be BORED and i know you have Tons of great friends but like, sometimes you will not be up for socialization, or up at ungodly hours, this is where you may find you want some weird shit like Discovery+ who the fuck knows lol Good Luck Grace, We're with you, we're supporting you, we're praying for you!!! you Got this you BADDIE!!!
It’s crazy, my grandma was diagnosed with breast cancer THE DAY your video came out. It brings me comfort to be watching your videos again, and even if we aren’t going through the cancer process with grace at least we’re going through it with Grace.
The very best advice I got was from a nurse who told me to look at treatment as a full time job and main priority. Meaning, your focus is getting to treatments/appts., staying hydrated, eating enough calories, getting enough protein, taking your meds, getting rest, etc. It really helped me to not feel bad and guilty about not being able to work or do more around the house, and put into perspective how important it was just to make it through treatment (remember it's only temporary!). Also, trivial advice, but avoid your favorite foods during treatment, or at least during the week following a chemo infusion. You may associate the nausea/icky feeling with the food and not be able to eat it ever again. 4 years later and I still can't eat tomato soup or vinaigrette! Wishing you the very best on your cancer journey. You've got this, Grace!
You got this!!! I'm 25 and i just finished my last treatment two weeks ago for breast cancer. I recommend getting water flavoring, you're not going to like the taste of water very much, and an eye ice mask. really helps with headaches
Your dark humor has helped influence my own humor somewhat… and we’re all physically injured or dealing with a lot mentally at my hotel… my goodness does dark humor help us all get through Thank you. I’m going to give your stuff for my also sick co-worker. You’re incredible.
I’ve had tons of chemo. The after effects are like a terrible hangover that last for days. Upset stomach, headaches. There might be an existential crisis or two. It sucks a lot but it’s temporary. You will get through it, and be stronger for it.
My biospy that's going to decide what stage my cancer is at currently, is happening this Friday and I am so anxious lol 🫠 then they'll decide if I'm an eligible candidate for chemo. I appreciate you and these videos and your open honesty 🫶🏼 truly truly truly, thank you 🙏🏼🧿
No pressure to share what you don't want to! You've always been skilled in maintaining your boundaries with your audience. We'll always support what you wish to discuss and respect what you don't wish to share!
and hot DAM* she lookin' better than ever! It's really awesome that you're filming and sharing your walk down this road, but 'tis not a lonely road! We are all here to support your journey, and take healing hope in your story. My mom is alive and kickin', we just arrived in Rome today, and she just beat both breast and stage 4 ovarian cancer. Got her port out a few months ago, she's now cancer free, and doing a Euro-adventure with my sister and I. You are an inspiration, truly. You've inspired me (and my mom and sister), and cracked us the hell up for allllllll of the years on youtube, This Might Get Pod, etc. Your positivity and hysterical curiosity of life is just the best. You're right, everything is going to be JUST fine, and you'll be able to enjoy the shiz out of life a heck of a lot more than ever before, and will continue to forever. As for recommendations, I could list a lot. We did, however, watch a LOT of reality TV. I reallyyyyyyyyyyy, really highly recommend The Amazing Race, if you haven't seen it. It's hysterical, and they do so many dope things, you get lots of fun ideas for adventures to come. (Big Brother is just wiyaldddd at times as well, and so very underrated! the tea. the drama). Survivor, too. You can just neverrrrrr get enough Jersey Shore, either. that's just..... that takes the cake, truly).
I appreciate you so much Grace, thank you for keeping us updated! I got my diagnostic mammogram on the day you announced your cancer and tomorrow I'm getting a biopsy and I feel in the liminal space as well! Hoping for the best for both of us!!
When my partner was getting chemo we kept barf bags everywhere (car, couch, by the bed) so there was never any urgency to get to a bathroom. And a lap tray table to eat meals while laying down when he didn’t feel like sitting at a table. Your tumbler is perfect for all the liquids they’ll want you to drink!
Grace I love your positivity going into this fight! A few of the things that really helped me through my chemo were: 1). Blankets - the fluffier the better (I LIVED under them during and after infusions) 2). Coloring Books (especially the sassy ones, F*** Cancer and such) 3). Gatorade/Powerade/Something Flavored so staying hydrated is easier 4). Pretzel M&Ms...that was my candy of choice for chemo so buy more candy!! :) You got this Grace. From one cancer warrior to another, show this monster who's boss!!! 🩷
I love you like a parasocial younger sister might and have for 14 years and always will and both videos have been a rollercoaster but please know that we LOVE YOU and you have our ultimate support. I don’t know what else to say without being weird since I’m a stranger to you but I will say that you have been in my heart since I learned of your news and I will continue to support you for as long as it takes for you to kick cancer’s ass!
That hoodie with the unzip sleeve is so smart. I've never had a port but I did get regular IVs for my rheumatoid arthritis for a while and hospitals be cold, so very clever idea of whoever designed it. I would not have thought of it, but now I've seen one, it's such an obvious easy solution. Best of luck with the journey Grace!
These are both the most relatable and non-relatable (as someone who hasn't personally dealt with this kind of illness) videos ever. Thank you for being vulnerable and strong. Love the Adam Sandler phase, Babe. Own it.
I’ve been watching your vids for 10 (!!!) years and because of your last one I finally went and got something in my chest checked. Thank you for all you’ve shared over the years and the courage you continue to inspire ❤️
Wishing you well! From a BC survivor, you’re absolutely on a journey now. Please take care of yourself in this time. You’ll likely want an ultrasoft toothbrush and a gentle toothpaste like Sensodyne. And some super gentle soap and lotion. Reach out if you feel you need to, even to me.
The whole having a "real" reason to be worried/anxious/etc. and then not being those things in the face of it resonates with me SO MUCH. All the pretend/stuff my brain makes up: the WORST. Actual life-changing things? Got a hold on this way better than expected. Thank you for being you and sharing with us, the internet peeps who cherish you!
i don't have much to say that others haven't but we're all rooting for you. in times like these and with topics like positivity during, i think of greg miller and his speech about how he had ridden through his cancer pretending he was okay when he was in so much pain. never feel like you have to keep positive for anyone, but we're here with you whether you want to keep having fun or need time to decompress and step away.
"It's not dark, it's fun!" Repeated enough times and it becomes true. 😂 Fr tho, thanks for these vids and keeping us in the loop even though you really don't have to! Love the haul and love that you're as okay as you can be while going through this. You've been such an inspiration and escape for so many people throughout the years. So even though it's a bit parasocial, I think lots of people share the sentiment that we care about you and genuinely wish you all the best. Thanks again for everything. You've got this!
The beginning of Grace in Style where you honestly spoke about your ED experience is my favorite thing you've ever done. The vulnerability and humor in that section really highlighted your strengths as a writer so I am so happy to hear you're writing a third book thats more in that vein. I think you'll really excel at it!
Rooting for you Grace! Take the good days and make the most of them. I'm going through immunotherapy for Melanoma right now. While not as intense as chemo, I still have my bad days. It is such a weird time between being diagnosed and starting treatment. It's like.. you know you have this thing growing inside you, and you want it to die. But you have to wait to do the things to make it die. You have no control over when/how that process all starts. Such a weird stretch of time. But once treatment starts, it's a different "era" in the journey, and things shift. You got this Grace! 💪✨
Grace, i love you & thank you so much for this video!!!!!! I am 29 and just got diagnosed with breast cancer (truly the universe is the silliest little minx). this video is so helpful to me. this shit sucks, but i am also in a good headspace and stopped looking things up and i am just letting things come as they come. it feels nice to see someone in the same boat. i'm looking forward to all of your updates, and thank you so much for sharing your experience (and also your haul, so helpful!) with all of us
I’ve watched you since the beginning and hearing your news broke my heart. However, I know you will kick cancers butt! You have the greatest attitude and sense of humor. You can handle anything girl!
Especially as cancer rates rise in the US year by year, my cancer anxiety has increased recently but you and Hank making content about it has really helped ease my mind and made the thought not as scary. Thank you for making these videos about your experiences so far!
Grace, I'm so sorry to hear that you've got breastcancer. That SUCKS. I got out of chemotherapy for breastcancer about 4.5 months ago. I tried to sum up my recommendations below. I probably forgot some things, but I hope it helps you. - Buy a shower chair. The first thing I did when I got the news and it really made showering very enjoyable. Couldn't have gone through the treatment without it. - Definitely go hard on the Adam Sandler ecstatic. 🤣 Buy baggy clothes, tracksuits, that kind of stuff. Wear what makes you feel comfortable. - I couldn't handle any perfume smells anymore, they made me nauseous. So I was only using those bodysoaps, deoderant without any perfume or alcohol etc. 0% everything - Drinking Coca cola helped with my nausea. And eating those maria cookies. Someone else recommended me bay licorice. I didn't try it but it is worth a try if everything else fails. - I would get really dry lips, so I would use Vaseline every night before going to sleep. - Your skin can get really dry. My hands especially got very dry. I would use a thick greasy hand cream (without a strong perfume, because nausea). I used the most basic Nivea cream (in The Netherlands it's the one in the blue tin). - A few times a day, rinse your mouth with salt water. Especially after eating a meal. It will help with the mucous membranes in your mouth that no longer work properly. - Try to stay active. I pushed myself to walk with the dogs 3 times a day everyday. Even if it was just a 10 minute walk. 🏃♀Some days it will be really hard, some days it will be al lot easier. - I hope you get to keep your hair. But if not, make sure your wig is ready to use. Make sure that you've got chemo headscarves that you can wear. Or just go bald. Whatever makes you feel the best.😊 - What really helped me was to stay in contact with people who were going through the same treatment at the same time as me. We could talk about the side effects and what we were feeling. And very important. Lots of HUMOR! That really helped me through everything. Laughing really is the best medicine. You are fighting and kicking cancers ass!💪
I hear that, gaining skills in therapy for one reason and then needing to apply them for others. I’ve really been grateful for my therapy work; it’s saved me a lot of extra grief and stress.
some ideas for "things" - most chemo can make you very sensitive to smells, even nice ones. having something specific to block them can be helpful (I ended up grabbing a mint/eucalyptus bar of soap when I was overwhelmed while grocery shopping; my mom carried a lavender wax melt); silky sleep things, like pillowcase, scarf, or bonnet are great b/c they're cooling as well as smooth; good sunglasses; more passive entertainment - I struggled to focus on reading, so needed to find things that didn't use up any brain power; a good binder to organize all the paperwork that comes with this; haven't used them myself, but Lindi is skincare supposedly designed for chemo. hope everything goes well
Hi there! I have some recommendations. I’ve never had cancer myself but was my mothers caretaker everyday throughout her cancer. 1. Plastic cups (a lot like the tumbler you have but usually it’s better for it to be light without liquid). On chemo days and sometimes for a few days after my mum couldn’t hold up thick glass or mugs so we got camping type reusable plastic cups. 2. Not quite a thing but my mum was always told she needed more calories and struggled. She would put half juice and half water in cups and drink it all day. It boosted her energy a bit as well. 3. Personally for my mum she lost a lot of weight (she was originally plus sized) so I had to buy her a new wardrobe every size she went down. She ended up liking pjs but also wanted comfy sweats that didn’t look like sweats with a bit of a “fancier” shirt (all pj material). She felt like those made her feel good on the days she needed more brightness. And finally something I did for my mum as a caretaker that always helped was every chemo day she had I’d pick her up with something small from the dollar store that would make her smile. Some days it was stickers. One day it was a plushy. But it made her feel a bit better. Oh and lastly please please please make sure your A/C and Heater (if you live in a place that need those) are looked after. I live in Canada and one day on the weekend in the winter the heating broke down and needed repaired which is hard to do while trying to make sure you keep someone warm. (Space heaters and a million blankets saved the day) It’s a long and hard battle but you can do this!!!!
Depending on the treatment lengths, a good travel bag and a warm blanket might be good to have. I know my mom appreciated having those items during her treatments. Best vibes and best wishes 🩷
Hey Grace; so glad you are doing okay at this moment! It’s an overwhelming process, but you’re not alone and you got this. Something for comfort that I recommend as a regular in hospital myself & after seeing my mum have cancer - a breastfeeding shaped pillow / triangle pillow (they go by many names haha!) but they are incredible for comfort whilst getting a drip drug and/or being in hospital for anything! Big love to you ❤️
As someone that's been through the cancer trip a few times, the best thing you can do is focus on your mental health. Trust your doctor's and YOUR GUT when it comes to physical health. Also my tip with weed is sort yourself a few ways to consume it and a few strains with different focus on anxiety, nausea etc. so your ready for whatever. Most doctors recommend a volcano, that's a clean dry herb vapourisor.
I love what you said towards the end. Like I’m also chronically I’ll and a WORRIER. My anxiety tends to have anxiety. But when I got a bit sicker it’s like I was validated that shit got real and now I can only think of positive trajectories. I can’t really word it the way I want but I get it. I pray and hope you make a smooth recovery grace ❤️
"It's not dark, it's fun!" is my motto whenever my friends look at me with concern as I'm telling stories of my life that I find hilarious. Relatable as always, Grace!
Rooting for you Grace 💗It's so good to hear that you're in a great headspace for this, working on your well-being is so important and it's one of the things we recommend here at The Cancer Coach. You've got this 💪
I was so happy to hear you and Mamrie talk about how you’ve worked on yourself and feel that you’re in a great place mentally for this. Ik a couple lists of stress-free entertainment options were curated for Hank, that could be a great jumping off point for distraction.
Like a lot of commenters, I’ve been a fan for sooooo so long (like, me in middle school giggling at Holy Trinity videos and now 20 year old me listening to every episode of TMGW podcast) - and just want you to know, Grace, that we are all rooting for you so hard! I love your openness about everything and admire you for so many reasons! You got this! 💪
I really don't understand streaming platforms these days; I was in the middle of season 1 of "early RU-vidrs getting cancer", the one with Hank Green, when season 2 'Just when Grace got her life's new focus' already started.. I really hope they won't drop another season before these two end well without a cliffhanger.. (btw "Harley Morenstein hears he has some gastrointestinal malignant growth" would be where this show would jump the shark...) (srsly: ) Get well soon, Grace. Lots of strength to you and yours and indeed keep us informed when possible.
In support of Grace, I'm totally gonna start wearing nothing but "the Adam Sandler" style. Sending love, prayers and positive energy your way Grace. You're unstoppable with your Adam Sandler style!! 💚❤️
Watching you be in good spirits and optimistic/realistic is so inspiring for me. I am sorry if that’s an ick word- it is for some, less so for others. But I think maybe your positivity comes from the fact that we generally associate cancer as the worst thing that can happen. And you’re literally there. But you’re ok! And what else is there to continue to fret about when you’re here? And you’re still alive and you are still living actively. I imagine, for me anyway, that would be a huge dose of perspective. And all the things I used to ring my hands over wouldn’t seem so big or scary or even important anymore.
As a long time viewer, since the my damn channel days, I am in awe of the way your approched this difficult diagnosis and time online with such humor and grace (no pun intended!) Sending you all the healing and positive vibes all the way from France😘. You are gonna kick cancer's ass !💪
My mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer this April, the most helpful things through chemo have been: -body pillow (body aches!) -slippers (if you have cuts or anything on your feet and you step on things in your home you can get an infection (lowered immune system) -liquid iv (life saver- literally) -soft cozy blankets that you BRING to chemo -peppermints (to help nausea) -immodium 😅 -all the things for hemmroids 😂. If you think about it, anything that leaves your body also has chemo remnants in it. So it’s possible that will become painful! All the best to you, you’ve got this! And congrats on your recent graduate school completion🎉
You are completely amazing, I can't wait for you to kick cancer's ass! I am very much looking forward to your next book. You are simply amazing. Thank you so much for being you. ❤ I've heard body armour and sometimes preggo pops can help. A deck of cards or something to keep you busy during treatments helps (It's better if it's something fun). We wish you all the best and a very speedy process to being cured.
I don't have cancer but do have an autoimmune disease that requires me to go sit for 6 hours of chemo every 4 months. The best thing I did for myself is buy a very cute overnight bag and keep it stocked with good stuff for chemo days. I have an extra tablet/phone charger, a really comfy soft fuzzy blanket, slippers, a notepad and pen, a favorite sweater, etc. When I need to get it ready for another chemo day, I throw a bunch of snacks (ginger chews, hard candies, granola bars), a biiiig water bottle, a book, my electronics....all the necessities. The warm fuzzy comfy stuff has been really comforting for me, so I love that you got some hoodies--consider a super soft blanket, too! Another thing I'd suggest is trying (I know, it's hard!) to look at it like a nice day off. My pre-meds make me hella sleepy, so I just curl up in my comfy clothes and my blankie and pretend I'm just having an extended nap in a comfy leather recliner. It helps, a little. You TOTALLY got this! Your wicked sense of humor is going to help you so much!
Im so glad shes giving us this news while tryna stay as positive as possible bcus i can't go another week crying at random times. I have a job. You got this Grace!❤
i know your first day of chemo was today and i’m sending love and prayers and thinking about you! you got me through middle school and high school and cosmetology school and beyond and i’m wishing for the most successful chemo ever!
also i haven’t watched TMGW in 2 months bc i’m behind at work so maybe you already answered about your plans for your hair but their are glueless lacefronts and you hold them down with either a velvet or rubber headband to grip the wig #wig #slay #yassqueen
I felt so bad when I heard you and Elliott got covid since the announcement. Something tells me the GinGins description was ran through Google Translate and pasted onto the box. Glad you are so upbeat about everything! Yall got this!! 😤
I know everyone says this every time, but I'm so glad that we have the treatments that we have now. I'm going to be watching you and Hank closely as my fear is now cancer. I have a 3 yo granddaughter that lives with me, and nothing gets my fear going like thinking I won't be there to see her graduate high school, or get married. You may be just someone on the internet, but I truly hope the hell you are about to go through will be effective, and you come out on the other side of this with a big giant W for beating this cancer.
Grace, how many times have you cut your own bangs? ... Exactly. Chemo ain't got nuttin on you! Kick this cancer in its little bitch ass, and we''ll be behind you, rooting for you every moment. A lot of us have been here since DailyGrace, and have no plans on leaving any time soon. Sending BIG internet hugs!! You got this.
